“Back to Work”
It was back to work for me this week, with Diana joining me in the workforce on Wednesday. She had a couple of extra vacation days that she might as well use. Back to work meant Christmas was over and needed to be packed up.
The special guest on the BoH Tuesday night supper club was Butch Walker. We hadn’t heard of him but he turned out to be an excellent guest – a talented musician, great guitar player, and producer, who also appeared to be a really nice guy. He is currently producing a new album for Billy Idol and described him at 63, still rolling up on a Harley with his trademark sneer. He also recently produced an album for the Wallflowers. I attempted to follow Butch on Instagram so that I could watch the guitar videos that he releases regularly – I was all set up but couldn’t figure out how to get the videos to play on my phone. A call to my social media support tech (Alicia) revealed that I had quickly identified the big issue with Instagram and posted videos – not easy to watch them on your phone. Oh well, here’s Butch trying out a new Fender guitar and rig:
My Wednesday started out poorly – had to get a dental crown. Everything went smoothly and I did pick up a good story from Dr. Toney, who initially tried to make a living as a singer, before studying dentistry. A song, “Bluer than Blue”, came on and he commented that the guy who wrote the song, Randy Goodrum, played the piano on an album he made in Nashville back in the 70s. He went on to describe Goodrum’s piano style and tell me about a number of other hits that he had written.
I did something a wee bit crazy on Thursday – started the Couch to 5K (C25K) program again. Stop yelling. I know that’s what caused me to break my leg and this time I have some very fancy shoes and will be progressing through the program very slowly and building up strength before moving to the next level. In a few months I’ll be ready to run with McD again. We did head out for a run on Saturday morning with me alternating short runs with walks and Diana doing loops around me.
Saturday afternoon was reasonably productive. I worked through a list that included troubleshooting the Ring doorbell, helping Diana to stow Christmas back in the attic, fixing the outside floodlights, checking the sprinkler heads, hanging my new painting, Campbell’s photo guitar, and the fishing rod that my Dad hand made for me years ago (finally got it from Los Gatos), and bleeding the aromatherapy system in the steam shower. After all that I was ready to test out the steam shower – working perfectly.
A new octopus appeared in my section of the bathroom. A gift that Diana picked up on our visit to Pacifica. Would you like to suggest a name for him/her?
And while we’re thinking about names, how about one for this interesting cactus that we got from Adamo and Amy? It doesn’t have any roots – you just run it under the tap once a week for a couple of minutes.

Sunday has been a quiet day so far. It’s quite cold outside and we’re having some light snowfall. Dallas proper has an inch or two of accumulation but just wet ground here. I’m settling in to watch the New Orleans Saints play the Chicago Bears in the first round of the NFL playoffs in an hour or so.
I just received some great dogs in the snow videos. Here are our Austin Wolfhound friends:
And my co-worker Nikki’s three dogs, including the 8 week old Staffordshire terrier puppy:
And then the poor baby needed to warm up:

I enjoyed “Blacktop Wasteland” by S.A. Cosby this week. The story is about Beauregard “Bug” Montage, a loving father, faithful husband, and honest mechanic, who has a criminal past – those in the underworld know him as one of the best drivers in the business. He’s been trying to lead an honest life, but everything is crumbling around him. His stack of bills and final notices is huge. His daughter needs money for college. His mother is about to be kicked out of her retirement home. Bug tries to work through it, but the shiny new car repair shop in town has cut his business in half. That’s why he can’t say no when a former associate offers him a job robbing a jewelry store. Eighty thousand for a day’s work. But nothing is ever as easy as it seems, and someone knows who did it, and it’s not the police.
Cosby understands the psychology of the criminal mind, how money can turn someone into a criminal. He knows that good people often do bad things for all the right reasons. Bug is a complicated character who’s haunted by the ghost of his father, who was also a criminal and a driver, and the mix of guilt and pleasure he feels when racing away from the scene of a crime in a souped-up car. Despite that pleasure, he’s been to prison, so he knows what’s at stake, and the only reason he gets back into the life is because financial pressures push him to it. Crime means keeping his business running, his children fed, his mother safe, and giving his daughter a chance to be better than him by going to college. Prison is scary, but the temptation of giving your children a chance silences that fear:
“He would tell himself later that he had slept on it. That he had mulled over the pros and cons and finally decided the benefits outweighed the risks. All that was true. However, in his heart he knew that when Ariel told him about skipping college, that was the moment he decided to take the job with Ronnie Sessions and hit the jewelry story.”
Racial tension is at the heart of “Blacktop Wasteland.” Cosby, a Black man from southeastern Virginia, knows racism well. He understands what it means to be Black in places where things like the use of the Confederate flag (which comes up in the novel) are still being debated today:
“Listen, when you’re black in America you live with the weight of people’s low expectations on your back every day. They can crush you right down to the goddamn ground. Think about it like it’s a race. Everybody else has a head start and you dragging those low expectations behind you. Choices give you freedom from those expectations. Allows you to cut ’em loose. Because that’s what freedom is. Being able to let things go. And nothing is more important than freedom.”
In effect, this reported statement by Trump appears to be saying that he does not need to call for peace, because in his view, his supporters are not the kind of people who cause trouble. Trump’s statement about “my people” betrays a fallacy in reasoning that has repeatedly manifested itself in the 2020 election as well as in events leading up to and continuing after it.
The “no true Scotsman” fallacy is a rhetorical device used to gain an unfair advantage in arguments when a person, lacking facts and evidence, resorts to moving the goalposts. It can be an intentional evasion, or it can arise as the unintentional product of fallacious reasoning. The following example shows how the fallacy works (and also illustrates why it is called “no true Scotsman”):
Scotty: My uncle is a Scotsman, and he puts sugar on his porridge.
Angus: But no true Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge.
No True Scotsman vs. Insurrection
Applying this fallacy to Trump’s “my people” statement, one gets a hypothetical situation something like the following:
Trump: What about the other side? No one cared when they were rioting.
Aide: But, sir, rioters have breached the Capitol! We’re getting frantic calls from Senators and Representatives!
Trump: My people are peaceful. My people aren’t thugs
Brent goes on to offer a useful example closer to home:
A slightly less hostile insurrection:
D: “I’ve drunken all my champagne! K, be a Scotsman and run out for another case.”
K: “Seriously, D?! Don’t give me this ‘Scotsman’ nonsense. It’s triple overtime in the Superbowl, the Cowboys are down by 5 but sitting on their 1 with 3 seconds left…”
D: “No TRUE Scotsman would let his wife go without bubbles.”
BP: “Brawp! Brawp! Brawp!”
K: “I’ll be right back.”
It seems just completely crazy that we were able to drive almost 5,000 miles over the last few weeks. How did we do that? One long day at a time. Monday: Las Vegas to Albuquerque. Tuesday: Albuquerque to McKinney. Wednesday: “Rest Day”. Thursday: McKinney to New Orleans. Sunday: New Orleans to McKinney (and the reason this post is late again).
Driving to NOLA on New Year’s Eve was a bit more work. Things started badly with pouring rain and multiple accidents and lane closures before we ever left Dallas. There were some brief respites but I was mostly driving in rain and truck spray all day. It was lovely to see Denny and Anne on arrival and they really spoiled us with some yummy snacks – an amazing cheese board, crab fingers from Tableaux, and some amazing Denny oyster and sauce combinations.


We did manage to stay awake to usher in the New Year but were asleep in the wonderful guest cottage soon after.





I have nothing much to report on the reading front this week – too much time behind the wheel and enjoying friends. We did listen to “The Last Days of John Lennon” by James Patterson on the drive. This is mostly a very detailed and interesting history of Lennon and the Beatles, with small sections interspersed about Mark Chapman planning his assassination. I would recommend this to anyone looking to learn more about the Beatles and their interactions over the years.








Marco and kids arrived on Thursday afternoon to exchange gifts with Alicia before she left early on Friday to spend Christmas day with her Dad and brothers. Alicia’s gift to Marco was a Dopp kit (toilet bag where I’m from) that was hilariously filled with tiny bottles of different liquors. “Dopp” is such a weird word for a toilet bag that I did some research: the name derives from the early 20th century leather craftsman Charles Doppelt, whose company designed the case in 1926.



That seemed like an awful lot of scallops but only two were left after dinner. Adamo did a great job of cooking up all the fishes and then Alicia was a huge help with the clean up. Alicia and Diana exhibited some superior team work putting together the requisite meat and cheese platter.
Christmas Day started with a photo shoot so that we had some pictures of Diana and Alicia together. I think I did a passable job as the official photographer. We had to start early as the angry red sunrise foretold bad weather coming.


Next was a visit to Adamo’s home to exchange gifts. Amy and Adamo were so excited about their gift for us – they adopted a penguin in our names from the World Wildlife Fund. Amy was jumping up and down and so excited. Frankie was very gentle with the new adoptee – subsequently named Parker.




I finally finished reading “Utopia Avenue” by David Mitchell this week. I really enjoyed parts of the book and found other parts just silly and a bit nonsensical.
the crossing. I continue to turn into a “grumpy old man” – night driving with oncoming traffic not separated by a median is getting pretty difficult. I struggle to see where I’m going with the oncoming glare. So, the Pacheco Pass at night wasn’t really much fun. It’s very twisty and ill lit. That whining aside, we arrived at the hotel in Pacifica around 9pm. 1,950 miles in the books. I should have about 10 days now with no lengthy drives.
Once in our hotel room, Diana went on a mission to install the Amazon Firestick so that we could watch all our normal TV and streaming shows. She was so tired that it was easy to see her brain working but not easy to interpret what was (or wasn’t) being said. Problem one was that in order to connect to the hotel WiFi one needed to check the “Accept Terms and Conditions” box, but the remote wouldn’t go to the box. An hour later Diana noticed the “cursor mode” option and that problem was solved. Problem two – the firestick was installed and working fine but the remote wouldn’t control the TV volume and power, even after a bunch of fancy settings updates by McD. I looked at some YouTube videos of how to fix the issue and tried a number of things. An hour later, Diana finally gave up and sat down at her computer. I decided to try the regular TV remote that we had thought only controlled the Dish satellite system. Whaddaya know? Controlled volume perfectly. Two hours lost, but all TV and streaming options fully installed for our hotel stay. I wish I had some of that escapade on video. Funnily enough the firestick remote started controlling the volume just fine the next day with no changes.
After that interesting activity we were ready for some lunch. I spotted the City Kebabs and Gyros shop as we approached a traffic light and we decided to give it a try. The Mediterranean food was delicious with all my favourites – humus, falafels, dolmas, chicken and lamb. We were able to eat at the little table outside – one day before even patio dining was shut down.
We met Will and Christine for dinner at Town in San Carlos on Tuesday evening. The street was closed off and the restaurants had made some big investments in building outdoor dining. We were warm with the heaters and shades even though the temperature was in the forties. It was funny to listen to Diana and Will deciding on which steak and preparation they were going to share. I loved my sea bass and had some leftovers for lunch on Wednesday. It was a real treat to hang out and have a meal with Will and Christine. We had debated which night to meet and it was fortuitous that we chose Tuesday as all onsite dining shut down in California on Wednesday.


Diana chose to start her birthday with a run – and conquered the zig-zag path up the hill – most impressive. She had texted a picture to Marco (the ultra-marathoner) and asked if he thought she could do it. He coached her to stand up straight and take little strides – seemed to work. After her run we did another walk over for coffee and then enjoyed a sandwich from Dinosaur’s – such great Vietnamese sandwiches on yummy bread.



Those are lobsters that he caught diving and they were delicious. While the cooking was underway, Diana was reviewing her hand made cards from the boys.

We listened to the Ann Cleeves book “Raven Black” on the second section of our drive. This is the first in the Shetland series – I read the 4th “Blue Lighting” a year or two ago, a gift from Mum and Dad and enjoyed it. This one was a tad formulaic with the introduction and exploration of all potential guilty parties and Diana and I enjoyed trying to figure out who we thought were the leading contenders. Neither one of us was close.

The reprise of the road trip to California was scheduled to begin early on Friday morning and so we exchanged some gifts from under the tree on Thursday evening. I’m always so impressed with Diana’s wrapping skills. She got a special edition book of Winnie the Pooh stories and is looking forward to me reading bedtime stories from it. I’m working on the voices – it seems like everyone sounds a bit like Eeyore.
Saturday began with a walk across the hotel parking lot to the Marigold Café, a new place since our last trip. It combines Indian and American foods with New Mexico influences in creative ways. For example, my breakfast taco was served in fresh naan bread rather than a tortilla and included some delicious green chilis. Diana’s avocado toast was also excellent and she raved about the bacon. I’d like to return and sample the tikka mac ‘n cheese.

After checking into the lovely, historic La Fonda hotel, we walked over to Canyon Road and had a ramble past all the art galleries and sculpture gardens that line the street. I really enjoyed these wind machines – so creative and attention grabbing.
We walked back to the square and then enjoyed coffee and a slice of quiche at the hotel. I was interested to see the red chilis hung as ornaments on the square. Here’s the view from our hotel room balcony. The cathedral bells are quite loud. Fortunately the Trump rally (no masks in sight) in front of the cathedral cleared out quickly.
Why did we take the time to detour up to Santa Fe on an already long road trip you ask? Very solid question. Our friends Amy and Ray were getting married on Saturday evening at the La Fonda hotel. We hadn’t planned on attending but couldn’t say no after Amy heard we were just going to be an hour away in Albuquerque. Here’s Diana dressed up for the wedding with the favour that Amy left at the front desk – red chili peppers.






We loaded up and headed out early on Sunday morning – destination Las Vegas – a mere 8 hours of driving away. On the road by 8am and we should be relaxing at the lovely Aria hotel on the Vegas strip by 6pm or so. All was smooth with some slow initial going on the snow in Santa Fe and the pace picking up when we merged onto the interstate down to Albuquerque. And then everything changed – and not for the better. There were multiple semi-truck accidents on I40 – we sat stopped on the highway amidst all the trucks for 2 hours straight at one point.



After our quick dinner, we walked down the strip to Bellagio and watched the fountain show with Christmas music. Always such an impressive sight. On the way we passed through a new and extremely upscale mall called “Crystals” something or other. We were amazed at this tree where each ornament was one of the Swarovski crystal special editions – I hate to think how much it cost to decorate that tree.

Passing the smaller Eiffel tower at Paris hotel reminded us of a wonderful dinner we enjoyed there and of the very special 50th birthday dinner that we enjoyed with Mum and Dad at the real version in the real Paris.
After a busy Thanksgiving weekend, this week was very quiet with our only real outing to downtown McKinney for coffee today. Diana took my picture with the Xmas display outside the coffee shop. Not quite a Christmas card since Diana and BP didn’t make it in.

She said several times that the grilled lobsters were perfectly cooked. A nicely cooked sea bass makes me happy. So we were both very happy with our meals – and had plenty of leftovers for a late dinner. I laughed when we checked in on the chaos at Amy and Adamo’s home and heard that Adamo had said, “maybe we can go out for lobster on Thanksgiving twenty years from now.”
After Peche, we walked across the street to the Parker Jazz Club (capacity reduced from over 100 to 30) and enjoyed our first live music in 9 months with 12 other folks. Kris and the team are trying really hard to keep the place going with very limited seating weekend shows and live-streaming. The house band was excellent as always – although the new drummer over plays too much for my liking. Kris might have played almost all of his 8 or 9 instruments – going from bass flute to multiple saxophones and a flugelhorn.
Brunch was at the Odd Duck – one of my top three Austin brunch spots. The shrimp and grits with a perfectly cooked deep fried egg were fabulous, as was the ceviche with green curry sauce. It’s always so hard to choose from all the options – and the menu is new every time we go. Diana loved their take on the Paloma cocktail. I’m now expected to try and replicate that – oops, maybe she’d forgotten already and I just reminded her.
Sunday was a dry day and so we were able to execute a 4 mile circuit around the river trail, culminating with another snack at TacoDeli. Then another excellent brunch at Suerte – my top ranked Mexican restaurant. The masa that they make all the corn tortillas and tostadas from is ridiculously good. Diana had a smoked salmon tostada and I tried the bacon and sweet potato tetela (like a corn based pie with bacon and sweet potato puree inside). They were both perfect – particularly the mornay sauce, which I learned is a classic béchamel sauce enriched with a blend of Gruyère and Parmesan cheeses. We have really missed the creative food that is so readily available in Austin. And the great live music.



After brunch we met our friend Neffie at Fixe – a new place she introduced us to that specializes in southern comfort food – supposedly the best biscuits (scones) in Austin.
We passed this sign on the walk to Fixe – so nice to be able to walk everywhere again. My Mum had just been telling us the story of the Battle of Bannockburn where the English tried to sneak up on the Scots at night, taking their boots off for stealth, but were foiled by the thistles that made them yelp and awake the sleeping Scots. And like a responsible Scotsman who payed attention in History class, I do indeed remember that happened in 1314.

















(tried a new place called “Wattage” which didn’t have any atmosphere at all – we’ll be back to Filtered next week), piano practice, chat with Vince in Phillie, FaceTime with Mum and Dad, elliptical with early football game, relaxing steam shower, and now watching the Cowboys play the Minnesota Vikings. Currently winning 16-14 after a one handed circus catch by Lamb.
I dipped back into the excellent “Cool Gray City of Love” by Gary Kamiya (long time San Francisco Chronicle writer) and particularly the chapter “The Front Door”. This book covers 49 different views and associated stories of the city, and this chapter is about the Ferry Building. I read that it is modeled after the Giralda, Seville Cathedral’s minaret turned well tower. The change in the area over the years is fascinating:
“In 1913, 60,000 consumers crossed the bay by water twice each workday. They walked off the boat and up the Y-shaped gangways into the Ferry Building, strolled across its marble mosaic floors, and exited through its massive arches onto the Ferry Plaza. What greeted them was controlled chaos – and a city planner’s dream. Streetcars, horses, cable cars, railroads – there was more transportation running around than in a Richard Scarry book.”
I completed “Goodbye to a River” this week. As I mentioned, this is part canoeing adventure down the Brazos river, part history of the early settlers and the Comanche tribe, and part commentary on man-made lakes and dams and the changes they foist on nature.

The week started with another home maintenance issue. Do we ever get a solid break from those? Maybe six months between major issues? This time it’s the arbor over the back deck. I suppose we can’t get too mad at it since it’s been solid over the seven and a half years we’ve lived here. I noticed a crack in the middle of the seam and then Diana reported hearing creaking and breaking. We called a repair company and were hoping they would arrive before the whole thing came down, pulling gutters and whatever else with it. They made it in time – whew! – and we rigged up a very temporary support with our ladder and a jack. A sturdier support was applied the next morning and the new beam materials (30 feet wide) should be delivered tomorrow.







After all that strenuous work, it was on to the seemingly never-ending task of cleaning up the leaves from our massive front yard oak tree. Eighteen bags in all over the last couple of weekends. That should just about do it – there are very few leaves left on the branches and McD used her new blower to eject most of the stragglers from the flower beds.
I finished up “Anxious People” on Saturday morning. You’ll remember that I loved the beginning two weeks ago and then was slightly less enthused with the middle section last week. I’m pleased to report that the ending was excellent. A lot of unexpected conclusions with a heavy dose of kindness and compassion that I didn’t see coming.
I drove down to Lower Greenville Avenue (just north of downtown Dallas) for lunch with my boss on Monday. It was a beautiful day and we enjoyed the Blue Goose patio. The sour-cream chicken enchiladas were just how I remembered them – best in Dallas for sure. It was very sad to see the empty building that used to house the fantastic Grape restaurant across the street. The Lushers sold it just prior to
COVID. Diana and I (and many others with us) have enjoyed so many fabulous meals at this French bistro, including our first dinner together in Dallas. The chicken liver pate, homemade Boursin cheese, charcuterie, lamb tartines, mushroom soup, best burger in Dallas at Sunday brunch, steak frites, mussels, and so many more delicious flavours are no more.
There was a loud blowing noise overhead as I sat on the patio on Tuesday that had me a bit spooked. Then I realized there was a hot-air balloon trying to land in the back yard.

Saturday continued with the removal of the family room curtains and rods. We’ve never really liked them and decided to see what the room looks like without them – very bright and open but lacking something at the top of the windows. The sconces look even more ornate and outdated without the curtains – that’ll be the next project. I was just informed about the best website to shop for replacements.

The wind picked up in the afternoon, blowing mountains of leaves from the tree in our neighbours’ yard into the pool . Not to worry – pool girl D has been busy scooping out leaves and emptying the skimmer baskets all day.
The commentary on how the initial theme changes from 7 beats to 8 beats per bar in alternating bars, capturing our brains as they work to figure out the difference versus a constant 7 or 8 beats per bar which would become monotonous, was quite interesting. I can remember listening to this album in high school and being sucked in right away – something completely different and original.
Our only outing was to downtown McKinney for coffee on Saturday morning. Filtered coffee shop has a new outdoor seating area that’s set up to look like a beer garden – I think they plan to serve beer outside from a new counter area. There’s a new Cuban restaurant next door that we’re looking forward to trying – I’m hoping they have good empanadas. Diana commented that she doesn’t expect to see the kiddie seesaws that were set up on the concrete next time we visit. They’re just waiting for a kid to tumble off and bump their head on the unforgiving concrete.
Halloween was a non-event and we didn’t see any kids out at all. Coal Porter did make an appearance in New Orleans.