“A Busy Month”
Did you think I had given up on blogging? I know, it’s been forever since I posted. Moving into our new home, a wedding, music festivals, and several other events and activities have kept me busy. As of today, I should be back into the weekly posting routine.
We’re settling into our new home very nicely. All the major things are organized and functional. There are a lot of boxes in the third floor still to be organized – all in good time. I was just sitting on our front porch watching all the tourists go past. It’s finally cool weather here and we’re entering into the busy tourist season. They all come past our house as they meet up with Garden District walking tours, or walk from the streetcar to Commander’s Palace for lunch.
I’ll attempt to share some of the highlights from the last month in reverse chronological order.
Yesterday, Diana hosted a birthday lunch for Laura and Libby at Café Degas. Kara joined also. This is our favourite casual French bistro in town. I played chauffeur and plotted a route to pick up all three girls and drop the group off. I also returned to do all the drop offs. They seem to have had a lovely time, and the crab and mushroom crepe leftovers were delicious.

We hung out with Kara, Kenny and Ian for a bit at their home, and then regrouped at home prior to the Blues and BBQ festival in Lafayette Square. This is a free event hosted by the Jazzfest organization and it’s always a lot of fun. Here’s Samantha Fish closing out the day:
Lurrie Bell treated us to some classic Chicago blues prior to Samantha:
The food options at this festival are always excellent. Diana brought back a delicious shrimp pupusa – a corn cake stuffed with cheese and topped with shrimp.
We’re deciding whether we should make it out again tonight for Shemeika Copeland.

On Thursday, one of my partners who does our development in India, visited New Orleans and took us to Commander’s Palace for lunch. What a great time! Manish scored big points for showing up with flowers for Diana. My quail stuffed with boudin was ridiculously good.
We visited Austin for a wedding from Sunday through Wednesday. Our friends Neffie and Shaun were married in Dripping Springs (30 minutes outside Austin) on Monday afternoon in a gorgeous venue.
The rehearsal dinner was at Fixe in downtown Austin on Sunday night. That allowed me to miss most of the beating that the San Francisco 49ers put on the Cowboys. The food and company were excellent.
I had originally been drafted to walk Neffie down the aisle, but one of the groomsmen was sick and I walked her sister, Myra, instead. Her pastor and her son ultimately escorted Neffie to the altar.

This is what Anne is calling our “prom picture”:

We took advantage of being back in Austin to visit some of our favourite locations. We enjoyed a walk along the river trail followed by a lunch snack in the garden at Opa. Dinner was at the Odd Duck – maybe my top restaurant in Austin. Tristan, the valet parker, always has good recommendations. The Thai melon salad and green chili pork shoulder were both amazing.

We have a ritual of lunch at June’s All Day prior to starting our drive or flight back home. Diana always gets the wagyu steak tartare that she loves so much.

The Saturday before the wedding we enjoyed Gretna Fest. This is a mini jazzfest across the Mississippi in Gretna. With four stages and many food options, it’s a festival that we both enjoy very much.
We started out with the New Orleans Mystics at the Market Stage. This was an excellent group that was similar to the Temptations – all decked out in matching outfits and with great voices.
Diana had fun trying to match their dance steps:
Next up was La Tran-k band on the Riverfront stage – a salsa band that brought a ton of energy and fun:
Then a highlight for me – JJ Grey on the main stage. The version of Lochloosa was outstanding:
That was followed by a singalong of Glory Glory:
And a final highlight – Brighter Days:
After JJ Grey, Diana and I enjoyed a relaxing Mexican meal and then watched some of Lee Brice – a country star that Diana enjoys. I was very impressed by the quality of the band and the performance.
We had planned to finish with Los Lobos, but they were almost an hour late in taking the stage and we caught the ferry back as they were starting. A really great day of music and entertainment.
The Monday and Tuesday before Gretna Fest, I attended an annual meeting to recognize our top performing employees in Las Vegas. This was a lovely event that went late into the evening. Our executive committee enjoyed dinner at Cut by Wolfgang Puck on Monday night. I’ve never seen such expensive steaks and sides on a menu. The food and service were great, but I couldn’t help feeling guilty about the price.

Sunday, October 1st, was Colleen’s 50th birthday. We celebrated at her home and Greg cooked redfish, boudin and other goodies. Later in the evening, most of the party attendees went to Tipitinas to see John Cleary and the Absolute Monster Gentlemen perform. This was the best I have heard them sound. We were sitting on our porch prior to the party and saw our neighbors, Hugh and Sarah, leaving in their car. We thought it would be funny if they were also going to Colleen’s party – Hugh is her brother. Sure enough, they were there when we arrived, and we got to meet some more new neighbors.
Greg was very proud of his new grandchild:

The week prior to Las Vegas was move in week. I dealt with wifi and security system installation early in the week, and then the trucks arrived on September 27th. By the evening of September 28th, we were mostly moved in. A lot of planning and organization had finally come to fruition.

As with any large project like this move, I’m deeply indebted to Diana for the massive amount of planning and work that she put into it, and continues to put into the unpacking and organizing tasks. Anne, Merry Lee and Jeff also helped a lot with organizing and storage.
We met up with Merry Lee, Jeff, her cousin and boyfriend on Friday at Hungry Eyes – always so delicious and fun. The group joined us as our first guests in the new home on Saturday to watch the LSU football game. Denny, Anne and Jack also joined. Theo’s pizza provided sustenance.
The week before move in Diana had a girls trip to California for a few days, and visited her Mom in Pacifica before and after the Monterey excursion. I was on my own in New Orleans and met up with Kenny and Ian one day at the St Roch market. I like this place because you can choose from many different food vendors and it has a great bar.

Sabine was much friendlier with Diana gone. No hissing and fussing at all.

I kept myself busy with exercise in the park – I like to get out before sunrise and watch the sun light up the beautiful trees.

I got a kick out of the Barbie Halloween decorations on this house on my walk to the park.


Shortly after my last post, Diana and I treated ourselves to a welcome to New Orleans dinner at Mamou in the Quarter. What excellent service and interesting food. The fish Florentine was amazing. This place made the 50 most interesting restaurants list in the New York Times and has received several other accolades.
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/dining/best-restaurants-america.html#mamou
This has been a lengthy post and so I’m going to skip the book review and music sections until next week. I promise to be back next Sunday.
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all.
This was a relatively quiet week. Walking or running in the park early most mornings, and back and forth to the new house to check on repairs were the regular activities. The foundation repairs and all the miscellaneous things from the inspection report were completed. Diana made sure to get before and after pictures of all the foundation fixes. The owner of the company said we shouldn’t expect to seem him again in our lifetime – great news.
Jack invited me to join his trivia team at Dat Dog on Tuesday evening. Kenny and Denny also participated, with McD providing some support. Dat Dog is a very colorful hotdog restaurant on Freret Street. Diana and I opted for the vegetarian versions in lettuce wraps. Those and the tator tots were yummy. The trivia was all over the map – history, geography, business, sports and more.


I tried Aidan Gill’s barber shop on Magazine street on Thursday afternoon. I wanted to compare it to the other barber shop I tried during our residency. Aidan greeted me personally, offering a shot of Irish whiskey, a draft Guinness or a soft drink. He guessed that I was from East Kilbride based on what remains of my accent. Not too far off. Gill is from Dublin and moved to New Orleans many years ago.
Derek, who recently moved from Boston, gave me my haircut. I think he did a good job, and he was full of restaurant and other recommendations. I’ll be back to see these guys again soon. Here’s an article from several years ago that talks about how Aidan led the resurgence in old school barber shops:
I’ve been wanting to try Turkey and the Wolf sandwich shop for a while. It has won many awards and has been featured on several television shows, including “Somebody Feed Phil.” It was right around the corner from Aidan Gill, and seemed to be calling me. This is the original restaurant from Mason Hereford who recently opened Hungry Eyes – a place near the condo that I really enjoy.
Their most famous sandwich is the collard green melt, and I decided to give it a try. It was ridiculously delicious – collard greens, coleslaw and Russian dressing come together to create a fabulous combination, with just the right amount of spice. Here’s the recipe if you’d like to attempt to recreate this:
On Saturday morning, we picked up Kara and drove over to the sculpture garden for early morning yoga. No, I didn’t participate, choosing instead to do my puzzles and enjoy a coffee at Café du Monde. I resisted the urge to order some beignets to go with my coffee.

After closing, we met the guy who is going to refinish the floors and an air conditioning guy at the house. Tommy, the air conditioning guy, was recommended by Fred, who let us know he was a real character who looked like Edgar Winter. That was all true. I enjoyed my time with Tommy quite a bit. The picture is of him in the attic (natural habitat), surveying the duct work and units for improvements.
Diana was busy on Tuesday and Wednesday, coordinating the floor guys and a general contractor who is taking care of all the major things from the inspection report – replacing some siding, removing bad insulation, venting dryer and attic properly, adjusting cabinet and other doors, and so on. The floor sanding is moving along well, and we should pick out the stain early next week.
Diana rewarded herself with oyster night (and frozen French 75) with Laura at Superior Seafood. Well deserved!



I made the mistake of letting Sabine the cat out on Tuesday night. Shaking her treat bag at both doors yielded no results and she ended up spending the night outside. She was anxious to get in when Diana opened the door on Wednesday morning. Doesn’t she look guilty in this picture?

We followed that with another pleasant and casual affair, dinner at Café Degas. This is a unique French bistro over by City Park. Kenzie was our waitress. She had waited on us when we went there with Tim and Dee and had suggested a wine that McD really enjoyed. She even had a picture to show Kenzie. “Sorry, we don’t have that one anymore, but I have an even better one.”












We settled into a wonderful wood fire. And a strange thing occurred. A cat decided that it liked McD. That never happens.



























My book this week was “Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing” by Matthew Perry.





















We arrived in Corning in time for some amazing smoked pork, courtesy of Brent. It was very nice to relax in Patty and Brent’s wonderful downtown apartment. The smoked pork was fantastic. I had it again in a Brent scramble creation early morning Sunday, following the women’s soccer World Cup.




The day was finished off at The Cellar in downtown Corning – a short walk from the apartment. Another excellent meal – great starters like falafel salad and chicken liver mousse, and then a burger for me and paella for Diana. The ladies picked out a wine that they enjoyed very much, so I’m recording that here for future reference.

After brunch, we walked over to the Corning Museum of Glass (CMOG) and browsed through the gift shop. McD successfully navigating the maze on the bridge over the river.




As you can tell, there was a lot of driving and other activity this week and not much time for reading. I did find a really interesting short book on my iPad – no room for real books on this trip.


Will and the family gave us a gift card to the fancy new Miami restaurant that has opened in Dallas – Komodo. We made a brunch reservation and I was a bit nervous – they kept sending me new rules about dress code, how long you could keep the table and so on. The experience was good – they seemed to have an “old folks section.” The music was quieter and it was out of the way of all the hustle and excitement. This was totally fine with us.





My first book this week was “The Celebrants” by Steven Rowley. I enjoyed this read, just not quite as much as the reviewers I read did. Creative premise, well executed, humorous at times, but just not jumping off the page for me.
My next book is a classic that I’ve started a few times and never finished. I had to finish by Saturday morning this time, so that I could drop it back at the McKinney library before departing. “The Great Gatsby” was a very entertaining and quickly paced story. Again, not the wonderful classic in my mind that so many folks make it out to be. Many top ten lists I see from readers, have this at number one. Fitzgerald has a few interesting plot twists and some fascinating characters – I’ll give all those reviewers that. It just seems a bit light weight, lacking in the depth of a true classic.


We tried Lonesome Dove for dinner. This is a well known place from Fort Worth, that opened a branch in Austin. It’s famous for exotic game dishes, snake, elk and the like. We all enjoyed dinner. The elk and foie gras sliders were a highlight, and my scallops were very fresh and well cooked.









“All the Sinners Bleed” by S.A. Cosby was my book this week. A fast paced thriller, and not for the feint of heart. I enjoyed it a lot, maybe even better than his last two novels. The main character, Titus Crown, a police chief in rural Virginia is excellently done. Here’s the online summary:




I decided to treat myself to a nice breakfast on Saturday morning. Ruby Slipper is a five minute walk from the Washington house – so I thought I’d give that a try. Good choice. I got the “peacemaker” benedicts – a choice of two. The St. Charles chicken and Cochon were both excellent. I hope to be coming back to this place often.


Marc Stone was as excellent as I remembered. All three of us thoroughly enjoyed his set.



Another great book again this week. “Such Kindness” by Andre Dubus III really held my attention. Just as good as “Townie”, which I enjoyed a lot many years ago.
Monday was a sad day. I took Penelope for an inspection requested by Rick, a prospective buyer. They found a couple of issues, but nothing too bad. Rick and Lisa came over and closed the deal on Monday night. So sad to say goodbye to my companion of over 10 years. Logically, it was the right time to sell, with almost 80,000 miles and about to lose a lot of resale value. Emotionally is a whole different story. The whole sales process was very quick and smooth. Hoping the same for our house.







The painters started on Friday morning. All the colour is gone, to be replaced by “Worldly Gray.” That’s the colour of the family room and kitchen, and now the majority of the rest of the house. Rodrigo, Maria, and Jesus did a great job and were very kind. They will finish up on Monday.



While the guys were battling the pool table, a work buddy, Sean, was building a garage. Some folks just have a load of hidden talents. I can’t imagine taking on securing those roof trusses.
On Monday, Diana was upset that the under-sink garbage disposal hadn’t been replaced while she was in California. I rarely use it, and so hadn’t even thought about it. Never mind – a quick order from Amazon and I was ready to tackle replacement. Not having done this before, I made sure to read all the instructions carefully. The flange from the old disposal didn’t accommodate the new one – ugh. I just couldn’t figure out how to get the old one off. Youtube to the rescue – there’s a hidden spring clamp inside the assembly. Ahh – two seconds later and it was off. Now it was time for problem number two – the replacement unit is too fat for the space available. Back to Amazon and a new unit showed up before 6pm. That was quickly installed and all is working well for now.
Finn turned 30 a week ago on Saturday. We took him to Drake’s Old Hollywood in Dallas for dinner. What a wonderful new place. Beautiful old school design and wonderful food and service. We started with lobster escargot – like escargot but with lobster, puff pastry and garlic pesto. Finn said the appetizer meatball was the best he’s ever tasted. Diana and Finn both had the Chilean sea bass and loved it. Then the sparkler topped chocolate mousse. I think Finn had a very nice time. He just told us some big news a few days ago – he has a girlfriend that he really likes and they also celebrated his birthday.


We celebrated our 6th (iron) anniversary when we got home – letting Finn have the dinner be just his celebration.

After a long wait in bed at the surgery center on Wednesday morning, I was finally wheeled to the operating room around noon. Can you believe the size of the screws that were in there? Here are before and after x-rays.



Diana worked miracles, putting in 14 to 16 hour days of packing and sorting. The first truckload left on Friday – all donations to the women’s shelter and other charities. Now on to the stuff that’s going into storage while we show the house. It’s a lot of stuff, and includes all of the pictures on my office walls.



I posted Penelope for sale on Facebook Marketplace on Friday afternoon, and wasn’t sure what to expect. Immediate interest. I showed it to a guy on Saturday afternoon and he seemed very interested. More to come next posting. I did find this entertaining picture of the day I bought her, a little over 10 years ago. She’s been such a good car.

“1 Dead Attic – After Katrina” by Chris Rose was my book this week. A shocking collection of articles that Rose wrote in the aftermath. These are tremendously well written by someone who lived through the early days of recovery in New Orleans. Chris was married to our friend Kelly at the time this was published (Kelly actually self published it and remembers how successful it was financially) and it’s interesting to read her account of the impact all of this had on his mental health and overall physical wellbeing.