“Happy 93rd Birthday, Clorinda – and Happy Halloween”
Captain Jack assembled the krewe for trivia on Tuesday. What a waste – either last place or second to last – I knew none of the esoteric questions – here’s an example:
Jack claimed to know that Bluetooth was the ruler of Norway – just didn’t know the second country – I picked Denmark but think it was Finland. All those small Nordic countries get so confusing (trying to sound like an ugly American traveling through Europe.)
Kenny has taken to hosting everyone for a “Jeopardy” warm up before trivia. He provided Negronis and snacks – such a nice feature. And he’s walking distance from the venue.
I took a flight to join Diana in San Francisco on Wednesday. Our plan was to celebrate her Mom’s 93rd birthday on Thursday. The best plans – and then life happens. Before I even boarded the plane, Diana was calling to tell me that Clorinda had to go to the Emergency Room from dialysis – turns out she had an infection that kept her in hospital for a few days.
Diana slept on a bed in the hospital room that didn’t look comfortable at all for two nights. I slept alone on Gypsy Hill – Diana noting that she had never slept there alone. Here’s a sunset that was enjoyed on the hill:

Clorinda made it home on Saturday and was delighted to be back to her home and regular routines:

I flew back to New Orleans on Sunday and was home in time to watch the Sunday night Cowboys game. They were losing and I fell asleep – first mistake. Lionel (ghost) decided it would be fun to open the back door while I was napping. I woke up, had a small freak out, and called the security guy to come and check the house. No reason why the back door should be open.
Diana was able to organize the delayed 93rd birthday party on Tuesday night. It seems Clorinda had a great time:
I picked up McD from the airport on Wednesday evening and we met the Krewe at the Ghost Mansion, close to our house. Such an amazing display.
Diana has never been to the famous Gallatoire’s restaurant on Bourbon Street in the French Quarter. I’ve been a few times – before Cowboys and Saints game and for my bachelor party. This place opened in 1905 and is a formal (jacket required), but very fun restaurant. They recently opened for reservations versus standing in line out front early in the morning.
I thought it would be fun to nix the ongoing commentary about never having been there by inviting Diana to join me for Halloween lunch. That turned out to be a great idea. She borrowed our neighbour’s witch’s hat and was all set to go:

The room was hopping with Halloween groups – loud and very enjoyable. We started with a classic foie gras – absolutely delicious.

Diana had a crab and mushroom dish and I had a trout meuniere – both amazing!

There were a bunch of ladies dressed up as Helen Roper from Three’s Company (a 70s TV sitcom.) I love the guy from the kitchen singing to the celebrant:
After lunch we went for a French Quarter Ramble (FQR) with a stop at the Will and the Way and then at a jewelry store where we picked out some things for Diana’s birthday.
Taylor Swift performed at the Superdome all last weekend, bringing in a lot of revenue for the city. I think the friendship bracelet on the Superdome was a nice touch:

There was a band playing when I landed at the New Orleans airport with Swiftie bracelets on the back of the stage and a Taylor cutout for photos – I like that the town works hard to make big events special:

My book this fortnight was “Same as it Ever Was” by Claire Lombardo. The book started out very well and had a number of beautifully written highlights – it was just so long and became plodding to me. The chapters jumping back and forward in chronology started to irritate me – I just wanted the story in order.
The reviews are quite mixed – a number of folks loved the book, and several didn’t like the main character, Julia, at all. Here’s the online summary:
“NATIONAL BESTSELLER • NAMED A BEST BOOK BY PEOPLE AND PARADE • The New York Times bestselling author of The Most Fun We Ever Had (“wonderfully immersive…deliciously absorbing”—NPR) returns with another brilliantly observed family drama in which the enduring, hard-won affection of a long marriage faces imminent derailment from events both past and present.
“Infidelity, dysfunction, secrets – this family novel delivers.”—The New York Times • “Lombardo has such a fine eye for the weft and warp of a family’s fabric.” —The Washington Post • “Witty and insightful…a powerful exploration of marriage, motherhood, and self.”–Bonnie Garmus, bestselling author of Lessons in Chemistry
Same As It Ever Was showcases the consummate style, signature wit, and profound emotional intelligence that made The Most Fun We Ever Had one of the most beloved novels of the past decade. Featuring a memorably messy family and the multifaceted marriage at its heart, Lombardo’s debut was dubbed “the literary love child of Jonathan Franzen and Anne Tyler” (The Guardian) and hailed as “ambitious and brilliantly written” (Washington Post). In this remarkable follow-up—another elegant and tumultuous story in the tradition of Elizabeth Strout, Ann Patchett, and Celeste Ng—Lombardo introduces us to an unforgettable cast of characters, this time by way of her singularly complicated protagonist.
Julia Ames, after a youth marked by upheaval and emotional turbulence, has found herself on the placid plateau of mid-life. But Julia has never navigated the world with the equanimity of her current privileged class. Having nearly derailed herself several times, making desperate bids for the kind of connection that always felt inaccessible to her, she finally feels, at age fifty seven, that she has a firm handle on things.
She’s unprepared, though, for what comes next: a surprise announcement from her straight-arrow son, an impending separation from her spikey teenaged daughter, and a seductive resurgence of the past, all of which threaten to draw her back into the patterns that had previously kept her on a razor’s edge.
Same As It Ever Was traverses the rocky terrain of real life, —exploring new avenues of maternal ambivalence, intergenerational friendship, and the happenstantial cause-and-effect that governs us all. Delving even deeper into the nature of relationships—how they grow, change, and sometimes end—Lombardo proves herself a true and definitive cartographer of the human heart and asserts herself among the finest novelists of her generation.”

The Tipitina’s record club offering just arrived – a solo Taj Mahal set that sounds great. Here’s a favourite:
Something new from Tears for Fears, still making excellent music:
A surprise from Annie Lennox (fellow Scot) from her American song book cover:
Coexist peacefully, with patience and kindness for all!

This is a motel with four units, a pool, firepit and nice seating areas. Denny rented out the whole shebang for Thursday and Friday night. The ladies put together a beautiful array of charcuterie, dips and fruits, and I think Anne was genuinely surprised on arrival – she thought it was just going to be her and Denny. Smart idea from Kelly to move our cars over to the dive bar across the street so as not to blow the surprise.







I had Diana challenge the amount of the bill when we left – “It can’t possibly be that inexpensive.” The bartender explained that drinks were reduced when a Saints game was showing – even before that they were prices from 15 years ago.









My book this week was “The Radleys” by Matt Haig. I had enjoyed another of his books, “The Midnight Library”, and this one sounded good, except that I totally missed it was a story about vampires trying for abstinence from vampire activities. Here’s an online review:
It was a very early start on Monday – in an Uber to the airport at 4:30am. We caught a 6am flight to Miami, “enjoyed” a couple of hours layover, and then took the next short flight to Roatan, Honduras. A very bumpy thirty minute ride over an often washed out road and we arrived at the Kimpton Grand Roatan Resort. The resort was purchased by Kimpton since we visited two years ago, and they have made many improvements, upgrades, and expansions. While quite luxurious, with new restaurants and amenities, we missed some of the character of the old set up.














A small group of us enjoyed dinner in the Mediterranean restaurant on Wednesday evening, and then Blair arranged for the very talented guitar player in the restaurant to give us a private outdoor concert :


We snapped a quick selfie and then took a shuttle to the airport for our long day of travel back home. The four hour layover in Miami really was a bit too long, getting us home shortly before midnight.



I finished up “Tell Me Everything” by the amazing Elizabeth Strout. What an excellent book – weaving together the characters from all her previous novels into a new set of tales.




We were in an Uber over to Gretna fest within a couple of hours. We set up in time to enjoy an excellent set from Galactic:













I made a reservation for Friday and invited Denny and Anne to join us. We started with a visit to the Old Alker distillery, right next door to the restaurant.



Diana noticed that the Saturday afternoon concert series at the Kingpin started up again this week, after taking a break for the height of summer. Jon Papa Gros kicked things off with a really enjoyable set. Kenny and Kara joined for part of it – celebrating Kara’s birthday.
The weather was perfect for an outdoor afternoon free concert. Typical of what we love about this city.



I took a break from “The Patron Saint of Liars” by Anne Patchett, which I don’t love yet but plan to return to soon.

















I was tracking Hurricane Francine and hoping it wasn’t going to disrupt their plans. They were fortunate as it changed paths to come directly over New Orleans. Our new generator was online and ready to respond to any power outages – we were much luckier than most and didn’t have any issues.

My lucky Cowboys jacket did not serve a good purpose, with the game quickly turning into a blowout for the Saints. You can imagine how much fun it is to be the only Cowboys fan in a house full of Saints fans with a huge lead.











We went for our visit to the NOAC on Saturday morning. I enjoyed a swim (before being ousted by the water aerobics ladies – got to pay attention to the schedule). I treated Diana to brunch at Elizabeth’s in the Bywater area after our visit. This is an excellent brunch restaurant – we loved our “pig candy” (praline bacon) and Florentine benedict with fried oysters.



The “Gentlemen Out At Lunch” club met at Origen Venezuelan Bistro on Tuesday. Denny wasn’t able to join but the rest of the group assembled at the restaurant on St. Claude avenue in the Bywater. Origen was Denny’s suggestion and he insisted that we go ahead without him.


We followed lunch with a visit to BJ’s lounge – just down the street. Oops – getting ahead of myself again. Kenny gave me a quick driving tour on the way. The house he group up in with his eight siblings was three houses down from the restaurant – I got a drive by of that as well as the local schools, including the one where his Dad taught mathematics and French. The tour was really enjoyable. Kenny really has missed his calling. I need to revisit getting him certified to give walking tours of the Garden District.




I tried something new this week – picking up “It Ends With Us” by Colleen Hoover. This is a romance style novel that Diana had on the kitchen counter to finish. Goodness – I hope all her romances aren’t this dark. The topics are marital and emotional abuse – apparently based on Hoover’s childhood. The writing and characters are so good that I had to finish the book. Certainly not for everyone, although it appears to have topped bestseller lists for several years, and is now a movie.




My martini was served with a side of accoutrements – an oyster, a lemon twist and blue cheese stuffed olives. What a choice.



There was a special memorial show for Nick Daniels III (Dumpstaphunk bass player) at Tipitina’s on Thursday evening. Trombone Shorty and members of Galactic joined the band. Advertised start time was 7pm. I showed up at 7:30 and planned to stay for an hour or so – yeah right! The music started at 9pm and was very good for the short while I lasted. I did have some interesting conversations while we waited – Logan the molecular biologist was one of the more engaging characters.








My book this week was “Go as a River” by Shelley Read. I hadn’t planned on this book and just grabbed it from the kitchen counter as I was leaving for my Austin flight. While this is definitely more of a McD type plot, I really enjoyed the outdoor descriptions and understanding the tragedy of destroying the village.