“These screws need to come out”
We made a big decision shortly after my last post. Have you heard? We’re listing our house and moving to New Orleans. We love our home, but it’s just so boring and such a long drive to things we like to do. We’re looking forward to spending time with our friends in the city we love.
It’s been a complete whirlwind since we made the decision. We hired a realtor, organized a moving company, contracted with a painter, and packed innumerable boxes. Diana has been a beast with the packing and I haven’t been a ton of help due to my leg surgery – more on that shortly.
On Monday, Diana was upset that the under-sink garbage disposal hadn’t been replaced while she was in California. I rarely use it, and so hadn’t even thought about it. Never mind – a quick order from Amazon and I was ready to tackle replacement. Not having done this before, I made sure to read all the instructions carefully. The flange from the old disposal didn’t accommodate the new one – ugh. I just couldn’t figure out how to get the old one off. Youtube to the rescue – there’s a hidden spring clamp inside the assembly. Ahh – two seconds later and it was off. Now it was time for problem number two – the replacement unit is too fat for the space available. Back to Amazon and a new unit showed up before 6pm. That was quickly installed and all is working well for now.
I decided to have the screws removed from my femur. They’ve been in there for over three years and continue to hurt every day. Enough! The orthopedic surgeon required several tests to be completed through my regular doctor before operating. Should be easy enough, I thought. Never that easy. Four phone calls later, the doctor had the instructions on what was needed. So, I got to spend a happy couple of Monday hours waiting for an EKG and some blood tests.
Tuesday brought the final pre-op test – a chest x-ray. I was all clear for surgery the following Wednesday.
Thursday brought my final pre-op appointment at the orthopedic office. All clear and ready to go. We also met with a listing agent who will help us to sell the house. She wants all the clutter and personalization gone from the house before she has some staging done and takes photos. So now we’re in mad dash packing and sorting mode.
We awoke on Friday to the horrendous news of a tornado that destroyed much of Perryton, TX. It arrived with no warning and wiped out big swaths of Main Street and other areas. Just devastating.
https://www.texastribune.org/2023/06/16/perryton-tornado-storms/
Finn turned 30 a week ago on Saturday. We took him to Drake’s Old Hollywood in Dallas for dinner. What a wonderful new place. Beautiful old school design and wonderful food and service. We started with lobster escargot – like escargot but with lobster, puff pastry and garlic pesto. Finn said the appetizer meatball was the best he’s ever tasted. Diana and Finn both had the Chilean sea bass and loved it. Then the sparkler topped chocolate mousse. I think Finn had a very nice time. He just told us some big news a few days ago – he has a girlfriend that he really likes and they also celebrated his birthday.



We celebrated our 6th (iron) anniversary when we got home – letting Finn have the dinner be just his celebration.
Dr. Neffie (she just completed her PhD) and her fiancée Shaun came over to visit us on Sunday. Diana made one of her famous meat and cheese platters and we enjoyed some mini sliders from the grill. I really enjoyed chatting with Shaun – I can see why the Dr. likes him so much.


After a long wait in bed at the surgery center on Wednesday morning, I was finally wheeled to the operating room around noon. Can you believe the size of the screws that were in there? Here are before and after x-rays.


Apparently bone had grown around the screwheads, causing the pain that I’ve been experiencing.
Wednesday was also Timmy’s 60th birthday. He celebrated with his lovely family in Philadelphia.


Diana worked miracles, putting in 14 to 16 hour days of packing and sorting. The first truckload left on Friday – all donations to the women’s shelter and other charities. Now on to the stuff that’s going into storage while we show the house. It’s a lot of stuff, and includes all of the pictures on my office walls.




I posted Penelope for sale on Facebook Marketplace on Friday afternoon, and wasn’t sure what to expect. Immediate interest. I showed it to a guy on Saturday afternoon and he seemed very interested. More to come next posting. I did find this entertaining picture of the day I bought her, a little over 10 years ago. She’s been such a good car.
Quite the storm came through on Friday night. We had several branches come off the huge oak tree in the front yard. No major damage, thankfully.
Will likes to post about his dining adventures on Instagram. He tried the Bywater restaurant in Los Gatos and appears to have really enjoyed it. It’s operated by David Kinch who owned Manresa for many years.


“1 Dead Attic – After Katrina” by Chris Rose was my book this week. A shocking collection of articles that Rose wrote in the aftermath. These are tremendously well written by someone who lived through the early days of recovery in New Orleans. Chris was married to our friend Kelly at the time this was published (Kelly actually self published it and remembers how successful it was financially) and it’s interesting to read her account of the impact all of this had on his mental health and overall physical wellbeing.
Here’s an online summary:
“Celebrated as a local classic and heaped with national praise, 1 Dead in Attic is a brilliant collection of columns by an award-winning Times-Picayune journalist chronicling the horrific damage and aftermath wrought by Hurricane Katrina in 2006. “Frank and compelling…vivid and invaluable” (Booklist), it is a roller coaster ride through a devastated American wasteland as it groans for rebirth. Full of the emotion, tragedy and even humor—which has made Chris Rose a favorite son and the voice of a lost city—these are the stories of the dead and the living, of survivors and believers, of destruction and recovery, and of hope and despair.”
Here’s a quote about New Orleans:
“The experience of everyday life here is magnified by emotional intensity and creative reverie, yet also reduced by the heat, humidity, and altitude to its most basic and primal elements: Food, shelter, and the Saints.
You can regulate our smoking and regulate our music and – hard to believe this day has come – you can even regulate our go-cups.
But you cannot regulate soul. You cannot legislate funk. And you cannot pass an ordinance that makes us ordinary.
The best things about us will never change.”
So well said!
“If there was no New Orleans, America would just be a bunch of free people dying of boredom.” Judy Deck.
From the article “The First Time Back 9/7/05”:
“Riding my bike, I searched out my favorite places, my comfort zones. I found that Tipitina’s is still there, and that counts for something. Miss Mae’s and Dick & Jenny’s, ditto.
Domilise’s po-boy shop is intact, although the sign fell and shattered, but truth is, that sign needed to be replaced a long time ago.
I saw a dead guy on the front porch of a shotgun double on a working class street, and the only sound was wind chimes.”
From “Life in the Surreal City 9/10/05”:
“There are men and woman from other towns living there in tents who have left their families to come help us, and they are in the park clearing out the fallen timber. My fellow Americans.
Every damn one of them tells you they’re happy to be here and every time I try to thank them, on behalf of all of us, I just lose it. I absolutely melt down.
There is nothing quite as ignominious as weeping in front a soldier.
This is no environment for a wuss like me. We reporters go to other places to cover wars and disasters and pestilence and famine. There’s no manual to tell you how to do this when it’s your own city.”
From “Don’t Mess with Mrs. Rose 2/21/06”:
“I’ve always had a particular fascination with people who steal stuff that obviously belongs to kids.
Anyway, my wife, she’s like me: a little raw. A little roughed up by all of this. With all that can go wrong around here on a minute’s notice, she’s in no mood to let her day be ruined by a punk, a bad guy, part of the problem.
So she unfurled a bloody tirade against this guy, who may or may not have been armed but was so stunned by her fury that he babbled some lie about “That guy said I could borrow it” and she continued with her furious but rather persuasive diatribe.
She grabbed the bike. He got off and walked away.
“Moseyed,” she tells me.”
That would be Kelly, and I do not mess with her.
I have many other dog-eared pages, but that’s enough for now.

Here’s a beautiful, relaxing piece of music:
And I think that’s a good way to end.
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!
The only interruption to my peace was from the idiotic doves that seem to come and visit every year about this time. A few years ago they built a nest on top of the patio speaker above the door. They attempted to reprise that stunt while we were gone. I ultimately had to take the speaker down as they just wouldn’t give up on dive bombing in to take their spot atop it. Undeterred, they decided to try the other speaker. So annoying. I took that speaker down as well and have had the ceiling fans on all the time. That seems to have done the trick. They can no longer perch on the fan and have their meetings about where to try and nest next.
I did venture out a couple of times. First for lunch at Mexican Cactus and then for Sunday lunch at Tacodeli. Their migas royale platter is so good, and a great value.





Diana and Alicia hosted Will, Christine and Adamo’s crew on Saturday evening. Will took Adamo and the boys for a spin in the fancy BMW M2, and they watched the whales at sunset from Adamo’s home. I hear that Alicia made some yummy tacos.
My book this week was “Foregone” by Russell Banks. Sadly, I have not heard of Banks, who has published many well reviewed books. The good news is that I have a lot of new titles to explore. Here’s the online summary:
Another birthday for me showed up on Tuesday. They just keep coming! I received a lovely song from the New Orleans group in Roatan, Honduras. Denny reported it was very nice but very hot and humid – something coming from a New Orleanian.










A walk by the beach on Thursday offered pretty flowers and great views of several pods of migrating hump back whales. After the walk, I used the Dinosaur’s gift certificate from Caroline to buy one of their yummy Portobello sandwiches.
Andy and Jude joined us on Friday afternoon and we enjoyed listening to music and telling stories. Always so fun to visit with them.
On Saturday it was time to cede Birthday Week privileges to Alicia. She had requested a 70s theme, and Diana did a great job of coordinating flower colours and decorations to that request.














My book this week was “Solar” by Ian McEwan. Here’s what The Guardian had to say about it:



I was tickled by the array of gear in the equipment cabinet to power all the smart touchscreens and audio gear. I also enjoyed the grand piano tucked beside the stairs.

We all met up in downtown SLO for the Thursday night Farmer’s market extravaganza. There were loads of food tents set up in front of the strip of restaurants and bars. I loved my Indian vegetarian sampler. I’m not sure Mawmaw was thrilled with the concept of eating standing up. We took her into Nick the Greek for a seat afterwards.















And then the cake cutting. Another performance:

The reception finished relatively early, and the core group made a stop at The Sidecar (the guys that were doing the mixology), followed by the Lofts.
In the afternoon we drove over to John and Maddie’s house for dinner – a wonderful smoked and barbequed selection from John. It’s always impressive to spend time with their kids, Lilly and Ben. So well behaved and interactive. The night finished with some kind of four dimensional Connect Four variant – way too much for me.
Denny was moving slowly on Monday, so we picked up Sean and Sheri for the afternoon. We made a stop at Octavia books so that I could pick up Kevin Griffin’s “The Greatest Song.” He gave a talk and played some songs last Thursday when we were having dinner at La Petite Grocery. I was sorry to miss the event, but happier to have dinner with the group. The book talks about how to ignite your creativity, using songwriting as an example. Griffin is the lead singer for Better than Ezra, and was in town for some performances between jazzfest weekends.
Sheri was hungry so we drove over to the Columns to get some snacks before they stopped serving lunch. It was very pleasant to get some quiet time to really catch up with the Meeksies. I worked in a couple of quick work calls from the lovely garden tables.







My book this week was “Network” by L.C. Shaw. I picked this up randomly at the library and hadn’t read any reviews or recommendations. Here’s the online summary:



I flew back to New Orleans on Wednesday morning, entertained to see an outpost of the Saxon Pub at the airport. I arrived back in time to make a lunchtime visit to the chiropractor.


The food was better than ever – blue crab beignets appetizer and then my favourite – alligator Bolognese. The group was fired up and ready to go after dinner. We started with a stop at DMACs – apparently there was an entertaining band playing – I ended up sitting outside and chatting with some locals. Back to the condo to freshen up and regroup. Then Denny talked us into the Soul Rebels in the tiny back room of Le Bon Temps Rouler. We ended up getting our cover charge back as it was way too packed to even get to the back room.

After lunch, we made a visit to the Sazerac House – this is a very interesting and free museum about the Sazerac drink and associated other liquors. Highly recommended way to pass an hour or two – the building has been beautifully restored.


Some entertaining people watching ensued back on the Magazine Street balcony. A new white Rolls Royce pulled up and parked in front of the Buffalo Exchange thrift shop. I suspected a musician in town for jazzfest, but didn’t recognize the lady who exited the back door to head inside. Also didn’t recognize the man who joined her about 20 minutes later. He didn’t look like a chauffeur and didn’t open the door for her on return. Just interesting that she rides in the back while he drives. This is how we pass our time on the balcony…
On Saturday evening, Denny had arranged for us all to see Low Cut Connie perform at Gasa Gasa on Freret street. This is a small club and it was sold out. The piano player and lead singer was a terrific showman and we thoroughly enjoyed the show. Kind of a cross between Gerry Lee Lewis and Brian Setzer.








Lunch on Thursday was at Mais Arepas. Another restaurant that Denny recommended visiting during the day time. I think he exaggerates, as the neighborhood is rapidly gentrifying. Everything on the menu is gluten free, so Brent could go nuts. The menu is described as Colombian Creole.










Diana took Patty and Brent to explore the art market area. They wandered back through the Jazz, Blues and Gospel tents, getting a great flavour of everything on offer. Robert Plant and Alison Krauss closed out Gentilly. A bit nuanced and mellow for the big stage, but I did enjoy a few songs, like “Rock ‘N Roll”, the Zeppelin original:




I stopped by Cherry Espresso while they sunbathed – great coffee and a very cool converted fire house building.


Denny and Anne joined for dinner. Osteria Lupo is a restaurant by the Costera folks (Spanish tapas place that we went to for dinner one New Year’s Eve) that opened a couple of weeks ago and is a short walk from the condo. The food was amazing and the restaurant very modern and nicely outfitted. Black truffle arancini, crab pasta, and some great wine.
After our sessions, we walked down to Seafood Sally’s and met Kenny and Denny for Happy Hour. $1 oysters for Diana – such a deal compared to anywhere in Texas or California.




First up was Valerie Sassyfras. I had watched her performance on America’s Got Talent and thought this was going to be ridiculously silly. This picture is Kenny, in Booker shirt, explaining something to Valerie. Live and in person it was actually quite entertaining. Here’s a video with the girls joining Valerie for “Girl’s Night Out.”
I enjoyed getting to see a few folks that I don’t see very often – Greg and Colleen (pictured here), Randy and Amy, Paul and Michelle, Tres and Party Phil. Greg has the perfect New Orleans accent and is a true Southern gentleman.
I met Alex at Peaches for record store day on Saturday morning. This is an annual event where independent record stores release one of a kind and rare recordings until they sell out. I was greeted at the door with an offer of a beer and pizza – umm, not at 9am, thanks. I picked up a Status Quo album that Mum and Dad gave me as a Christmas gift many years ago. Who knows where that original version is now. Not familiar with Status Quo? They are a classic power trio, and were the openers for Live Aid in 1985 – my first day working for Gearhart. I still remember being invited to my boss, Howard Dunn’s, house for the festivities. Here’s the performance:
Some fun people watching was available from our balcony after record store day. The Buffalo Exchange was having a sidewalk sale for Earth Day. All items were $1 and the proceeds went to an elephant sanctuary in Tennessee. So funny to watch a hundred folks dig into boxes full of used clothes.





After lunch we walked to the “Mostly Rock and Roll Gallery.” This is owned by a friend of Andy and Jude’s. They are Clorinda’s perfect neighbours in Pacifica. Steve also lived in Pacifica for many years. He was visiting New Orleans a year or so ago, met Ben Jaffe of the Preservation Hall Band, and moved shortly after.


Diana and I made a brief stop at the Milan bar on our walk home. I really appreciate the little neighbourhood bars in New Orleans.
Tuesday began with a run in Audubon park – Week 5 Day 1 for me. Later in the day, Diana met the girls for oyster Happy Hour at Superior Seafood. I love that Diana has a group of girls to get together with here. I invited Kenny and Alex over for a drink and we enjoyed some good banter on the balcony.
We shared Audubon park with the Harveys on Thursday morning, enjoying a nice leisurely lap. Lunch was at Juan’s Flying Burrito – one of Tim’s favourites. It’s easy to get meat and potatoes style dishes without vegetables. Our margarita pourer, however, needed a tiny bit more training:

I forgot to mention a special stop after our walk in the park – the prettiest pothole I’ve found. It’s located at the corner of Laurel and Webster streets, and the locals have planted some pretty flowers. Those are the same locals that hosted the wonderful porch concerts on our last visit – we should consider that neighbourhood.
Denny turned 55 on Friday! Still such a kid. We celebrated his birthday in the gorgeous patio at Bayona in the French Quarter. This is a pretty famous place that Susan Spicer opened many years ago. She’s one of the best known female chefs.
The food was delicious. McD and I split a fried oyster salad, followed by a steak sandwich. After lunch we wandered over to Jackson Square to take in some of French Quarter Fest, a free music festival with stages throughout the Quarter.





One of the few things on Dee’s list of things she would like to do on the visit was to try beignets. We checked that off the list on Saturday morning, meeting Kenny and Kara after they finished yoga in City Park. That location is much less busy than the French Quarter location. I think the beignets were a big hit with everyone.






There were some lovely wildflowers as we took a driving tour of City Park. After that, we stopped by Liuzza’s for some classic pre-jazzfest style Bloody Mary’s before lunch.


The crepe du crab that Kenzie recommended for me was delicious. Unfortunately, the heavens opened right as we were finishing lunch. No problem for McD – another bottle of that perfect Sancerre. I finally got antsy and got soaked retrieving the car.
There was some debate about whether we should rally off the couch to see Uncle Lucius on Saturday night. I had bought tickets early, but they were not expensive. We made a good decision and grabbed an Uber back to the Quarter for the show at the Toulouse Theater (previously One Eyed Jacks.)
Kenny and Kara joined us briefly after dinner and enjoyed a new band to them.


My book this week (and last) was “The Nightingale” by Kristin Hannah. Kenny leant me the book and he loved it. I previously really enjoyed “The Great Alone” – I’ll need to share that one with Kenny.




In the evening, Denny and Anne picked us up early for our N7 dinner reservation. Denny thought it would be a good idea to catch a few songs from The Tin Men at DBA before our meal. Great idea Denny!
N7 was even better than we remembered. Just a lovely setting in the yard of a small house.




Britney Chauntae and band treated us (there were only a couple of other folks there) to some wonderful jazz and RnB singing, while MardiClaw (interesting name) took care of us at the bar.
After work on Friday, I met the guys at The Other Bar on Freret Street for Happy Hour. We were treated to a short stand-up comedy performance from Kenny. He’s been working on a “tight 10 minute set” in his retirement. Some of the krewe attended the Pelicans basketball game and were treated to a halftime performance by Shammar Allen – “The Weekend Dance.”







I completed week 4 of Couch to 5K on Sunday morning. That was my exercise ahead of a delicious Easter brunch at Atchafalaya – a short walk from the condo. The food was excellent and the service was, let’s see, spotty is the kindest word I can find. Diana chatted with the owner and we were treated to a blue cheese flan and some nice drinks. We were also able to secure a return reservation whenever we wanted – although everything was booked up online. Nicely handed by Rachel, the owner.
