“Surgery and Celebration Week”
This week started with Diana’s dental surgery – tooth extraction and bone graft. She elected not to have general anesthesia, and rather have a “magic pill” at the dentist’s office to calm her down and make her very sleepy. She claimed she wasn’t really getting sleepy – I think the pictures indicate otherwise:

Everything went well according to Dr. Johnson – he reported that he met Diana’s two instructions to him: 1. no pain; 2. do a great job. I was a bit concerned right when we arrived home, as the pain was very high, but things settled down in a few hours. The rinsing, dabbing and pain pills all week are really getting annoying for McD.
I was next up on Thursday, with dupuytrens surgery Act II. I had my pinky nodule removed last year, and now it was time for ring and middle nodules to exit. A lot of work for a couple of little bumps – but they do start to hurt annoyingly after a few months.

I’m usually in a happy and entertaining state when coming out of anesthesia. Not so much this time – too much time waiting without anything to eat or drink, and too much time to review the ridiculous cost of short surgeries. Diana was glad to get me out of there before I really irritated the nurses. Time for some Taco Bell comfort food.
We celebrated Finn’s 29th birthday on Friday – pushing our anniversary celebration to Saturday. The fun started with the “Lightyear” movie at the luxurious iPic theater. This is a prequel to “Toy Story” – showing the story that was behind the Buzz Lightyear “Infiniti and Beyond” toy. The film was action packed and entertaining. Diana commented that it was “one calamity after another.”
After all that excitement, we returned home so that Finn could open presents – he had a great time opening Pokemon figurines from Campbell, custom made San Francisco Giants barstools from us, cards, gift cards, and then a delicious lemon cake and ice cream that Diana arranged for him. So nice to see him so healthy and happy.



The theme for a fifth anniversary is wood. Diana likes to play Connect 4, and so I couldn’t resist this custom wooden version.

I also found an Etsy company that makes wooden boards with song lyrics – had to get our wedding song:

Diana surprised me with a glass koala (D) and penguin (K) that she had made by a guy in New Orleans, who was part of an artist co-op downstairs from our condo. I really love these little guys.

Our anniversary dinner was at Rick’s Chophouse in downtown McKinney. A lovely setting that we’ve enjoyed many times in the past, but this time the service was spotty and slow. We made the best of it and tried not to complain too much. Desserts and my shrimp ‘n grits were both delicious.


Pest control came out to kill off our latest round of hornets, but a few stragglers remained. I tried to take care of them so that D could fully enjoy her sunbathing spot, without unwanted company. They really do look mean.
It was nice to get our surgeries behind us and to celebrate birthday and anniversary.

My book this week was “Between Two Kingdoms” by Suleika Jaouad. I really enjoyed this book, which follows Jaouad’s multiple year battle with leukemia and her path to recovery. I have a bunch of dog-eared pages that I wanted to share, but it’s too hard for me to type with this annoying bandage on my right hand- keeps activating the Ctrl key with all kinds of silly results. So, I’ll just share this online summary that it was easy to copy and paste – the Ctrl-C and Ctrl-V responding well.
“In the summer after graduating from college, Suleika Jaouad was preparing, as they say in commencement speeches, to enter “the real world.” She had fallen in love and moved to Paris to pursue her dream of becoming a war correspondent. The real world she found, however, would take her into a very different kind of conflict zone.
It started with an itch—first on her feet, then up her legs, like a thousand invisible mosquito bites. Next came the exhaustion, and the six-hour naps that only deepened her fatigue. Then a trip to the doctor and, a few weeks shy of her twenty-third birthday, a diagnosis: leukemia, with a 35 percent chance of survival. Just like that, the life she had imagined for herself had gone up in flames. By the time Jaouad flew home to New York, she had lost her job, her apartment, and her independence. She would spend much of the next four years in a hospital bed, fighting for her life and chronicling the saga in a column for The New York Times.
When Jaouad finally walked out of the cancer ward—after countless rounds of chemo, a clinical trial, and a bone marrow transplant—she was, according to the doctors, cured. But as she would soon learn, a cure is not where the work of healing ends; it’s where it begins. She had spent the past 1,500 days in desperate pursuit of one goal—to survive. And now that she’d done so, she realized that she had no idea how to live.
How would she reenter the world and live again? How could she reclaim what had been lost? Jaouad embarked—with her new best friend, Oscar, a scruffy terrier mutt—on a 100-day, 15,000-mile road trip across the country. She set out to meet some of the strangers who had written to her during her years in the hospital: a teenage girl in Florida also recovering from cancer; a teacher in California grieving the death of her son; a death-row inmate in Texas who’d spent his own years confined to a room. What she learned on this trip is that the divide between sick and well is porous, that the vast majority of us will travel back and forth between these realms throughout our lives. Between Two Kingdoms is a profound chronicle of survivorship and a fierce, tender, and inspiring exploration of what it means to begin again.”
I thoroughly recommend this book – not exactly an uplifting tale, but such an honest and insightful survival story.

Here’s an interesting Dylan cover that I’ve enjoyed several times this week:
Some lovely, laid back Anders:
And finally a new band that I heard this week and like a lot:
Stay safe, kind and compassionate to everyone!
spent some time in the office and then picked up Diana at the airport – she was delayed by about an hour as they had to “reboot” one of the airplane engines prior to leaving Phoenix. That gave me an opportunity to experience the “cell phone waiting lot” at Austin airport. Quite fancy with a Whataburger and a flight arrival information screen.
I hosted a Happy Hour at The Tavern for all IT folks in the Austin area, and a few folks who were visiting. This was a lovely evening with good food, drinks and company – all at a reasonable price. Diana had a chance to do a detailed interview of Pepe, my new leader for Latin American IT – she was very impressed. The only downer was when one attendee discovered that her car had been broken into, and her laptop stolen. Never leave bags visible in the back seat!
I was entertained by the scooter and one-wheel gang that drove by The Tavern – Will is on the waiting list for a new one-wheel. Don’t think I’ll ever have the balance for one of those.
I picked up Diana at the hotel for Thursday lunch with Pepe and me at Salt Traders. We had a very nice seafood lunch – Diana enjoying some tuna tartare. After lunch, Diana took Pepe over to Walmart so that he could pick up some things that are much less expensive in the U.S. Diana and I both agree that Pepe is a great addition to my team.


Speaking of yummy food – I noticed that our office vending machine now carries the highly addictive Zappos Voodoo chips from New Orleans. I was proud of myself for being able to resist the temptation.

Santos came over on Saturday to trim up the trees – particularly the one in our neighbor’s yard that had the broken branch. We finally got rid of all the branches hanging over our pool. He also trimmed back the massive oak tree in the front significantly – no trees touching the house now. It was interesting to watch the technique used to make the branches fall into the gap between the magnolias, and then control their descent.


I enjoyed my book this week much better than the one from last week. “The Guide”, by Peter Heller was a quick and exciting read. The fly fishing descriptions were wonderful, and the plot fast paced and engaging. I did find the conclusion a bit gruesome and disturbing – but not beyond the imagination.





I was home at 5pm, not too much later than on my originally planned flight, just with a much earlier start. Whew – early to bed. I did notice this large, broken tree limb hanging in our yard before bed. The storm that caused our flight cancellation must have been a pretty good one. The upside is that branch needed to come down anyway as it was over the pool and spoiling the sun bathing area.






My book this week was “French Braid” by Anne Tyler. If you are a regular reader, you know how much I admire Tyler’s ability to capture the day to day normality of families, with great characters.




Another one of her gifts was an excellent book – “Booze and Vinyl.” A selection of great albums from the last four decades with suggested cocktail pairings and snacks. This is a wonderful book – the authors clearly love vinyl records and cocktails very much. There’s not a bad album in here and the pairings make a lot of sense. Maybe we’ll work our way through this, one album per week, when we’re both retired.



Have you watched any of “Somebody Feed Phil” on Netflix? I stumbled upon it recently (thanks Vince) and am really enjoying Phil Rosenthal’s exploits as he travels to a new city in each episode. Rosenthal was the creator of “Everybody Loves Raymond”, and you can certainly see the sense of humour that was so successful there coming through in this show. Highly recommended.

My book this week was “Every Good Boy Does Fine (A Love Story, in Music Lessons)” by Jeremy Denk. This is one of my favourite reads in a while. Fair warning though – I’m not sure it would be particularly enjoyable to someone who doesn’t enjoy classical music and hasn’t struggled with the piano at some point in their life.
fun as I dealt with some employee issues, but I did enjoy a couple of nice dinners. Argentinian steakhouse with Francisco on Monday, and then a great Italian place, Il Duomo, with Manuel and Juan Pablo on Tuesday. I was surprised to find a solid selection of French wines and steak tartare (prepared tableside) on the menu.



When I returned home, Diana had been busy preparing for my “birthday week.” Tulips, a card, drinks, and lots of my favourites in the fridge. Thanks, my D!



The weather wasn’t good on Saturday afternoon, so no pool time for McD. I suggested she try a jigsaw puzzle. She can’t stop after she starts – straight back to it when she got up this morning. It’s a puzzle of “Where the Crawdads Sing” – just the right degree of difficulty so that she wasn’t at it for several days.







My book this week was “The Candy House” by Jennifer Egan. The story includes several of the characters from her Pulitzer Prize winning “A Visit from the Goon Squad”, a book that I really enjoyed. The first few chapters were engaging and funny and had me looking forward to the rest of the book. But things went downhill for me – too many characters that it seemed were supposed to be related, but I couldn’t keep up with the connections. Then changing into different formats – a chapter of email/twitter exchanges that didn’t work for me at all. The concept of being able to store the history of one’s consciousness is quite interesting though. Overall an enjoyable read, just didn’t live up to my expectations.
The latest car wash in the Ogan empire opened Monday in Gentilly. Then Denny and Anne flew to Nashville to celebrate. They had been concerned that city approvals were going to cause delays and impact our trip. Here’s a local councilman reading a grand opening proclamation.
Hotels were exorbitantly expensive this week, and so I booked a “Nashville Riverfront Loft”. This worked out very well, with lots of extra space and a great location – half a block of Broadway.
The Ogans were busy on Tuesday night with carwash stuff, and so Diana and I had dinner at an old favourite – the Butcher and Bee in East Nashville. The whipped feta with honey is so delicious. Not sure if Diana thought her champagne was more delicious? We couldn’t resist the strawberry pavlova – a pretty faithful rendition with a creative twist.
After dinner, the carwash festivities were still underway at the Wild Horse Saloon (conveniently right next to our loft), and so we joined Denny and Anne for some shuffleboard games and were able to meet the carwash partners.
































My book this week was “Memphis” by Tara M. Stringfellow. I enjoyed the last part of the jacket biography:
excited when it reopened. The beauty of going there with a large group is that you get to sample so many of the dishes – lamb meatballs and mushroom risotto were the standouts for me. It was our CFO’s birthday and I got him a special mug and a “Buck Buck Moose” cookbook – he loves cooking exotic meats.


We had a nice long walk on Saturday, with a break for a coffee and snack along the way. We ran into a “Shakespeare in the Park” festival at Adriatica – apparently an all day event with four plays performed. There were lots of booths set up, including a petting zoo with a llama. Such an entertaining animal. It took Diana way back to the Dr. Doolittle move with the two headed “push me pull me” llama.

I tried a new recipe on Saturday night. Our CFO had given me some homemade Thai green curry paste a while ago, and I used that to make a Thai chicken curry for dinner. Thanks to D for shopping for all the unusual ingredients. I think it turned out really well – my first experiment with cooking in a wok.


We tried to get Diana her preferred dessert after C.T.’s – a chocolate dipped cone at Dairy Queen. The line was way too long, so we dropped Finn off and then tried Sonic – nothing on the menu there that worked. Third time’s a charm – a waffle cone from Braum’s.
I got my D back on Tuesday – picked her up at the airport just before 9pm on Tuesday. She seemed happy with my house cleaning and her welcome home flowers.
On a long walk earlier in the week, I saw Wishbone Ash advertised on the sign at the Guitar Sanctuary in Adriatica. This is a band that I first enjoyed in University, 40 years ago. I still play their Argus album on a regular basis. Could they really be playing within walking distance of our home? Some research indicated they were indeed – on Friday, and tickets were still available. Done!
We walked to the concert, and enjoyed chatting with the folks in line – the majority of whom had seen the band many times – they have a very loyal following. The couple next to us were from Motherwell, Scotland and have lived in Austin for 30 years – it was nice to hear a Scottish accent in McKinney. Bo and Jim from the local radio morning show introduced the band. It’s been a while since I heard radio personalities introducing a band – used to happen pretty regularly. Those two have been doing the same morning show, with all the crazy characters, since before I moved to Dallas in 1986.

Andy Powell and the band served up a treat – the first part of the show was Argus from start to finish, a celebration of the album turning fifty years old the day before. Here are my three favourites:

The first was “Pops” be Michael Chabon, one of my very favourite authors. This is a collection of short stories, published in various magazines, and all on the topic of raising his children. I thoroughly enjoyed this quick read.
My second read was “Let me tell you what I mean” by Joan Didion, another big favourite of mine. This is a collection of twelve essays from 1968 to 2000, that showcase her unique reporting style.
And my last book is quite a bit different. “Whereabouts” by Jhumpa Lahiri was originally written in Italian and translated to English by the author. Here’s an online summary:

The weather was mostly very nice, and we were able to get out for some walks on Gypsy Hill. Somebody has entirely too much energy on those walks:


Easter Sunday dinner was quite the feast – lobsters from Adamo’s recent diving expedition, and our gorgonzola lamb chop lollipops – been way too long since we made those.





I dropped the VW Atlas off at Discount Tire to get the wheels balanced on Thursday, and Finn picked me up there and took me to lunch at Mexican Cactus – those tacos are so good. The tire guys called me at lunch to say they couldn’t find the wheel nut locking adapter anywhere. Nothing’s easy. I ended up having to pick up a new one at the dealership – must not have replaced it when they powder coated the wheel rims. The wheels did get balanced ultimately on Friday, and I found an interesting sub-woofer mounted on top of the spare tire when replacing the tool. I had no idea it was in there.

My first book was “Whiteout” by Ken Follett. I don’t remember reading Follett before, other than the “On Wings of Eagles” EDS Iran hostage rescue story, and really enjoyed this tale. Set in a castle in northern Scotland that has been converted into a medical research facility, the story revolves around a plot to steal a deadly virus from the lab during a blizzard.
My next book was “Mother, May I” by Joshilyn Jackson. Here’s the online summary:

I enjoyed seeing Thanksgiving Tower nearby – this is where I worked when I first started with EDS in 1989. That was back in the days when I had to wear a dark suit, white shirt, tie, and wingtip shoes to work every day. Things have changed so much in the almost 35 years since those days.
We checked into the Indigo hotel, a few hundred yards from the Majestic, and met up with Kenny and Kara. I suggested walking over to Deep Ellum, a funky neighbourhood of bars, restaurants, and shops just on the other side of Interstate 75. We walked over and enjoyed a drink on the lovely patio at the Twilite lounge, and a light dinner at Postino. I highly recommend Postino for a quick and tasty bite in the Deep Ellum area.





We arrived early to check out the 100th anniversary exhibit. The most interesting thing I read was that the owner of the theater contributed $5 million to help Walt Disney get started, when nobody else would give him any funding.
I loved my book this week – “The Storyteller” by Dave Grohl. He was the drummer with Nirvana when they changed music forever with the “Nevermind” album, and then went on to found the Foo Fighters band. This a wonderful collection of varied stories from Grohl’s youth discovering music, almost to the present day. It’s sad to hear him write about the depth of his friendship with Taylor Hawkins, the Foo Fighters drummer who passed away in the last few weeks, causing them to cancel their tour, including a New Orleans jazzfest appearance.