“Pretty Pacifica Sunsets”
I dropped Diana and Alicia at the airport on Wednesday morning, then dropped the VW Atlas off with Tony in downtown Plano – she’s (or is it male?) getting a ceramic coating treatment (Christmas present from Will). I enjoyed a coffee at the 1418 coffee house before the drop-off. They have really good coffee and a nice atmosphere. Tony is a character from New Orleans, who recently sold his shop there and has just opened the shop in Plano. I think he would have happily chatted with me all afternoon.
Diana sent some amazing sunset pictures from Pacifica. These from Wednesday night are the prettiest I’ve seen there:

And then almost as impressive later in the week:

I used my solo time to enjoy a couple of movies. I read “The Tender Bar” a few years ago, and was looking forward to seeing the recently released movie. As is typical, the movie didn’t really live up to the book, it was enjoyable, Ben Affleck pretty good, but just not what it could have been.
“Swan Song”, starring the wonderful Mahershala Ali and Glenn Close, is based on an interesting premise: Ali is a husband and father, diagnosed with a terminal illness. He is presented with a controversial alternative solution to shield his family from losing him – replace himself with a carbon copy clone. The acting is good, but the story just doesn’t have that much going for it after the premise is exposed.
After two mediocre movies, I was absolutely delighted with “Get Back”, the new Beatles documentary, directed by Peter Jackson of “The Lord of the Rings” fame. It shows the band on a sound stage, preparing for a TV show that will feature new material – the idea being a new album performed live with a studio audience.
It’s fascinating to see how much Paul McCartney is the catalyst that makes everything work – orchestrating the rehearsals, one minute telling George what to play on guitar, then immediately pivoting to dictating a rhythm to Ringo. How passive George Harrison is during the sessions is also interesting – he takes direction from Paul constantly and seems quite happy to just go along with what he wants. Paul and John really don’t seem to even acknowledge him when he does speak up. The band does a run through of “All Things Must Pass”, written by George, and it doesn’t really go anywhere. Of course, this became the title for the fantastic triple album that George released after the Beatles breakup. In one interesting sequence, George talks about how Eric Clapton can improvise an idea, shape it and take it somewhere, admitting that he doesn’t have that kind of talent at all.
George comes in one morning with a new song he’d written the night before, in response to a BBC2 program. The song is “My Me Mine”, and there’s a great moment when the band runs through it (sounding great) when John and Yoko dance a waltz. The rest of the time Yoko is just sitting next to John saying nothing for hours on end. Similarly, George has a couple of Hari Krishna friends who sit on the floor, saying nothing for the duration.
My favourite moment from Episode 1 is Paul creating “Get Back” from nothing – strumming chords and humming and then, out of nowhere, the song appears. Just stunning. Other favourites are the footage of Paul messing around on the piano, while the others are taking a break – the beginnings of “The Long and Winding Road” and “Let it Be” come out almost fully formed, except for the lyrics. I had been on the John Lennon was the genius, with Paul being the second fiddle bandwagon, but this documentary completely upended that perspective – Paul was clearly the creative driving force. The episode finishes with George quitting the band- and this diary entry.

I’m looking forward to the watching the remaining episodes.
Tony finished up the ceramic coating on Friday, and Finn drove Penelope to the shop so that I didn’t have to Uber over. The job looks very good and should protect well for several years. And Finn did a good job of not scaring me as he drove Penelope home solo up Central Expressway – a very intimidating highway.
Thanks again to Will for orchestrating all of this with Tony.
I’ve been in a pretty regular routine this week – wake up at 4:30am, drop Finn at work, come back and read for a while in bed, then fall back asleep for a couple of hours. He started at 4am one day, and that’s where I have to draw the line – he was helping his boss unload a truck before the day started.
I picked Finn up from work on Saturday, a very cold and windy day in McKinney with minor snow flurries, and we enjoyed a delicious lunch at Bengal Bay Grill – an Indian/Mexican/American fusion place that has delicious food. Plenty of leftovers for both of our dinners.
Saturday afternoon looked like fun in Pacifica from these pictures of a get together with Andy and Jude.



Finn is coming over to watch the Cowboys vs. San Francisco 49ers playoff game with me this afternoon – a flashback to the classic playoff games that happened between both teams routinely in the 90s.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading “This Tender Land” by William Kent Krueger this week. The story reminds me a lot of my recent read, “The Lincoln Highway” by Amor Towles. Here are some of the quotes that led me to read this book – particularly the “Where the Crawdads Sing” reference:
“If you liked Where the Crawdads Sing, you’ll love This Tender Land by best-selling author William Kent Krueger. This story is as big-hearted as they come.“ —Parade Magazine
“A picaresque tale of adventure during the Great Depression. Part Grapes of Wrath, part Huckleberry Finn, Krueger’s novel is a journey over inner and outer terrain toward wisdom and freedom.” —Minneapolis Star Tribune
“Crafted in exquisitely beautiful prose, this is a story to be treasured – outstanding and unforgettable.” —Historical Novel Review
“If you’re among of the millions who raced through Where the Crawdads Sing this year and are looking for another expansive, atmospheric American saga, look to the latest from Kreuger.” —Entertainment Weekly
“Long, sprawling, and utterly captivating, readers will eat up every delicious word of it.” —New York Journal of Books
“Rich with graceful writing and endearing characters…this is a book for the ages.” —Denver Post
Here’s the Amazon summary of the plot:
In the summer of 1932, on the banks of Minnesota’s Gilead River, Odie O’Banion is an orphan confined to the Lincoln Indian Training School, a pitiless place where his lively nature earns him the superintendent’s wrath. Forced to flee after committing a terrible crime, he and his brother, Albert, their best friend, Mose, and a brokenhearted little girl named Emmy steal away in a canoe, heading for the mighty Mississippi and a place to call their own.
Over the course of one summer, these four orphans journey into the unknown and cross paths with others who are adrift, from struggling farmers and traveling faith healers to displaced families and lost souls of all kinds. With the feel of a modern classic, This Tender Land is an enthralling, big-hearted epic that shows how the magnificent American landscape connects us all, haunts our dreams, and makes us whole.
I enjoyed learning about how Native American children were rounded up and placed in these special boarding schools – just horrendous treatment and a huge effort to stamp out an entire culture by “Americanising” the entire generation. The description of the struggle by so many to survive during the “Great Depression” was also quite interesting.
As is typical lately with the books I’ve been reading, I was disappointed with the rush in the last 20 pages to tie up all the loose ends and bring the story to a conclusion. A slow moving and highly descriptive book moves to a rapidly paced and rushed ending.
I really enjoyed this read and am looking forward to exploring some more of Krueger’s books.

Let’s start this week with an excellent song by Rich Robinson, guitar player with the Black Crowes, and brother constantly fighting with Chris Robinson. I love the feel of this song.
It’s been too long since I listened to Jackson Browne. This song popped up on “The Tender Bar” soundtrack to remind me of what I’ve been missing:
One of my magazine’s had an interview that mentioned this soundtrack by Pat Metheney and friend – it’s excellent relaxing music:
I’ve been delving back into the Radiohead catalog this week. How does a band go from the relatively straight ahead rock of “The Bends” to the art pieces that comprise “OK Computer” in a couple of years?
and then…
I tell the story of going to see R.E.M in Dallas with opening band Radiohead, back when they had just released “Pablo Honey.” They blew R.E.M. off the stage with an excellent performance. I didn’t know any of their songs and thoroughly enjoyed the entire set. I can still hear the crowd going wild for their performance of “Creep.”
Stay safe and kind to everyone.





We enjoyed a lovely retirement dinner at C.T. Provisions on Friday, with Brent as our waiter. Finn and Alicia were able to join us. The food, company, and service were all excellent. Diana toasted her retirement with an Old Cuban (first experienced at the Moonshiner speakeasy in Paris.) C.T.’s was very busy, and Finn got a kick out of watching Brent buzzing around. Here’s D reading Finn’s retirement card, I think she liked his message about “sip and dip” and “fun in the sun”:





I thoroughly enjoyed “South and West: A Notebook” by Joan Didion this week. After her passing a couple of weeks ago, this was the only one of her books available at the library, and fortuitously, one of the few that I haven’t read at least once. She is one of those authors whose books you have to read a few times to really fully appreciate.
Earlier in the day, Diana participated in a virtual Secret Santa with Alicia and John and Joey’s families. Bonna was D’s Santa and she put together a lovely champagne themed basket. Diana was really delighted with the detail and with everything in the basket, and she had the perfect hoodie to complement it.
We flew to New Orleans on Friday morning for the fourth annual celebration of Jack and Mason’s birthday on January 2nd. We spent the afternoon enjoying the new Ogan patio, and exchanged some gifts. Anne loved her “champagne clutch” and Diana her tennis skirt (in preparation for taking up tennis during our NOLA residency.)


Costera was an excellent choice for dinner (thanks Denny) with multiple courses of Spanish tapas. The menu was fixed and included a plethora of delicious courses – beef shank Bombas, scallops, and an amazing seafood paella were the standouts. We were joined at dinner by the Kirshes, Krieks, and Eisles – what a fun group.
There was a bit of a wild party in progress when we returned to Webster street after dinner (and a few minutes after midnight.) Things quietened down quickly and we were able to get a decent sleep. Apparently a good enough sleep for McD to pop right up on New Year’s Day and head out for a run in Audubon park with Laura and Kara. She particularly enjoyed the band playing at the park entrance. Great job of starting out on the right foot Diana!


Merry Lee, Jeff, Donna, and Steve (our friends from California) were able to secure an invite to oyster fest. Merry Lee and Jeff have a condo in New Orleans now. They seemed to enjoy meeting everyone and sampling the various types of oysters.
“Bombshell” is part of the series featuring ex-CIA agent and Hollywood producer, Terry Fay, and is co-written with Parnell Hall. This is certainly easy reading, with each chapter 3 or 4 pages long. You can tell that Woods has a formula that he deploys to crank out these books. I don’t have any quotes as the writing is quite basic and used to drive the action forward, rather than set the scene or develop the characters. I’m not sure I would select another Woods book, except maybe for some mindless poolside or beach reading.
There were a couple of gifts that I couldn’t resist for Diana, but which didn’t fit in her extra large stocking. She had mentioned enjoying spirograph a few months ago, and I was trying to describe the fancy set I had. She’s pretty excited to try out this classic set when we get back to McKinney. I’m not sure if that will be before or after she tackles the “Where the Crawdads Sing” jigsaw puzzle.

Spending the night at the Grand Hotel in downtown McKinney seemed like a better plan than getting in the way of Jose and the flooring crew. The Grand is such a lovely, old school hotel with a great location on the square. We had dinner at the Urban Bar and Grill – a new restaurant where Bayou Jack’s used to be (I loved that New Orleans style place.) Our meals were great – particularly Diana’s mussels.

















I did find enough time to finish up “I Dream He Talks to Me” by Allison Moorer. This is about her experiences raising a non-verbal autistic son, John Henry. The book certainly brings perspective to the challenges of raising our kids.







The Atlas came back from getting wheels “powder coated” on Thursday. Diana is quite happy with the way the all black rims now look.
I got a haircut on Friday and decided to have a snack at the neighboring Lion and Crown afterwards. Scotch Eggs! This place had all the classic pub food favourites and I’ll have to plan another stop in.


My next book, “Mayflies” by Andrew O’Hagan, is a Christmas present from Mum that I couldn’t resist sampling, and then couldn’t resist finishing. It’s in two parts – a group of mates from the Glasgow area attending a music festival in Manchester in 1986 as teenagers, is part one, and part two is the same group in their 50s in recent years. Part one got a bit repetitive after a while – kids being silly at a music festival, but part two was excellent.
My third book was “Lucky” by Marissa Stapley. This is a quick and fun read that I finished in two sittings this weekend. I think Diana will figure out the puzzle quicker than I did.
This is the week when most of the leaves from the neighbor’s tree blow into our pool. Diana spent a lot of time keeping the skimmers emptied and leaves out of the pool. I appreciate a pool girl that’s on the job before she’s dressed for the day – that’s dedicated D.
Our two favourite NFL teams played each other on Thursday night – Cowboys vs Saints in New Orleans. The Cowboys didn’t play particularly well but did win the game – mostly because of good defensive play. Campbell found a Cowboys place near his apartment – some kind of barbeque restaurant.



Will, Christine, Campbell and Ollie arrived at the same time as we did, for their first Gypsy Hill Thanksgiving experience. Christine had to deal with a hungry Clorinda as she assembled this delicious appetizer. Grammie didn’t want to wait for the dill sauce and sprig and was happy to help herself to the cucumber and lox bases.











The girls (Diana, Alicia, and Caroline) spent a chunk of Friday putting up Clorinda’s Christmas tree and decorations. Clorinda was quite happy to sit and read “The Lincoln Highway” that I had shared with her, while all the activity took place around her. It wasn’t until Saturday morning that she really took time to investigate and enjoy all the decorations.



I needed to have a splint made to straighten my fingers out at night when sleeping. Leaving town the next day, I got an appointment for just after lunch. I stumbled on Mexican Cactus for a delicious taco lunch – great sauces. A nice new addition to the taco rotation. The splint appointment was painless and the lady also gave me a series of exercises to do every hour – I couldn’t say that I’ve been religious about doing them every single hour, but not too bad.









Last week I met some colleagues in downtown Dallas for dinner. We went to a place called CBD Provisions, where the signature dish is pig’s head carnitas. And yes, it comes served as a complete pig’s head – a bit strange but very tasty. Traffic was awful on the drive down, taking more than 90 minutes (typically 40) and so I maybe wasn’t in the mood to fully enjoy such a different appetizer.
A few months ago, on a whim, we bought tickets to see Bryan Adams in Las Vegas. The show was last Friday and we flew to Vegas on our way out to San Francisco. Our room at the Encore by Wynn was very comfy and modern (Alexa was available to close the curtains and turn on the lights). The show was at the Encore theater and so we just needed to ride the elevator down to attend the show – much easier than our typical drives to and from the Kessler for concerts.
Diana made us reservations at La Cave for pre-concert dinner. What a great find this was – tapas style small plates and very creative. The small plates weren’t really that small and we really enjoyed the meal in a lovely setting. Diana liked her “Fizzies flight” – more fun than just one glass.
We had a lazy start on Saturday with workouts in the fancy gym, lunch at the poolside restaurant, and then reading books by the lovely pool. BP kept watch from the room.
and weaving through the herds of people. When we finally arrived at Bardot we were seated inside next to a very loud table of guys. The entire place was soooo loud. I knew I wouldn’t be able to stand it and so we moved out to the front patio – much better.


Monday was a busy work day for both of us, but things started to slow down on Tuesday and we were able to get out for a walk by the Pacifica beaches and to enjoy a coffee and a quiche at Soul Grind.

We went for a walk on the hill on Wednesday morning and ran into the whole crew coming down. It takes a while to make progress with Frankie collecting rocks, Luciano melting down when he falls off his skateboard, and Massimo moving along on crutches. Here are some short videos that capture the scene.
I finished a couple of books over the last weeks. First was “Oh, William!” by Elizabeth Strout. Similar in style to the wonderful “Olive Kitteridge”, this follows the life of Lucy Barton and her ex-husband William. I didn’t enjoy this as much as “Olive” but it was still a very good read. This is the third book in a trilogy and I might have enjoyed it more had I read the first two books more recently.
My second book was “The Lincoln Highway” by Amor Towles. I loved “A Gentleman in Moscow” and was excited to read his new book. I thoroughly enjoyed the tale – quite different than “A Gentleman”, with much more action and a faster paced story. At the same time, there was plenty of detail from 1954 (the book takes place over 10 days) to settle in and enjoy. Here’s what Amazon had to say about it:

The new VW Atlas performed very well on the drive – very comfy and smooth and with all the modern electronics that Penelope is lacking. We met the Ogans for tacos at Nixta before checking into the hotel. This is a place that I had been hoping to try for a while, and it was excellent. Very creative and tasty tacos and tostadas. It was a gorgeous day and we enjoyed the garden patio setting very much. I had a beet tartare tostada that had some kind of whipped avocado base – highly recommended.



We loved everything about the concert. Three terrific artists/band were inducted into the Austin City Limits Hall of Fame. We had excellent seats and plenty of room. I’m going to share the pictures in order with the setlist from the evening.












The Ogans flew back to New Orleans on Friday morning, and so we had the day to ourselves. We started out with a good long run along the river – that we seriously payed for over the next few days – not sure why our legs hurt so much. I made a lunch reservation at June’s and teased D by asking her where she would like to pick for lunch – she ultimately got to June’s and wondered if we could get a reservation 🙂 It was another lovely afternoon and we were able to sit out on the patio. What did Diana have for lunch? Yes – the trifecta of steak tartare was completed. I enjoyed some salt cod croquettes and delicious curried escargot.
It was time to move again. We walked about a mile and a half over to South Lamar and had a coffee on the wonderful Opa! patio. One of the places we really miss for Sunday mornings.


After Tiki, I gave D the option of TG BAD (two guitars, bass, and drums) at the Saxon pub or an earlier than planned dinner at the Odd Duck. She decided the Odd Duck couldn’t wait. Wise move.



anniversary tour on Thursday night. I enjoyed dinner with a colleague at Jasper’s before the concert. I always love their blue cheese chips – it really is a single serving. Here are a few members of my team at the event.
I was feeling quite cramped in Penelope on Friday morning, as I drove back from Houston to McKinney. Then a call came in from the VW dealership to tell me that the new car had been delivered. With a limited window to execute all the paperwork, I Ubered over and got it all taken care of. I really like the size and comfort of the Atlas Cross Sport.
me up at SFO and we headed over to Adamo’s for a party he was hosting to celebrate their wedding anniversary and several other events that had been missed over the last year. Will, Christine, and Ollie were able to come for a while and enjoy Adamo’s cooking and the Sam Hunt band. Ollie was sporting his Halloween pumpkin haircut and enjoyed playing with the other party dogs. The Sam Hunt band is the same one that played at Alicia’s 21st birthday party last year. They are really interesting with a cello and trumpet adding to the unique sound:









