“And Then There Were Three”
Finn and I enjoyed a couple of TV shows on Sunday evening after I posted last week. We watched the Golden Globe Awards show intermittently – it’s just so long. Finn chuckled as I was able to guess the winners in a number of categories in a row. I could probably make some money on that. I was amazed at the video appearance from Norman Lear at 99 years old. He looks and sounds fantastic. What a ground-breaking body of work he created over the years!
We also watched Stanley Tucci’s “Searching for Italy” on CNN. I really enjoy this show and the energy that Tucci brings to his culinary (love the way he says it – coooolinary) adventures. The highlight this week was the great prosciutto scandal uncovered a few years back. Italy has so many very old laws governing how meets, cheeses, olive oil, pizza and the like are to be produced if they want to earn the official stamp. “Illegal” prosciutto was rampant a few years ago.
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Finn flew back to Dallas with us on Monday afternoon. He thoroughly enjoyed hanging out at the Admiral’s Club in San Francisco airport, and enjoying the snacks and food (custom made avocado toast) available in the comfy environment. The flight was smooth and on time with Finn’s checked bags rolling off before Diana could retrieve the car from the other terminal.
We took Finn out for a run with us on Tuesday. It had been several weeks since we last ran – using the snow and ice storm and bitter temperatures as an excuse – and we paid the price for sure. I dropped back a week in Couch to 5K and repeated a week 4 run – still had sore legs on Wednesday. Diana got a big kick out of coming up behind us and observing the similar gait and way we swing our arms (that was before she sped past us). I was just looking at a physical fitness test Finn did at school in 2004 and he ran an 8:40 mile and did 75 sit ups. Pretty impressive.


I dragged Finn to Market Street to stock up on groceries in the afternoon. We did a good job of finding everything on D’s list between us. He was quite impressed with the variety and quality of things available. I thought we bought enough to see us through the weekend but wasn’t planning on the healthy appetite that he brought along.
Thursday started with a big milestone – I received my first dose of the Pfizer COVID vaccine. The process was very efficient and I didn’t appear to suffer any big side-effects – just a wee bit of dizziness in the afternoon.
I was entertained by the huge Cowboys pictures on the wall as we lined up for the process. Jason Witten is still one of my favourites:

I just received my renewed passport (no European mention and back to the pre-EU blue colour) on Monday and so, coupled with the vaccine, should be ready to travel again in a month or two.
The three of us went for another run when I got back home. I decided to attempt Week 5 Day 1 even though my legs were still quite sore from Tuesday. Finn was a real trooper and did it as well. I was totally worn out after that, but did convince Finn to take on a crepe myrtle trimming project. Doesn’t he look like he’s having an absolute blast with the project. He did a great job on 3 trees and then had to attack the cleanup – always the last fun part.
I was the featured presenter on our work Town Hall on Thursday afternoon. We typically start out with “something you might not know about me”, and I talked about the Escape from Alcatraz swim. It’s been years since I did that but people still like the story – I remember how nervous my Mum was, wanting me to call and tell her I had survived.

The swim was 30 seconds worth of over 10 minutes of content that I shared, but that’s all people want to talk about. So much for all the great things we’re doing in Information Technology.
Finn has been enjoying working on his Pokémon art – adding another sketch every day or so. It’s really nice to see him focused and enjoying creating the art.

These characters are part of the “anime” genre which of course was featured in the NYT puzzle this week. Interestingly with Dragon Ball Z which is a t-shirt Finn was wearing when he explained all about it to Alicia last week.

We watched the Disney movie “Soul” on Friday night. What an excellent film. So very creative and clever all around. All three of us loved it. The music is excellent, the “Half Note” music club a good facsimile of The Village Vanguard where Diana and I have enjoyed such world class music, the main character (Joe) and 22 with such great messages about life. The animation of the leaders (Jerrys and Terry) in the Soul waiting area so wonderfully done – particularly when Terry makes it down to earth to try and retrieve Joe and 22. Highly, highly recommended.
Saturday started with all of us getting different forms of exercise – Finn and I went to 24 Hour Fitness where he had a back and bicep workout while I swam, and Diana went for a run and catchup chat session with Amy.
After that we were ready for lunch and enjoyed Cuban food from Guava in downtown McKinney. The Cubano sandwiches and plantain chips were great and Finn liked his Cuban pineapple soda. We followed that up with coffee at Filtered and a wander around downtown – there’s a new record store where I spent a few happy minutes.


We made a stop at Michael’s for art supplies so that Finn can continue his Pokémon drawings, and Diana picked up some paint and supplies at Home Depot so that Finn can start his next work project – touching up the paint in a few rooms and staircases.
Raya and the Last Dragon was our entertainment on Saturday night. Both Finn and I fell asleep less than halfway through – not as much a reflection on the movie as on our early start and busy day. We’ll have to finish that another evening.
Sunday was a reasonably leisurely day, as it should be. I went for a run, dropped Finn at 24 hour fitness, and Diana had a workout with Amy. We made a visit to Floor & Decor (a massive tile and flooring store) in the afternoon to continue to hone in on tile for the kitchen remodel. Wasn’t too bad of an experience and we found several new options for the Designer Twins to take on board.
This t-shirt entertained me – such a great message for the majority of Americans as we approach St. Patrick’s day:


I finished up “The Moth and the Mountain” by Ed Caesar. The adventure story should have been very compelling but I really struggled to stay engaged. Caesar is a reporter for the New Yorker magazine and the book felt more like a very detailed research article than an exciting story of flying around the world and attempting to climb Everest. Too much about Maurice’s letters to friends in England than real story telling.
I do have to correct an error from my previous post on this book – the plane flown from England to Everest is a Gypsy Moth and not a Sopwith Camel. The journey completed by Wilson is hugely impressive – particularly for someone who had just completed basic flying lessons a few months earlier:
“Wilson planned to be in Africa by the following evening. He set off in the morning for Naples, along the west coast of southern Italy. There he refueled, ate an early lunch, and took off for Sicily. It was perhaps the most beautiful leg of the journey so far. As he gained altitude, Mount Vesuvius bubbled on his port side, the island of Capri passed beneath him, and the whole, gorgeous, craggy Amalfi Coast, with its seaside towns built madly into the steep hills, disappeared behind his left wingtip. Soon, the Tyrrhenian Sea, sparkling blue and white, was all that lay ahead.”

On the final pages of the book, Caesar talks about Sir Edmund Hillary’s successful ascent of Everest in 1953 as a good present for Elizabeth awaiting coronation. That was the last straw for me – for some reason I was convinced both of those events happened in 1952. A quick Google search had me calmed down again.
Alicia sent me this picture of Grammie reading “The Paris Library” book that I left with her – her caption was “a very intense chapter.”

I barely started “A Promised Land” by Barack Obama today. This will likely take me several weeks to finish – 700 pages of very small print. I’m enjoying the writing style and stories so far. Very straight forward and honest.
“As I sit here, the country remains in the grips of a global pandemic and the accompanying economic crisis, with more than 178,000 Americans dead, businesses shuttered, and million of people out of work. Across the nation, people from all walks of life have poured into the streets to protest the deaths of unarmed Black men and women at the hands of the police. Perhaps most troubling of all, our democracy seems to be teetering on the brink of crisis – a crisis rooted in a fundamental contest between two opposing visions of what America is and what is should be, a crisis that has left the body politic divided, angry, and mistrustful, and has allowed for an ongoing breach of institutional norms, procedural safeguards, and the adherence to basic facts that both parties once took for granted.”
Here’s some of the honest writing that I referenced:
“What I don’t mention is my dark mood on that flight back. I was almost forty, broke, coming off a humiliating defeat and with my marriage strained. I felt for perhaps the first time in my life that I had taken a wrong turn; that whatever reservoirs of energy and optimism I thought I had, whatever potential I’d always banked on, had been used up on a fool’s errand. Worse, I recognized that in running for Congress I’d been driven not by some selfless dream of changing the world, but rather by the need to justify the choices I had already made, or to satisfy my ego, or to quell my envy of those who had achieved what I had not.
In other words, I had become the very things that, as a younger man, I had warned myself against. I had become a politician – and not a very good one at that.”

Here’s some great jazz from the “Soul” movie by New Orleanian Jon Batiste:
I heard this Rolling Stones song and was intrigued by the slide guitar – really didn’t sound like Keith. I wondered if it was Mick Taylor and research proved me right. Sounds a lot like “Moonlight Mile”, one of my favourites.
How much is Bonnie Raitt trying to sound like Joni Mitchell on this song? So different from the sound that made her so popular.
I really liked this guitar sound from Phil Cook. Having never heard of Cook, I did a quick Google search and found he plays with Bon Iver and Hiss Golden Messenger – two great artists. He sounds a lot like David Lindley on the classic Jackson Browne albums to me.
Do you know a song by The Who that features ukulele and an English brass band with no other instruments? It really does exist. Liner notes say John Entwistle (bass player) played all the brass, but it’s such a great brass band sound that I have some serious doubts.
Stay safe, calm and patient with everyone. The end is getting so much closer.




Finn and I checked into an Airbnb house in San Mateo (about 10 minutes from Will’s apartment) that I had rented for us for the week. The place was great – comfy with lots of space, good wifi, and just as advertised. We enjoyed the care package of a host of great Trader Joe’s snacks that Alicia had put together for us.


We started Saturday with a trip over to Pacifica to meet Alicia and Diana at Soul Grind for coffee and breakfast. Finn thought his Vietnamese coffee and ham and burrata quiche were the best he’d tasted. We walked along the beach path after breakfast and enjoyed the great weather.
week was picked up at Target on the way back to the Airbnb. We also picked up a meal kit and cooked up some delicious lemon zest burrata raviolis with shredded chicken and pesto sauce – it turned out really well as we improvised a bit with the kitchenware we had available.





Ferlinghetti also founded the famous City Lights bookstore in the North Beach (Italian) section of San Francisco. I’ve always enjoyed browsing there and find their recommendations very helpful.
I read “The Paris Library” by Janet Skeslien Charles and am a bit nervous to say that I’m really enjoying it. Why nervous? – it reads a bit like a girly romance novel – but I’m ok with some of that while I enjoy the descriptions of Paris and what sounds like an amazing institution – The American Library in Paris (ALP).

Bitter cold and no heat mean almost everybody has a burst pipe story. We were again very fortunate. I was watching TV on Thursday and wondered what all the static noise from the speakers was. I turned off the amp and TV and it persisted. Following the noise took me to a small river flowing out of an electric socket that is through the wall from our hose tap. Ugh! Rapid response required before the hardwood floors are ruined. Diana sprinted out front and began trying to find the water main under the snow. She found it quickly but we couldn’t get the frozen cap off. I got sufficiently mad at it and it popped off.
Water off and we now had a big flood to clean up. Fortunately our neighbor Daniel has a deluxe shop-vac that made quick work of the clean up. Daniel also helped us repair the burst so that we could turn the water on again. A trip to Home Depot – not a ton of fun with the road conditions – to pick up a pipe cutter and my new best friend – a Shark Bite pipe cap – and we were all set to execute our emergency repair. With phone communication in place I ventured back out front and slowly turned the water back on – all good. Crisis averted.








I finished reading “Hard to Handle.” A very enjoyable read and so disappointing to read story after story of how egomaniacal, uncaring, and intolerable both Chris and Rich Robinson really were throughout the life of the band.
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day to all of you. We are definitely staying inside to celebrate, except for a quick sprint that I plan later – out to the grill to cook the lobster tails. Temperatures are falling way below freezing very quickly and are not forecast to pass back above until next Saturday. We have an inch or snow just now and are expected to receive another 6 to 8 inches this afternoon with “near blizzard conditions.”
Weather has been the big discussion topic this week with an ice storm on Thursday causing havoc with traffic. Several massive pileups closed almost all the major highways through and around the Dallas/Fort Worth area. We don’t expect to be able to leave the house for the next week as several inches of snow and freezing temperatures will effectively shut down the roads until Saturday. The temperatures on the left have been significantly reduced in the current forecast.




I finished up “Shuggie Bain” by Douglas Stuart this week, and the narrative certainly didn’t get any more uplifting as Agnes, Shuggie’s mother, continues her downward spiral with alcohol abuse. There is a vague hope at the end that Shuggie is getting on his own feet and may have a successful future. I did continue to find humour in some of the phrases:


About this time of year, we would typically be “discussing” whether to attend the Mardi Gras season in New Orleans and looking forward to Jazzfest. Not this year, at least not until potentially October for Jazzfest. Anne shared this picture of Tin Men playing in front of one of the Mardi Gras float house in New Orleans. Will saw Tin Men with the boys crew at Mirliton Festival on his 25th birthday trip to NOLA, and loved them. They are best known to us for the classic “If You Can’t Make it Here” song – one of Timmy’s favourites and a great sing along number:
We’ve taken to reading a story from Diana’s Christmas Winnie the Pooh collection out loud if we’re not too tired when we make it to bed. I’m still perfecting the voices for each of the characters. Diana decided it would be good if Pooh could join us – and of course have easy access to his favourite food. I just hope that Hunny pot doesn’t fall on my head one night when I’m sleeping.
Monday and Wednesday were both great running days – sunny with temperatures in the mid 50s. Week 4 of Couch to 5K was much more pleasant the second time around. The last 5 minutes of running didn’t have me puffing nearly as much as on Monday. I hoping to make it to Week 5 next week without any injuries.
As if that wasn’t enough torture, I then made a trip to the grocery store with McD. In all fairness, I had volunteered to get some lobster tails to do a dry run on my Valentine’s day meal. We did pretty well – I overcooked the lobster a little bit but they still tasted great and we really liked the herb butter. That’s a picture from the recipe and ours didn’t look too dissimilar – we got too excited about tasting them and forgot a picture.
It won’t be snowing in Tampa today for the Super Bowl. We’re looking forward to settling in to watch a good game this evening. And I’m looking forward to the traditional pigs in a blanket that Diana will be cooking up.
I completed my journey through the life of John Steinbeck earlier this week. Souder’s book does a great job of intertwining Steinbeck’s writing exploits with the history of the world at the time, traveling through the Depression, World War II, the Korean War and Vietnam. My only beef with Souder is the way he narrates objectively for the majority of the book and then feels compelled to dismiss points of view that are contrary to Steinbeck’s in a very flippant way, with no exploration of both sides of an argument.
Monday was Burns day and so we cooked up one of the tins of haggis, the lamb version, and piped it in with “Scotland the Brave” from Spotify. I gave a poor rendition of “Address to a Haggis”, with a translated printout for Diana, and then we enjoyed the once a year or so treat – really yummy. After that Diana was “wanting something sweet” and so, in my typically cheesy way, I guided her through to the piano and attempted a rendition of “My Love is Like a Red Red Rose”. It was a very poor attempt, having only printed the music a couple of hours earlier. Here’s a better attempt – see Mum, I did get some roses this year. Diana quipped “Now I recognize it.”
Going up to the elliptical on Tuesday, I came across this display of Mardi Gras beads. Apparently McD had decided to organize our collection of beads ahead of parade season (cancelled this year) and thought the pool table provided the ideal surface. We collected the majority of those on a freezing cold parade night on our first New Orleans Mardi Gras visit.
The Designer Twins and Jose visited us on Friday afternoon to discuss the rumoured kitchen remodel. We’ll see what great ideas they come back with. One of the bigger discussion points was whether or not to keep the elevated, round section of the island. We enjoy gathering around a meat and cheese plate there when we have another couple over. Jose says they’re out of style and we need to consider a single long island that accommodates seating at the end. Any input from those of you that have occupied the barstools at the raised end? I’m scared to see the bid – so much tile and granite to be replaced.
I finished up “The Strangler” by William Landay this week and did enjoy the conclusion of the tale.
Almost forgot – I made a drive over to Grapevine on Friday to the British Food Emporium. My mission was to pick up some haggis for Burns night on Monday, but as usual I couldn’t help grabbing some other treats – a Turkish delight for Diana, meat pies for me, and some oatcakes to share. If you’d like to read details about the challenges with the Scottish haggis population, I recommend this article (I did chuckle when Brent observed that the hagglets look a lot like The Donald):







We received a late entry for the new cactus naming contest this morning, and we’re going with it. Patty christened it “Mark 3.0” and we’ll just use “3.0” as a nickname. Apparently the idea came to her in the middle of the night last night. Our boss when we worked together was Mark and he had quite the prickly personality – so he became knows at “the cactus”. When I worked with him more recently he proclaimed himself “Mark 2.0”, the kinder and gentler version. Which was true most days. Brent’s submission of “Squid Rock” has stuck after we tried it out this week.


I received some uplifting news from Alex in New Orleans on Friday. Finally something to put on the calendar to look forward to – Jazzfest has been rescheduled for the 2nd and 3rd weekends of October. We’ll have to see about changing our flights that were booked for April. Should we go for the first or second weekend? Maybe just move into Denny and Anne’s cottage for both?




I read “& Sons” by David Gilbert this week. I really enjoyed Gilbert’s short story “Cicadia” in an August 2020 edition of the New Yorker and decided to try one of his novels – “& Sons” got great reviews on its publication back in 2013.

“Greenlights”, the recent autobiography by Matthew McConaughey was a much quicker and lighter read. It feels like sitting down and having a drink with the author and listening to entertaining and engaging stories about his life.


It was back to work for me this week, with Diana joining me in the workforce on Wednesday. She had a couple of extra vacation days that she might as well use. Back to work meant Christmas was over and needed to be packed up.

I enjoyed “Blacktop Wasteland” by S.A. Cosby this week. The story is about Beauregard “Bug” Montage, a loving father, faithful husband, and honest mechanic, who has a criminal past – those in the underworld know him as one of the best drivers in the business. He’s been trying to lead an honest life, but everything is crumbling around him. His stack of bills and final notices is huge. His daughter needs money for college. His mother is about to be kicked out of her retirement home. Bug tries to work through it, but the shiny new car repair shop in town has cut his business in half. That’s why he can’t say no when a former associate offers him a job robbing a jewelry store. Eighty thousand for a day’s work. But nothing is ever as easy as it seems, and someone knows who did it, and it’s not the police.
It seems just completely crazy that we were able to drive almost 5,000 miles over the last few weeks. How did we do that? One long day at a time. Monday: Las Vegas to Albuquerque. Tuesday: Albuquerque to McKinney. Wednesday: “Rest Day”. Thursday: McKinney to New Orleans. Sunday: New Orleans to McKinney (and the reason this post is late again).
Driving to NOLA on New Year’s Eve was a bit more work. Things started badly with pouring rain and multiple accidents and lane closures before we ever left Dallas. There were some brief respites but I was mostly driving in rain and truck spray all day. It was lovely to see Denny and Anne on arrival and they really spoiled us with some yummy snacks – an amazing cheese board, crab fingers from Tableaux, and some amazing Denny oyster and sauce combinations.


We did manage to stay awake to usher in the New Year but were asleep in the wonderful guest cottage soon after.





I have nothing much to report on the reading front this week – too much time behind the wheel and enjoying friends. We did listen to “The Last Days of John Lennon” by James Patterson on the drive. This is mostly a very detailed and interesting history of Lennon and the Beatles, with small sections interspersed about Mark Chapman planning his assassination. I would recommend this to anyone looking to learn more about the Beatles and their interactions over the years.