“Brrrr“
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day to all of you. We are definitely staying inside to celebrate, except for a quick sprint that I plan later – out to the grill to cook the lobster tails. Temperatures are falling way below freezing very quickly and are not forecast to pass back above until next Saturday. We have an inch or snow just now and are expected to receive another 6 to 8 inches this afternoon with “near blizzard conditions.”

Weather has been the big discussion topic this week with an ice storm on Thursday causing havoc with traffic. Several massive pileups closed almost all the major highways through and around the Dallas/Fort Worth area. We don’t expect to be able to leave the house for the next week as several inches of snow and freezing temperatures will effectively shut down the roads until Saturday. The temperatures on the left have been significantly reduced in the current forecast.


I was able to get out for my runs earlier this week with Week 5 Day 1 on Monday and Day 2 on Wednesday. I squeezed a swim in between on Tuesday. Day 2 consisted of two 8 minute runs with 5 minutes of walking in between. I managed that fine, even in the 28 degree weather with drizzle freezing on my glasses, and was really looking forward to stepping up to the 20 minute run on Day 3 – scheduled for Friday. The frigid weather put a stop to that – I’ll never hear the end of it if I pull a muscle in the cold. With very little chance of a run this coming week, I may have to go back to the start of Week 5 again when things thaw out. This being Texas, it won’t be too many months until I’m complaining about it being too hot for running.
The Monday New York Times crossword brought a chuckle with the “Pooh” answer – crossing “discombobulated” which seems like a very big word for the Monday (easiest day) puzzle.

Monday night brought the regular weekly torture – oopsy, I meant entertaining fun – of watching the “Bachelor” with McD. Crazy Queen Victoria has left the show but it seems that things are still very silly with the remaining group of girls.
We enjoyed a new episode of “This is Us” on Tuesday evening. Kevin was having fits getting back to Los Angeles for the birth of his first child, and the commercial was very misleading about what happens on that trip.
Anne sent us these pictures of a great pineapple sign – “Be a Pineapple: stand tall, wear a crown, and be sweet.” Also another picture of a Mardi Gras float house. She was planning to take Denny out for a bike ride to look at all the decorated houses. One of the benefits of living in such a compact city.

Diana cooked up one of the more delicious sea bass steaks that I’ve had in a long time on Saturday night. The ponzu like sauce was excellent and the fish was perfectly cooked. Thanks D!

I finished up “Shuggie Bain” by Douglas Stuart this week, and the narrative certainly didn’t get any more uplifting as Agnes, Shuggie’s mother, continues her downward spiral with alcohol abuse. There is a vague hope at the end that Shuggie is getting on his own feet and may have a successful future. I did continue to find humour in some of the phrases:
“Voices crackled over the C.B. Some man in a Teuchter accent was talking about floods on the Perth Road.”
What’s a Teuchter accent? Well here’s the very proper definition from Wikipedia:
“Teuchter [tʲu:xtər] is a Lowland Scots word originally used to describe a Scottish Highlander , in particular a Gaelic -speaking Highlander. Like most such cultural epithets, it can be seen as offensive, but is often seen as amusing by the speaker. The term is contemptuous, essentially describing someone seen to be uncouth and rural.”
The quality of the writing is excellent throughout and I can see why it was on the Booker prize shortlist:
“She had been drinking all day. Her mood was a low-level haar, foggy, dark and heavy, but holding steady without rain. Shuggie did not want to burst this cloudiness and force the bad weather.”
In case you’re wondering about “haar”:
1.a cold sea fog on the east coast of England or Scotland.
I thought I was jumping into something completely different when I started “Hard to Handle” by Steve Gorman. This is a memoir of his time in the rock band “The Black Crowes.” A band that he founded in the late 80s with the Robinson brothers – Chris and Rich. The band had massive success in the early 90s and then self destructed in much the same way that Agnes did in Shuggie Bain.
Gorman was the drummer and is a very good story teller. The Robinson brothers famously fought the entire time they were together in the band and I envisioned Chris as a laid-back hippy type personality. That is not the way Gorman sees him at all:
“Chris’s wife sent an email to Pete Angelus, our manager of twenty-four years, stating his demands for his continued involvement in The Black Crowes. Moving forward, Chris wanted 75 percent of all the band’s income. That was quite an upgrade from the 331/3 percent that he had been receiving.
It was apparent that our existing partnership agreement no longer meant anything to him.
The terms were nonnegotiable. There would be no discussion. Give him what he wanted, or he wasn’t coming back. And that was the end of The Black Crowes.”
I enjoyed the comparison of Chris Robinson to Emo Philips – after I pulled up his picture.

My favourite part of books like this is often the stories of how famous songs first came together:
“Like Chris and me, Rich had become obsessed with Nick Drake’s music. Unlike Chris and me, Rich put that obsession to good use. He began experimenting with open tunings like Drake played, and almost immediately he wrote the parts that would become “She Talks to Angels.””
As I revisited the early Crowes albums, I was amazed at how much the music sounds like the Rolling Stones and was thinking that, on the slower songs, Robinson sounds like a cross between Jagger and Rod Stewart. Clearly I’m not the first to think that:
“Chris fully committed to presenting himself as both a populist “man of the people” type and a “serious artist.” He bristled at comparisons to Mick Jagger or Rod Stewart. He wanted to be taken seriously.”
An entertaining anecdote from their first trip to Japan:
“There had to be a thousand fans waiting for us at the hotel; just an amazing turnout. As soon as our translator announced to the crowd that The Black Crowes had arrived, two-thirds of them immediately sat down and looked disappointed. Turns out they were expecting Status Quo, an English rock band I assumed had broken up at least a decade earlier.”
I still enjoy the music from Status Quo – so simple and yet so effective. How quickly musical tastes can change:
“Sixteen months earlier, we had headlined Glastonbury and the Phoenix Festival. As far as we knew, we owned the UK in the summer of 1993. And now…that’s it? I guess the rest of our fans were all at home listening to the new Nirvana record.”
I’ve only seen The Black Crowes once – during the first trip Diana and I made to the New Orleans Jazzfest – after a massive downpour and following a performance by Dr. John. I remember really enjoying their show and being very impressed with Rich Robinson’s guitar skills.
Thanks to Kara for sharing this book with me. She made a special trip to bring it to us when we were leaving New Orleans for the drive back to Dallas after the New Year celebrations.

Let’s start out the music section with something from The Black Crowes. A favourite of mine from one of their later albums:
In a completely different musical genre, I forget how much I love this Greig piano concerto:
A great Neil Young and Crazy Horse song that The Black Crowes covered:
And finally an interesting combination – Willie and Diana Krall – with an excellent big band arrangement:
Stay safe, calm, and kind…oh, and warm as well.
About this time of year, we would typically be “discussing” whether to attend the Mardi Gras season in New Orleans and looking forward to Jazzfest. Not this year, at least not until potentially October for Jazzfest. Anne shared this picture of Tin Men playing in front of one of the Mardi Gras float house in New Orleans. Will saw Tin Men with the boys crew at Mirliton Festival on his 25th birthday trip to NOLA, and loved them. They are best known to us for the classic “If You Can’t Make it Here” song – one of Timmy’s favourites and a great sing along number:
We’ve taken to reading a story from Diana’s Christmas Winnie the Pooh collection out loud if we’re not too tired when we make it to bed. I’m still perfecting the voices for each of the characters. Diana decided it would be good if Pooh could join us – and of course have easy access to his favourite food. I just hope that Hunny pot doesn’t fall on my head one night when I’m sleeping.
Monday and Wednesday were both great running days – sunny with temperatures in the mid 50s. Week 4 of Couch to 5K was much more pleasant the second time around. The last 5 minutes of running didn’t have me puffing nearly as much as on Monday. I hoping to make it to Week 5 next week without any injuries.
As if that wasn’t enough torture, I then made a trip to the grocery store with McD. In all fairness, I had volunteered to get some lobster tails to do a dry run on my Valentine’s day meal. We did pretty well – I overcooked the lobster a little bit but they still tasted great and we really liked the herb butter. That’s a picture from the recipe and ours didn’t look too dissimilar – we got too excited about tasting them and forgot a picture.
It won’t be snowing in Tampa today for the Super Bowl. We’re looking forward to settling in to watch a good game this evening. And I’m looking forward to the traditional pigs in a blanket that Diana will be cooking up.
I completed my journey through the life of John Steinbeck earlier this week. Souder’s book does a great job of intertwining Steinbeck’s writing exploits with the history of the world at the time, traveling through the Depression, World War II, the Korean War and Vietnam. My only beef with Souder is the way he narrates objectively for the majority of the book and then feels compelled to dismiss points of view that are contrary to Steinbeck’s in a very flippant way, with no exploration of both sides of an argument.
Monday was Burns day and so we cooked up one of the tins of haggis, the lamb version, and piped it in with “Scotland the Brave” from Spotify. I gave a poor rendition of “Address to a Haggis”, with a translated printout for Diana, and then we enjoyed the once a year or so treat – really yummy. After that Diana was “wanting something sweet” and so, in my typically cheesy way, I guided her through to the piano and attempted a rendition of “My Love is Like a Red Red Rose”. It was a very poor attempt, having only printed the music a couple of hours earlier. Here’s a better attempt – see Mum, I did get some roses this year. Diana quipped “Now I recognize it.”
Going up to the elliptical on Tuesday, I came across this display of Mardi Gras beads. Apparently McD had decided to organize our collection of beads ahead of parade season (cancelled this year) and thought the pool table provided the ideal surface. We collected the majority of those on a freezing cold parade night on our first New Orleans Mardi Gras visit.
The Designer Twins and Jose visited us on Friday afternoon to discuss the rumoured kitchen remodel. We’ll see what great ideas they come back with. One of the bigger discussion points was whether or not to keep the elevated, round section of the island. We enjoy gathering around a meat and cheese plate there when we have another couple over. Jose says they’re out of style and we need to consider a single long island that accommodates seating at the end. Any input from those of you that have occupied the barstools at the raised end? I’m scared to see the bid – so much tile and granite to be replaced.
I finished up “The Strangler” by William Landay this week and did enjoy the conclusion of the tale.
Almost forgot – I made a drive over to Grapevine on Friday to the British Food Emporium. My mission was to pick up some haggis for Burns night on Monday, but as usual I couldn’t help grabbing some other treats – a Turkish delight for Diana, meat pies for me, and some oatcakes to share. If you’d like to read details about the challenges with the Scottish haggis population, I recommend this article (I did chuckle when Brent observed that the hagglets look a lot like The Donald):







We received a late entry for the new cactus naming contest this morning, and we’re going with it. Patty christened it “Mark 3.0” and we’ll just use “3.0” as a nickname. Apparently the idea came to her in the middle of the night last night. Our boss when we worked together was Mark and he had quite the prickly personality – so he became knows at “the cactus”. When I worked with him more recently he proclaimed himself “Mark 2.0”, the kinder and gentler version. Which was true most days. Brent’s submission of “Squid Rock” has stuck after we tried it out this week.


I received some uplifting news from Alex in New Orleans on Friday. Finally something to put on the calendar to look forward to – Jazzfest has been rescheduled for the 2nd and 3rd weekends of October. We’ll have to see about changing our flights that were booked for April. Should we go for the first or second weekend? Maybe just move into Denny and Anne’s cottage for both?




I read “& Sons” by David Gilbert this week. I really enjoyed Gilbert’s short story “Cicadia” in an August 2020 edition of the New Yorker and decided to try one of his novels – “& Sons” got great reviews on its publication back in 2013.

“Greenlights”, the recent autobiography by Matthew McConaughey was a much quicker and lighter read. It feels like sitting down and having a drink with the author and listening to entertaining and engaging stories about his life.


It was back to work for me this week, with Diana joining me in the workforce on Wednesday. She had a couple of extra vacation days that she might as well use. Back to work meant Christmas was over and needed to be packed up.

I enjoyed “Blacktop Wasteland” by S.A. Cosby this week. The story is about Beauregard “Bug” Montage, a loving father, faithful husband, and honest mechanic, who has a criminal past – those in the underworld know him as one of the best drivers in the business. He’s been trying to lead an honest life, but everything is crumbling around him. His stack of bills and final notices is huge. His daughter needs money for college. His mother is about to be kicked out of her retirement home. Bug tries to work through it, but the shiny new car repair shop in town has cut his business in half. That’s why he can’t say no when a former associate offers him a job robbing a jewelry store. Eighty thousand for a day’s work. But nothing is ever as easy as it seems, and someone knows who did it, and it’s not the police.
It seems just completely crazy that we were able to drive almost 5,000 miles over the last few weeks. How did we do that? One long day at a time. Monday: Las Vegas to Albuquerque. Tuesday: Albuquerque to McKinney. Wednesday: “Rest Day”. Thursday: McKinney to New Orleans. Sunday: New Orleans to McKinney (and the reason this post is late again).
Driving to NOLA on New Year’s Eve was a bit more work. Things started badly with pouring rain and multiple accidents and lane closures before we ever left Dallas. There were some brief respites but I was mostly driving in rain and truck spray all day. It was lovely to see Denny and Anne on arrival and they really spoiled us with some yummy snacks – an amazing cheese board, crab fingers from Tableaux, and some amazing Denny oyster and sauce combinations.


We did manage to stay awake to usher in the New Year but were asleep in the wonderful guest cottage soon after.





I have nothing much to report on the reading front this week – too much time behind the wheel and enjoying friends. We did listen to “The Last Days of John Lennon” by James Patterson on the drive. This is mostly a very detailed and interesting history of Lennon and the Beatles, with small sections interspersed about Mark Chapman planning his assassination. I would recommend this to anyone looking to learn more about the Beatles and their interactions over the years.








Marco and kids arrived on Thursday afternoon to exchange gifts with Alicia before she left early on Friday to spend Christmas day with her Dad and brothers. Alicia’s gift to Marco was a Dopp kit (toilet bag where I’m from) that was hilariously filled with tiny bottles of different liquors. “Dopp” is such a weird word for a toilet bag that I did some research: the name derives from the early 20th century leather craftsman Charles Doppelt, whose company designed the case in 1926.



That seemed like an awful lot of scallops but only two were left after dinner. Adamo did a great job of cooking up all the fishes and then Alicia was a huge help with the clean up. Alicia and Diana exhibited some superior team work putting together the requisite meat and cheese platter.
Christmas Day started with a photo shoot so that we had some pictures of Diana and Alicia together. I think I did a passable job as the official photographer. We had to start early as the angry red sunrise foretold bad weather coming.


Next was a visit to Adamo’s home to exchange gifts. Amy and Adamo were so excited about their gift for us – they adopted a penguin in our names from the World Wildlife Fund. Amy was jumping up and down and so excited. Frankie was very gentle with the new adoptee – subsequently named Parker.




I finally finished reading “Utopia Avenue” by David Mitchell this week. I really enjoyed parts of the book and found other parts just silly and a bit nonsensical.
the crossing. I continue to turn into a “grumpy old man” – night driving with oncoming traffic not separated by a median is getting pretty difficult. I struggle to see where I’m going with the oncoming glare. So, the Pacheco Pass at night wasn’t really much fun. It’s very twisty and ill lit. That whining aside, we arrived at the hotel in Pacifica around 9pm. 1,950 miles in the books. I should have about 10 days now with no lengthy drives.
Once in our hotel room, Diana went on a mission to install the Amazon Firestick so that we could watch all our normal TV and streaming shows. She was so tired that it was easy to see her brain working but not easy to interpret what was (or wasn’t) being said. Problem one was that in order to connect to the hotel WiFi one needed to check the “Accept Terms and Conditions” box, but the remote wouldn’t go to the box. An hour later Diana noticed the “cursor mode” option and that problem was solved. Problem two – the firestick was installed and working fine but the remote wouldn’t control the TV volume and power, even after a bunch of fancy settings updates by McD. I looked at some YouTube videos of how to fix the issue and tried a number of things. An hour later, Diana finally gave up and sat down at her computer. I decided to try the regular TV remote that we had thought only controlled the Dish satellite system. Whaddaya know? Controlled volume perfectly. Two hours lost, but all TV and streaming options fully installed for our hotel stay. I wish I had some of that escapade on video. Funnily enough the firestick remote started controlling the volume just fine the next day with no changes.
After that interesting activity we were ready for some lunch. I spotted the City Kebabs and Gyros shop as we approached a traffic light and we decided to give it a try. The Mediterranean food was delicious with all my favourites – humus, falafels, dolmas, chicken and lamb. We were able to eat at the little table outside – one day before even patio dining was shut down.
We met Will and Christine for dinner at Town in San Carlos on Tuesday evening. The street was closed off and the restaurants had made some big investments in building outdoor dining. We were warm with the heaters and shades even though the temperature was in the forties. It was funny to listen to Diana and Will deciding on which steak and preparation they were going to share. I loved my sea bass and had some leftovers for lunch on Wednesday. It was a real treat to hang out and have a meal with Will and Christine. We had debated which night to meet and it was fortuitous that we chose Tuesday as all onsite dining shut down in California on Wednesday.


Diana chose to start her birthday with a run – and conquered the zig-zag path up the hill – most impressive. She had texted a picture to Marco (the ultra-marathoner) and asked if he thought she could do it. He coached her to stand up straight and take little strides – seemed to work. After her run we did another walk over for coffee and then enjoyed a sandwich from Dinosaur’s – such great Vietnamese sandwiches on yummy bread.



Those are lobsters that he caught diving and they were delicious. While the cooking was underway, Diana was reviewing her hand made cards from the boys.

We listened to the Ann Cleeves book “Raven Black” on the second section of our drive. This is the first in the Shetland series – I read the 4th “Blue Lighting” a year or two ago, a gift from Mum and Dad and enjoyed it. This one was a tad formulaic with the introduction and exploration of all potential guilty parties and Diana and I enjoyed trying to figure out who we thought were the leading contenders. Neither one of us was close.

The reprise of the road trip to California was scheduled to begin early on Friday morning and so we exchanged some gifts from under the tree on Thursday evening. I’m always so impressed with Diana’s wrapping skills. She got a special edition book of Winnie the Pooh stories and is looking forward to me reading bedtime stories from it. I’m working on the voices – it seems like everyone sounds a bit like Eeyore.
Saturday began with a walk across the hotel parking lot to the Marigold Café, a new place since our last trip. It combines Indian and American foods with New Mexico influences in creative ways. For example, my breakfast taco was served in fresh naan bread rather than a tortilla and included some delicious green chilis. Diana’s avocado toast was also excellent and she raved about the bacon. I’d like to return and sample the tikka mac ‘n cheese.

After checking into the lovely, historic La Fonda hotel, we walked over to Canyon Road and had a ramble past all the art galleries and sculpture gardens that line the street. I really enjoyed these wind machines – so creative and attention grabbing.
We walked back to the square and then enjoyed coffee and a slice of quiche at the hotel. I was interested to see the red chilis hung as ornaments on the square. Here’s the view from our hotel room balcony. The cathedral bells are quite loud. Fortunately the Trump rally (no masks in sight) in front of the cathedral cleared out quickly.
Why did we take the time to detour up to Santa Fe on an already long road trip you ask? Very solid question. Our friends Amy and Ray were getting married on Saturday evening at the La Fonda hotel. We hadn’t planned on attending but couldn’t say no after Amy heard we were just going to be an hour away in Albuquerque. Here’s Diana dressed up for the wedding with the favour that Amy left at the front desk – red chili peppers.






We loaded up and headed out early on Sunday morning – destination Las Vegas – a mere 8 hours of driving away. On the road by 8am and we should be relaxing at the lovely Aria hotel on the Vegas strip by 6pm or so. All was smooth with some slow initial going on the snow in Santa Fe and the pace picking up when we merged onto the interstate down to Albuquerque. And then everything changed – and not for the better. There were multiple semi-truck accidents on I40 – we sat stopped on the highway amidst all the trucks for 2 hours straight at one point.



After our quick dinner, we walked down the strip to Bellagio and watched the fountain show with Christmas music. Always such an impressive sight. On the way we passed through a new and extremely upscale mall called “Crystals” something or other. We were amazed at this tree where each ornament was one of the Swarovski crystal special editions – I hate to think how much it cost to decorate that tree.

Passing the smaller Eiffel tower at Paris hotel reminded us of a wonderful dinner we enjoyed there and of the very special 50th birthday dinner that we enjoyed with Mum and Dad at the real version in the real Paris.