Week in Review – June 19th, 2022

“Surgery and Celebration Week”

This week started with Diana’s dental surgery – tooth extraction and bone graft.  She elected not to have general anesthesia, and rather have a “magic pill” at the dentist’s office to calm her down and make her very sleepy.  She claimed she wasn’t really getting sleepy – I think the pictures indicate otherwise:

Everything went well according to Dr. Johnson – he reported that he met Diana’s two instructions to him: 1.  no pain; 2.  do a great job.  I was a bit concerned right when we arrived home, as the pain was very high, but things settled down in a few hours.  The rinsing, dabbing and pain pills all week are really getting annoying for McD.

I was next up on Thursday, with dupuytrens surgery Act II.  I had my pinky nodule removed last year, and now it was time for ring and middle nodules to exit.  A lot of work for a couple of little bumps – but they do start to hurt annoyingly after a few months.

I’m usually in a happy and entertaining state when coming out of anesthesia.  Not so much this time – too much time waiting without anything to eat or drink, and too much time to review the ridiculous cost of short surgeries.  Diana was glad to get me out of there before I really irritated the nurses.  Time for some Taco Bell comfort food.

We celebrated Finn’s 29th birthday on Friday – pushing our anniversary celebration to Saturday.  The fun started with the “Lightyear” movie at the luxurious iPic theater.  This is a prequel to “Toy Story” – showing the story that was behind the Buzz Lightyear “Infiniti and Beyond” toy.  The film was action packed and entertaining.  Diana commented that it was “one calamity after another.”

After all that excitement, we returned home so that Finn could open presents – he had a great time opening Pokemon figurines from Campbell, custom made San Francisco Giants barstools from us, cards, gift cards, and then a delicious lemon cake and ice cream that Diana arranged for him.  So nice to see him so healthy and happy.

The theme for a fifth anniversary is wood.  Diana likes to play Connect 4, and so I couldn’t resist this custom wooden version.

I also found an Etsy company that makes wooden boards with song lyrics – had to get our wedding song:

Diana surprised me with a glass koala (D) and penguin (K) that she had made by a guy in New Orleans, who was part of an artist co-op downstairs from our condo.  I really love these little guys.

Our anniversary dinner was at Rick’s Chophouse in downtown McKinney.  A lovely setting that we’ve enjoyed many times in the past, but this time the service was spotty and slow.  We made the best of it and tried not to complain too much.  Desserts and my shrimp ‘n grits were both delicious.

Pest control came out to kill off our latest round of hornets, but a few stragglers remained.  I tried to take care of them so that D could fully enjoy her sunbathing spot, without unwanted company.  They really do look mean.

 

 

It was nice to get our surgeries behind us and to celebrate birthday and anniversary.

My book this week was “Between Two Kingdoms” by Suleika Jaouad.  I really enjoyed this book, which follows Jaouad’s multiple year battle with leukemia and her path to recovery.  I have a bunch of dog-eared pages that I wanted to share, but it’s too hard for me to type with this annoying bandage on my right hand- keeps activating the Ctrl key with all kinds of silly results.  So, I’ll just share this online summary that it was easy to copy and paste – the Ctrl-C and Ctrl-V responding well.

“In the summer after graduating from college, Suleika Jaouad was preparing, as they say in commencement speeches, to enter “the real world.” She had fallen in love and moved to Paris to pursue her dream of becoming a war correspondent. The real world she found, however, would take her into a very different kind of conflict zone.

It started with an itch—first on her feet, then up her legs, like a thousand invisible mosquito bites. Next came the exhaustion, and the six-hour naps that only deepened her fatigue. Then a trip to the doctor and, a few weeks shy of her twenty-third birthday, a diagnosis: leukemia, with a 35 percent chance of survival. Just like that, the life she had imagined for herself had gone up in flames. By the time Jaouad flew home to New York, she had lost her job, her apartment, and her independence. She would spend much of the next four years in a hospital bed, fighting for her life and chronicling the saga in a column for The New York Times.

When Jaouad finally walked out of the cancer ward—after countless rounds of chemo, a clinical trial, and a bone marrow transplant—she was, according to the doctors, cured. But as she would soon learn, a cure is not where the work of healing ends; it’s where it begins. She had spent the past 1,500 days in desperate pursuit of one goal—to survive. And now that she’d done so, she realized that she had no idea how to live.

How would she reenter the world and live again? How could she reclaim what had been lost? Jaouad embarked—with her new best friend, Oscar, a scruffy terrier mutt—on a 100-day, 15,000-mile road trip across the country. She set out to meet some of the strangers who had written to her during her years in the hospital: a teenage girl in Florida also recovering from cancer; a teacher in California grieving the death of her son; a death-row inmate in Texas who’d spent his own years confined to a room. What she learned on this trip is that the divide between sick and well is porous, that the vast majority of us will travel back and forth between these realms throughout our lives. Between Two Kingdoms is a profound chronicle of survivorship and a fierce, tender, and inspiring exploration of what it means to begin again.”

I thoroughly recommend this book – not exactly an uplifting tale, but such an honest and insightful survival story.

Here’s an interesting Dylan cover that I’ve enjoyed several times this week:

Some lovely, laid back Anders:

And finally a new band that I heard this week and like a lot:

Stay safe, kind and compassionate to everyone!

Week in Review – June 12th, 2020

“We Still Miss Austin a Lot”

I made a trip to see the hand surgeon on Monday.  He confirmed that the nodule on my hand is another incidence of dupuytrens disease – so we’ll have to get another surgery planned to extract it before it starts to hurt too much.

I stopped into the immigration office on my drive to Austin on Tuesday.  They had sent me an interview date and time that I thought was to do the usual green card biometrics, required every ten years.  After standing in line for a while, and then having picture and fingerprints taken, I assumed I was all finished.  But, the lady told me to head upstairs for another interview.  My name was called and off I went to an interview room with a pleasant lady.  After we chatted for a while, she asked, “So, are you ready for the test?”  I asked what kind of test is associated with a regular green card renewal.  Hadn’t experienced one in 30 plus years.  “Oh no, this is your citizenship interview.”  Missed that on the letter that was sent – no mention of studying for the test or anything even close to that.  I figured there was nothing to lose – so off we went with the test.

“How many members are in the house of representatives?”

“How many in the senate?”

“What are the first ten amendments to the constitution known as?”

The rest of the questions were straightforward.  I was able to get them correct and avoided any wasted time “studying” for the test.  If you haven’t brushed up on civics class lately, the answers are 435, 100, and “The Bill of Rights.”

The bad news is I am now working on a list of all international flights between 2016 and 2021 – going to be an interesting journey through the archives (including historical blog posts) to paste that together.  This is the final information necessary to complete my citizenship application.

After all that excitement, the drive down to Austin was smooth and easy.  I spent some time in the office and then picked up Diana at the airport – she was delayed by about an hour as they had to “reboot” one of the airplane engines prior to leaving Phoenix.  That gave me an opportunity to experience the “cell phone waiting lot” at Austin airport.  Quite fancy with a Whataburger and a flight arrival information screen.

One of the nice features of the Carpenter Hotel (other than it’s hip vibe and proximity to the office and fun restaurants) is that there is a Thom’s market right next door.  One can easily pick up some breakfast tacos on the way to work in the morning.  I spent Wednesday at the office, while Diana and Lisa relaxed by the Carpenter pool.  Thankfully some very tall trees provide good shade, as temperatures were 100 degrees plus all of this week.

I hosted a Happy Hour at The Tavern for all IT folks in the Austin area, and a few folks who were visiting.  This was a lovely evening with good food, drinks and company – all at a reasonable price.  Diana had a chance to do a detailed interview of Pepe, my new leader for Latin American IT – she was very impressed.  The only downer was when one attendee discovered that her car had been broken into, and her laptop stolen.  Never leave bags visible in the back seat!

I was entertained by the scooter and one-wheel gang that drove by The Tavern – Will is on the waiting list for a new one-wheel.  Don’t think I’ll ever have the balance for one of those.

 

 

I picked up Diana at the hotel for Thursday lunch with Pepe  and me at Salt Traders.  We had a very nice seafood lunch – Diana enjoying some tuna tartare.  After lunch, Diana took Pepe over to Walmart so that he could pick up some things that are much less expensive in the U.S.  Diana and I both agree that Pepe is a great addition to my team.

Dinner on Thursday was at one of our very favourite Austin establishments – Suerte, on the east side of town.  Everything was just as good as anticipated.  We sat at our “regular” table and enjoyed a couple of their creative cocktails.

Our first course was a pulpo (octopus) tostada – creative and yummy.  We followed that with the must have suadero tacos – still my favourite ever.

Suerte is always such a highlight of an Austin trip.  Great food and excellent service in a casual atmosphere.

Speaking of yummy food – I noticed that our office vending machine now carries the highly addictive Zappos Voodoo chips from New Orleans.  I was proud of myself for being able to resist the temptation.

 

One last Austin favourite restaurant before our drive back to McKinney.  We enjoyed Friday lunch at June’s All Day.  Diana couldn’t pass up her favourite steak tartare and frites, while I enjoyed a perfect boursin omelet.

The drive home wasn’t too bad – just the usual Waco and South Dallas snarl up spots.  We were home before 5pm.

Can you believe these temperatures forecast for the weekend?  One needs to get out early in the morning for any physical activity.

Santos came over on Saturday to trim up the trees – particularly the one in our neighbor’s yard that had the broken branch.  We finally got rid of all the branches hanging over our pool.  He also trimmed back the massive oak tree in the front significantly – no trees touching the house now.  It was interesting to watch the technique used to make the branches fall into the gap between the magnolias, and then control their descent.

Campbell sent pictures from a Saturday baseball game in San Diego.  He did not catch a foul ball, and Molly was getting irritated with him raising up his glove.  “It’s for your own protection,” he explained.  Things were fine after that.

I enjoyed my book this week much better than the one from last week.  “The Guide”, by Peter Heller was a quick and exciting read.  The fly fishing descriptions were wonderful, and the plot fast paced and engaging.  I did find the conclusion a bit gruesome and disturbing – but not beyond the imagination.

Here’s the Amazon summary:

“Kingfisher Lodge, nestled in a canyon on a mile and a half of the most pristine river water on the planet, is known by locals as “Billionaire’s Mile” and is locked behind a heavy gate. Sandwiched between barbed wire and a meadow with a sign that reads “Don’t Get Shot!” the resort boasts boutique fishing at its finest. Safe from viruses that have plagued America for years, Kingfisher offers a respite for wealthy clients. Now it also promises a second chance for Jack, a return to normalcy after a young life filled with loss. When he is assigned to guide a well-known singer, his only job is to rig her line, carry her gear, and steer her to the best trout he can find. 

But then a human scream pierces the night, and Jack soon realizes that this idyllic fishing lodge may be merely a cover for a far more sinister operation. A novel as gripping as it is lyrical, as frightening as it is moving, The Guide is another masterpiece from Peter Heller.”

I enjoyed the way the main character and background were linked to Heller’s last book, “The River”, which I enjoyed a few years ago – recommended by Issac’s Austin based “Manly Book Club.”

Here’s a paragraph that captures the joy of fishing:

“He was almost under the bridge when he raised the rod high and brought the exhausted trout in the last few feet and unshucked the net from his belt and slid it under this beauty and cradled her in the mesh.  She was a species of gold that no jeweler had every encountered – deeper, darker, rich with tones that had depth like water.  He talked to her the whole time, You’re all right, you’re all right, thank you, you beauty, almost as he had talked to himself at the shack, and he wet his left hand and cupped her belly gently and slipped the barbless hook from her lip and withdrew the net.”

Let’s start out with some relaxing, mellow saxophone – great for a Sunday morning with the paper:

We’ll keep it mellow with one of my top three Grateful Dead tracks:

And finally some entertaining mermaid music from Mississippi John Hurt:

 

Stay safe, kind and compassionate to everyone!

 

Week in Review – June 5th, 2022

“Guatemala City and San Francisco”

We headed to the airport on Tuesday morning – me to travel to Guatemala City for work, and Diana to visit her Mom in San Francisco.  Both of our flights were on time and smooth.  I enjoyed dinner with our leader for the Guatemala business and called it an early night.  I visited my favourite breakfast place, Saul’s Bistro, the next morning and noticed that the tables were built on old sewing machine pedal mounts – very clever.

Damon and Doug traveled with me and we had meetings all day on Wednesday, followed by a team dinner.  We did take a break for a yummy Greek lunch – I really like this place and have eaten there each time we visit.

Another break in the afternoon for the COVID tests necessary to regain entry to the United States.  I chuckled at the name of the facility:

The team dinner was at a fancy steak house – Jorge’s steak came with some kind of smoky presentation, and Doug certainly got a lot of meat.  His father was a butcher and so he enjoys his steak.

After dinner, we were teasing Damon about having selected such an early flight.  So early that his car was arriving at 4am.  We should have kept quiet!  I woke at 2:30am to discover that American Airlines had canceled my 10am flight back to Dallas and booked me on the same flight the next day.  That wouldn’t have been awful, but necessitated getting a new COVID test etc.  I really didn’t relish having to fill out all the forms and going through that again.  I was able to book a seat on the 6am flight to Miami and then an onward flight to Dallas.  This meant – you guessed it – I had to share Damon’s 4am car.  That and wake up Doug and get him organized with a new flight to Austin from Miami.  This sign in the Miami airport reminded me to go with the flow and relax:

I was home at 5pm, not too much later than on my originally planned flight, just with a much earlier start.  Whew – early to bed.  I did notice this large, broken tree limb hanging in our yard before bed.  The storm that caused our flight cancellation must have been a pretty good one.  The upside is that branch needed to come down anyway as it was over the pool and spoiling the sun bathing area.

I met one of our Board members for lunch at Snuffer’s on Friday.  This is a place that I used to visit regularly 30 or more years ago – but I hadn’t been in quite a while.  The burger and chicken sandwich are just as good as they always were, and the cheese fries just as ridiculous.

Finn and I met at Fork and Spoon for Thai food on Saturday.  He entertained me with a story about all the shoppers complaining about how much food prices have increased.  “It’s just basic economics – if diesel doubles in price, then some of that has to be passed along to the consumer.”  We tried to get him signed up for health benefits, but the system had him locked and we’ll deal with that when they open on Monday.

Saturday was a busy day in Pacifica.  Diana and Clorinda watched two baseball games in the morning – Massimo and Luciano’s teams.  Then they hosted a party for Alicia’s birthday.  The weather was cooperative and so everyone was able to enjoy the deck and the view.

Fortunately there is plenty of room for parking:

The hoodlums from up the hill had fun in a tree – even Frankie in her party dress.

And of course pictures with Mom (favourite daughter and son):

Diana reports a really lovely event.  So exciting that it was close to midnight before she could get Clorinda to bed.

My book this week was “French Braid” by Anne Tyler.  If you are a regular reader, you know how much I admire Tyler’s ability to capture the day to day normality of families, with great characters.

“French Braid” is her latest offering, and I found it a bit disappointing.  Maybe I wasn’t in the right mood, or have read too many of her books in the recent past, but it just felt plodding and a bit boring.  I needed some more excitement and action of some kind.  I know that’s not her thing, but this one just needed something to spice it up a bit.  I didn’t even have a dog-eared page to share.

Saul’s Bistro in Guatemala always has an interesting soundtrack playing.  I heard this when enjoying breakfast.  Such an interesting cover:

I checked out some more of Kent’s music – some good French songs:

Vince told me he was enjoying this album on the deck of his lake house.  I decided to check it out.  Great jazz music:

And finally some wonderful Tom Petty:

Stay safe, compassionate and kind to everyone!

Week in Review – May 29, 2022

“HBK!”

Finn joined us on Monday evening to celebrate my birthday.  Diana had been busy earlier in the day with the traditional pavlova preparation.  The mixer made a rare trip from its custom cupboard to the counter top.  Oh, the complexity of a new oven and the micro-adjustments necessary to create the perfect meringue.

I think it turned out perfectly – crunchy and then the lovely chewiness of the inside.  The other traditional birthday fare is meat pies.  The regular recipe had been “misplaced”, and so a new one was attempted – I think with even better results.  Finn was enlisted for an extra pair of hands in completing meat pie prep – dough shaping and egg washing – he’s always happy to help with cooking tasks.

What a perfect birthday treat.  I love the Mardi Gras frame that Diana picked up in New Orleans for our Mardi Gras Day picture – one of my favourites from the recent residency.

Another one of her gifts was an excellent book – “Booze and Vinyl.”  A selection of great albums from the last four decades with suggested cocktail pairings and snacks.  This is a wonderful book – the authors clearly love vinyl records and cocktails very much.  There’s not a bad album in here and the pairings make a lot of sense.  Maybe we’ll work our way through this, one album per week, when we’re both retired.

Finn gifted me a “Tenicle 360”.  This is a phone mount like an octopus – the arms allow you to mount your phone to almost anything, with strong suction cups.  I laughed because Finn and I had seen this on Shark Tank and thought it would be a great product.

Will found a compact travel wallet for me.  Apparently after much research and consultation with Diana.  I think it’s great – just enough space for the essentials, and with a tracking card that shows you the wallet location on a map and then beeps as you home in on its location.

And then there’s a special gift.  My Dad had suggested to Mum that they get me a valet as a present.  I loaded it up for this picture, but couldn’t find my Rolex watch – more on that later.

Another lovely birthday.

We had planned to travel to San Francisco on Wednesday, to spend the long weekend with Clorinda.  Unfortunately she tested positive for COVID earlier in the week, and we had to delay that adventure.  Thankfully she had a couple of days of minor symptoms and is now fine and testing negative.

Diana convinced me to go for a run on Saturday morning, before it got too hot.  I ran for 15 minutes, first time in a couple of months, and my legs are still achy today.  Note to self – need to go running more often to avoid the two day thigh aches.  We followed that with a trip to filtered for coffee and a quiche – something we haven’t done in a while.  Penelope was happy for the trip with her top down on a lovely, sunny day.

I made my new Thai chicken dish on Saturday night and Finn joined us to sample it.  He gave it a hearty thumbs up.  Diana always enjoys my mise en place activity before making this dish – all my ingredients lined up in little bowls – like a TV cooking show.

Finn’s car is looking brand new after the ceramic coating that Will organized.

I dragged my achy thighs to the pool for a swim on Sunday morning – not too bad – I suppose swimming must use slightly different muscles, that or I just didn’t kick very hard.  I’m guessing the latter.

On Sunday evening, we walked across the street to our neighbours, the Ennens, to celebrate the high school graduation of their twins.  We had a pleasant time chatting with Mary’s brother and his family about travel, scuba diving and the like.  One of the graduating twins, Tanner, was kind enough to check on the house and Penelope while we were on our New Orleans residency.

Have you watched any of “Somebody Feed Phil” on Netflix?  I stumbled upon it recently (thanks Vince) and am really enjoying Phil Rosenthal’s exploits as he travels to a new city in each episode.  Rosenthal was the creator of “Everybody Loves Raymond”, and you can certainly see the sense of humour that was so successful there coming through in this show.  Highly recommended.

Now, about that lost Rolex.  I assumed I had hidden it during the bathroom remodel – a while ago, I know.  Several attempts to locate it in places I might have hidden it came up empty.  Where do you think I found it?  I’ll give you a minute to come up with some ideas, and still don’t think you’ll get it.  I found it in a pocket of my work bag while cleaning it out for my travel this week.  I must have been carrying it around from place to  place for at least a year.  Good grief!

I was proud of this Phrazle accomplishment on Sunday morning.  My first time to guess in two tries.  I just had to see “Never” at the end and then it fell into place.

My book this week was “Every Good Boy Does Fine (A Love Story, in Music Lessons)” by Jeremy Denk.  This is one of my favourite reads in a while.  Fair warning though – I’m not sure it would be particularly enjoyable to someone who doesn’t enjoy classical music and hasn’t struggled with the piano at some point in their life.

Here’s the bio on Denk:

 

“Jeremy Denk is one of America’s foremost pianists.  Winner of a MacArthur “Genius” Fellowship and the Avery Fisher Prize, Denk is a member of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences.  He returns frequently to Carnegie Hall and has appeared with ensembles including the Chicago Symphony, New York Philharmonic, and Los Angeles Philharmonic.  His recordings have reached #1 on the Billboard classical chartsa nd have been featured on many best-of-the-year lists.  His writing has appeared in The New Yorker, The New Republic, The Guardian, and The New York Times Review.  Denk graduated from Oberlin College, Indiana University, and the Juiliard School.  He lives in New York City.”

How can a world class pianist also by an excellent writer.  Doubly not fair.

Each chapter covers Denk’s experience and relationship with a piano teacher, from early childhood through concert pianist.  I particularly enjoyed the “playlist” at the start of each chapter – covering music discussed in that chapter.  I did my best to play along on Spotify.  The highlight of the book for me was the detailed way that Denk described portions of the pieces he is playing – the rhythm and melodies – in such a caring and nuanced way.

The first teacher:

“At this point (according to my parents) I asked for piano lessons.  They were surprised because of my passionate rejection of the violin, but I’d been banging away at the spinet here and there.  As it happened, a teacher lived right down the street:  Mona Schneiderman.  (Has a more perfect piano teacher name ever been invented?)  And so a new weekly routine began, in lieu of medication or therapy.  Mom was relieved it didn’t involve more driving.  I have unreliable memories of Mona’s face – just a general kindness, light brown hair, glasses.  Her upright piano stood just off the kitchen, sharing space with a formal dining room.

Mona gave me a book of sheet music:  Very Easy Piano Pieces for Children.  On the cover, I scrawled in my loopiest script:  “Love the piano.”  I got assigned my first piece, “Wonderful World”, on March 10, 1976 (I was five and three-quarters).  It had lyrics.”

A synopsis of the fifteen year old Denk:

“My resume:  straight A’s, probable valedictorian, fifteen years old, a year’s worth of college already under my belt, and no chance of my ruining all this by knocking up anyone.  I’d won the Chemistry Olympics, with a super-precise titration.  I had gushing recommendations from my English teachers and my calculus professor.  Bruce Streett arranged for me to meet with Ivy Leagues alumni around town.  He accepted that I wasn’t going to go to Oxford, or become a Rhodes scholar, because I needed to focus on piano, and yet he still wanted to help.”

On studying Beethoven’s Sonata in F Minor, op. 57 at Oberlin college in 1986:

“After a few weeks of hitting the “Appassionata” first movement hard, Joe asked me to start the second.  I opened the music in my practice room.  on the page, it looked innocent: a hymn, one basic chord after another.  I felt this was a scam.  You often encounter a boundary in Beethoven, when he prunes music to the fundamentals: you think he’s gone too far, but then you realize he hasn’t.  I hadn’t evolved to that second stage.  I was more than willing to call out Beethoven for being a hack.

My lesson rolled around.  After I played the theme and one variation, Joe said, “What’s going on?  What happened to you?”

A bad comment – maybe one of the worst.  I decided to confess.  I told Joe I thought the piece was boring, even a bit cheesy.  Joe didn’t order me out of the studio, or lecture me on how this is one of Beethoven’s holiest visions, inhabiting a space between childlike wonder and deep reverence.  He gave me the look that Jerry Seinfeld give George Costanza when George proposes some new morally vacant scheme, and then shook it off with a sigh, and decided there was nothing else to do but approach the problem practically.  God, what I wouldn’t have given for something impractical, I was so tired of sighs and rolled-up sleeves.”

On his love of Brahms:

“If you forced me at gunpoint to pick a favorite tune, I would choose the beginning of Brahms’ first Piano Trio, op. 8, in B Major.  I first heard and played it at age fourteen, and in my mind it still lives there, thinking fourteen-year-old thoughts.  Brahms begins this tune in the piano, in its richest, most chocolaty-register – what’s called the tenor.  The melody launches from a low preamble note, then climbs, one note at a time.  For the first few notes, it’s just a major scale, nothing memorable.  But then Brahms decides to skip one note.  This act is crucial and defining:  the melody acquires identity and purpose.”

More on Brahms.  I love this description of the horn opening:

“Brahms B-flat!  A comical choice for an injured pianist, like deciding to ascend Everest with a broken leg.  It is one of the most difficult pieces in the piano repertoire, more difficult in many ways than Rachmaninoff no.3.  But I kept going over it in my head.  I couldn’t stop obsessing about the opening, a horn call, a rising scale with a little curlicue creating a subtle upward energy, the sense of a question.  And after the horn ascended, how the piano came from the unexpected other side, from the deepest bass, creating a cushion of sound around the horn, a foundation beneath a foundation.  The timbre of the horn, the sense of space, the call in the mountains resounding over the valley (“He wrote it in Italy!” one conductor reminded me; another cellist friend said, “Here is the universe”).”

I have many more dog-eared pages in this book, but you get a sense of it from those quotes.  I will have to delve in again and spend more time listening to the “playlists” from each chapter.  There is a section at the end of the book where Denk lists out his favourite recordings of each piece – through the wonder and curse of Spotify they are all right at our fingertips.

As Monty Python would say, “And now for something completely different.”  At least on the music front.

A couple of songs from Govt. Mule’s latest, “Heavy Load Blues”:

I always loved Whitesnake’s version of this.  Such a shame Coverdale’s amazing voice was wasted on silly rock ‘n roll songs:

And finally, back in the piano realm.  The sublime Keith Jarrett from a recording that I’ve been looking for for many years, and finally tracked down “Moth and the Flame”:

Stay safe, compassionate and kind to everyone!

 

Week in Review – May 22, 2022

“Birthday Week Begins”

I made a quick trip to Queretaro, Mexico from Monday through Wednesday.  It’s an easy flight – just two and a half hours from Dallas, and a small airport.  No COVID test needed to enter and they have a doctor who comes to the office to do a test for return to the United States.  Work wasn’t a lot of fun as I dealt with some employee issues, but I did enjoy a couple of nice dinners.  Argentinian steakhouse with Francisco on Monday, and then a great Italian place, Il Duomo, with Manuel and Juan Pablo on Tuesday.  I was surprised to find a solid selection of French wines and steak tartare (prepared tableside) on the menu.

The queen clams were a delicious appetizer, and the service outstanding throughout.  The ash goat cheese on my salad was a real treat.  Highly recommended if you ever find yourself in the area.

When I returned home, Diana had been busy preparing for my “birthday week.”  Tulips, a card,  drinks, and lots of my favourites in the fridge.  Thanks, my D!

She even brought me my favourite crunchwrap combo lunch from Taco Bell on Friday – delivered to my office.  I am seriously being spoiled this week.

Earlier on Wednesday, Diana drove Finn to pick up his car from Tony.  Will had arranged for a ceramic coating on the new paint job.  It does look amazing.

Janelle came over to visit with Diana on Thursday.  They got a kick out of some of the pictures that I was gathering up for a presentation that I’m giving next week – younger and much younger K.

Out for our walk on Saturday morning, we came across the monthly Cars and Coffee gathering.  I had to take pictures of the original Toyota Supra model – the first car that Will learned to drive in – stick shift and all.

The weather wasn’t good on Saturday afternoon, so no pool time for McD.  I suggested she try a jigsaw puzzle.  She can’t stop after she starts – straight back to it when she got up this morning.  It’s a puzzle of “Where the Crawdads Sing” – just the right degree of difficulty so that she wasn’t at it for several days.

I found some new puzzles this week – Phrasle, works like Wheel of Fortune with allowance for up to 4 wrong letter choices, and then Phrazle, which works like Wordle, with up to 6 chances to guess the entire phrase.

At sushi lunch on Saturday, Finn was telling us a story about Clorinda educating him on how to eat arancini (Italian rice balls).  Apparently it’s important to tear them in two before adding sauce.  Neither D or I have received this advice.  And then what shows up in the crossword this morning?

I enjoyed a nice long swim this morning, and now I’m relaxing and watching the PGA golf tournament as I write this.  Diana is out working in the garden where everything is blooming and perking up – even C-boy the cactus.

My book this week was “The Candy House” by Jennifer Egan.  The story includes several of the characters from her Pulitzer Prize winning “A Visit from the Goon Squad”, a book that I really enjoyed.  The first few chapters were engaging and funny and had me looking forward to the rest of the book.  But things went downhill for me – too many characters that it seemed were supposed to be related, but I couldn’t keep up with the connections.  Then changing into different formats – a chapter of email/twitter exchanges that didn’t work for me at all.  The concept of being able to store the history of one’s consciousness is quite interesting though.  Overall an enjoyable read, just didn’t live up to my expectations.

The critics seem to love the book, so maybe you’ll like it more than I did.   Here’s the synopsis:

“It’s 2010. Staggeringly successful and brilliant tech entrepreneur Bix  Bouton is desperate for a new idea. He’s forty, with four kids, and restless when he stumbles into a conversation with mostly Columbia professors, one of whom is experimenting with downloading or “externalizing” memory. Within a decade, Bix’s new technology, Own Your Unconscious—that allows you access to every memory you’ve ever had, and to share every memory in exchange for access to the memories of others—has seduced multitudes. But not everyone.

In spellbinding linked narratives, Egan spins out the consequences of Own Your Unconscious through the lives of multiple characters whose paths intersect over several decades. Egan introduces these characters in an astonishing array of styles—from omniscient to first person plural to a duet of voices, an epistolary chapter, and a chapter of tweets. In the world of Egan’s spectacular imagination, there are “counters” who track and exploit desires and there are “eluders,” those who understand the price of taking a bite of the Candy House.

Intellectually dazzling and extraordinarily moving, The Candy House is a bold, brilliant imagining of a world that is moments away. With a focus on social media, gaming, and alternate worlds, you can almost experience moving among dimensions in a role-playing game.​ Egan delivers a fierce and exhilarating testament to the tenacity and transcendence of human longing for real connection, love, family, privacy and redemption.”

The gentleman next to me on my flight to Queretaro was wearing a hat that said “Camel”, with a guitar logo.  I asked him if that was the band Camel that recorded the Snow Goose album.  It was, and a fun conversation ensued about his trip to the Albert Hall to see the band perform that album recently.  He is also a big Wishbone Ash fan, and was excited to meet someone who knew about the music he loves.

This one from Ray LaMontagne really caught my ear – lovely song:

Here’s an INXS cover from fellow Australians, The Teskey Brothers:

And finally, something from Amy Helm, Levon’s daughter:

Stay safe, compassionate and kind to everyone!

Week in Review – May 15, 2022

“Bastion is still just as good”

We had raved about Bastion, a tiny restaurant in Nashville, to Denny and Anne several times.  They were attending a carwash convention there this week, and suggested we join them for dinner.  I made the reservation exactly one month in advance, as necessary to get in, and we have been looking forward to revisiting for a while now.  More on that experience shortly.

The latest car wash in the Ogan empire opened Monday in Gentilly.  Then Denny and Anne flew to Nashville to celebrate.  They had been concerned that city approvals were going to cause delays and impact our trip.  Here’s a local councilman reading a grand opening proclamation.

 

 

Hotels were exorbitantly expensive this week, and so I booked a “Nashville Riverfront Loft”.  This worked out very well, with lots of extra space and a great location – half a block of Broadway.

Interestingly, there is a unique Taco Bell across the street – apparently has a special food and drink menu.  Didn’t have a chance to check it out.

 

After check-in, we met up with Denny and Anne for a tapas lunch and to sample some music at the honky-tonk bars on Broadway.

The Ogans were busy on Tuesday night with carwash stuff, and so Diana and I had dinner at an old favourite – the Butcher and Bee in East Nashville.  The whipped feta with honey is so delicious.  Not sure if Diana thought her champagne was more delicious?  We couldn’t resist the strawberry pavlova – a pretty faithful rendition with a creative twist.

 

After dinner, the carwash festivities were still underway at the Wild Horse Saloon (conveniently right next to our loft), and so we joined Denny and Anne for some shuffleboard games and were able to meet the carwash partners.

 

 

 

After some work on Wednesday morning, McD and I went for a walk across the bridge over the Cumberland river to check out the football stadium.  It was certainly starting to warm up as we took in the sites and enjoyed the riverside stroll.

It really is impressive to have the football stadium right next to downtown, and easily accessible with the pedestrian bridge.

I even learned a little history of Nashville on the walk.

While we were walking, the Ogans were touring the Glen Campbell museum – Anne really enjoyed it, with Denny commenting on having to read every little sign.  They shared pictures of Campbell’s Scottish outfit.

We enjoyed a casual Taco Deli lunch and discussed what to do next.  Denny found the Nashville Museum of African American Music (NMAAM), right under where we were enjoying lunch.  This was an outstanding museum – one of the best that I can remember visiting.  The use of technology, the variety of exhibits,  and the interactive opportunities were all excellent.  We were issued wrist bands on entry that were used to record many of our activities.  An email later shared all the songs you had listened to, beats you had created and more.

Here are some more of the interesting things in the museum – including a Louis Armstrong trumpet, and pictures of the first brass bands:

And here’s one of the most interesting sights I saw, Diana and Anne following along to dance moves through the years:

After the museum, we visited a rooftop bar and then freshened up and changed for dinner.

Anne had been given the action item to find the secret code to gain entry to the “Red Phone Booth” speakeasy bar.  She completed that with the concierge at the hotel with the rooftop.  So we needed to make that stop before dinner.

I think the code was a complete ruse, as there was no dialtone on the phone – suspect they just look on the camera and decide if they want to let you in.  It is clever how the backside of the phone booth opens for entry.  The place was lovely inside – lots of wood, comfy leather sofas, and a great cigar and drink selection.

Now it was finally time for the main reason for the trip.  Dinner at Bastion.

Here’s the menu for the evening:

Six courses with wine pairings – although several courses had multiple items involved – I think it was really thirteen separate dishes.  The first course was four appetizers – all great, and I think the group consensus was with the oyster.

So many things to love about this restaurant – wonderful food, creative presentation, the pride which accompanies the description of the food as the chefs deliver it, and the detailed explanations of the wonderful wine pairings.

The raw course was a delight – everyone raving about the scallops.

The pasta dish in the veggie course was Denny’s favourite.  It was an explosion of flavours in your mouth.

The salmon was beautifully cooked, with a yummy pumpkin seed sauce.

The duck might have been my favourite – perfectly cooked with another great sauce.

Dessert and the excellent wine pairing were a terrific end to a wonderful meal.

Chef was playing one of our favourite albums as we finished, and so we retired to the little bar to listen some more.

Whew – that was a busy day!

We had a relaxing, long lunch at Etch on Thursday as we killed time before our flight home.  Another very good Nashville restaurant.

Back home the magnolias are blooming nicely.  Can you see my red bird friend in the middle.  I whistle his song to him every morning.

I followed Finn to Tony’s car detail place on Saturday morning.  Tony is going to finish up protective coating that Will wants on the paint – ran out of time to finish before the car was shipped here.  We enjoyed a nice coffee in downtown Plano after drop off.

We had an early walk on Sunday morning – our later start on Saturday was a bit too hot for both of us.  After the walk I enjoyed a swim and picked up some new books from the library for my travels next week.

Some other interesting things from the week – Ollie earned his therapy dog certificate:

And my job made it into the puzzle as “data head”:

I had a good day on the puzzle yesterday, breaking five minutes, but lost to D by 5 seconds today.

My book this week was “Memphis” by Tara M. Stringfellow.  I enjoyed the last part of the jacket biography:

“Poet, former attorney, and Northwestern University MFA graduate Tara M. Stringfellow has written for…  After having lived in Okinawa, Ghana, Chicago, Cuba, Spain, Italy, and Washington, DC, she moved back home to Memphis, where she sits on her porch swing every evening with her hound, Huckleberry, listening to records and chatting with neighbors.”

Here’s a summary of the book – there’s a lot going on in every chapter, bouncing through generations and incorporating reactions to historical events like the MLK assassination and September 11th:

“Summer 1995: Ten-year-old Joan, her mother, and her younger sister flee her father’s explosive temper and seek refuge at her mother’s ancestral home in Memphis. This is not the first time violence has altered the course of the family’s trajectory. Half a century earlier, Joan’s grandfather built this majestic house in the historic Black neighborhood of Douglass—only to be lynched days after becoming the first Black detective in the city. Joan tries to settle into her new life, but family secrets cast a longer shadow than any of them expected.

As she grows up, Joan finds relief in her artwork, painting portraits of the community in Memphis. One of her subjects is their enigmatic neighbor Miss Dawn, who claims to know something about curses, and whose stories about the past help Joan see how her passion, imagination, and relentless hope are, in fact, the continuation of a long matrilineal tradition. Joan begins to understand that her mother, her mother’s mother, and the mothers before them persevered, made impossible choices, and put their dreams on hold so that her life would not have to be defined by loss and anger—that the sole instrument she needs for healing is her paintbrush.

Unfolding over seventy years through a chorus of unforgettable voices that move back and forth in time, Memphis paints an indelible portrait of inheritance, celebrating the full complexity of what we pass down, in a family and as a country: brutality and justice, faith and forgiveness, sacrifice and love.”

An example of some of the descriptive narrative, capturing Memphis and the South:

“The beginning of fall in the South was something to behold.  The summer heat – a slow moving tornado – had finally left the area.  Nights were a pleasant cool.  We could sit on the front porch unbothered because there were fewer bees, fewer birds, fewer cats even.  Magnolias in Memphis, including the big one in the backyard, had blossomed their last flowers.  The plum tree alongside the house had dropped its last fruit some time ago, but the area around the tree base was still stained indigo.  The dogwoods and maples and cherry trees lining Poplar Avenue had a slight touch of corn husk yellow as if God had placed dabs of butter on each leaf, so that when a breeze caught, the trees ignited in soft flame.  Fall in the South meant Midas came down and touched everything.  The trees seemed to be made of gold itself.  Leaves became copper coins catching in the wind.”

A key theme of the novel, is Joan’s love of art and her desire to do only that as a career.  Here she receives support from her Aunt August:

“”I can sing,” she said, exhaling a plume of cigarette smoke, then taking another puff.  “You’ve heard me before.  Don’t do it that often.  Folk pass out.  Once, years back, at your mama’s wedding, man fainted in a back pew.  Had to be carried out.  Hadn’t even noticed.  Just went on singing Aretha in a way I do doubt Aretha could do it.  But I never did anything with it.  My voice.  Not sure I wanted to, how folk went on and on whenever I let out a note.  Any well, I knew Who gave me this voice.  But I did love piano.  Wanted to play jazz.  Loved Gershwin.”

She sat smoking in silence for a few moments before she continued.

“I will help you, niece.  And I’ll work on your mama.  Win her over.  Guess I must.  Because you have a gift.  I think it’s high time somebody in this damn family with a gift use it.””

A very good read overall.

I read an old article by Chris Rose (ex-husband of Kelly) that I think sums up New Orleans and why it’s so wonderful, in a perfect way:

 

Chris Rose on New Orleans Culture: “Life-Changing, Spirit-Avenging”

I heard this at Bastion and really enjoyed the mix of jazz, rock, and funk:

Here’s a deeper cut from Elvis Costello, showcasing the wonderful piano of Steve Nieve:

Stay safe, compassionate, and kind to everyone!

Week in Review – May 8th, 2022

“Happy Mother’s Day”

We made the drive down to Austin on Monday morning so that I could attend a Board Audit Committee meeting in the afternoon.  Sounds exciting, doesn’t it?  Those meetings are just as tedious as they sound.  It was uneventful and the Board members were happy with the story we told.

Much more exciting was meeting up with Brad and Jocelyn for dinner at their house and then a Lonelyland concert at the Saxon Pub.  Those two have been busy with a very cool metal building they’ve put up in the back yard of their new house.  The plan is to finish it out (Brad doing a lot of the work), and then have Brad’s Dad move into the existing house.  All I saw was a ton of work in the Austin summer weather, with no cooling inside that metal house.  Better you than me, Brad!  The 16 foot high, cantilevered garage door was very impressive.

On to the concert.  Lonelyland is Bob Schneider and a group of fabulous local musicians.  They play a regular Monday gig at the Saxon Pub when they are in town.  It’s always a very unique shows as Schneider writes all kinds of songs – melancholy ballads, to rapping and everything in between.  His story telling is always hilarious and unpredictable – a very interesting brain, that I don’t think ever shuts off.  Here’s my favourite song from the evening, “Tumbleweed”:

I love the piano player on cello:

Another one of the slow ballads that I enjoy so much:

And finally, an example of the variety of styles, ending with a Beastie Boys song:

What a great evening.  It was nice to introduce our friends to some new music that they really enjoyed.

Board meetings continued on Tuesday.  Diana enjoyed some pool time at the hotel with Lisa (our COO’s wife that she met in Miami Beach).   The executive committee and our majority shareholder (Phil – more on him soon) enjoyed a lovely dinner at Swift’s Attic in downtown Austin.  This is an old favourite of ours – it closed after a fire and Diana and I were very excited when it reopened.  The beauty of going there with a large group is that you get to sample so many of the dishes – lamb meatballs and mushroom risotto were the standouts for me.  It was our CFO’s birthday and I got him a special mug and a “Buck Buck Moose” cookbook – he loves cooking exotic meats.

We got back to the hotel around 10pm, and Phil wasn’t ready for bed yet.  He had just flown from Australia and was on who knows what time zone.  I asked Diana to come down to the bar and help me entertain him. I’m not sure what he said to get the big D eyes.  He is often described as “eccentric” and I appreciate Diana hanging out with him for so long.  She definitely earned her girl time by the pool in the afternoon.

Wednesday was a relatively quiet day at the office, and D had a quiet day at the hotel pool.  We enjoyed an early dinner at the Odd Duck – one of our two favourite restaurants in Austin – it was awarded best restaurant in Austin in 2021.  The menu changes monthly or so, based on what’s in season, and is always so creative and unique.  The valet parking our car recommended a couple of appetizers and we tried them both – the root vegetable medley was right up my alley with delicious fresh veggies and a terrific sauce, the crawfish queso fundido was excellent.  The sourdough bread served with the queso fundido was the best we’ve had in a very long time.

I really miss having this place nearby.  And right across the street from the Saxon Pub.

We drove back to Dallas on Thursday afternoon.  Severe thunderstorms were forecast on our drive – and they weren’t lying.  For about an hour around Waco the driving was hard going – very low visibility due to torrential rain and light hail.  Everyone had their hazard flashers on and driving speeds were way down.  Things cleared up just north of Waco and we actually made it home in reasonable time – just around 4 hours of driving.

We had a nice long walk on Saturday, with a break for a coffee and snack along the way.  We ran into a “Shakespeare in the Park” festival at Adriatica – apparently an all day event with four plays performed.  There were lots of booths set up, including a petting zoo with a llama.  Such an entertaining animal.  It took Diana way back to the Dr. Doolittle move with the two headed “push me pull me” llama.

 

The New Orleans crew were teasing us with reports and pictures from Jazzfest.  It’s the first time in ages that we haven’t attended.  That’s Derek Huston on the large saxophone.

I tried a new recipe on Saturday night.  Our CFO had given me some homemade Thai green curry paste a while ago, and I used that to make a Thai chicken curry for dinner.  Thanks to D for shopping for all the unusual ingredients.  I think it turned out really well – my first experiment with cooking in a wok.

I’ve been enjoying a couple of new games to supplement my crosswords in the mornings.  Wordle is a word guessing game.  You get 6 attempts to guess the word of the day.  It typically takes me 3 guesses if I’m lucky, and 4 or 5 if not.  A good game of logic and language.  Here are the Saturday and Sunday attempts:

My other new game is Heardle.  Similar concept – you get 6 tries to guess a song and artist by hearing 1 second of the song at a time.  I’ve found that I either know it immediately or don’t.

Sunday featured another long walk – and it’s starting to get pretty hot.  We’re going to have to venture out earlier in the day.  It’s currently 93 degrees and Diana is enjoying her first dip in the pool this year.

After our walk, we picked up Finn and drove to downtown McKinney for Mother’s Day brunch at C.T. Provisions.  We all chose the voodoo shrimp Benedict.  I always feel like I should choose something else on the menu, but it’s just so good – a perfect brunch item.  Finn even brought a pretty card for Diana.

We tried to get Diana her preferred dessert after C.T.’s – a chocolate dipped cone at Dairy Queen.  The line was way too long, so we dropped Finn off and then tried Sonic – nothing on the menu there that worked.  Third time’s a charm – a waffle cone from Braum’s.

No books this week.  I did read a small amount of Obama’s “Promised Land” – not any more than 50 pages though.  Too busy.

I enjoyed this new video from Shamarr Allen and the Underdawgs, featuring New Orleans marching krewes and high school bands:

I discovered a new band this week on Austin City Limits.  The War and Treaty have a great sound:

Stay safe, compassionate and kind!

Week in Review – May 1, 2022

“Argus turns 50”

I got my D back on Tuesday – picked her up at the airport just before 9pm on Tuesday.  She seemed happy with my house cleaning and her welcome home flowers.

We caught up on several weeks of “This is Us” episodes with popcorn on Wednesday night.  We’re going to miss this show – I think there are only four episodes left in the final season.  I can sense that eye-roll Brent!

Finn came over for dinner on Thursday.  He was in good spirits as he told us about his work as acting produce manager – he submitted the order for all the produce to be delivered, taking into account what was on special in the mail flyers.  I hope he didn’t order too much or too little of anything – but he seemed confident.  We enjoyed the regular ready made dishes that Finn likes from Market Street – salmon, parmesan crusted chicken, stuffed mushrooms and green beans.  Diana put together a belated Easter bag for him and we made sure he didn’t eat it all before he left – such a sweet tooth.

We signed up for memberships at the local fitness center, Apex on Friday afternoon.  It’s just around the corner and has a very large pool, as well as indoor running track and machines.  I took advantage of this on Sunday morning with my first swim in many months.  I’m sure I’ll be a bit achy in my shoulders tomorrow.

On a long walk earlier in the week, I saw Wishbone Ash advertised on the sign at the Guitar Sanctuary in Adriatica.  This is a band that I first enjoyed in University, 40 years ago.  I still play their Argus album on a regular basis.  Could they really be playing within walking distance of our home?  Some research indicated they were indeed – on Friday, and tickets were still available.  Done!

We walked to the concert, and enjoyed chatting with the folks in line – the majority of whom had seen the band many times – they have a very loyal following.  The couple next to us were from Motherwell, Scotland and have lived in Austin for 30 years – it was nice to hear a Scottish accent in McKinney.   Bo and Jim from the local radio morning show introduced the band.  It’s been a while since I heard radio personalities introducing a band – used to happen pretty regularly.  Those two have been doing the same morning show, with all the crazy characters, since before I moved to Dallas in 1986.

Andy Powell and the band served up a treat – the first part of the show was Argus from start to finish, a celebration of the album turning fifty years old the day before.  Here are my three favourites:

What a great evening of twin lead guitars and nostalgia.  Thanks to Diana for putting up with the guitar noodling and music that she didn’t know at all.  It was so nice to have a quick walk home rather than a long drive home from downtown Dallas.

Rachel joined us for dinner on Saturday night and regaled us with stories of her work and dating lives.

At some point during the week, Clorinda made a visit to Costco and got to drive a buggy around, chasing Caroline down.  She really loves these outings:

I just left Diana outside, watching Season 1, Episode 5 of “Somebody Feed Phil” on Netflix – an excellent tour of New Orleans restaurants.  She’s going to be ready to go back again when she finishes the episode, featuring Shaya several times.

I enjoyed three relatively short books this week.

The first was “Pops” be Michael Chabon, one of my very favourite authors.  This is a collection of short stories, published in various magazines, and all on the topic of raising his children.  I thoroughly enjoyed this quick read.

 

 

I enjoyed the introductory quote:

“I’ve been there and back

And I know how far it is”

Ronnie Lane

From “Introduction: The Opposite of Writing”:

“At a literary party the summer before my first novel was published, I found myself alone with a writer I admired, on the deck of our hosts’ house along the Truckee River.  People came and went with blue Mexican wineglasses and bottles of beer, but I sensed that, for whatever reason, I had the man’s attention.

“I’m going to give you some advice,” he told me, a warning edge in his voice.

I said I would appreciate that.  I was curious to hear what he had to say, not because I felt in need of advice but as a clue to the mystery of the great man himself.  He presented a smooth surface without chinks or toeholds, the studied amiability of someone unaccustomed to giving himself away.  Advice might be the only clue I was going to get.

The great man said that his advice was going to be painful – or maybe that was just his tone – but he knew what he was talking about, and if I wanted to make a go of it as a novelist, I would do well to pay attention.  The guy was nearly twice my age, but he was not old.  He was young enough, for example, to wear black Chuck Taylors.  He was young enough to smile ironically at himself, laying the Polonius routine on some raw hurler of metaphors our of UC Irvine.

“Don’t have children,” he said.  “That’s it.  Do not.”  The smile faded, but its ghost lingered a moment in his blue eyes.  “That is the whole of the law.”

From “Little Man”:

In a story about accompanying his son to Paris fashion week (in a bout of synchronicity – I was listening to Rush while reading this – D doesn’t care for them, and I overdose on the complex, progressive time changes and the like while I’m alone):

“It takes a profound love of clothes, and some fairly decent luck, to stumble on somebody who wants to converse about cutting-edge men’s fashion at a Rush concert, and yet a year before his trip to Paris, in the aftermath of the Canadian band’s last show at Madison Square Garden, Abe had managed to stumble on John Varvatos.”

From “Be Cool or be Cast Out”:

“In seventh grade, at Hanukkah, my son asked for, and received a peacoat.  It was a classic number, navy blue, double-breasted wool, great big plastic buttons stamped – oh, the coolness! – with little anchors.  We got it from an online army-navy store.  It had a quilted lining, and when he wore it on a gray East Bay afternoon, with an extra-long scarf striped in muted colors wrapped around his neck, and his hair cut in a late-’65, early -’66 Small Faces shag, he looked terrific.  Stylish and lanky and handsome; and warm.  over Christmas break he wore it constantly, and to everything he said and did, with that scarf blowing out behind him, there was a whiff of oracular Blonde on Blonde cool.  He did not so much walk around in it as lope.”

My second read was “Let me tell you what I mean” by Joan Didion, another big favourite of mine.  This is a collection of twelve essays from 1968 to 2000, that showcase her unique reporting style.

From “A Trip to Xanadu”, reminding me of visiting with Mum and Dad years ago:

“It has been for almost half a century a peculiar and affecting image in the California mind.  San Simeon, “La Cuesta Encantada,” the phantasmagoric barony that William Randolph Hearst made for himself on the sunburned hills above the San Luis Obispo County coast.  California children used to hear about San Simeon when they were very small (I know because I was one of them), used to be told to watch for it from Highway 1, quite far in the distance, crested on the hill, the great Moorish towers and battlements shimmering in the sun or floating fantastically just above the coastal fog; San Simeon was a place which, once seen from the highway, was ever in the mind, a material fact which existed in proof of certain abstract principles.”

From “On Being Unchosen by the College of One’s Choice”:

“The Committee on Admissions asks me to inform you that it is unable to take favorable action upon your application for admission to Stanford University.  While you have met the minimum requirements, we regret that because of the severity of the competition, the Committee cannot include you in the group to be admitted.  The Committee joins me in extending you every good wish for the successful continuation of your education.  Sincerely yours, Rixford K. Snyder, Director of Admissions.”

I wonder how Rixford feels about that decision in the years after.  Here Didion gets her own back:

“The next year a friend at Stanford asked me to write him a paper on Conrad’s “Nostromo”, and I did, and he got an A on it.  I got a B- on the same paper at Berkeley, and the specter of Rixford K. Snyder was exorcised.”

From “Pretty Nancy”, the essay that I enjoyed most, for its somewhat scathing and sarcastic portrait of the former First Lady:

“Pretty Nancy Reagan, the wife of the governor of California, was standing in the dining room of her rented house on Forty-fifth Street in Sacramento listening to a television newsman explain what he wanted to do.  She was listening attentively.  Nancy Reagan is a very attentive listener.”

And my last book is quite a bit different.  “Whereabouts” by Jhumpa Lahiri was originally written in Italian and translated to English by the author.  Here’s an online summary:

“Exuberance and dread, attachment and estrangement: in this novel, Jhumpa Lahiri stretches her themes to the limit. In the arc of one year, an unnamed narrator in an unnamed city, in the middle of her life’s journey, realizes that she’s lost her way. The city she calls home acts as a companion and interlocutor: traversing the streets around her house, and in parks, piazzas, museums, stores, and coffee bars, she feels less alone.

We follow her to the pool she frequents, and to the train station that leads to her mother, who is mired in her own solitude after her husband’s untimely death. Among those who appear on this woman’s path are colleagues with whom she feels ill at ease, casual acquaintances, and “him,” a shadow who both consoles and unsettles her. Until one day at the sea, both overwhelmed and replenished by the sun’s vital heat, her perspective will abruptly change.”

In a typically grumpy mood, from the chapter “In Spring”:

“In spring I suffer.  The season doesn’t invigorate me.  I find it depleting.  The new light disorients, the fulminating nature overwhelms, and the air, dense with pollen, bothers my eyes.  to calm my allergies I take a pill in the morning that makes me sleep.  It knocks me out.  I can’t focus, and by lunchtime I’m tired enough to go to bed.  I sweat all day and at night I’m freezing.  No shoe seems right for this temperamental time of year.”

From the chapter “On the Couch”:

“She was an attractive woman with dary eyes and a space between her front teeth.  Behind a set of doors was he life she led with the rest of her family:  the pantry full of food, dirty dishes to wash, the laundry drying on the rack.  All I knew was the space dedicated to curing her patients: an individual sanatorium that hosted one anguished soul at a time.  

She always started by saying the same thing: Please begin.  As if each session were the first and only time we met.  Every session was like the start of a novel abandoned after the first chapter.”

And finally, from “In the Pool”:

” I swim for about forty minutes, maybe fifty, before I get tired.  I’m not a strong swimmer, I can’t do a flip turn, I never learned how.  The idea of being on my back underwater scares me a little.  I typically do the crawl, with a weak but decent stroke.

In the pool I lose myself.  My thoughts merge and flow.”

I loved this article about the Preservation Hall Jazz Band from New Orleans that I came across in Relix magazine, “Preservation Hall @ 60, Culture is a Verb.”

https://relix.com/articles/detail/preservation-hall-at-60-culture-is-a-verb/

Keeping with the New Orleans theme, there’s a new Trombone Shorty album out (I’m awaiting delivery from Tipitina’s record club) and here’s the title track:

We hadn’t heard this song from an episode of “This is Us” that we watched.  Turns out it’s an original composed by Mandy Moore’s husband, singer in the band Dawes:

Lastly, a great outtake from Bob Dylan’s Infidels recordings – featuring the world’s best rhythm section (Sly and Robbie) and Mark Knopfler on guitar:

Stay safe, kind and patient!

Fortnight in Review – April 24th, 2022

“Happy Easter”

Diana flew to San Francisco for Easter on Monday, and I joined on Thursday afternoon.  Julie celebrated her 50th birthday a few days earlier, and I was put to work on Clorinda’s “labor of love” – rolling up 50 dollar bills and bow tying them on to a necklace.  What a finnicky project.  It did look good when completed.

The weather was mostly very nice, and we were able to get out for some walks on Gypsy Hill.  Somebody has entirely too much energy on those walks:

 

 

Clorinda and I got to enjoy the sun on the deck, and enjoy the view for a while in the afternoon.

John and Maddie’s 5 year old son, Ben, was out showcasing his amazing swing on the golf course – he might be even better at golf than he is at baseball.  College scouts pay attention!

Andy and Jude (best neighbours ever) came over on Friday afternoon.  It’s always so much fun to hang out with them.  Alicia and her friend Yenni put together an impressive appetizer display – particularly Yenni’s fruit arrangement.

Easter Sunday dinner was quite the feast – lobsters from Adamo’s recent diving expedition, and our gorgonzola lamb chop lollipops – been way too long since we made those.

 

 

 

And Julie got to wear the “labor of love” necklace.

Diana and Alicia posed for some pictures – D looking like a teenager with Alicia’s funny hat.

Caroline recommended a “new” walk for us – along the levee by Sharp Park golf course.  Diana had never been there in all her Pacifica years.  This was a pleasant, well maintained trail by the beach and up into the hills.

I flew back to Dallas on Tuesday – the first day of masks not being required for air travel.  It was interesting to observe about 70% of folks with masks in San Francisco airport and maybe 10% at best in Dallas.

I enjoyed a long walk to Duino for coffee on Thursday afternoon.  Ended up being more than 6 miles – a bit more than I had bargained on.

I dropped the VW Atlas off at Discount Tire to get the wheels balanced on Thursday, and Finn picked me up there and took me to lunch at Mexican Cactus – those tacos are so good.  The tire guys called me at lunch to say they couldn’t find the wheel nut locking adapter anywhere.  Nothing’s easy.  I ended up having to pick up a new one at the dealership – must not have replaced it when they powder coated the wheel rims.  The wheels did get balanced ultimately on Friday, and I found an interesting sub-woofer mounted on top of the spare tire when replacing the tool.  I had no idea it was in there.

Diana and Alicia spent Saturday down in San Jose and McD enjoyed one of her staples – steak tartare at the Left Bank at Santana Row.

My first book was “Whiteout” by Ken Follett.  I don’t remember reading Follett before, other than the “On Wings of Eagles” EDS Iran hostage rescue story, and really enjoyed this tale.  Set in a castle in northern Scotland that has been converted into a medical research facility, the story revolves around a plot to steal a deadly virus from the lab during a blizzard.

There is a lot of family drama involved as the owner of the laboratory gathers with this extended family to celebrate Christmas.  I’ll have to try some other Follett books.

My next book was “Mother, May I” by Joshilyn Jackson.  Here’s the online summary:

“Growing up poor in rural Georgia, Bree Cabbat’s single mother warned her that the world was a dark and scary place. Bree rejected her mother’s fearful outlook, and life has proved her right. Marrying into a family with wealth, power, and connections, Bree has all a woman could ever dream: a loving lawyer husband, two talented young teenage daughters, a new baby boy, a gorgeous home, and every opportunity in the world – until the day Bree awakens and sees a witch peering into her bedroom window, an old gray-haired woman all dressed in black who vanishes as quickly as she appears.”

The witch ends up being the mother of a woman who was badly wronged by Bree’s lawyer husband many years ago.  As she is terminal with cancer, she decides to exact revenge by kidnapping their baby.  A decent, quick read, but nothing to rave about.

I enjoy reading the “5 Albums I Can’t Live Without” article in Spin magazine – similar to Desert Island Disks.  This week included a rave about this album by Larry Goldings – hadn’t ever heard his music, but really like this stuff.  The organ creeping in part way through is excellent:

Spotify took me on a trip through similar music as I enjoyed some quiet reading time.  This was a highlight of the mix – Mehldau is so creative with such an excellent touch on the piano:

And finally, a classic I heard on the soundtrack to an HBO series that I was watching last night:

Stay safe, patient and kind to everyone!

 

Week in Review – April 10, 2022

“Two Majestic Nights”

After our two misfires on getting our fourth booster shot, Diana called Walgreens on Monday to see if they had anyone available to give us shots.  “Come on in and we’ll get you taken care of right away,” said the pharmacist.  We did – and are now fully boosted again – quick and easy.  After that I took care of several catch up activities from being gone for two months – a haircut at the Boardroom, and car registration and wash.

I enjoyed the NCAA “March Madness” final game on Monday night – that was until the tornado sirens started going off.  No tornados, but we did have some very heavy rain, with flooding in McKinney making the national news.

Diana had a sore arm and shoulder, and was very tired from the shot on Tuesday.  Fortunately I didn’t have any side effects this time around.  I cheered her up with a couple of episodes of the new series of Bridgerton on Netflix.  She did make it out to get her hair coloured and cut after two months.

Bryce, the piano tuner, made his annual visit on Wednesday and that was pretty much the highlight for the day.  I was busy consuming all my potions to prepare for my colonoscopy screening on Thursday.  Nothing to eat all day made me hungry and grumpy by the time evening came.

The colonoscopy was quick and easy on Thursday morning.  I did not appreciate having to awaken at 2:30am to take the last of the options.  D was surprised when I didn’t want to go for tacos when she picked me up after the procedure.  I was tired and didn’t feel hungry – just wanted to go home and relax.

Kenny and Kara drove to Dallas from New Orleans early on Friday morning.  They had invited us to join them for the Lyle Lovett concert on Friday and Saturday evenings.  The concerts this weekend were celebrating the 100th anniversary of the gorgeous Majestic theater in downtown Dallas.  This wonderful Renaissance revival style concert venue is located amongst all the modern high rise buildings.

I enjoyed seeing Thanksgiving Tower nearby – this is where I worked when I first started with EDS in 1989.  That was back in the days when I had to wear a dark suit, white shirt, tie, and wingtip shoes to work every day.  Things have changed so much in the almost 35 years since those days.

 

 

We checked into the Indigo hotel, a few hundred yards from the Majestic, and met up with Kenny and Kara.  I suggested walking over to Deep Ellum, a funky neighbourhood of bars, restaurants, and shops just on the other side of Interstate 75.  We walked over and enjoyed a drink on the lovely patio at the Twilite lounge, and a light dinner at Postino.  I highly recommend Postino for a quick and tasty bite in the Deep Ellum area.

We walked back to the Majestic to watch Hayes Carll open the Friday night show for Lyle Lovett.  He came on right on the nose of 7:30pm and gave us an excellent opening set – all quiet and thoughtful songs – none of the usual rockers that we are used to from his livestream shows.  Here’s my favourite – “Beaumont”:

Lyle Lovett and band followed that up with an excellent two and a half hour set.  Here’s a write up on the band members:

Viktor Krauss had to attend a funeral and so a substitute bass player was arranged at the last minute – Lovett mentioning that he had just met him that morning – he did an excellent job.  The other band members were equally exceptional – I loved Josh Swift on the Dobro.  Here are some samples from the first night:

I think that last one, North Dakota, was my favourite of the evening.  A close second was this cover of Guy Clark’s “LA Freeway” with Hayes Carll joining in:

We’re not used to being out and about after 11pm, and so were quickly asleep after the short walk to the hotel.

I was looking for a nice cup of coffee on Saturday morning, and found this great place a short walk from the hotel.  I chuckled at the Tucan card I was given so that they could find me with my coffee.  The shop is designed to feel like a tropical rainforest – very unique.

Kara and Kenny joined us for brunch at the Standard Pour on McKinney Avenue – what a great spot to relax on the patio and enjoy some good conversation.  Here are Kara and Diana posing by the Margaret Hunt bridge mural on the wall of the restaurant.

From the Standard Pour, I drove over to the Wild Detectives book store in the Bishop Arts district of Oak Cliff.  We perused the books and enjoyed a drink on the back patio – it was such a lovely day.  We walked down Bishop Street after that, browsing through some stores before happening upon the Revelers Hall Band playing at their namesake bar.  What a nice langiappe:

That’s as close as we come to New Orleans in Dallas.  After a coffee, we drove back over to Deep Ellum to check out some stores that the group had liked the day before.  Nothing much doing and a lot busier on Saturday afternoon, so we drove to the Velvet Taco for a snack prior to the second night of Lyle Lovett.

We arrived early to check out the 100th anniversary exhibit.  The most interesting thing I read was that the owner of the theater contributed $5 million to help Walt Disney get started, when nobody else would give him any funding.

We were seated on the Mezzanine this night, rather than the orchestra section from Friday night.  This gave even better views of the beauty of  the theater, and I think provided for better sound.  The sound on both nights was amazingly pristine, with every instrument and voice heard perfectly.

The Old 97s, a famous local Dallas rock band, opened on Saturday.  In contrast to Hayes Carll, they did not quieten down their set much – full on rock ‘n roll.  Kara is a big fan of the lead singer, Rhett Miller, and was happy to see him hamming it up.  She had a big smile on her face during the entire set.

The Lyle Lovett set was pretty much the same as the previous evening, and I enjoyed it even more, able to really focus in on the instrumental pieces that I had enjoyed the night before.  The quality of the band really can’t be over-stated.  Rhett Miller joined the band to sing a cover of “Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head.”  Made me think of Mum in Rothesay, dancing down the street and singing that song.  Apparently a Dallas local, B.J. Thomas, recorded the song in 1969 for the movie “Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid”.  That version reached number 1 in 1970 and he performed it at the Academy Awards.

Miller joined the band again for the final encore, a Townes Van Zandt cover:

We met Kenny and Kara for coffee on Sunday morning, and then drove back home via Taco Deli.  I tried their migas royale platter – so yummy, and I still have some in the fridge for later.

I’m enjoying watching the final round of the Masters golf tournament while finishing up this post.  Scheffler is still in the lead by 4 shots, with Smith and McIlroy trying to catch him.

I loved my book this week – “The Storyteller” by Dave Grohl.  He was the drummer with Nirvana when they changed music forever with the “Nevermind” album, and then went on to found the Foo Fighters band.  This a wonderful collection of varied stories from Grohl’s youth discovering music, almost to the present day.  It’s sad to hear him write about the depth of his friendship with Taylor Hawkins, the Foo Fighters drummer who passed away in the last few weeks, causing them to cancel their tour, including a New Orleans jazzfest appearance.

How Grohl’s Mom encouraged his early love of music:

“A tiny old club on Pennsylvania Avenue just outside of Georgetown, One Step Down not only was a hotspot for established touring acts but also hosted a jazz workshop every weekend where the house band (led by DC jazz legend Lawrence Wheatley) would perform a few sets to the dark, crowded room and then invite up-and-coming musicians up to jam with them onstage.  When I was a teenager in the eighties, those workshops became a Sunday ritual for my mother and me.  We would sit at a small table ordering drinks and appetizers while watching these musical masters play for hours, reeling in the gorgeous, improvisational freedom of traditional jazz.”

On getting the call to join Nirvana:

“And then I read the five words that changed my life forever: “Have You Ever Heard of Nirvana?”

On a phone call with an old friend who had grown up with the guys from Nirvana in the tiny town of Aberdeen, Washington, I was informed that they were in between drummers at the time and had seen Scream perform just weeks before on our ill-fated tour.  Apparently, they were impressed with my playing, and I was given their phone numbers to call.”

“I packed up my duffel bag, my sleeping bag, and my drum set into a cardboard moving box and headed up to Seattle, a town I had only visited once and where I knew virtually no one, leaving one life behind to start another one.  I felt a loss that I had never experienced before.  I missed my home.  I missed my friends.  I missed my family.  I was now truly on my own, back to square  one, starting over.”

Writing about a particularly rowdy show as Nirvana was just blowing up in popularity.  Trees nightclub is directly opposite the Twilite lounge that we visited on Friday afternoon, and there was a tour bus parked in front:

“Welcome to the fall of 1991.

Trees nightclub in the Deep Ellum district of downtown Dallas, Texas, was just another stop on the North American leg of our “Nevermind” tour, which boasted a streamlined itinerary of thirty exhausting shows in a short forty days.  With a max capacity of around six hundred people, this relatively new club was similar to most of the other venues that were booked for that tour: cramped, a low stage, limited PA and lights, and a small dressing room in the back to prepare for (and recover from) another cathartic performance.”

On the genesis of the band name, “Foo Fighters”:

“In a chapter about unidentified craft over Europe and the Pacific during World War II, I found a term that the military used as a nickname for these unexplained glowing balls of light and thought it was just mysterious enough for me.  Not only did it sound like a group of people, it almost sounded like a gang:  Foo Fighters.”

One of my favourite stories – about a dinner after the Grammy awards:

“We reserved a table at a restaurant called Faith and Flower just a few blocks from the venue and planned to meet for dinner and drinks away from the hubbub after the show.  Paul McCartney was in town as well and inquired what we were planning on doing afterward, so we gladly invited him and his wife Nancy along, adding two more chairs to our growing table.  Take it from me, any night with Paul is a good night, so this was shaping up to be an epic evening.  Apparently, Paul bumped into AC/DC at the hotel, and when asked what was going on afterward, he said he was having dinner with us, with led to my life’s most surreal test.

Pause.  Reflect.

A few days before the show, I received another text, from my good friend Ben Jaffe of New Orleans’s legendary Preservation Hall Jazz Band, notifying me that he was also in town form the Grammys and looking for a party.

While filming our documentary series “Sonic Highways” in 2014, Foo Fighters had the honor of spending a week filming in Preservation Hall itself, a tavern that dates back to 1803.  We all became fast friends.  By the end of that week, I had decided that New Orleans is an American treasure, and that we all indeed need to preserve its rich culture steeped in European, Caribbean, and Cajun history.  There is nowhere on earth filled with the pure magic that New Orleans has to offer.  It is, without doubt, my favorite city in the world.

“Dude…we’re having dinner with Paul McCartney AND AC/DC!” I exclaimed to Ben.  “You wanna come along?”  I knew Ben would most definitely appreciate the enormity of such an incredible chance encounter.  “Can I bring all the guys with me?”  he asked.  I paused and did the math.  The band consisted of seven musicians, which realistically meant at least ten more people.  “Uh, let me check,” afraid that the restaurant would decline our request for another ten chairs.  But then Ben sealed the deal:

“How about we all come marching down the street playing in a second line, into the restaurant, straight to the table, and perform a set for you right there?”

There was absolutely no refusing this incredibly generous offer.”

I loved this book and highly recommend it to any music fans.

Here’s the original studio version of “North Dakota”, my favourite from the shows this weekend.  The performances and production on this are just excellent:

Something from the Old 97s:

And my favourite from the Old 97s set:

Finally, a great Foo Fighters song from the Sonic Highways album:

Stay safe, patient and kind with everyone!