“1,950 miles later”
The drive from Las Vegas to Pacifica was pleasantly uneventful. The border checkpoint from Nevada into California wasn’t even manned as we made
the crossing. I continue to turn into a “grumpy old man” – night driving with oncoming traffic not separated by a median is getting pretty difficult. I struggle to see where I’m going with the oncoming glare. So, the Pacheco Pass at night wasn’t really much fun. It’s very twisty and ill lit. That whining aside, we arrived at the hotel in Pacifica around 9pm. 1,950 miles in the books. I should have about 10 days now with no lengthy drives.
Once in our hotel room, Diana went on a mission to install the Amazon Firestick so that we could watch all our normal TV and streaming shows. She was so tired that it was easy to see her brain working but not easy to interpret what was (or wasn’t) being said. Problem one was that in order to connect to the hotel WiFi one needed to check the “Accept Terms and Conditions” box, but the remote wouldn’t go to the box. An hour later Diana noticed the “cursor mode” option and that problem was solved. Problem two – the firestick was installed and working fine but the remote wouldn’t control the TV volume and power, even after a bunch of fancy settings updates by McD. I looked at some YouTube videos of how to fix the issue and tried a number of things. An hour later, Diana finally gave up and sat down at her computer. I decided to try the regular TV remote that we had thought only controlled the Dish satellite system. Whaddaya know? Controlled volume perfectly. Two hours lost, but all TV and streaming options fully installed for our hotel stay. I wish I had some of that escapade on video. Funnily enough the firestick remote started controlling the volume just fine the next day with no changes.
We decided to be very safe and get a COVID test before visiting with Diana’s Mom. Another late hour of work showed that “Project Baseline” was the best option. After 30 minutes of data entry the site told us that we could make appointments for the Half Moon Bay location on Wednesday morning. We assumed we could walk in on Tuesday morning and planned that as our early morning activity.
The drive down to Half Moon Bay was quick and pleasant but there was no evidence of any testing activity at the church, other than a couple of tents set up in the parking lot. I tried to search for related testing locations and came up with a county run drive through site in Daly city – just south of San Francisco. We finally found the location and 30 minutes later had completed our tests with a 1 to 3 day waiting period for results.
After that interesting activity we were ready for some lunch. I spotted the City Kebabs and Gyros shop as we approached a traffic light and we decided to give it a try. The Mediterranean food was delicious with all my favourites – humus, falafels, dolmas, chicken and lamb. We were able to eat at the little table outside – one day before even patio dining was shut down.
We met Will and Christine for dinner at Town in San Carlos on Tuesday evening. The street was closed off and the restaurants had made some big investments in building outdoor dining. We were warm with the heaters and shades even though the temperature was in the forties. It was funny to listen to Diana and Will deciding on which steak and preparation they were going to share. I loved my sea bass and had some leftovers for lunch on Wednesday. It was a real treat to hang out and have a meal with Will and Christine. We had debated which night to meet and it was fortuitous that we chose Tuesday as all onsite dining shut down in California on Wednesday.
Wednesday began with a walk from Rockaway beach over to Lindamar Beach. This involves zig-zagging up a decent sized hill.


I enjoyed a good macchiato at Soul Grind at the mid-point of the walk while Diana ran back for a work call.
The surf was the biggest that I’ve seen in Pacifica – the waves cresting at 15 to 20 feet. There were a few brave surfers at Rockaway and you could tell they certainly knew what they were doing. I really enjoyed sitting on the balcony and watching the sea and surfers. Listening to the surfers in the Soul Grind parking lot sharing their experiences was hilarious – they really do have that whole special slang that you see in movies.
The sunsets in Pacifica are equally impressive:

We still didn’t have our test results on Wednesday evening and so stayed at the hotel for dinner with Diana picking up food at the Moonraker restaurant across the street. This is one of the nicer places in Pacifica (not really a high bar) and has a great view of the surf when the restaurant is open. I enjoyed my lobster BLT sandwich and clam chowder.
Thursday started the same way as Wednesday with a pleasant walk between the two beaches and a coffee at Soul Grind. We worked most of the day from the hotel room and then joined our respective work happy hours. Diana’s was quite entertaining with one of her colleagues playing a Christmas carol on the tuba. We finally received our negative COVID test results on Thursday evening and were cleared to head up on Gypsy Hill and visit the family.
Diana chose to start her birthday with a run – and conquered the zig-zag path up the hill – most impressive. She had texted a picture to Marco (the ultra-marathoner) and asked if he thought she could do it. He coached her to stand up straight and take little strides – seemed to work. After her run we did another walk over for coffee and then enjoyed a sandwich from Dinosaur’s – such great Vietnamese sandwiches on yummy bread.
Birthday dinner was hosted by Adamo and family at their home. I enjoyed looking over the kid’s task lists for the day.

Massimo’s tree in his room is certainly right up there with the Charlie Brown version:

Luciano is quite proud of his ability to count to one hundred. I liked Diana’s bobbing head encouragement:
McD likes to have surf and turf for her birthday meal and Adamo made sure she was fully taken care of:


Those are lobsters that he caught diving and they were delicious. While the cooking was underway, Diana was reviewing her hand made cards from the boys.
After dinner Grammie and Massimo relaxed and watched Rudolph.

One other thing that I came across that I thought was worth sharing. Look at this 4th birthday card that Andy made for Massimo – he’s so creative with his cards. He had seen Massimo in that jacket and thought he looked like a zebra.

Saturday was a pleasant and quiet day. We ordered dinner from Mezza Luna in Princeton (just down Highway 1 from Pacifica) and ate with Adamo and the noise making crew. The pizza and calamari were both very good.
Sunday started with another walk across the hill for coffee and a breakfast burrito at Soul Grind. Then we packed up and moved from the hotel to Clorinda’s house just in time to watch the Cowboys defeat the San Francisco 49ers. The Saints played really well against the Chiefs in Drew Brees first game back from injury but were edged out in the end. Adamo and I are in the midst of a project to install a TV at Clorinda’s. Our small helpers are being exceptionally helpful.
We listened to the Ann Cleeves book “Raven Black” on the second section of our drive. This is the first in the Shetland series – I read the 4th “Blue Lighting” a year or two ago, a gift from Mum and Dad and enjoyed it. This one was a tad formulaic with the introduction and exploration of all potential guilty parties and Diana and I enjoyed trying to figure out who we thought were the leading contenders. Neither one of us was close.
The story is set against the local Shetland festival of Up Helly Aa which celebrates the Viking history of the island, and culminates in the burning of a long boat. The Guizer Jarl is the leader of the squad that builds and ultimately burns the boat, and one of the characters in the book was the Guizer for that year.

I was introduced to the “Nutcracker Suite” by Duke Ellington this week and really like it a lot – terrific arrangements and playing.
This led me to Ellington’s “New Orleans Suite” which might be even better.
I came across this performance of Led Zeppelin covers by Government Mule with Jason Bonham (son of Zeppelin drummer John Bonham) on drums. What a great job Warren Haynes does on guitar and vocals – he really is one of the most under-appreciated guitarists working today.
I’ll finish with another Christmas related song that I heard for the first time this week – “Christmas Must Be Tonight” by The Band. Great stuff:
Stay safe and patient- there’s an end in sight.
After a busy Thanksgiving weekend, this week was very quiet with our only real outing to downtown McKinney for coffee today. Diana took my picture with the Xmas display outside the coffee shop. Not quite a Christmas card since Diana and BP didn’t make it in.

She said several times that the grilled lobsters were perfectly cooked. A nicely cooked sea bass makes me happy. So we were both very happy with our meals – and had plenty of leftovers for a late dinner. I laughed when we checked in on the chaos at Amy and Adamo’s home and heard that Adamo had said, “maybe we can go out for lobster on Thanksgiving twenty years from now.”
After Peche, we walked across the street to the Parker Jazz Club (capacity reduced from over 100 to 30) and enjoyed our first live music in 9 months with 12 other folks. Kris and the team are trying really hard to keep the place going with very limited seating weekend shows and live-streaming. The house band was excellent as always – although the new drummer over plays too much for my liking. Kris might have played almost all of his 8 or 9 instruments – going from bass flute to multiple saxophones and a flugelhorn.
Brunch was at the Odd Duck – one of my top three Austin brunch spots. The shrimp and grits with a perfectly cooked deep fried egg were fabulous, as was the ceviche with green curry sauce. It’s always so hard to choose from all the options – and the menu is new every time we go. Diana loved their take on the Paloma cocktail. I’m now expected to try and replicate that – oops, maybe she’d forgotten already and I just reminded her.
Sunday was a dry day and so we were able to execute a 4 mile circuit around the river trail, culminating with another snack at TacoDeli. Then another excellent brunch at Suerte – my top ranked Mexican restaurant. The masa that they make all the corn tortillas and tostadas from is ridiculously good. Diana had a smoked salmon tostada and I tried the bacon and sweet potato tetela (like a corn based pie with bacon and sweet potato puree inside). They were both perfect – particularly the mornay sauce, which I learned is a classic béchamel sauce enriched with a blend of Gruyère and Parmesan cheeses. We have really missed the creative food that is so readily available in Austin. And the great live music.



After brunch we met our friend Neffie at Fixe – a new place she introduced us to that specializes in southern comfort food – supposedly the best biscuits (scones) in Austin.
We passed this sign on the walk to Fixe – so nice to be able to walk everywhere again. My Mum had just been telling us the story of the Battle of Bannockburn where the English tried to sneak up on the Scots at night, taking their boots off for stealth, but were foiled by the thistles that made them yelp and awake the sleeping Scots. And like a responsible Scotsman who payed attention in History class, I do indeed remember that happened in 1314.

I’ve been enjoying “Utopia Avenue” by David Mitchell (best known for “Cloud Atlas”). The book is about a group of musicians who form a band in the late 60s and early 70s. It started really well and is dragging a bit in the middle. At almost 500 pages with 200 or so to go, I’m hoping it grabs my interest a bit more soon. Although a work of fiction, famous musicians and other characters from real life make appearances in the book – sometimes entertaining and other times feeling pretty contrived – particularly in their dialogue.















(tried a new place called “Wattage” which didn’t have any atmosphere at all – we’ll be back to Filtered next week), piano practice, chat with Vince in Phillie, FaceTime with Mum and Dad, elliptical with early football game, relaxing steam shower, and now watching the Cowboys play the Minnesota Vikings. Currently winning 16-14 after a one handed circus catch by Lamb.
I dipped back into the excellent “Cool Gray City of Love” by Gary Kamiya (long time San Francisco Chronicle writer) and particularly the chapter “The Front Door”. This book covers 49 different views and associated stories of the city, and this chapter is about the Ferry Building. I read that it is modeled after the Giralda, Seville Cathedral’s minaret turned well tower. The change in the area over the years is fascinating:
“In 1913, 60,000 consumers crossed the bay by water twice each workday. They walked off the boat and up the Y-shaped gangways into the Ferry Building, strolled across its marble mosaic floors, and exited through its massive arches onto the Ferry Plaza. What greeted them was controlled chaos – and a city planner’s dream. Streetcars, horses, cable cars, railroads – there was more transportation running around than in a Richard Scarry book.”
I completed “Goodbye to a River” this week. As I mentioned, this is part canoeing adventure down the Brazos river, part history of the early settlers and the Comanche tribe, and part commentary on man-made lakes and dams and the changes they foist on nature.

The week started with another home maintenance issue. Do we ever get a solid break from those? Maybe six months between major issues? This time it’s the arbor over the back deck. I suppose we can’t get too mad at it since it’s been solid over the seven and a half years we’ve lived here. I noticed a crack in the middle of the seam and then Diana reported hearing creaking and breaking. We called a repair company and were hoping they would arrive before the whole thing came down, pulling gutters and whatever else with it. They made it in time – whew! – and we rigged up a very temporary support with our ladder and a jack. A sturdier support was applied the next morning and the new beam materials (30 feet wide) should be delivered tomorrow.







After all that strenuous work, it was on to the seemingly never-ending task of cleaning up the leaves from our massive front yard oak tree. Eighteen bags in all over the last couple of weekends. That should just about do it – there are very few leaves left on the branches and McD used her new blower to eject most of the stragglers from the flower beds.
I finished up “Anxious People” on Saturday morning. You’ll remember that I loved the beginning two weeks ago and then was slightly less enthused with the middle section last week. I’m pleased to report that the ending was excellent. A lot of unexpected conclusions with a heavy dose of kindness and compassion that I didn’t see coming.
I drove down to Lower Greenville Avenue (just north of downtown Dallas) for lunch with my boss on Monday. It was a beautiful day and we enjoyed the Blue Goose patio. The sour-cream chicken enchiladas were just how I remembered them – best in Dallas for sure. It was very sad to see the empty building that used to house the fantastic Grape restaurant across the street. The Lushers sold it just prior to
COVID. Diana and I (and many others with us) have enjoyed so many fabulous meals at this French bistro, including our first dinner together in Dallas. The chicken liver pate, homemade Boursin cheese, charcuterie, lamb tartines, mushroom soup, best burger in Dallas at Sunday brunch, steak frites, mussels, and so many more delicious flavours are no more.
There was a loud blowing noise overhead as I sat on the patio on Tuesday that had me a bit spooked. Then I realized there was a hot-air balloon trying to land in the back yard.

Saturday continued with the removal of the family room curtains and rods. We’ve never really liked them and decided to see what the room looks like without them – very bright and open but lacking something at the top of the windows. The sconces look even more ornate and outdated without the curtains – that’ll be the next project. I was just informed about the best website to shop for replacements.

The wind picked up in the afternoon, blowing mountains of leaves from the tree in our neighbours’ yard into the pool . Not to worry – pool girl D has been busy scooping out leaves and emptying the skimmer baskets all day.
The commentary on how the initial theme changes from 7 beats to 8 beats per bar in alternating bars, capturing our brains as they work to figure out the difference versus a constant 7 or 8 beats per bar which would become monotonous, was quite interesting. I can remember listening to this album in high school and being sucked in right away – something completely different and original.
Our only outing was to downtown McKinney for coffee on Saturday morning. Filtered coffee shop has a new outdoor seating area that’s set up to look like a beer garden – I think they plan to serve beer outside from a new counter area. There’s a new Cuban restaurant next door that we’re looking forward to trying – I’m hoping they have good empanadas. Diana commented that she doesn’t expect to see the kiddie seesaws that were set up on the concrete next time we visit. They’re just waiting for a kid to tumble off and bump their head on the unforgiving concrete.
Halloween was a non-event and we didn’t see any kids out at all. Coal Porter did make an appearance in New Orleans.
When I left you last Sunday, we were sporting our “Flu Fighter” band-aids. Diana added her “I Voted” sticker in the afternoon and reported that the line to vote at the fire station was short when she arrived a few minutes before the early voting opened.






Andy and Jude (Clorinda’s wonderful neighbours) won the most creative card award. This is a picture of Clorinda and accompanist from around 60 years ago. Andy made a mask for the accompanist from the same material as her dress – very nice detailed work.
I think Clorinda enjoyed sitting talking to and watching her newest grand-daughter, Francesca, more than anything else. She’s such a good and happy baby – Amy certainly deserved that third time around.
Kenny (New Orleans Fire Department Station Chief) recommended “The Cooperating Witness” by Mike Avery, a friend of his who now lives in New Orleans. Interestingly Kenny is currently working on a memoir of his 30 years on the NOFD. I suspect there are going to be some very compelling stories in there, including the months when he lived at the fire house during Hurricane Katrina. Here’s a little bit about Michael Avery from his website:
The other book that I enjoyed this week was “Chinaberry Sidewalks” by Rodney Crowell, a singer songwriter raised in dirt poor conditions in Houston in the 1950s and 60s. I’ve enjoyed his music and the albums he produced for Rosanne Cash and others for several years, and enjoyed his memoir a lot.



We took advantage of New Orleans restaurant week, where many places offer reduced prix fixe meals, for dinner at La Petite Grocery – one of our favourites with consistently good food. I enjoyed crab bisque, Parisian gnocchi, and butterscotch pudding. The pudding has been on their menu for over 10 years for good reason – served like a pot du
creme with excellent flavour. Diana ordered from the regular menu and loved her steak tartare and scallops. Such a nice treat to enjoy a fabulous meal with Denny and Anne.







beach in the morning. On the way back from the beach we all rented bikes at Big Daddy’s for easy transportation to and from the beach (parking was very limited) and then Diana and I made a run to Publix (local grocery store chain) for dinner supplies. We cooked up chicken fajitas on the grills at the expansive common area by the community pool.



The weather cleared up on Sunday and we spent the morning at Goat Feathers beach – I’m not sure that’s the official name but the access is beside the Goat Feathers seafood shop and so that’s what it’s called by the krewe. The sea continued to be very choppy with double red flags indicating nobody should even think about going on. Denny picked up some lovely fresh shrimp there and made an excellent pasta to go with them. He’s such a great cook and makes it look so easy.
Monday was a driving day – from Florida back to New Orleans. We arrived around 3pm and were able to meet up with Kenny and Kara, and later Denny and Anne, for a snack at Val’s, a new Mexican restaurant that is very similar to Suerte in Austin. They server street tacos and other authentic Mexican fare. The elotes (corn on the cob with “fixin’s”) are delicious.





While I was enjoying football, McD was hacking away at bushes with her new power tool – please keep a safe distance! That’s actually the neighbours’ side yard beside our driveway that’s she’s attacking.
On Friday we loaded up and made the all day drive from McKinney to New Orleans to visit the Ogans for a few days, prior to all caravanning over to the Florida panhandle for a week by the beach. The drive was relatively leisurely with a stop at Athena in Shreveport for some fantastic Mediterranean cuisine. We were amazed at the quality of everything we ordered in this unassuming restaurant. The hummus was some of the best we’ve had. Our second stop was in Opelousas for coffee prior to arrival on Webster Street around 7pm.


I finished “The Beekeeper of Aleppo” by Christy Lefteri this week – a recommendation from my Mum.
On an even more positive and important front, we received a picture of our Australian friend Stan’s new grandson on Monday – Henry Stanley. Stan used to work with us at AIG and moved back home several years ago. A couple of years ago they found several large tumors in his brain and he was diagnosed with 6 months to live. The doctors involved in that diagnosis clearly didn’t know Stan like we do. We had a FaceTime with Stan on Saturday night and weren’t sure what to expect. He popped right up and recognized me straight away. Full of his usual kindness, positive energy, and humour, he participated in a delightful conversation with us for over 30 minutes. What a treat to see him in such good spirits after a long battle that he appears to be winning. His short term memory is compromised but he still has all of his older memories. As we discussed the impact of COVID on schools and universities, Stan used the term “staccato learning” to describe the starts and stops of online versus in school learning – not a term you would hear from someone who’s brain isn’t alive and very active.
Diana completed her first official 5K running distance this morning – actually over-achieved at 3.25 miles. Even after that she still had a lot of pent up energy and decided to start consolidating all CDs, cassettes, and DVDs from their various locations in the house to the newly redesigned family room TV/stereo wall unit. I installed shelves that she couldn’t reach and dutifully retrieved mounds of CDs from my office closet.





My first big question on meeting Erik Larson would be, “Do you nae ken that Scotland and Glasgow are not part of England?”
On the other hand, “Sigh, Gone” by Phuc Tran was a delightful read and I highly recommend it. Tran’s family escaped Vietnam in 1975, just as Saigon was falling. They ended up as refugees in Carlisle, a small town in Pennsylvania. The book tracks his life from arrival until graduation from high school.
These days Tran is a high school Latin teacher – has been for 20 years. Interestingly, he also owns and operates a tattoo parlor in Portland and is apparently highly sought after. Here’s some of his work: