“Resting Up”
When I left you, I was settling in to watch the Cowboys game. It was a good one, and they won the division. On to the playoffs! Thanks to Diana for signing me up for NFL Sunday Ticket so that I could watch the “out of market” game. I could even watch four games at once:

We did not make it to the Joe Krown show at the Maple Leaf. The girls were worn out from their afternoon in the French Quarter.
The middle part of the week was pretty quiet – recovering from all the New Year excitement and resting up for Mardi Gras.
We did make a trip to the nearest Home Depot to pick up pipe insulation and spigot covers for the upcoming below freezing temperatures. Diana remarked on the barbed wire around the top of the wall around Home Depot. I pointed out that it was actually razor wire – they really don’t want anyone climbing over that wall. Interestingly, there was a wall all the way around the parking lot and only one entry/exit point. We didn’t think we were in that bad of a neighborhood. Anne filled us in – that was put up right after Katrina when the store was constantly looted.
I decided to check a few things off my Diana To Do list. They were mostly outside of my skillset, or things I just didn’t fancy tackling. It seems like everything I take on with this house ends up being much more difficult than anticipated. I asked Tommy, our air conditioning guy, if he knew a handyman. “Sure, my brother will do it.” Billy showed up later in the day to check things out. And, yes, he’s as much of a character as Tommy. Just a great fellow. He just stopped by to drop off a bunch of fresh crabs and sauce for Diana – left over from his weekend feast.
Billy fixed a “broken” outlet, put a new outlet in the upstairs closet for the Dyson to charge, and ran power and mounted a new ceiling fan in the third floor area. Replacing the kitchen faucet and finishing the ceiling repairs are on deck for later this week. “Broken” is in quotes because there was really nothing wrong with the outlet – it had worked for a while and then stopped. Diana had mentioned to Billy that she’d like to figure out what the fourth switch on the kitchen wall went to. After checking all the fuse boxes and testing the outlet, Billy was at a loss. Then it occurred to him – the fourth switch. Ha!
I walked over to Aidan Gill’s for a haircut on Friday, and followed that by stopping in to try the Latin American restaurant across the street. Maya’s is a small place that I see each time I’m down on that part of Magazine, but had never tried. Their empanadas were good, and the large plates that other folks were having looked great.
Anne called on Friday afternoon and invited us to Happy Hour at Pizza Domenica. Another great place on Magazine street. Wine and pizza were half off between 3 and 5pm. What a deal! We had a pleasant visit and won’t see Anne again for a few weeks – she was off to visit her Mom in Florida, and then meeting up with Denny in Boulder.
I took Diana to a new place on Saturday afternoon – the Broad Theater is a very cool cinema in an interesting part of Mid City. It has so much more character than the massive AMC cineplexes. Diana was quite chuffed that a refill of wine and her large popcorn bucket was all of $5. We saw “American Fiction”, starring Jeffrey Wright.
The movie was very enjoyable – a humorous send up of “woke” culture and the clamoring around African American literature. McD enjoyed it as well – I wasn’t sure that she would.
I did battle with the Kamado Joe smoker on Sunday morning. My intent was to make a rack of baby back ribs to accompany the Cowboys playoff game. The plan was to cook at 220 degrees for 3 hours. The Kamado wanted to be hotter than that, and when I closed the vents sufficiently to get down to 220, it stayed for about an hour and then it seemed like the fire went out. The ribs were finished off on the regular grill and tasted good but not as great as they would have if cooked slower. My new bluetooth thermometer (Christmas from Diana) was very helpful in letting me know what was going on in the smoker.
And then there was the Cowboys playoff game against the Green Bay Packers. What a disaster from start to finish. A huge disappointment from the team that has the number one offense in football. I’m contemplating becoming a Saints fan next year. There have just been so many years like this – a great regular season and then a complete choke in the first playoff game.
While I was yelling at the TV – I gave up when it became apparent that the Cowboys had no chance, Diana was staying out of the way with her new birthday puzzle that Mum sent. She really enjoyed it – with the “whimsy” pieces:

And of course she wasn’t walking away from the table until it was completed:


I’m working my way through “The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store” by James McBride. It topped a number of “Best of 2023” lists. I’m not sure I like it that much yet, but I have quite a bit left to go, so I’ll let you know. Here’s an online synopsis.
“In 1972, when workers in Pottstown, Pennsylvania, were digging the foundations for a new development, the last thing they expected to find was a skeleton at the bottom of a well. Who the skeleton was and how it got there were two of the long-held secrets kept by the residents of Chicken Hill, the dilapidated neighborhood where immigrant Jews and African Americans lived side by side and shared ambitions and sorrows. Chicken Hill was where Moshe and Chona Ludlow lived when Moshe integrated his theater and where Chona ran the Heaven & Earth Grocery Store. When the state came looking for a deaf boy to institutionalize him, it was Chona and Nate Timblin, the Black janitor at Moshe’s theater and the unofficial leader of the Black community on Chicken Hill, who worked together to keep the boy safe.
As these characters’ stories overlap and deepen, it becomes clear how much the people who live on the margins of white, Christian America struggle and what they must do to survive. When the truth is finally revealed about what happened on Chicken Hill and the part the town’s white establishment played in it, McBride shows us that even in dark times, it is love and community—heaven and earth—that sustain us.
Bringing his masterly storytelling skills and his deep faith in humanity to The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store, James McBride has written a novel as compassionate as Deacon King Kong and as inventive as The Good Lord Bird.”

I may have shared this Duane Allman classic before. Either way, it’s worth repeating:
A very pleasant Jimmy Buffet cover:
And finally, a fun new sound that I came across:
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!








Carnival/Mardi Gras season started on Saturday evening (Twelfth Night.) The first event is the Phunny Phorty Phellows and the Funky Uptown Crew riding streetcars and celebrating. We walked the 100 feet down to St. Charles and enjoyed the revelry. Some neighbors had hired a brass band to celebrate with the Krewes. Here are some videos.
I’m almost finished with “Wellness.” Here are some passages that I enjoyed so far. This is funny because Diana has some different features in each ear:


The gift exchange was entertaining. Gianluca is getting concerned about his appearance and totally owned the “Bro Glo” self tanning cream that we selected from his list.










The Italian shop was classic old school. Very friendly and helpful folks, with what appeared to be an excellent sandwich counter. The lady kindly helped me carry the trays out to the car. All of the food was excellent and well received by the Krewe.
I watched some of the Sugar Bowl parade in the afternoon and was amazed that those guys were brave enough to march Bevo, the longhorn mascot, through such large and boisterous crowds. He didn’t seem phased at all.







We had a bit of an “oopsy” with the birthday cake. I joked to McD that she should blow it out. She did, with sparks flying towards my shirt. The waiter was quite concerned. No damage done and the Chief didn’t need to take any action.
After all that excitement, we proceeded to open Christmas stockings and gifts. I had been telling Kara, at dinner, about the silly high-end Italian oven that doesn’t even tell you the temperature it has reached or alert you when it gets to the right temperature. She suggested I get one of the thermometers that hang in the oven – great idea. An hour or so later and Santa had taken care of it for me.
We loved these Scottish pillows from my Mum. They’ll be fun for visitors to try to interpret. Mum also couldn’t resist another penguin friend for BP.



I “helped” Adamo assemble Frankie’s bike on Christmas Eve.






I had a haircut at Aidan Gill on Tuesday morning. I always like to pop next door to Juan’s Flying Burrito for lunch afterwards. I asked Diana if she’d like to join me, and she walked over. I forgot to mention that Aidan Gill’s was about a fifteen minute walk for me. It’s so nice to be able to walk to so many things. Juan’s is Timmy’s favourite place to eat and so we tortured him with pictures of our food and drinks.


We had been looking forward to trying Dakar NOLA for dinner on Saturday night. This West African and Senegalese restaurant serves a seven course tasting menu in one seating per night at 7pm. The chef and restaurant have won many awards over the last year or so:



Sunday was Kenny’s (The Chief) birthday. We celebrated by attending James Booker fest at the Maple Leaf. What a great group of New Orleans piano players paying tribute to the legendary guy who, along with Professor Longhair, started it all.
Some pretty flowers have emerged on the side of our house. Not sure what kind they are.
This was an excellent week of reading. “The Guncle” by Steven Rowley is one of my favourites in a long, long time. Alternating between laugh out loud humour and tear jerking sadness from one paragraph to the next, this is a writer at the very top of his game. I loved this book. I didn’t carry the hardback with me and so don’t have the quotations that I wanted to share. Here’s the online summary:

I was disappointed to find that Thom’s Market, just around the corner from our hotel, had stopped carrying Taco Deli breakfast tacos. I had been looking forward to my Tuesday morning breakfast treat. They had some new company providing tacos, and they were not nearly as good. Apparently they parted ways by “mutual understanding.” I’m going to have to go to the real Taco Deli next visit.
We were in Austin to attend my company Holiday Party on Wednesday night, and Tim (our CFO) invited the Executive Team to his home for dinner on Tuesday night. We drove around in circles for a while as our crack Administrative Assistant team had dropped one of the digits from the address. Had we been observant, we would have seen that there was only one house with a large blow up koala bear out front.






We had a lot of rain overnight on Friday, and several drainage pump units were not working properly. This made Rabbit’s Foot quite difficult to get to. I persevered only to find they weren’t able to open because too many employees couldn’t get there. Ugh!
Kenny’s official Fire Department retirement party was on Sunday. Denny was kind enough to pick us up and deliver us to the Union Hall. We had an enjoyable chat with Kenny’s mum, Miss Sue. She remembered meeting us last year and was still as sharp as a tack at ninety.
Diana and the girls had oyster Happy Hour on Tuesday evening, so Kenny came over and we went to watch a basketball that his son, Ian was helping to coach. Denny joined us and we decided to visit the local Milan lounge for some pre-game entertainment. The folks in the bar were entertained as Kenny yelled out answer after answer for Jeopardy questions.
On Wednesday night, we had Sips at Commander’s Palace down the street. This was an early birthday gift for Diana from Merry Lee and Jeff. One could sample around eighty different champagnes and wines, while enjoying the delicious snacks – the little cups of soup were ridiculous.
Marcia Ball, Shelley King, and Carolyn Wonderland had their “Home for the Holidays” show at the House of Blues on Thursday night. I had two suggestions for a pre-concert dinner for Diana to choose between – Beachbum Berry’s Latitude 49 or Kingfish. She opted for the tiki inspired option. The dinner was excellent, finishing with some perfectly cooked and very large scallops.






The replacement was scheduled for four hours later. A long time to spend in the club, and there were far too many kids in there. So, after that 4 hours of sitting around, we did take off for San Francisco. The flight was pleasant and we were a few hundred feet off the runway when, WHOOSH, we’re heading up at quite an angle and speed. Apparently the pilot saw another aircraft crossing our runway “way too close for comfort,” and decided to execute a “go around.” I looked out the window as we were ascending so quickly and saw the offender, and agree it would have been close.
Thanksgiving at Adamo and Amy’s home began in the early afternoon and wrapped up in the early evening. Other than Francesca screaming for the iPad for a solid half hour before she passed out, it seemed quieter than usual and quite pleasant. I was able to watch the Cowboys with another big win and have good visits with Marco, Andy, and Jude. Will, Christine and Ollie joined us again and had a great time.





My first book this week was “A Symphony of Secrets” by Brendan Slocumb. It is the follow up to “The Violin Conspiracy. ” I think I enjoyed it a bit more than the debut, and would likely not recommend it to someone that doesn’t know quite a bit about music. I think the “Secrets” were obvious way to early in the book.
My next book was “Vanishing in the Haight” by Max Tomlinson. It is a murder cold case mystery set in and around San Francisco and it becomes very clear that the author spent many years in the area. His descriptions of routes, buildings, clubs are just too spot on to not be a local.
When I left you a couple of weeks ago, we were getting ready to drive to Baton Rouge (about an hour and fifteen minutes) to see Alejandro Escovedo at the Red Dragon listening room. Kenny drove over, we enjoyed our Francolini’s sandwiches that I had picked up earlier in the day, and then took our places on a comfy couch for the show. What a fantastic way to see a show. The only downside – I had to drive over a hour back home. Next time, we need to stay the night. Here’s my favourite song from the evening, “Down in the Bowery.”
During the week, we joined the New Orleans library. This is housed in a beautiful mansion on St Charles Avenue. The family that owned the house donated it to the library. It’s starting to feel like we’re locals.
On Thursday, the Bush girls had a book signing at the Garden District Bookstore, just across the street. Kenny came over to observe the scene. There was a long line of mothers and daughters when we first visited, and I was able to convince McD to go back over when the line died down, and pick up a signed book for Francesca.
Friday was Boys’ Night Out. We had dinner at Casa Borrega – a really good Mexican restaurant, which happened to be across the street from the boxing gym where “Friday Night Fights” was housed. Denny’s carwashes sponsor the event and so we had four ringside seats. The event was poorly managed, with way too many people, so we didn’t stay too long. We’ll need to get Denny engaged for some improvements.


I suggested a road trip on Saturday and Diana was all in. We drove over to the Mississippi Gulf coast and had lunch at Bay St. Louis. The oysters were amazing – I ate three of them, so you know they had to be good.

We flew to Austin on Monday for my quarterly Board meeting. Diana accompanied and we had a delicious dinner at Este on arrival. The seafood is so fresh and delicious. We started out with the rainbow trout ceviche with grapefruit sauce.

The Board meeting went very well, and so we celebrated with a snack at Clark’s oyster bar, and then dinner at Emmer and Rye. I loved the tapas tasting menu, while some other members of the Executive Committee weren’t so excited. The highlight for me was the wagyu tartare.
Denny and Anne met us for Happy Hour at Costera on Thursday – always such good food and drinks. Andre Darlington was doing a book signing across the street after Happy Hour. Denny joined us to hear him talk about his new Christmas Booze and Vinyl book. I was able to get my Booze and Vinyl book signed.
Saturday was another busy day. We had a nice walk around the neighborhood and then attended a Laurel Street porch musical concert. Mahmoud Chouki is a very talented musician from Morocco, now living in New Orleans. His band was very, very good. Here’s a sample:

As if we hadn’t had enough music, we splintered into a couple of groups – one (D’s mostly girls group) off to dinner at Café Degas, followed by Connor at the Old City Jail. The other (Kenny, Denny, Tres and me) down to the House of Blues to see Zebra. Never heard of them? I hadn’t either. Led by Randy Jackson on guitar and vocals, the trio has all the original members from 1975. They sound a bit like Led Zeppelin might, if they were from the southern United States.
Denny and I enjoyed a Tiki bar snack before the show and were fortunate to have VIP access as the show was completely sold out and very busy. I chuckled at the guys around me who knew every word to every song. All a matter of where you were when.
Diana’s group waited a while for their show to start and enjoyed the venue. Their dinner at Cafe Degas was a success, with Diana really enjoying her soft shell crab.
I finally finished “Be Mine” by Richard Ford. This was one of the best books that I’ve read in a long time. Frank Bascombe is such an excellent character, and this one alternated between laugh out loud funny and heartbreakingly poignant.
Halloween was very quiet on Washington Avenue. Auggie and his parents next door were beautifully dressed as the Addams family. Auggie was Gomez with a tiny suit for his two and a half year old self. We waited a while for the trick or treaters that didn’t show, and then drove over to Denny and Anne’s for dinner. It was a very chilly day and our penguin suits were nice and warm. Did you notice BP’s Halloween orange bowtie?












Kenny and Kara had been talking to us about the Jonathan Richman show at the Toulouse Theater on Wednesday night. We told them we were too old to go to concerts two nights in a row – we had Houndmouth on Thursday night. I got a text on Wednesday afternoon asking me to “reconsider” the show. Ok – we’ll pretend we’re young and do it. That was a good decision. What a unique show. Songs in Italian and French and some beautiful guitar. Here’s a song about Vermeer, the painter:


Houndmouth was our concert on Thursday night. I had bought tickets a long time ago, and Kenny, Kara, Trey and Lynn joined us. It’s hard to fit this band into any particular genre – some folk, rock, punk and other influences in there. Here’s their big hit, “Sedona”:
We thought that was it for the week, but along came an email from Denny offering us tickets to see “MJ, the Musical” at the Saenger Theater on Friday night. This is a musical about the life and music of Michael Jackson. I could tell that my D really wanted to go. We agreed that we could at least make it through the first half. The show was good and we stayed for the whole thing – up after midnight for the second night in a row. I did get in trouble for singing along to a few songs.
We reprised our Friday afternoon Columns lunch this week. It was such a gorgeous day and who knows how many more we’ll get before it gets chilly. The lamb skewers were a new D choice that worked out very well.
We spent some good time on the front porch on Saturday and had a nice chat with our neighbor, Hugh, who was telling us about his “vagabond” son.
The weather did not improve last Sunday for Adamo’s birthday party. The Sam Chase band had to play in the garage. Everybody seemed to have a good time, although it was a bit chaotic with so many people inside. It was good to see Will, Christine and Ollie.


I had a circuitous flight home on Wednesday. There was a thunderstorm over Dallas most of the day. We circled around Kansas for a while and then diverted to Longview, Texas for fuel. I was worried that the flight crew would time out there and was starting to plan on finding a hotel. No worry needed – they didn’t have a set of stairs tall enough for anyone to get off the plane. We did finally land in Dallas, then it was a waiting game for the flight to New Orleans – this picture was the last update and was nowhere near accurate. A break in the thunderstorm did allow us to take off after midnight, and I made it home around 1:30am – a long day of flying.














