“Feast and Famine”
After a busy Thanksgiving weekend, this week was very quiet with our only real outing to downtown McKinney for coffee today. Diana took my picture with the Xmas display outside the coffee shop. Not quite a Christmas card since Diana and BP didn’t make it in.
Rewinding a fortnight (remember when we used to have to rewind VHS and audio cassettes?), we experienced a quite unexpected and very boisterous rain storm on Monday night:
Thanksgiving was a much more pleasant weather day. We passed on cooking a turkey feast for two at home and headed to Perry’s steakhouse for a late lunch/early dinner. Champagne and lobster tails make my McD very happy.

She said several times that the grilled lobsters were perfectly cooked. A nicely cooked sea bass makes me happy. So we were both very happy with our meals – and had plenty of leftovers for a late dinner. I laughed when we checked in on the chaos at Amy and Adamo’s home and heard that Adamo had said, “maybe we can go out for lobster on Thanksgiving twenty years from now.”
We drove to Austin for the weekend on Friday morning, checked into the Intercontinental downtown (changing names to a Royal Sonesta the following week), and got ready for an early dinner at Peche – why not start out at one of our favourite Austin eateries. We started with some very decadent escargots (no lack of butter or garlic) and then I had a delicious redfish on a bed of the barley risotto that I enjoy so much. Diana had an equally decadent foie gras on grits.
After Peche, we walked across the street to the Parker Jazz Club (capacity reduced from over 100 to 30) and enjoyed our first live music in 9 months with 12 other folks. Kris and the team are trying really hard to keep the place going with very limited seating weekend shows and live-streaming. The house band was excellent as always – although the new drummer over plays too much for my liking. Kris might have played almost all of his 8 or 9 instruments – going from bass flute to multiple saxophones and a flugelhorn.
Saturday was a rain day – light drizzle all day long. That meant we couldn’t do our walk/run along the river and had to settle for the ellipticals in the hotel gym – surprised to find it open and we had it to ourselves. We did walk down Congress Avenue for coffee and a TacoDeli treat before the workout.
Brunch was at the Odd Duck – one of my top three Austin brunch spots. The shrimp and grits with a perfectly cooked deep fried egg were fabulous, as was the ceviche with green curry sauce. It’s always so hard to choose from all the options – and the menu is new every time we go. Diana loved their take on the Paloma cocktail. I’m now expected to try and replicate that – oops, maybe she’d forgotten already and I just reminded her.

After lunch we made a visit to the office to drop off an old laptop that I’d been hanging on to for a while and then visited the Yeti flagship store next to our old apartment. Diana was determined to purchase one of the ludicrously priced coolers that keep ice solid for several days. Then a trip to Warby Parker to get our glasses adjusted. What a productive afternoon.
I hadn’t made any plans for Saturday night and we decided we should revisit the Parker jazz club and make another donation towards trying to keep the joint open. This time we had dinner as well, splitting a yummy burger. There was a slightly larger audience but still nowhere near the reduced capacity. Kris was in a New Orleans mood – which suited me just fine. I was interested to hear him share that he and Ryan Davis (piano) had been playing together for over 20 years, including 14 as the house band at Eddie V’s steakhouse.
Sunday was a dry day and so we were able to execute a 4 mile circuit around the river trail, culminating with another snack at TacoDeli. Then another excellent brunch at Suerte – my top ranked Mexican restaurant. The masa that they make all the corn tortillas and tostadas from is ridiculously good. Diana had a smoked salmon tostada and I tried the bacon and sweet potato tetela (like a corn based pie with bacon and sweet potato puree inside). They were both perfect – particularly the mornay sauce, which I learned is a classic béchamel sauce enriched with a blend of Gruyère and Parmesan cheeses. We have really missed the creative food that is so readily available in Austin. And the great live music.


Diana was still a bit hungry after her tostada and so we had an excuse to get an order of the best tacos ever – the suaderos, and a side of sweet kolache. Yum yum yum. My tummy is wishing it was living back in Austin after revisiting all these food pictures.

After brunch we met our friend Neffie at Fixe – a new place she introduced us to that specializes in southern comfort food – supposedly the best biscuits (scones) in Austin.
We passed this sign on the walk to Fixe – so nice to be able to walk everywhere again. My Mum had just been telling us the story of the Battle of Bannockburn where the English tried to sneak up on the Scots at night, taking their boots off for stealth, but were foiled by the thistles that made them yelp and awake the sleeping Scots. And like a responsible Scotsman who payed attention in History class, I do indeed remember that happened in 1314.
Neffie kept us laughing until it was time for our concert at the Austin City Limits Moody theater. It’s always fun to browse the pictures of the musical greats that have played there – from Edie Brickell to Ray Charles and everything in between.

Nicki Bluhm opened the show for the Band of Heathens (BoH) and had a much more impressive voice in person than we hear her on the Tuesday night livestreams. She was able to effectively fill the theater with just her voice and acoustic guitar. Here she is with her husband Jesse, the bass player for the BoH, performing the first song that Sonny and Cher ever did together:
This was the BoH 15th anniversary show in their hometown and they didn’t disappoint at all, with a great mixture of songs from their new album and classics. “Miss Ohio” was an early favourite:
“Call Me Gilded” is a highlight from the new album and the harmonies are on good display:
And I’ll finish the reprise of this outstanding show with “Hurricane” transitioning into “LA County Blues”:
Three nights of fantastic live music. What a long overdue treat.
We started Monday with another workout at the hotel and then made the drive back to boring old McKinney. The rest of this week was our normal work from home routine, culminating with the aforementioned trip for coffee. Our only other excitement was a trip to “Run-On” after coffee to get runner D fitted for some new shoes. She’s been complaining of cold and numb toes and we’re trying to fix that with some new shoes and socks. 45 minutes later and I think she’s all fixed up – it’s nice that the store encourage you to go outside and run in the shoes they recommend.
I’ve been enjoying “Utopia Avenue” by David Mitchell (best known for “Cloud Atlas”). The book is about a group of musicians who form a band in the late 60s and early 70s. It started really well and is dragging a bit in the middle. At almost 500 pages with 200 or so to go, I’m hoping it grabs my interest a bit more soon. Although a work of fiction, famous musicians and other characters from real life make appearances in the book – sometimes entertaining and other times feeling pretty contrived – particularly in their dialogue.
I’ve come across a decent amount of music that is new to me over the last couple of weeks and I’ll save some for the upcoming posts.
I’ve always loved the song “Gypsy Blood” by Mason Ruffner and was interested to sample a more laid back recent offering. Here’s what a review said: “If you were waiting for Mark Knopfler to score a Sundance entry set in Grand Isle, this is your lucky day.” That caught my interest as I love Knopfler’s scores and Grand Isle is an area where Denny and the crew go fishing annually.
Some more reading provided this update on Ruffner’s activities since “Gypsy Blood” in the 80s: “In the mid-’80s, after Sea-Saint and before The Big Easy, transplanted Fort Worth native Mason Ruffner was a welcome national focal point for the New Orleans scene, a guitar slinger equally adept at blues, country, Tex-Mex and jazz who fell in love with the Crescent City and, somewhat oddly, folded the town’s rich piano tradition into his music. He was a critic’s darling, but perhaps taking a cue from so many of his local heroes, he soon disappeared into the wilds south of Austin.”
The dobro sound on this one is perfect:
A Colin Lake song popped up on a playlist and I did some research on him also. We saw him at the Telluride Blues Festival but I didn’t know much about him. He’s spent the last few years sailing around Latin America. Interesting to read this piece about Antigua – a beautiful and artsy town surrounded by volcanoes in Guatemala, where I enjoyed an afternoon right before COVID arrived to shut down travel. “Once in Antigua, Guatemala, Colin found the change in atmosphere inspiring and picked up a few gigs around town. While dusting off his catalog, he gleaned new and deeper meaning in the lines and melodies of his own songs, rediscovering them as though they were not his own.”
Stay safe and kind.
















(tried a new place called “Wattage” which didn’t have any atmosphere at all – we’ll be back to Filtered next week), piano practice, chat with Vince in Phillie, FaceTime with Mum and Dad, elliptical with early football game, relaxing steam shower, and now watching the Cowboys play the Minnesota Vikings. Currently winning 16-14 after a one handed circus catch by Lamb.
I dipped back into the excellent “Cool Gray City of Love” by Gary Kamiya (long time San Francisco Chronicle writer) and particularly the chapter “The Front Door”. This book covers 49 different views and associated stories of the city, and this chapter is about the Ferry Building. I read that it is modeled after the Giralda, Seville Cathedral’s minaret turned well tower. The change in the area over the years is fascinating:
“In 1913, 60,000 consumers crossed the bay by water twice each workday. They walked off the boat and up the Y-shaped gangways into the Ferry Building, strolled across its marble mosaic floors, and exited through its massive arches onto the Ferry Plaza. What greeted them was controlled chaos – and a city planner’s dream. Streetcars, horses, cable cars, railroads – there was more transportation running around than in a Richard Scarry book.”
I completed “Goodbye to a River” this week. As I mentioned, this is part canoeing adventure down the Brazos river, part history of the early settlers and the Comanche tribe, and part commentary on man-made lakes and dams and the changes they foist on nature.

The week started with another home maintenance issue. Do we ever get a solid break from those? Maybe six months between major issues? This time it’s the arbor over the back deck. I suppose we can’t get too mad at it since it’s been solid over the seven and a half years we’ve lived here. I noticed a crack in the middle of the seam and then Diana reported hearing creaking and breaking. We called a repair company and were hoping they would arrive before the whole thing came down, pulling gutters and whatever else with it. They made it in time – whew! – and we rigged up a very temporary support with our ladder and a jack. A sturdier support was applied the next morning and the new beam materials (30 feet wide) should be delivered tomorrow.







After all that strenuous work, it was on to the seemingly never-ending task of cleaning up the leaves from our massive front yard oak tree. Eighteen bags in all over the last couple of weekends. That should just about do it – there are very few leaves left on the branches and McD used her new blower to eject most of the stragglers from the flower beds.
I finished up “Anxious People” on Saturday morning. You’ll remember that I loved the beginning two weeks ago and then was slightly less enthused with the middle section last week. I’m pleased to report that the ending was excellent. A lot of unexpected conclusions with a heavy dose of kindness and compassion that I didn’t see coming.
I drove down to Lower Greenville Avenue (just north of downtown Dallas) for lunch with my boss on Monday. It was a beautiful day and we enjoyed the Blue Goose patio. The sour-cream chicken enchiladas were just how I remembered them – best in Dallas for sure. It was very sad to see the empty building that used to house the fantastic Grape restaurant across the street. The Lushers sold it just prior to
COVID. Diana and I (and many others with us) have enjoyed so many fabulous meals at this French bistro, including our first dinner together in Dallas. The chicken liver pate, homemade Boursin cheese, charcuterie, lamb tartines, mushroom soup, best burger in Dallas at Sunday brunch, steak frites, mussels, and so many more delicious flavours are no more.
There was a loud blowing noise overhead as I sat on the patio on Tuesday that had me a bit spooked. Then I realized there was a hot-air balloon trying to land in the back yard.

Saturday continued with the removal of the family room curtains and rods. We’ve never really liked them and decided to see what the room looks like without them – very bright and open but lacking something at the top of the windows. The sconces look even more ornate and outdated without the curtains – that’ll be the next project. I was just informed about the best website to shop for replacements.

The wind picked up in the afternoon, blowing mountains of leaves from the tree in our neighbours’ yard into the pool . Not to worry – pool girl D has been busy scooping out leaves and emptying the skimmer baskets all day.
The commentary on how the initial theme changes from 7 beats to 8 beats per bar in alternating bars, capturing our brains as they work to figure out the difference versus a constant 7 or 8 beats per bar which would become monotonous, was quite interesting. I can remember listening to this album in high school and being sucked in right away – something completely different and original.
Our only outing was to downtown McKinney for coffee on Saturday morning. Filtered coffee shop has a new outdoor seating area that’s set up to look like a beer garden – I think they plan to serve beer outside from a new counter area. There’s a new Cuban restaurant next door that we’re looking forward to trying – I’m hoping they have good empanadas. Diana commented that she doesn’t expect to see the kiddie seesaws that were set up on the concrete next time we visit. They’re just waiting for a kid to tumble off and bump their head on the unforgiving concrete.
Halloween was a non-event and we didn’t see any kids out at all. Coal Porter did make an appearance in New Orleans.
When I left you last Sunday, we were sporting our “Flu Fighter” band-aids. Diana added her “I Voted” sticker in the afternoon and reported that the line to vote at the fire station was short when she arrived a few minutes before the early voting opened.






Andy and Jude (Clorinda’s wonderful neighbours) won the most creative card award. This is a picture of Clorinda and accompanist from around 60 years ago. Andy made a mask for the accompanist from the same material as her dress – very nice detailed work.
I think Clorinda enjoyed sitting talking to and watching her newest grand-daughter, Francesca, more than anything else. She’s such a good and happy baby – Amy certainly deserved that third time around.
Kenny (New Orleans Fire Department Station Chief) recommended “The Cooperating Witness” by Mike Avery, a friend of his who now lives in New Orleans. Interestingly Kenny is currently working on a memoir of his 30 years on the NOFD. I suspect there are going to be some very compelling stories in there, including the months when he lived at the fire house during Hurricane Katrina. Here’s a little bit about Michael Avery from his website:
The other book that I enjoyed this week was “Chinaberry Sidewalks” by Rodney Crowell, a singer songwriter raised in dirt poor conditions in Houston in the 1950s and 60s. I’ve enjoyed his music and the albums he produced for Rosanne Cash and others for several years, and enjoyed his memoir a lot.



We took advantage of New Orleans restaurant week, where many places offer reduced prix fixe meals, for dinner at La Petite Grocery – one of our favourites with consistently good food. I enjoyed crab bisque, Parisian gnocchi, and butterscotch pudding. The pudding has been on their menu for over 10 years for good reason – served like a pot du
creme with excellent flavour. Diana ordered from the regular menu and loved her steak tartare and scallops. Such a nice treat to enjoy a fabulous meal with Denny and Anne.







beach in the morning. On the way back from the beach we all rented bikes at Big Daddy’s for easy transportation to and from the beach (parking was very limited) and then Diana and I made a run to Publix (local grocery store chain) for dinner supplies. We cooked up chicken fajitas on the grills at the expansive common area by the community pool.



The weather cleared up on Sunday and we spent the morning at Goat Feathers beach – I’m not sure that’s the official name but the access is beside the Goat Feathers seafood shop and so that’s what it’s called by the krewe. The sea continued to be very choppy with double red flags indicating nobody should even think about going on. Denny picked up some lovely fresh shrimp there and made an excellent pasta to go with them. He’s such a great cook and makes it look so easy.
Monday was a driving day – from Florida back to New Orleans. We arrived around 3pm and were able to meet up with Kenny and Kara, and later Denny and Anne, for a snack at Val’s, a new Mexican restaurant that is very similar to Suerte in Austin. They server street tacos and other authentic Mexican fare. The elotes (corn on the cob with “fixin’s”) are delicious.





While I was enjoying football, McD was hacking away at bushes with her new power tool – please keep a safe distance! That’s actually the neighbours’ side yard beside our driveway that’s she’s attacking.
On Friday we loaded up and made the all day drive from McKinney to New Orleans to visit the Ogans for a few days, prior to all caravanning over to the Florida panhandle for a week by the beach. The drive was relatively leisurely with a stop at Athena in Shreveport for some fantastic Mediterranean cuisine. We were amazed at the quality of everything we ordered in this unassuming restaurant. The hummus was some of the best we’ve had. Our second stop was in Opelousas for coffee prior to arrival on Webster Street around 7pm.


I finished “The Beekeeper of Aleppo” by Christy Lefteri this week – a recommendation from my Mum.
On an even more positive and important front, we received a picture of our Australian friend Stan’s new grandson on Monday – Henry Stanley. Stan used to work with us at AIG and moved back home several years ago. A couple of years ago they found several large tumors in his brain and he was diagnosed with 6 months to live. The doctors involved in that diagnosis clearly didn’t know Stan like we do. We had a FaceTime with Stan on Saturday night and weren’t sure what to expect. He popped right up and recognized me straight away. Full of his usual kindness, positive energy, and humour, he participated in a delightful conversation with us for over 30 minutes. What a treat to see him in such good spirits after a long battle that he appears to be winning. His short term memory is compromised but he still has all of his older memories. As we discussed the impact of COVID on schools and universities, Stan used the term “staccato learning” to describe the starts and stops of online versus in school learning – not a term you would hear from someone who’s brain isn’t alive and very active.
Diana completed her first official 5K running distance this morning – actually over-achieved at 3.25 miles. Even after that she still had a lot of pent up energy and decided to start consolidating all CDs, cassettes, and DVDs from their various locations in the house to the newly redesigned family room TV/stereo wall unit. I installed shelves that she couldn’t reach and dutifully retrieved mounds of CDs from my office closet.





My first big question on meeting Erik Larson would be, “Do you nae ken that Scotland and Glasgow are not part of England?”
On the other hand, “Sigh, Gone” by Phuc Tran was a delightful read and I highly recommend it. Tran’s family escaped Vietnam in 1975, just as Saigon was falling. They ended up as refugees in Carlisle, a small town in Pennsylvania. The book tracks his life from arrival until graduation from high school.
These days Tran is a high school Latin teacher – has been for 20 years. Interestingly, he also owns and operates a tattoo parlor in Portland and is apparently highly sought after. Here’s some of his work:
In addition to continuing to plow through my Winston Churchill book, I read “Normal People” by Sally Rooney this week. It was a quick and reasonably light read, contrasting with the dense detail of the World War II history.
Practicing this inspired me to finally put some new strings on my guitar. It must be close to 10 years since I changed them. Not too much of an operation but it does take a little work. And then there’s the constant tuning until the strings settle down – I rarely had to tune with the ancient strings. Here’s my weak attempt – I enjoyed trying it if nothing else: