Week in Review – May 18th, 2025

“A Normal Week”

I’m not sure what a normal week is these days.  But this seemed like one.

On Monday, I visited Tony to get my hearing aids cleaned and adjusted.  As is typical, we spent the first 30 minutes talking about who we had seen performing at jazzfest and veered off into other musical discussions.  The only problem was that my appointment was only for 30 minutes, the poor guy behind me had to wait a while.

I took advantage of being in Metarie (a solid 6 miles away, but seems like a totally different place than New Orleans, and we complain about having to drive that far) to make a Trader Joe’s visit.  Diana was quite impressed with the fullness of the fridge on return.

We followed up our trivia win last Tuesday with 2nd place this week.  We were quite pleased with ourselves.

Diana arrived home at 1:20am on Wednesday morning.  She had delayed flights and had to sprint through DFW airport to catch her flight to New Orleans.  I couldn’t sleep until I knew she was home.  Thankfully I didn’t have any “important” work to do on Wednesday.

Wednesday was health care day.  I had my teeth cleaned – good report of no issues.  Then I drove Diana to an appointment over at the Jefferson hospital complex – less than 5 miles away and less than a 15 minute drive, but again it feels like a long way to us these days.  We routinely drove 30 minutes to do anything at all in Dallas, but things change when you can walk to most everything you need.

Coming back from the store, we ran into this second line parade on Prytania Avenue.  There a lot of weddings in May, and it did seem a bit hot for them to be walking too far in those fancy outfits.

Diana suggested a route around the parade to avoid following it all the way home – good thinking D.

The Prytania movie theater shows a classic movie each week at 10am on Sunday and Wednesday.  This week was “Moonstruck” with Cher and Nicholas Cage.

The talks before the movie starts are a very enjoyable part of this experience.  The detail and background provided on this occasion was very impressive.  I have no idea how the gentleman memorized all that he shared.

My big take away was that I didn’t remember the film being so funny and corny.

After the movie we had lunch at our old standby – Juan’s Flying Burrito.

My book this week was “Wild Dark Shore” by Charlotte McConaghy.  This is a murder mystery set on a remote island near Antarctica, but it’s a lot more than that.  I learned about emergency seed banks, and lots of nature, including deep details about penguins.  A very good read.

“A family on a remote island. A mysterious woman washed ashore. A rising storm on the horizon.

Dominic Salt and his three children are caretakers of Shearwater, a tiny island not far from Antarctica. Home to the world’s largest seed bank, Shearwater was once full of researchers, but with sea levels rising, the Salts are now its final inhabitants. Until, during the worst storm the island has ever seen, a woman mysteriously washes ashore.

Isolation has taken its toll on the Salts, but as they nurse the woman, Rowan, back to strength, it begins to feel like she might just be what they need. Rowan, long accustomed to protecting herself, starts imagining a future where she could belong to someone again.

But Rowan isn’t telling the whole truth about why she set out for Shearwater. And when she discovers sabotaged radios and a freshly dug grave, she realizes Dominic is keeping his own secrets. As the storms on Shearwater gather force, they all must decide if they can trust each other enough to protect the precious seeds in their care before it’s too late―and if they can finally put the tragedies of the past behind them to create something new, together.

A novel of breathtaking twists, dizzying beauty, and ferocious love, Wild Dark Shore is about the impossible choices we make to protect the people we love, even as the world around us disappears.”

I really enjoy this band – always a little bit different:

Something folky and quiet:

And finally, a song from 1976, back when the music could play for over a minute before the vocals start – not suitable for the attention spans of today:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!

 

Week in Review – May 11th, 2025

“Bye, With Love”

This was the week that we said “Goodbye” to Clorinda.  “Bye, with Love” is how she finished every phone call.  I joined Diana in Pacifica, CA in time to get dressed for the vigil service on Wednesday evening.  I hadn’t attended a vigil before and wasn’t really sure what to expect.  All of the siblings spoke, including a very nice tribute from Diana.  Several others spoke, including an entertaining and clever speech from Jeff.  However, the highlight for me was Luciano, age 10, with a very touching tribute.  He had nothing prepared and saw his Mom go up to speak and decided he should say something too.  What a great job he did.

Will and Christine made it to the vigil and left this lovely memory card.  Clorinda would laugh every time the silly llama did its Christmas dance with its neck extending up and down.

I need to rewind to Tuesday now and talk about a big win for the Bayou Boyz.  It seemed “trivial” to mention this before talking about the services for Clorinda.  Maybe that gives you a hint about the topic?  Yes – we won first place, and a $50 Dat Dog gift card, in the weekly trivia challenge.  We only missed one of 37 questions.  Now back to more important reporting.

The funeral service took place on Thursday morning and was very well attended.  I wasn’t sure of the protocol for a Catholic service – and was offered no help as we processed in given order into the church and stopped to do something at the urn.  I couldn’t see what anyone was doing and I was last in line, so just nodded at the urn and sat down.  A little help in advance please guys?

Alicia did a great job of “Ave Maria” on her flute – most impressive given she hasn’t played in years (my guess) and had just a short time to prepare.

Here’s a wee treat for you – Clorinda performing “Ave Maria” at Adamo’s wedding:

We held a reception in the multi-purpose hall at the church.  Diana’s guess of 150 attendees seemed spot on.  She had arranged some excellent caterers and I think the event came off very well.  We were “treated” to a performance from the five brothers:

Here’s Diana telling Marco what a wonderful job he did with the eulogy – it truly was amazing.  Marco is a great public speaker but he really outdid himself with this review of his Mom’s life and what was important to her.

After the reception, a smaller group joined us back at Clorinda’s house for leftovers and other offerings.  Felly was one of the caregivers for the last couple of months.  You can tell how much she is loved by the kids, Caroline and everyone who came in contact with her:

We gathered around the mandala that Amy had made with flowers from the hill.

On Friday, we commuted to the cemetery in Santa Clara.  Oh, I should share one tiny example of the “detailed” approach Marco took to these events – as we were pulling away, he had a friend stop us to give instructions on printing out a different picture of his mom to be displayed at the grave site.  “No, sorry, we’re out of time.  He’ll have to choose from the four we already have with us.”

We arrived at the gravesite, and the groundskeeper explained how the burial would work – Clorinda’s urn going in a container above the slab covering Sebastian.  All seemed straight forward, until he asked for the “Authorization for Burial certificate.”  “The what certificate?, we had no idea that was needed.”  Oopsy! ” What do we do if we can’t get one?”  “You can have the service, but nothing can be put in the ground.”  This was not pleasing to anyone.  Time to “solve the problem.”

Diana called the funeral home and couldn’t get anyone to answer.  I asked, “Who can we call to go by and roust them up to get a copy?” Of course, Andy.  Then it occured to me to have Andy go down to Clorinda’s house and see if he could find it among the funeral papers in a folder on the printer.  He found it in a few minutes, I texted it to the cemetery director and we were good to fully proceed.  Whew!

Saturday was a day to chill and try to relax.  We were sorry that we missed Jack’s graduation at the Superdome in New Orleans.  He graduated from Loyola University and starts a short internship with my company in a few weeks.  He’s on the left.

Sunday was a travel day back home for me, with Diana staying another few days to finish things up.

That was a pretty exhausting week in several ways!

Week in Review – May 4th, 2025

“The Days Between”

Monday was a busy day, packed with a variety of activities.  Things kicked off with my colonoscopy in the morning – no findings and so I don’t need to repeat the joy of the preparation for another 10 years.

Since it had been so long since I had eaten, Diana drove me to Juan’s Flying Burrito (excellent comfort food) where we feasted on crawfish queso – yum, followed by a breakfast chorizo burrito for me – even had some leftovers.

Our financial advisor, Paul, came over to the house in the afternoon to pick up a check and to give Diana an overview of the stuff she had missed while in California.  It’s nice to have Paul just around the corner from us – a quick walk.

“Shorty Fest” is an annual fundraiser for the Trombone Shorty Academy, which provides a free music education class for local students, with meals and transportation provided.  The event is held at Tipitinas with a free outdoor street party prior.  We enjoyed the three Academy bands (beginner, intermediate, and advanced.)  Here’s something from the advanced level:

Stanton Moore inducted the local drummer, Shannon Powell, into the Tips walk of fame:

And then my favourite part, the battle of the bands.  Two high school bands face each other and try to outplay each other.  See what you think about them:

What do you think?  In my opinion, both were very good, with the second band having a slight edge, but that may just be due to where I was standing.  I love that there are so many amazing brass bands in New Orleans.

I almost forgot this character.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anyone put as much oomph into playing the bass drum:

Quite the eventful Monday.

Tuesday began with a couple of laps around Audubon park.  Then it was back over to Tipitinas.  I had seen the annual Zildjian jam advertised between prior Jazzfest weekends and never managed to attend as it’s held in the afternoon.  Semi-retirement to the rescue!  Here’s a little history on the Zildjian company:

The company was founded in Constantinople in 1623 by Avedis Zildjian, an Armenian. Zildjian is now based in Norwell, Massachusetts. Zildjian is the oldest manufacturer of musical instruments in the world as well as one of the oldest continuously operating companies in the world. Zildjian sells cymbals, drumsticks, percussion mallets and other drum accessories under the Zildjian, Vic Firth and Balter Mallet brands.

Very impressive.  Two members of the family were on stage for some short commentary.

The event featured an outstanding house band, including Ivan Neville, Ian Neville, and Tony Hall.  A host of drummers took turns coming out to play a song with the house band.  This was amazing – so much musical variety and different styles of drumming.  Tif Lamson sang and played the drums, she most recently was part of Shania Twain’s band:

Nikki Glaspie is a local, multi-talented musician.  Here she drummed and sang backup:

I really enjoyed the elder statesman of the group, Ricky Sebastian:

And finally, showing off for the drummer audience, Stanton Moore takes it to another level:

What a great way to spend an afternoon.  I enjoyed telling the guys at trivia on Tuesday evening what they had missed.  We came in fourth place, not horrible but we aim for a top three position.  There was a question about what liquor comes in yellow and green versions – this reminded me of my visit to the Chartreuse distillery in France as a youngster.

Diana came across these characters just wandering down St. Charles avenue on  Wednesday morning.  We have no idea where they could have been coming from our going to.

I don’t think that I’ve seen chicks with those spotted markings.

We met Kara and Kenny for a late lunch/early dinner at Peche – wonderful again on our second visit, and then walked to Lafayette Square for the free Wednesday evening concert, featuring Sunpie and Eric Lindell.

Kara seems to be having fun.  Lindell put on a good show, featuring Derek Huston on saxophone – I’m glad they made up.

A third day in a row with good music.

A visit to the New Orleans Athletic Club started our Thursday.  In the evening we made a visit to the Bouligny tavern – Diana was there recently with Kara, and it’s been way too long since I visited.  They play vinyl records, make good drinks, and have great food, sharing a kitchen with Lilette next door.  The bartender was mildly grumpy to start but we quickly got her onside.  Conversation turned to our travels back and forward to Pacifica – “Oh, I know where that is, I used to go to parties at Jim’s house down on Pedro Point.”  We wondered if that was the same Jim that paddleboards with Adamo and Luciano.  Some quick texting revealed that it was indeed the same Jim.  What are the odds?  The odds got even slimmer when the newly arrived second bartender asked, “Pacifica, isn’t that the one with the Taco Bell on the beach?”

We returned to Jazzfest on Friday.  Diana really wanted to see the country star Luke Combs, and she should get to choose every once in a while.  The Deslondes kicked off the action on the main stage with the best song that I heard at the fest, a cover of J.J. Cale’s “Drifting Wife”:

Mark Broussard followed and didn’t quite seem to have his usual powerful voice.  We read the next morning that he had to cut his set short and apparently was suffering from dehydration.  He still did a good job:

We met the boys at Congo Square to see some of B.I.M. (Benin International Musical).  They have an unusual sound – afro beat mixed with some other styles.

From there we wandered over to the Lagniappe stage and saw Kristin Diable (very good) :

Kristin was followed by 007 – a ska band featuring Alex McMurray and friends that were celebrating 25 years:

We popped into the Gospel tent on our way back to the main stage and caught this gem from Irma Thomas (now 83):

And now it was time for the main event (at least in Diana’s eyes) – Luke Combs.  I admit that he pleased the crowd with hit after hit, sounded good, and put on a very professional show.  A lady next to us commented on how much she was enjoyed Diana enjoying the music – indeed she was:

We stayed for about fifty minutes and then caught some of The Wailers featuring Julian Marley at Congo Square, on our way to Gentilly:

A fun filled day ended at Gentilly with Joan Jett and the Blackhearts.  Still sounding great and pleasing the crowd with all the hits in her sixties.  I really enjoyed this show, a great way to finish out the 2025 edition of Jazzfest.

I dropped Diana at the airport on Sunday for her flight to San Francisco to prepare for Clorinda’s funeral services.  Meanwhile, at St Columba’s church in Stewarton, Scotland, Hamish was being christened.  I hear he listened intently to the minister (George) and didn’t even flinch when anointed with the holy water.

Coexist peacefully, with patience and kindness for all!

Week in Review – April 27th 2025

“Return to Jazzfest”

We started a big music week with a visit to Chickie Wah Wah to see Luke Winslow King.  I first saw him on the Lagniappe stage in the Paddock at a Jazzfest many years ago, and then found out that my friends, Vince and Lori, know him well and have hosted him at their home when he played nearby.  The club was not crowded at all and had rare cocktail tables in front of the stage – so we were comfortable and had an excellent view.

That’s Roberto Luti playing the tasty blues slide guitar with Luke.  He’s originally from Italy and met washboard Chaz when visiting New Orleans.  The two made some recordings together and then got major visibility in the “Playing for Change” video of “The Weight” – well worth a few minutes to watch:

And here they are when Chaz joined them for a few songs:

We headed out early on Thursday for “Locals Day” at Jazzfest.  Tickets are heavily discounted for folks with a credit card tied to a local address.  Camp was established at the Gentilly stage and we listened to Flow Tribe, Bonerama, and some of the Iceman Special.

It was no bother to be at the front for Flow Tribe before the crowds arrived.

Jazzfest is about amazing food as well as music.  Diana got us the trio, the first thing we ate at Jazzfest when we started attending, and consisting of a crawfish sack, and oyster pattie and shrimp beignets.  Yum.  Later in the day she also brought meat pies.

We migrated to the Congo Square stage to see Groupo Fantasma – a Mexican flavoured band from Austin, Texas.

I tried to watch Derek Huston doing an interview but went to the wrong place.  Diana did find it and really enjoyed the interview.  I saw the Forgotten Souls brass band at the stage I chose incorrectly.  I think the best brass band I heard all day.

The Fais Do Do stage always makes me smile – folks doing the Cajun two step (apparently different than the Texas version.)

Diana and Kenny walked over to the main stage to see John Fogerty, while I caught some of Goose, a new jamband to me, at Gentilly.  I made my way over to Fogerty and caught several classic songs.  He was having so much fun onstage and is amazing for someone turning 80 next month.

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Denny and Anne joined us to catch some Fogerty.

A wonderful day with almost perfect weather came to a close.

Look at the headline on the Friday morning newspaper.  Keith Spera (music columnist) agreed with us about the Fogerty show:

Saturday began with a longer than anticipated walk for coffee.  I had planned to visit French Truck coffee, but there was a long line.  Kept wandering down Magazine to Trumpet and Drum – even longer line.  Finally Undergrowth coffee made us delicious iced beverages for our longer than expected walk back down Coliseum street to home.

We met Denny and Anne for a delicious lunch at La Petite Grocery (LPG) before Anne headed back to Florida on Saturday afternoon.  We all loved our food – sweet potato soup, LPG burger, gnocchi, and tagliatelle with alligator.

We watched the first episode of “Secrets of the Penguins” on Hulu and it looks like this going to be an entertaining and educational series.

Sunday was a very quiet day for me – only clear liquids all day in preparation for my colonoscopy on Monday.  Ugh!

I’ve forgotten to share Will’s achievement with you these last few busy weeks.  He was a recipient of the “Founder’s award” at the getaway for the top performers:

I finished “All Fours” by Miranda July this week.  This book did not finish as it started – I was very pleased with the early section last week.  The last two thirds of the book were almost unreadable for me, but I slogged on.  Slow, vulgar, and with no real point.  Like when Philip Roth or John Updike tried to shock you for a paragraph or two but dragged out by July for a hundred or more pages.  Not recommended.  I asked Kelly (our resident literature guru) what she thought – “HATED IT!”  I’m not alone, and we both wonder what’s wrong with all those gushing reviewers.

I needed a palate cleanser after that, and so have made it most of the way through “My Darling Boy” by John Dufresne.  I’ll share the online summary now and return with some of my favourite passages next week:

A brilliant and gut-wrenching novel about a father and son from a “master” (Lee Martin) of the tragi-comic.

Known for his bold voice and unforgettable characters, John Dufresne tells the story of Olney, whose beloved son Cully collapses into addiction and vanishes into the chaotic netherworld of southern Florida. Aided by his terminally ill girlfriend and the colorful inhabitants of a local motel―including a doomsday prepper, an ex-nun, a pair of blind twins with an acute sense of smell, and a devoutly Catholic shelter worker―Olney sets out to save his son. Hilarious and devastating in equal measure, My Darling Boy is a hero’s quest for our time, a testament to families touched by the opioid crisis, and a remarkable achievement from one of our most talented, genre-bending authors.”

We’ll skip the music section this week, given all the coverage of that topic earlier.

Coexist peacefully, with patience and compassion for all!

Week in Review – April 20th, 2025

“Back Home in New Orleans”

We flew home from San Francisco to New Orleans on Sunday, and enjoyed a typical busy week.  Things kicked off with a Happy Hour for Denny’s birthday at The Husky on Monday afternoon.  This is a new steak restaurant on Freret street that we’ve been meaning to try.

The ambience, service, and food were all excellent.  What a great new place! We tried steak tartare, lamb lollipops and crispy mushroom appetizers. Diana and I split the Happy Hour special burger and fries – very tasty.  Denny had his own burger, and Jack had pasta a la vodka.

On Tuesday, we met Kenny for Happy Hour at the Audubon Clubhouse.  They had been advertising live music at 4:30pm on Tuesdays.  This place has a wonderful setting inside Audubon park and a very inviting porch.

We had a miserable experience and will never return.  From hostess, to bartender and ultimately the head waiter – all were horrible.  I assume this place makes money on events and folks that don’t know what good service looks like.  We left as soon as we finished our drinks and snacks.

We did not do well at trivia.  If Diana and I had been our own team, we would have been in a minimum of second place.  The team just wouldn’t listen to our suggestions on several questions – particularly mine on the last question that was worth 20 points.  Good fun all the same.

We were in the CBD (Central Business District) for a meeting with our estate lawyer on Wednesday afternoon.  Diana commented that she didn’t remember the last time she was in a high rise office building – it’s been a while for both of us.  After the meeting, we walked to Peche, a restaurant that we’ve been looking to try for a while.  Debra recommended it and her recommendations carry some weight, given her job as manager of Jaques-Imo’s.

We loved the small plates that we shared and will return soon.  The steak tartare and spicy ground shrimp noodles were very good, but the star of the show was a romaine salad that was grilled over an open wood flame – so much flavour.

On Wednesday evening, we joined Denny, Fred and Kelly at the Broadside for a performance by Lulu and the Broadsides.  They had seen Lulu before and raved about her voice.  We were both very pleasantly surprised.  A great voice and a great band in the Pavillion that has good acoustics.  Here is a song she wrote about New Orleans.

Some research revealed that Lulu is really Dayna Kurtz, who has quite an interesting back story.  Her songs have been recorded by Norah Jones and Bonnie Raitt, she has opened for many very popular bands, and has won well respected songwriting awards – who knew?  The band members are James Singleton (excellent bass player), Carol Nuccio, Robert Mache (unique guitar sound) and Glenn Hartman.

I made a trip over to Metairie on Thursday morning to meet with a health insurance broker.  My coverage expires when I retire, and the options and costs are quite daunting.  In the evening, Kenny and Thom joined me for the movie “Coastal” – a documentary about Neil Young’s most recent West Coast tour, directed by his wife, Daryl Hannah.

We all enjoyed the movie and forgot how sterile those massive AMC theater complexes feel.  We’re spoiled with the neighborhood Prytania and Broad theaters.

Diana met Kara at the Chloe on Friday afternoon, and then they rambled to Superior Seafood and down Magazine Street to the Bouligny Tavern.  Seemed like a very fun afternoon.

Kenny was coming over to “spend some time on the porch” with me while the ladies had their afternoon out.  That turned into Kenny, Denny, Greg, Alex, Thom, Aidan and Jack.  We had a good time catching up.

We got some exercise at the NOAC (New Orleans Athletic Club) on Saturday and then had a quiet day.  There were a couple of music opportunities but we needed to rest up a bit.

Easter Sunday brunch was at Elizabeth’s in the Bywater.  I had snoozed on making reservations anywhere and this place doesn’t take them – so we got there before 10am to get a table easily.

They always have very tasty specials.  Diana had the seafood salad and I had the boudin and eggs – the crawfish etouffee that was part of that dish was amazing.  And as usual, we had plenty of leftovers.

We walked off some of brunch in Audubon park in the afternoon.

I circulated this picture of Diana peeking out of an egg as an Easter “yoke.”  It was actually a dinosaur egg as part of an advertisement in a shopping mall in Glasgow.

 

 

 

I am increasingly frustrated with all the stuff that is locked up at Walgreens these days – even a stick of deodorant.  You have to push a button and wait a while for an employee to come and open it for you.  This cartoon from the New Yorker sums it up well:

It’s almost Jazzfest time again – and so I got the flag changed out.  As I was putting it up, some guys came by and had a chat about their memories from attending over the last 25 years.

In Las Vegas for the Dead and Company shows at the Sphere, Vince and Lori and friends took some time to drive race cars:

I didn’t spend a lot of time reading this week, and dabbled in three different books.  “Infinite Jest” continues to be very slow going, “The Hunter” by Tana French is reasonably light relief to that, and I just started “All Fours” by Miranda July.  This last book is described as being “acerbically clever”, and I agree, having laughed out loud several times already.

There is a wonderful new record out this week -“Audience with the Queen” by Galactic and Irma Thomas.  Thomas is 84 years old and sounds fantastic on all tracks, especially this one:

 

 

 

The album was recorded in a local studio that was previously a church, and it sounds amazing.  Here’s what Keith Spera said about it in the local newspaper:

https://www.nola.com/entertainment_life/keith_spera/irma-thomas-galactic-team-up-on-audience-with-the-queen/article_cd509fa3-beb2-4d0a-b24d-d1298d4d97d9.html

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!

 

 

Week in Review – April 6th, 2025

“Week Two in California”

I’m always in awe of the sunset views from Clorinda’s home.  Amy captured this one:

I told you about mandalas last week.  Amy made this outside one with native flowers from Gypsy Hill:

One of the pleasures of this trip has been getting to know Marco’s best friend, Jeff, much better.  He’s been doing a lot of work around the house, while helping to care for Clorinda, and working on finding a new job.  Here he is at a local coffee shop, working on that job:

Jeff washed all of the large windows, with some help from several little ones.  Then he tackled a dead tree by the deck, and had that chainsawed into submission very quickly and efficiently.

Channeling his inner Elon Musk.

We had an emergency situation on Thursday morning – the coffee drawer was stuck.  It appears that a food thermometer was vertical and stuck into the top of the cabinet.  Adamo worked on it for a while, ultimately breaking the drawer free with a stick he found outside.

Fall out from the stick opening routine was that several of the pods had been broken, spilling grounds in the drawer.  Marco said his Mom would want him to reuse those grounds.  We got him set up with that on Friday morning:

Marco showed up on Saturday with equipment to make a “pour over” out of those “re-use” pods:

I enjoyed the NCAA basketball final four games on Saturday.  Particularly the crazy comeback by Houston to beat Duke.  Here’s what the local newspaper had to say:

“Duke faces fallout of epic meltdown in ‘heartbreaking’ Final Four loss to Houston

SAN ANTONIO — The lead was nine points with 2:15 remaining, and even as Duke struggled to convert on the offensive end there was no thought given to the idea the Blue Devils might actually lose to Houston in this battle of No. 1 seeds in the national semifinal at the Final Four.

The lead was down to seven points with 1:26 to play. To six points at the 42-second mark. Again, the very idea the Blue Devils’ season would end before the national championship game was ridiculous, ludicrous, preposterous.

But it’s called March Madness for a reason. Trailing 64-55, Houston outscored Duke 15-3 over the final two-plus minutes to reach Monday night’s matchup against Florida. No team had ever given away so much in so little time on college basketball’s biggest stage.”

Alicia’s cat, Fri Fri, has been staying in our bedroom since Marco has an allergy to cat dander.  I’ve renamed her the terrorist since she loves to jump on my head from behind when I’m sitting on the couch, nibble my toes in the middle of the night, and generally be a nuisance.  And then she has the gaul to sleep on my side of the bed.

 

 

I’ll end this section with a huge thanks to Amy and Diana for working so hard feeding the masses – breakfast frittatas, rack of lamb, lasagna, Goudarooni, salads, and on and on.

I started “Infinite Jest” by David Foster Wallace.  I’m not sure how far I’ll be able to make it through this.  Some chapters are entertaining and some are just very strange, and it’s a very long tome (1500 pages).  More to come.

 

Two very good new albums were released this week.  The first is a collaboration between Brandi Carlisle and Elton John:

And the second from Jason Isbell.  This time solo and accompanied only by his 1940 Martin O-17 acoustic guitar.  While I enjoy his electric guitar skills, this stripped down approach is very effective and a nice change of pace:

Coexist peacefully, with patience and kindness for all!

 

Week in Review – March 30th, 2025

“Back to California”

I caught a last minute flight to California on Tuesday to help Diana with her Mom’s hospice care.  I had a couple of hours to shower, pack, make a trip to the bank safety deposit box, and gather up all the clothes, shoes etc that Diana wanted me to bring to her.

The flight was somewhat annoying – we had to wait on the plane for an hour for a thunderstorm to pass through the Dallas airport.  I hate changing through Dallas but that was the only flight available with the notice that I had.  And the gentleman (maybe I use that term too loosely) in the middle seat next to me continually jabbed his elbow into my ribs as he was working on his phone and laptop.  Four hours of that and I was ready to be off the plane.  Diana was proud of me for just grinning and bearing it rather than creating a scene.

Adamo was kind enough to pick me up at the airport, and then some general chaos ensued at Clorinda’s house – Leonard and Victor arrived in the late evening, and so we had a house full.

We had a constant stream of visitors each day, which was nice but exhausting for Diana on top of taking care of her Mom.

I missed the annual Tulane book festival on Thursday.  This has really grown into a notable event.  Things kicked of on Thursday evening with a panel from the Atlantic magazine and a talk from Bryan Stevenson, author of “Just Mercy.”

The Atlantic panel had been booked for months but took on a whole different tone with the recent article from the editor about the text leaks.  Here’s what the newspaper had to say about it:

“Tulane University grabbed a small spot in the national conversation over the Trump administration’s Signal chat leak on Thursday as journalist Jeffrey Goldberg, the editor-in-chief of The Atlantic magazine, discussed his blockbuster article and its implications for U.S. security at the New Orleans Book Festival.

Goldberg, who on Monday published his account of how he was inadvertently added to a group chat that top U.S. officials were using to discuss military strikes against Houthi rebel targets in Yemen, said the administration’s reaction to his article led him to release nearly the full transcript two days later.

“This was a serious breach of national security,” Goldberg said. “They had an opportunity to accept that they made a mistake, tell us how they’re going to fix the mistake and move on. Instead, they attacked the messenger, which is part of the playbook.”

Goldberg said if Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth and others hadn’t reacted the way they did, he wouldn’t have published the rest of the material, “but I’m not going to be called a liar, and I’m not going to have my magazine called a liar,” he said.

“They essentially goaded us into publishing the whole transcript, so we did. We didn’t have a choice.”

Interviewed by Atlantic staff writer Anne Applebaum, Goldberg made his remarks to a capacity crowd of about 1,800 people inside Tulane’s McAlister Auditorium. Hundreds of people lined up along Freret Street to get through security screenings to attend the talk.”

Here’s some more about Bryan Stevenson.  I loved his book and highly recommend it:

“Bryan Stevenson is the founder and Executive Director of the Equal Justice Initiative, a human rights organization in Montgomery, Alabama. Under his leadership, EJI has won major legal challenges eliminating excessive and unfair sentencing, exonerating innocent death row prisoners, confronting abuse of the incarcerated and the mentally ill, and aiding children prosecuted as adults.

Mr. Stevenson has argued and won multiple cases at the United States Supreme Court, including a 2019 ruling protecting condemned prisoners who suffer from dementia and a landmark 2012 ruling that banned mandatory life-imprisonment-without-parole sentences for all children 17 or younger. Mr. Stevenson and his staff have won reversals, relief, or release from prison for over 140 wrongly condemned prisoners on death row and won relief for hundreds of others wrongly convicted or unfairly sentenced.

Mr. Stevenson has initiated major new anti-poverty and anti-discrimination efforts that challenge inequality in America. He led the creation of EJI’s highly acclaimed Legacy Sites, including the Legacy Museum, the National Memorial for Peace and Justice, and Freedom Monument Sculpture Park. These new national landmark institutions chronicle the legacy of slavery, lynching, and racial segregation, and the connection to mass incarceration and contemporary issues of racial bias.”

Amy made this mandala for Clorinda on Saturday.  If you’re not familiar with the mandala, here’s a brief description:

Universal Representation:

Mandalas are geometric configurations of symbols, often circular, and represent the universe, the cosmos, or the interconnectedness of all things.

Meditation and Focus:

They are used in various spiritual practices, including meditation, to help practitioners focus their attention and achieve a deeper understanding of themselves and the universe. 

Spiritual Guidance:

Mandalas can act as a map or guide for spiritual growth and transformation, leading individuals towards enlightenment or a state of inner peace. 

Sacred Space:
They can also be used to establish a sacred space or create a sense of order and harmony.

Diana had some excellent helpers as she prepared to make banana bread on Saturday.  We were all a bit scared when Francesca was given the mallet to crush up the walnuts.

Diana and I briefly escaped to Nick’s at Rockaway beach on Saturday afternoon.  It’s located right on the beach and is famous for their crab sandwich.  The waves and surfers provided a pleasant distraction.

Chef Diana was at it again on Sunday.  This time the product was a Goudarooni.  Most of you probably aren’t familiar with this Italian treat, so I’ll share the recipe:

https://www.saveur.com/article/Recipes/Goudarooni/

This is essentially a very large calzone with ground beef, potato, and mozzarella, with a tangy tomato sauce.  I thought it was adventurous of Diana to take on making the dough from scratch – had to break out Alicia’s Kitchenaid mixer.

A lesson learned here – food this yummy doesn’t sit around very long – you need to get some right away.

I chuckled when I read the Times Picayune newspaper this week – only in New Orleans would the closing of a “beloved dive bar” be the headline on the front page.  We were sad to read the news – this is close to the house and a great location for Jeopardy on weekday evenings.

I was reading about the upcoming release of a new book by Kevin Wilson, and decided to see if he had other books that I hadn’t read.  I loved “The Family Fang” and “Nothing to See Here.”  I started “This is Not the Time to Panic” – about 30 pages in I realized that it was very familiar and that I had read it before.  On to “Perfect Little World”, a very enjoyable and thought provoking read:

“When Isabelle Poole meets Dr. Preston Grind, she’s just about out of options. She recently graduated from high school and is pregnant with her art teacher’s baby. Her mother is dead, and her father is a drunk. The art teacher is too much of a head case to help raise the child. Izzy knows she can be a good mother, but without any money or prospects she’s left searching.

So when Dr. Grind offers her a space in The Infinite Family Project, she accepts. Housed in a spacious compound in Tennessee, she joins nine other couples, all with children the same age as her newborn son, to raise their children as one extended family. Grind’s theory is that the more parental love children receive, the better off they are.

This attempt at a utopian ideal – funded by an eccentric billionaire – starts off promising: Izzy enjoys the kids, reading to them, and teaching them to cook. She even forms a bond with her son more meaningful than she ever expected. But soon, the gentle equilibrium among the families is upset, and it all starts to disintegrate: Unspoken resentments between the couples begin to fester; the project’s funding becomes tenuous; and Izzy’s feelings for Dr. Grind, who is looking to expunge his own painful childhood, make her question her participation in this strange experiment in the first place.

Written with the same compassionate voice, disarming sense of humor, and quirky charm that made The Family Fang such a success, Perfect Little World is a poignant look at how the best families are the ones we make for ourselves.”

I’m looking forward to Wilson’s new book!

Here’s something from the new My Morning Jacket album – a solid album throughout:

I continue to enjoy learning about Afrobeat music – here’s the legendary Tony Allen of Fela Kuti’s band:

And finally, I stumbled upon this symphonic, keyboard driven album from Jon Lord of Deep Purple:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!

Week in Review – March 23rd, 2025

“Fete Francaise”

I helped Greg load Buttercup (our Mardi Gras float) from under Hugh’s house onto his truck.  Just a little bit too long, but made it home safely.

The Tuesday highlight was another Bayou Boys win at Dat Dog trivia.  Denny wasn’t able to make it – hmmm.  The equally good news – kevbot (our nemesis team) wasn’t in the top three.

I watched a movie later that evening, “Becoming Katherine Graham”:

Graham was the editor of the Washington Post during the controversial period of the Watergate investigations and the ultimate ousting of Nixon.  She stood up to Nixon and others who bullied her very effectively.

Movie matinee was my activity on Wednesday.  I visited the downtown Canal Plaza Prytania theaters for the first time to see “Becoming Led Zeppelin.”  Parking and getting to the theaters was much easier than anticipated.  There were a lot of very fancy shops around the theaters – I was not aware they even existed.

This was about the early days of the band and the studio work that brought Jimmy Page and John Paul Jones together.  I chuckled at a story about them playing on Shirley Bassey’s “Goldfinger.”  Dad was a big Shirley Bassey fan.  Highly recommended for fans of the band.

After the movie, I met Anne for lunch at the Columns – always a treat on a nice, sunny day.  Denny had made a mistake with his flight and wasn’t coming home until later in the day.

Sitting on the porch in the afternoon, Britney asked “Want to feel old, Keith?”  Then she showed me Augie’s “Class of 2039” banner.  We’ll be 75 when he graduates from high school.  Yes, Britney, you did make me feel old.  Here’s Augie in the shirt we brought him from Scotland:

Such a poseur.

Kenny and I attended Danny Barker fest at the Jazz Museum on Thursday.  This was a very pleasant festival – outside in the courtyard and not too busy.  Would you like to know about Danny Barker?  Okay – here’s an overview:

Danny Barker was born to a family of musicians in New Orleans in 1909, the grandson of bandleader Isidore Barbarin and nephew of drummers Paul Barbarin and Louis Barbarin. He took up clarinet and drums before switching to a ukulele that his aunt got him, and then a banjo from his uncle or a trumpeter named Lee Collins.

From 1939 to 1946, he frequently recorded with Cab Calloway, and started his own group featuring his wife Blue Lu Barker after leaving Calloway. On September 4, 1945, he recorded with Ohio‘s native jazz pianist, Sir Charles Thompson, and saxophonists Dexter Gordon and Charlie Parker.[1] In 1947, he was performing again with Lucky Millinder, and also with Bunk Johnson. He returned to working with Albert Nicholas in 1948 and in 1949 rejoined efforts with his wife in a group.

In 1965, Barker returned to New Orleans and took up a position as assistant to the curator of the New Orleans Jazz Museum. In 1970, he founded and led a church-sponsored brass band for young people—the Fairview Baptist Church Marching Band. Reverend Andrew Darby, Jr., the Pastor of Fairview Baptist Church commissioned ‘Brother’ Barker to form a Christian band, and Barker went throughout the neighborhood of the church enlisting young musicians. The Fairview band launched the careers of musicians who performed in brass band and mainstream jazz contexts, including Wynton MarsalisBranford MarsalisLeroy JonesKirk JosephNicholas PaytonShannon PowellLucien Barbarin, and Dr. Michael White, among others. As Joe Torregano—another Fairview band alumnus—described it, “That group saved jazz for a generation in New Orleans.

Here’s a couple of videos of Greg Stafford performing in the afternoon:

Kermit was up after Stafford.  I love this picture of Kermit and Danny Barker together years ago at French Quarter Fest:

Fete Francaise was on Saturday.  I always enjoy this small festival put on by the French bilingual school on Magazine Street.  They have food tents from local French restaurants and always very good music.  Anne suggested lunch at La Petite Grocery (right next to the festival location) as the tents often run out of the most desired food and drinks.  Lunch was great – I enjoyed the fusilli pasta with short rib and mushrooms. The portion was just right for lunch on a hot day.

The theme for this year was “From the heart of Paris to the soul of New Orleans.”  I like it.

The Preservation Hall band provided the majority of the entertainment.  Ben Jaffe, leader of the band and tuba player, has a daughter at the school.

Here are a couple of videos:

The older gentleman on the saxophone in the second video is Charlie Gabriel – still going strong at 92!

There was an unadvertised band after the Preservation Brass – describing themselves as “French cosmonauts” and quite entertaining:

I really appreciated this story on 60 minutes on Sunday night.  What a great job by Scott Pelley and the team:

Here’s an article claiming New Orleans as the best food city in the world:

https://www.nola.com/entertainment_life/eat-drink/new-orleans-best-food-city/article_f8cec324-ff82-11ef-963f-33baf8e7f63d.html

I think that’s quite a stretch – Paris, New York, Barcelona?

Spring is in bloom by the front porch:

I take these pictures so that Diana can enjoy the blossoms that she’s missing.

I read “The Futures” by Anna Pitoniak this week.  This was a fast and easy read, not living up to the excellent reviews from several well respected sources.  It seemed a bit light and fluffy as it covered the 2008 crash.  Here’s the online review:

In this dazzling debut novel about love and betrayal, a young couple moves to New York City in search of success-only to learn that the lives they dream of may come with dangerous strings attached.

Julia and Evan fall in love as undergraduates at Yale. For Evan, a scholarship student from a rural Canadian town, Yale is a whole new world, and Julia — blond, beautiful, and rich — fits perfectly into the future he’s envisioned for himself. After graduation, and on the eve of the great financial meltdown of 2008, they move together to New York City, where Evan lands a job at a hedge fund. But Julia, whose privileged upbringing grants her an easy but wholly unsatisfying job with a nonprofit, feels increasingly shut out of Evan’s secretive world.

With the market crashing and banks failing, Evan becomes involved in a high-stakes deal at work — a deal that, despite the assurances of his Machiavellian boss, begins to seem more than slightly suspicious. Meanwhile, Julia reconnects with someone from her past who offers a glimpse of a different kind of live. As the economy craters, and as Evan and Julia spin into their separate orbits, they each find that they are capable of much more — good and bad — than they’d ever imagined.”

I learned of a New Orleans based band, J & the Causeways, that I really enjoy:

Branford Marsalis has a new album out – a cover of Keith Jarrett’s original suite:

And David Lowery of Cracker also has a new album:

Coexist peacefully, with patience and kindness for all!

Week in Review – March 16, 2025

“The Calm after the Storm”

I made my way downtown to meet with Carole on Monday.  She’s helping us convert our estate planning documents (trust, will etc) to comply with Napoleonic law – Louisiana being the only state that follows it.  I think we made good progress and should easily finish things up when Diana is back.

There was a free concert at the Jazz Museum at 3pm on Wednesday.  This was to celebrate the reopening of their performance space.  I’m always amazed at the volume of folks that come out of the woodwork for any free show in New Orleans, and was glad that I got there ahead of time.  There were a lot of folks standing at the back.

The music was from Detroit Brooks and the Jazz Museum Allstars – some really talented musicians.  Detroit has a very good voice:

The trumpet and clarinet players meshed very well:

And finally the trumpet player has a sweet voice as well:

I’m glad I made the effort to make it down to the museum – parking was remarkably easy at that time of day.

Most of you will have heard about the destructive weather on Saturday.  We had very strong winds but not as much rain as expected.  Many others didn’t fare as well.  I’ve got a few small repairs ahead as a result of the wind.

The St. Patrick’s Day parade on Saturday was canceled/postponed due to the weather forecast- a shame as we usually have a decent crowd at the house.  Nothing has been announced about a new date, so I assume it’s just canceled – that was the consensus when I was at Aidan Gill’s for a haircut on Thursday morning.

Thanks to the Kirschs for having me over for a delicious dinner on Saturday night.  I enjoyed the company.

I enjoyed this article about Klipsch speakers in the paper today:

https://app.nola.com/article/visit-birthplace-of-famous-klipsch-speakers-3/content.html

Klipsch are sometimes referred to as the best audiophile speakers – there’s a lot of very expensive competition for that title.  I had no idea the company was started in a shed in Hope, Arkansas (birthplace of Bill Clinton.)

I didn’t read much this week, but did start a collection of short stories by Eudora Welty – I’m only a couple in.

These stories are originally from the last 1940s and 1950s.  Here’s what the New Yorker had to say:

“Welty is on home ground in the state of Mississippi in this collection of seven stories. She portrays the MacLains, the Starks, the Moodys, and other families of the fictitious town of Morgana. “I doubt that a better book about ‘the South’-one that more completely gets the feel of the particular texture of Southern life and its special tone and pattern-has ever been written” (New Yorker). “

Great sound and production on this song from Bahamas’ Afie Jurvanen:

A deep cut from Genesis, showcasing the excellent keyboard work of Tony Banks:

And finally, a great sound from Charles Lloyd, who just keeps on going and going:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!

 

Week in Review – March 2nd, 2025

“Mardi Gras Part 2”

Finn and Holly drove down from McKinney on Wednesday, arriving in time to get inside the box caused by all the street closures for parades.  We live inside the box, which can make driving a challenge during Mardi Gras season.  They got settled into their room and then I took them out to their first parade:

This was an unusually quiet evening and a great way to introduce them to Mardi Gras.

Diana arrived back from San Francisco around midnight and got ready to participate in Mardi Gras.

We enjoyed lunch at Commander’s Palace on Thursday.  Finn walked in, looked around, and said “Wow, Dad!”  He was equally taken with the fancy surroundings and the costumes and parties underway.  It was Muses Thursday – Muses being one of the biggest and most popular of all the parades.  Diana had alerted the restaurant that we were having a late celebration for Fin and Holly’s engagement.

The food and atmosphere were excellent.

Here is a group of Muses riders celebrating before the parade behind Diana:

We exited through the kitchen so that I could show Finn the organized chaos that goes into serving all those meals with such precision.  The garden patio was beautiful on such a perfect day:

Thanks to Mum for the gift certificate that we used for this lovely celebration.

The parades that night were very busy and maybe a bit overwhelming for newcomers:

Sometimes you just need to take some time out on the porch:

I dropped the kids at the zoo on Friday morning and Diana and I had a walk around the park.  Then it was time to get back inside the box for the Friday parades.

Our house was Mardi Gras central for the extended krewe on Tucks Saturday.  Our neighbours, Roeland and Jules, ride in that parade.  Walking by their house a day or two before, Jules asked me to wait as he had something for me.  A custom throw that he knew he wouldn’t be able to get to me in the parade madness – plunger penguin:

Everyone brought delicious food over to help feed the multitude of folks at our house.  Busy inside:

Outside:

And on the porch:

Jack thought he could use all the confusion to execute a penguin “ransom situation”:

Oliver was enjoying his second Mardi Gras season at 18 months.  Greg tried to copy his hair:

The core group remaining in the evening were kind to humour my request for a sit down dinner at the dining table.  I enjoyed it.  Phew – busy day at 1520 Washington.

We ventured outside the box early on Thoth Sunday to park at Denny and Anne’s and watch the parade on Magazine Street.  Denny and Diana had matching pants:

Anne opted for a more understated outfit:

It was less crowded on Magazine Street than by our house on St Charles – a pleasant change:

We watched a little of the Oscars on Webster Street and then headed home as the box opened in time for the last two or three awards – no big movies that I really cared for this year.

I finished the wonderful “James” by Percival Everett this week.  I highly recommend this unique and creative read.  You’ll remember it’s a reimagining of Huck Finn, told from the enslaved Jim’s point of view.

I started another book, read two chapters and gave up.  Not even worth mentioning the title – it was that bad.  Where do some of these reviewers that recommended it get the gall to waste my time like that?

I heard this song on Diana’s country music channel in the car – I liked the song and looked down and was surprised it was on that channel – a great voice and overall sound:

See – I can keep an open mind about that bro-country station:)

I can’t remember where I heard this, but it brings to mind early 1960s Kinks:

Finally, a wonderful cover of one of my all time favourites:

Coexist peacefully, with patience and kindness for all!