“A Normal Week”
I’m not sure what a normal week is these days. But this seemed like one.
On Monday, I visited Tony to get my hearing aids cleaned and adjusted. As is typical, we spent the first 30 minutes talking about who we had seen performing at jazzfest and veered off into other musical discussions. The only problem was that my appointment was only for 30 minutes, the poor guy behind me had to wait a while.
I took advantage of being in Metarie (a solid 6 miles away, but seems like a totally different place than New Orleans, and we complain about having to drive that far) to make a Trader Joe’s visit. Diana was quite impressed with the fullness of the fridge on return.
We followed up our trivia win last Tuesday with 2nd place this week. We were quite pleased with ourselves.
Diana arrived home at 1:20am on Wednesday morning. She had delayed flights and had to sprint through DFW airport to catch her flight to New Orleans. I couldn’t sleep until I knew she was home. Thankfully I didn’t have any “important” work to do on Wednesday.
Wednesday was health care day. I had my teeth cleaned – good report of no issues. Then I drove Diana to an appointment over at the Jefferson hospital complex – less than 5 miles away and less than a 15 minute drive, but again it feels like a long way to us these days. We routinely drove 30 minutes to do anything at all in Dallas, but things change when you can walk to most everything you need.
Coming back from the store, we ran into this second line parade on Prytania Avenue. There a lot of weddings in May, and it did seem a bit hot for them to be walking too far in those fancy outfits.
Diana suggested a route around the parade to avoid following it all the way home – good thinking D.
The Prytania movie theater shows a classic movie each week at 10am on Sunday and Wednesday. This week was “Moonstruck” with Cher and Nicholas Cage.
The talks before the movie starts are a very enjoyable part of this experience. The detail and background provided on this occasion was very impressive. I have no idea how the gentleman memorized all that he shared.
My big take away was that I didn’t remember the film being so funny and corny.
After the movie we had lunch at our old standby – Juan’s Flying Burrito.

My book this week was “Wild Dark Shore” by Charlotte McConaghy. This is a murder mystery set on a remote island near Antarctica, but it’s a lot more than that. I learned about emergency seed banks, and lots of nature, including deep details about penguins. A very good read.
“A family on a remote island. A mysterious woman washed ashore. A rising storm on the horizon.
Dominic Salt and his three children are caretakers of Shearwater, a tiny island not far from Antarctica. Home to the world’s largest seed bank, Shearwater was once full of researchers, but with sea levels rising, the Salts are now its final inhabitants. Until, during the worst storm the island has ever seen, a woman mysteriously washes ashore.
Isolation has taken its toll on the Salts, but as they nurse the woman, Rowan, back to strength, it begins to feel like she might just be what they need. Rowan, long accustomed to protecting herself, starts imagining a future where she could belong to someone again.
But Rowan isn’t telling the whole truth about why she set out for Shearwater. And when she discovers sabotaged radios and a freshly dug grave, she realizes Dominic is keeping his own secrets. As the storms on Shearwater gather force, they all must decide if they can trust each other enough to protect the precious seeds in their care before it’s too late―and if they can finally put the tragedies of the past behind them to create something new, together.
A novel of breathtaking twists, dizzying beauty, and ferocious love, Wild Dark Shore is about the impossible choices we make to protect the people we love, even as the world around us disappears.”

I really enjoy this band – always a little bit different:
Something folky and quiet:
And finally, a song from 1976, back when the music could play for over a minute before the vocals start – not suitable for the attention spans of today:
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!
This was the week that we said “Goodbye” to Clorinda. “Bye, with Love” is how she finished every phone call. I joined Diana in Pacifica, CA in time to get dressed for the vigil service on Wednesday evening. I hadn’t attended a vigil before and wasn’t really sure what to expect. All of the siblings spoke, including a very nice tribute from Diana. Several others spoke, including an entertaining and clever speech from Jeff. However, the highlight for me was Luciano, age 10, with a very touching tribute. He had nothing prepared and saw his Mom go up to speak and decided he should say something too. What a great job he did.




























I finished “All Fours” by Miranda July this week. This book did not finish as it started – I was very pleased with the early section last week. The last two thirds of the book were almost unreadable for me, but I slogged on. Slow, vulgar, and with no real point. Like when Philip Roth or John Updike tried to shock you for a paragraph or two but dragged out by July for a hundred or more pages. Not recommended. I asked Kelly (our resident literature guru) what she thought – “HATED IT!” I’m not alone, and we both wonder what’s wrong with all those gushing reviewers.
I needed a palate cleanser after that, and so have made it most of the way through “My Darling Boy” by John Dufresne. I’ll share the online summary now and return with some of my favourite passages next week:




We were in the CBD (Central Business District) for a meeting with our estate lawyer on Wednesday afternoon. Diana commented that she didn’t remember the last time she was in a high rise office building – it’s been a while for both of us. After the meeting, we walked to Peche, a restaurant that we’ve been looking to try for a while. Debra recommended it and her recommendations carry some weight, given her job as manager of Jaques-Imo’s.

I circulated this picture of Diana peeking out of an egg as an Easter “yoke.” It was actually a dinosaur egg as part of an advertisement in a shopping mall in Glasgow.





There is a wonderful new record out this week -“Audience with the Queen” by Galactic and Irma Thomas. Thomas is 84 years old and sounds fantastic on all tracks, especially this one:






Alicia’s cat, Fri Fri, has been staying in our bedroom since Marco has an allergy to cat dander. I’ve renamed her the terrorist since she loves to jump on my head from behind when I’m sitting on the couch, nibble my toes in the middle of the night, and generally be a nuisance. And then she has the gaul to sleep on my side of the bed.
I started “Infinite Jest” by David Foster Wallace. I’m not sure how far I’ll be able to make it through this. Some chapters are entertaining and some are just very strange, and it’s a very long tome (1500 pages). More to come.


Kenny and I attended Danny Barker fest at the Jazz Museum on Thursday. This was a very pleasant festival – outside in the courtyard and not too busy. Would you like to know about Danny Barker? Okay – here’s an overview:
From 1939 to 1946, he frequently recorded with 
Fete Francaise was on Saturday. I always enjoy this small festival put on by the French bilingual school on Magazine Street. They have food tents from local French restaurants and always very good music. Anne suggested lunch at La Petite Grocery (right next to the festival location) as the tents often run out of the most desired food and drinks. Lunch was great – I enjoyed the fusilli pasta with short rib and mushrooms. The portion was just right for lunch on a hot day.


I read “The Futures” by Anna Pitoniak this week. This was a fast and easy read, not living up to the excellent reviews from several well respected sources. It seemed a bit light and fluffy as it covered the 2008 crash. Here’s the online review:


I didn’t read much this week, but did start a collection of short stories by Eudora Welty – I’m only a couple in.



















I finished the wonderful “James” by Percival Everett this week. I highly recommend this unique and creative read. You’ll remember it’s a reimagining of Huck Finn, told from the enslaved Jim’s point of view.





