Week in Review – August 27th, 2023

“Triangle Trip Part 2”

We drove from Corning to Albany on Monday.  Vince was kind enough to pick us up there for the drive to Indian Lake (about 90 minutes.)  That saved us quite a bit on rental car fees.  Our first evening in Indian Lake was very relaxing.  Sitting on the porch enjoying the sunset and getting to know the menagerie – Pete and Zeke the dogs, Archimedes the cat, and Jack the squawking bird.

And then there’s Morris the moose, quite a bit larger than Diana.

BP wanted to meet Jack the bird:

Chef Vince spoiled us with some perfectly cooked porterhouse steaks from the grill, served with broccoli and potatoes.

We settled into a wonderful wood fire.  And a strange thing occurred.  A cat decided that it liked McD.  That never happens.

 

 

 

 

Tuesday began with a pleasant hike up to Super Point, providing a great view of the lake.  We all managed well on the trek through the forest.

The views were certainly worth the hike:

Pete and Zeke were tired after the walk:

It was a beautiful sunny day and so we hung out down on the small beach, with McD sunbathing from the boat island.  Life is good!

Life is good, and then Vince shows up with a cheese tray to elevate the experience even more.

Chef Vince struck again with Asian style baby back ribs, an Asian salad and yummy mac ‘n cheese with ham.  We were so spoiled on this visit!

The Wednesday morning hike was on the forest roads rather than through the forest.  We walked about four and a half miles round trip to the dam at the end of the lake.

It was another gorgeous day, so Vince and Lori invited friends over so that the kids could swim from the beach.  Diana captured me talking to them with my hands:

Then I made a bad choice.  “Let’s take the kayaks out on the lake, Vince.”

The view down the lake from the kayaks was spectacular, but the position my healing leg was in didn’t work well at all.  After about ten minutes, it was time to head back to shore.  Then Vince had to help pull me out – quite a bit of work.

Chef Vince got a night off and we drove to a local tapas restaurant, Bar Vino.

The food was great, and there was a very talented duo playing music.  Here’s one of our favourites.  (That’s the lady singer’s Dad that D’s talking to.)

The square deviled eggs were a hit.

We skipped the hike on Thursday morning, having stayed up quite a bit past bed time on Wednesday night, sharing music videos and the like.

Vince worked in the kitchen most of the day, creating our New Orleans send off dinner.  Happy hour course:  raw oysters and Rockefeller oysters.  The Rockefeller being the best I have ever tasted – sorry Denny.  The smaller, briny Maine oysters are preferable to the giant gulf oysters in New Orleans.  Here’s Vince shucking the oysters:

And the end products:

After that was the best gumbo I’ve had.  Vince is going to make it very difficult for the New Orleans restaurants to impress us.  The jalapeno cornbread was equally delicious.

While I was supervising Vince in the kitchen, McD was working on a puzzle in the living area.  She finished it before the day was done.

This was such a relaxing stay.  Thanks to Vince and Lori for everything!

Vince was kind enough to drive us back down to Albany airport on Friday.  We caught a flight to Philadelphia and then another on to Dallas.  I had to say “Boo!” as we flew past the home of the Eagles, a big Cowboys division rival.

We spent the night at the Dallas airport hotel, and then drove down to New Orleans on Saturday, arriving around five o’clock.

Anne had invited the Krewe over to welcome us and made yummy crawfish Monica and jambalaya.  We were tired from all the traveling, but enjoyed catching up with everyone.

We did a lap of Audubon park on Sunday morning, before doing our final walk through of the new house.  The excessive heat sign was not kidding.

My book this week was “Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing” by Matthew Perry.

Here he is talking about trying to be cast for “Friends”:

“”You have got to get on Friends Like Us,” I said.  “Not gonna happen,” my agents said.  “You’re attached to the baggage handlers show.  They’ve already measured you for the futuristic shirt and everything.”  I was devastated.  When I read the script for Friends Like Us it was as if someone had followed me around for a year, stealing my jokes, copying my mannerisms, photocopying my world-weary yet witty view of life.  One character in particular stood out to me:  it wasn’t that I thought I could play “Chandler,” I was Chandler.”

On his favourite day:

“Here’s the day I wish I could live over and over again (this is the Groundhog Day of my Groundhog Day).  In fact, I wish I could relive it every day for the rest of my life.  But I cannot.  So, the only way to get past it is to tell it like a story, see if that helps.  (This of course will not bring it back.)

It was New Year’s Eve 1995, Taos, New Mexico.  All afternoon we’d been playing football in the snow.  Me, and my girlfriend, Julia Roberts, and a bunch of our friends.  She was the biggest movie star in the world, and I was on the number one show on TV.  The courtship had initially been conducted via fax.  Somewhere in the world, there is a stack of faxes.”

Here’s the online review:

““Hi, my name is Matthew, although you may know me by another name. My friends call me Matty. And I should be dead.”

So begins the riveting story of acclaimed actor Matthew Perry, taking us along on his journey from childhood ambition to fame to addiction and recovery in the aftermath of a life-threatening health scare. Before the frequent hospital visits and stints in rehab, there was five-year-old Matthew, who traveled from Montreal to Los Angeles, shuffling between his separated parents; fourteen-year-old Matthew, who was a nationally ranked tennis star in Canada; twenty-four-year-old Matthew, who nabbed a coveted role as a lead cast member on the talked-about pilot then called Friends Like Us. . . and so much more.

In an extraordinary story that only he could tell—and in the heartfelt, hilarious, and warmly familiar way only he could tell it—Matthew Perry lays bare the fractured family that raised him (and also left him to his own devices), the desire for recognition that drove him to fame, and the void inside him that could not be filled even by his greatest dreams coming true. But he also details the peace he’s found in sobriety and how he feels about the ubiquity of Friends, sharing stories about his castmates and other stars he met along the way. Frank, self-aware, and with his trademark humor, Perry vividly depicts his lifelong battle with addiction and what fueled it despite seemingly having it all.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing is an unforgettable memoir that is both intimate and eye-opening—as well as a hand extended to anyone struggling with sobriety. Unflinchingly honest, moving, and uproariously funny, this is the book fans have been waiting for.”

Vince loves his Greatful Dead, and in particular this song.  And now it’s been stuck in my head for days:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – August 20th, 2023

“Triangle Trip”

We caught a morning flight to Toronto on Monday and then drove a few hours to Port McNicoll on the Georgian Bay of Lake Huron to visit Randy and Janice for a few days.  This map shows our plan for the next couple of weeks.  Port McNicoll for a few days, then down to Corning, NY via Niagara Falls to see Patty and Brent, and then over to Indian Lake to visit Vince and Lori.

Randy and Janice have a great setup on Georgian Bay – a house with a lovely view of the lake, and a boat at the marina, less than a mile away.

Wednesday was our big boating day.  We spent most of the day on the lake, taking an hour or so to motor over to Beau Soleil, where we anchored and enjoyed some swimming and sun bathing time.  Captain’s Randy and Janice did a great job.

Diana always enjoys sunning herself up front on the bow of the boat:

And of course BP didn’t want to be left out:

Sunset from the dock was just gorgeous:

We enjoyed delicious pork chops for dinner back at the house.

On Thursday, we decided to have a walk in the nearby Kew Marsh.  This was really interesting and enjoyable until Randy decided to try and find a way to cut over to the Canada Trail – coast to coast walking trail.  We failed at that and retreated to our original route.

There was an active beehive exhibit on the trail:

We were thirsty after all that walking and so visited a very unique brewery in the middle of nowhere – Quayle’s.  The setting was amazing – I had never seen hop vines growing before.

I chuckled at the number two beer – a tribute to Anne Bauer:

Later, we treated to dinner at the Explorer’s Bistro in nearby Midland.  The restaurant had just opened again a couple of months ago.  The food was excellent all around, but some of the logistics still need some tweaking.  We started with a mixed mushroom sauté and arancini – both excellent.  Then I had a vegetable bake with a tomato béchamel sauce that I thoroughly enjoyed.  Randy was quite pleased that I had found this place open again.

Friday was a travel day – first side of the triangle to Corning, NY, with a stop at Niagara Falls on the Canadian side.

We had an interesting time at immigration in Buffalo.  You’ll have to ask us if you would like the details.

We arrived in Corning in time for some amazing smoked pork, courtesy of Brent.  It was very nice to relax in Patty and Brent’s wonderful downtown apartment.  The smoked pork was fantastic.  I had it again in a Brent scramble creation early morning Sunday, following the women’s soccer World Cup.

Saturday began with a run around town for Diana and Brent, and a walk for Patty and me.  After that, we made a trip over to Watkins Glen on the Seneca finger lake (there are 11 of them nearby and they are all long and skinny.)

Watkins Glen has a racetrack and it was NASCAR weekend – leading to some fun shopping and people watching experiences.  Apparently some of the NASCAR purists don’t love Watkins as you can’t watch the entire circuit from one spot in the grandstands.

 

 

We enjoyed lunch and then walked through town to the State Park waterfalls.

Not quite Niagara, but much more accessible.  After that we drove to a local winery, Glenora, where we enjoyed white wines on the patio.  My Riesling was nice and refreshing.

And following that, Brent led an expedition to the local distillery.  That was a highlight for me.  The cocktails and samplers were very well done in a beautiful location.

The day was finished off at The Cellar in downtown Corning – a short walk from the apartment.  Another excellent meal – great starters like falafel salad and chicken liver mousse, and then a burger for me and paella for Diana.  The ladies picked out a wine that they enjoyed very much, so I’m recording that here for future reference.

 

 

Diana and Patty attended the local yoga studio on Sunday morning, while Brent and I watched soccer and ate.  Brunch was down the street at the Quincy.  A really good brunch – my shrimp ‘n grits were better than most I’ve had in New Orleans.  We had fun with the old bank vault as we left.

After brunch, we walked over to the Corning Museum of Glass (CMOG) and browsed through the gift shop.  McD successfully navigating the maze on the bridge over the river.

 

 

 

Lots of amazing items, including many pumpkins and some mermaids.

As I finish writing this, Patty and Brent are mixing up frozen French 75s and preparing this dish for dinner.  What great hosts!

As you can tell, there was a lot of driving and other activity this week and not much time for reading.  I did find a really interesting short book on my iPad – no room for real books on this trip.

Dickens and Prince by the wonderful Nick Hornby was thoroughly enjoyable.  What an amazing insight to put them together like this.  The online update:

Not a lot of time for new music this week.  I did find this new one that sounds remarkably like John Mayer.  I like it.

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

 

 

Week in Review – August 13th, 2023

“One home sold, agreement reached on another”

The week was mostly spent getting ready to exit our home in McKinney.  Diana worked feverishly for many hours over many days to get everything ready.  The final packing and most of the loading was completed on Friday, with just our bed, couch and a few essentials remaining for Saturday load.

We signed the final closing papers on Friday afternoon.

I was able to work in a final trip to the dentist and haircut at the Boardroom earlier in the week.

We had an exciting event on Thursday evening.  Finn brought Holly over to meet us for dinner.  We found her very interesting, intelligent and calm, and are very happy he has someone for company when we move away.  I picked up dinner from Zin Zen as we were without most of our kitchen supplies.

As we were finishing up the final clean of the house, Diana noticed drips from the clothes washer water hoses.  They were not shut off and/or draining properly.  A quick trip to Home Depot for caps with washers, and the problem was solved.

Diana said a final “Goodbye pool” and “Be good Stanley”, and we were off.

As we checked into the Canvas hotel in south downtown Dallas, Diana got a call from Jennifer in New Orleans, telling us that the sellers had accepted our counter offer around what to pay for in repairs.  Woo hoo – we have a place to go when we finish vacation.

We were exhausted on arrival at the Canvas and nixed our plan of going out for a final Oakcliff dinner, opting for the hotel restaurant instead.

Will and the family gave us a gift card to the fancy new Miami restaurant that has opened in Dallas – Komodo.  We made a brunch reservation and I was a bit nervous – they kept sending me new rules about dress code, how long you could keep the table and so on.  The experience was good – they seemed to have an “old folks section.”  The music was quieter and it was out of the way of all the hustle and excitement.  This was totally fine with us.

Here are some of the things we sampled – all very good.

Lobster dynamite:

Money bags with gold leaf:

Dynamite crab cake benedict:

We checked into the DFW airport hotel after brunch and prepared for our Triangle Trip early the next morning.  Another busy week.

I relaxed with a couple of interesting sports documentaries this week.  Johnny Football was a really good film about Johnny Manziel, Texas A&M Heisman winner, who unfortunately came of the rails in the NFL.

The second was about the British cyclist Mark Cavendish, at one time the world’s best sprinter, and again tells the story of a rollercoaster of a career.  I particularly enjoyed this one.

I got sucked into the time sink vortex of the New York Times Spelling Bee this week.  The goal is to find as many words as possible from seven letters.  They have to include the center letter, and you struggle away throughout the day to get to “genius” level.

My first book this week was “The Celebrants” by Steven Rowley.  I enjoyed this read, just not quite as much as the reviewers I read did.  Creative premise, well executed, humorous at times, but just not jumping off the page for me.

Here’s the Goodreads online review:

“A Big Chill for our times, celebrating decades-long friendships and promises—especially to ourselves—by the bestselling and beloved author of The Guncle.

It’s been a minute—or five years—since Jordan Vargas last saw his college friends, and twenty-eight years since their graduation when their adult lives officially began. Now Jordan, Jordy, Naomi, Craig, and Marielle find themselves at the brink of a new decade, with all the responsibilities of adulthood, yet no closer to having their lives figured out. Though not for a lack of trying. Over the years they’ve reunited in Big Sur to honor a decades-old pact to throw each other living “funerals,” celebrations to remind themselves that life is worth living—that their lives mean something, to one another if not to themselves.

But this reunion is different. They’re not gathered as they were to bolster Marielle as her marriage crumbled, to lift Naomi after her parents died, or to intervene when Craig pleaded guilty to art fraud. This time, Jordan is sitting on a secret that will upend their pact.

A deeply honest tribute to the growing pains of selfhood and the people who keep us going, coupled with Steven Rowley’s signature humor and heart, The Celebrants is a moving tale about the false invincibility of youth and the beautiful ways in which friendship helps us celebrate our lives, even amid the deepest challenges of living.”

My next book is a classic that I’ve started a few times and never finished.  I had to finish by Saturday morning this time, so that I could drop it back at the McKinney library before departing.  “The Great Gatsby” was a very entertaining and quickly paced story.  Again, not the wonderful classic in my mind that so many folks make it out to be.  Many top ten lists I see from readers, have this at number one.  Fitzgerald has a few interesting plot twists and some fascinating characters – I’ll give all those reviewers that.  It just seems a bit light weight, lacking in the depth of a true classic.

Here’s a new to me song that I enjoyed this week.  The Barr Bothers are a folk quartet from Montreal:

Something from the wonderful guitarist, Julian Lage:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

 

Week in Review – August 6th, 2023

“A Few Days in Austin”

After the long drive from New Orleans to Austin on Sunday, I decided to keep it simple and eat in the hotel restaurant, Caroline.  Lachie had the same idea and so we each had some unexpected company and covered a wide variety of topics.

I found the breakfasts at Caroline on Monday and Tuesday morning to be excellent.  It’s so nice when a hotel restaurant has fresh and creative offerings.  The corn cake benedict and the huevos rancheros were both delicious.  And the poached eggs were perfectly cooked.

I had the Board Audit committee meeting on Monday, and then met Damon and Neffie at the Firehouse lounge, a cool speakeasy around the corner from the hotel.  You slide the bookcase in the hostel lobby to the side to gain entry.  I had been there before with Denny, Anne, and Diana, and knew they make good cocktails.

We tried Lonesome Dove for dinner.  This is a well known place from Fort Worth, that opened a branch in Austin.  It’s famous for exotic game dishes, snake, elk and the like.  We all enjoyed dinner.  The elk and foie gras sliders were a highlight, and my scallops were very fresh and well cooked.

After a full day Board meeting on Tuesday, the executive committee enjoyed dinner at Dean’s Italian restaurant.  I enjoyed cooking the wagyu on a hot stone, and decided to have scallops again.  These were just as good as the night before.

A few of us stopped into the Elephant room after dinner to listen to jazz music.  The band wasn’t terrific, but pleasant for relaxing after a long day.

I made the final triangle of my drive on Wednesday, Austin to McKinney, stopping at DFW to pick up Diana on her return from San Francisco.  I broke the drive up by stopping for lunch with April in Round Rock.  We both enjoy the Salt Traders restaurant and it’s right off the main highway to Dallas.  The shrimp poblano enchiladas were great.

Here’s Clorinda anticipating the new book from Ann Patchett that Diana got for her.  I understand she put down her current book and dove right in.

I enjoyed the Beanie Baby movie over a couple of evenings.  I thought Jack Galifianakas was very good as the guy who created and ultimately destroyed the Ty toy company.  I’m sure there are still several hundred of these silly toys in storage units outside the house in Los Gatos.

All the inspections on the New Orleans house happened on Thursday:  General, termite, sewage and air conditioning.  We’re still awaiting all the details, but there doesn’t appear to be anything huge to deal with.

Patty and Brent were in town looking at potential places to build a retirement house.  I don’t think they saw anything they liked, and so Dallas might be coming off the list.  We met them at Harvest in downtown McKinney for Friday dinner.  A really nice visit with good food.  We’ll see them again in a week or so.

Rachel was over to sunbathe and enjoy the pool one last time on Saturday afternoon.  She didn’t know about the move until she saw the yard sign.  Oops.

Friends and family were having fun in other parts of the country.  The Ogans at altitude outside Boulder, CO:

Olivia celebrating her sixteenth birthday.  We don’t know who the guy next to her is.  Interesting hair.

Will and Christine in Reno, NV with G-Man, Caitlin, and crew:

And lastly, Campbell and Molly with Kris and Cat on a beach in San Diego to enjoy some music.

“All the Sinners Bleed” by S.A. Cosby was my book this week.  A fast paced thriller, and not for the feint of heart.  I enjoyed it a lot, maybe even better than his last two novels.  The main character, Titus Crown, a police chief in rural Virginia is excellently done.  Here’s the online summary:

INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
“Fresh and exhilarating. . . Cosby keeps his eye on the story and the pedal to the metal.” ―Stephen King, 
TheNew York Times Book Review

A Black sheriff. A serial killer. A small town ready to combust.

The new novel from New York Times bestselling and Los Angeles Times Book Prize-winning author S. A. Cosby, “one of the most muscular, distinctive, grab-you-by-both-ears voices in American crime fiction.” ―Washington Post.

“An atmospheric pressure cooker.” ―People

Titus Crown is the first Black sheriff in the history of Charon County, Virginia. In recent decades, quiet Charon has had only two murders. But after years of working as an FBI agent, Titus knows better than anyone that while his hometown might seem like a land of moonshine, cornbread, and honeysuckle, secrets always fester under the surface.

Then a year to the day after Titus’s election, a school teacher is killed by a former student and the student is fatally shot by Titus’s deputies. As Titus investigates the shootings, he unearths terrible crimes and a serial killer who has been hiding in plain sight, haunting the dirt lanes and woodland clearings of Charon.

With the killer’s possible connections to a local church and the town’s harrowing history weighing on him, Titus projects confidence about closing the case while concealing a painful secret from his own past. At the same time, he also has to contend with a far-right group that wants to hold a parade in celebration of the town’s Confederate history.

Charon is Titus’s home and his heart. But where faith and violence meet, there will be a reckoning.

Powerful and unforgettable, All the Sinners Bleed confirms S. A. Cosby as “one of the most muscular, distinctive, grab-you-by-both-ears voices in American crime fiction” (The Washington Post)

This article about how AI can determine the attributes of music you were just listening too is quite interesting:

https://www.livescience.com/health/neuroscience/googles-mind-reading-ai-can-tell-what-music-you-listened-to-based-on-your-brain-signals

I wonder what my brain looks like after listening to this?  Great beat and slide guitar sound.  I think it made me quite relaxed.

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all.