“Surgery and Celebration Week”
This week started with Diana’s dental surgery – tooth extraction and bone graft. She elected not to have general anesthesia, and rather have a “magic pill” at the dentist’s office to calm her down and make her very sleepy. She claimed she wasn’t really getting sleepy – I think the pictures indicate otherwise:

Everything went well according to Dr. Johnson – he reported that he met Diana’s two instructions to him: 1. no pain; 2. do a great job. I was a bit concerned right when we arrived home, as the pain was very high, but things settled down in a few hours. The rinsing, dabbing and pain pills all week are really getting annoying for McD.
I was next up on Thursday, with dupuytrens surgery Act II. I had my pinky nodule removed last year, and now it was time for ring and middle nodules to exit. A lot of work for a couple of little bumps – but they do start to hurt annoyingly after a few months.

I’m usually in a happy and entertaining state when coming out of anesthesia. Not so much this time – too much time waiting without anything to eat or drink, and too much time to review the ridiculous cost of short surgeries. Diana was glad to get me out of there before I really irritated the nurses. Time for some Taco Bell comfort food.
We celebrated Finn’s 29th birthday on Friday – pushing our anniversary celebration to Saturday. The fun started with the “Lightyear” movie at the luxurious iPic theater. This is a prequel to “Toy Story” – showing the story that was behind the Buzz Lightyear “Infiniti and Beyond” toy. The film was action packed and entertaining. Diana commented that it was “one calamity after another.”
After all that excitement, we returned home so that Finn could open presents – he had a great time opening Pokemon figurines from Campbell, custom made San Francisco Giants barstools from us, cards, gift cards, and then a delicious lemon cake and ice cream that Diana arranged for him. So nice to see him so healthy and happy.



The theme for a fifth anniversary is wood. Diana likes to play Connect 4, and so I couldn’t resist this custom wooden version.

I also found an Etsy company that makes wooden boards with song lyrics – had to get our wedding song:

Diana surprised me with a glass koala (D) and penguin (K) that she had made by a guy in New Orleans, who was part of an artist co-op downstairs from our condo. I really love these little guys.

Our anniversary dinner was at Rick’s Chophouse in downtown McKinney. A lovely setting that we’ve enjoyed many times in the past, but this time the service was spotty and slow. We made the best of it and tried not to complain too much. Desserts and my shrimp ‘n grits were both delicious.


Pest control came out to kill off our latest round of hornets, but a few stragglers remained. I tried to take care of them so that D could fully enjoy her sunbathing spot, without unwanted company. They really do look mean.
It was nice to get our surgeries behind us and to celebrate birthday and anniversary.

My book this week was “Between Two Kingdoms” by Suleika Jaouad. I really enjoyed this book, which follows Jaouad’s multiple year battle with leukemia and her path to recovery. I have a bunch of dog-eared pages that I wanted to share, but it’s too hard for me to type with this annoying bandage on my right hand- keeps activating the Ctrl key with all kinds of silly results. So, I’ll just share this online summary that it was easy to copy and paste – the Ctrl-C and Ctrl-V responding well.
“In the summer after graduating from college, Suleika Jaouad was preparing, as they say in commencement speeches, to enter “the real world.” She had fallen in love and moved to Paris to pursue her dream of becoming a war correspondent. The real world she found, however, would take her into a very different kind of conflict zone.
It started with an itch—first on her feet, then up her legs, like a thousand invisible mosquito bites. Next came the exhaustion, and the six-hour naps that only deepened her fatigue. Then a trip to the doctor and, a few weeks shy of her twenty-third birthday, a diagnosis: leukemia, with a 35 percent chance of survival. Just like that, the life she had imagined for herself had gone up in flames. By the time Jaouad flew home to New York, she had lost her job, her apartment, and her independence. She would spend much of the next four years in a hospital bed, fighting for her life and chronicling the saga in a column for The New York Times.
When Jaouad finally walked out of the cancer ward—after countless rounds of chemo, a clinical trial, and a bone marrow transplant—she was, according to the doctors, cured. But as she would soon learn, a cure is not where the work of healing ends; it’s where it begins. She had spent the past 1,500 days in desperate pursuit of one goal—to survive. And now that she’d done so, she realized that she had no idea how to live.
How would she reenter the world and live again? How could she reclaim what had been lost? Jaouad embarked—with her new best friend, Oscar, a scruffy terrier mutt—on a 100-day, 15,000-mile road trip across the country. She set out to meet some of the strangers who had written to her during her years in the hospital: a teenage girl in Florida also recovering from cancer; a teacher in California grieving the death of her son; a death-row inmate in Texas who’d spent his own years confined to a room. What she learned on this trip is that the divide between sick and well is porous, that the vast majority of us will travel back and forth between these realms throughout our lives. Between Two Kingdoms is a profound chronicle of survivorship and a fierce, tender, and inspiring exploration of what it means to begin again.”
I thoroughly recommend this book – not exactly an uplifting tale, but such an honest and insightful survival story.

Here’s an interesting Dylan cover that I’ve enjoyed several times this week:
Some lovely, laid back Anders:
And finally a new band that I heard this week and like a lot:
Stay safe, kind and compassionate to everyone!
spent some time in the office and then picked up Diana at the airport – she was delayed by about an hour as they had to “reboot” one of the airplane engines prior to leaving Phoenix. That gave me an opportunity to experience the “cell phone waiting lot” at Austin airport. Quite fancy with a Whataburger and a flight arrival information screen.
I hosted a Happy Hour at The Tavern for all IT folks in the Austin area, and a few folks who were visiting. This was a lovely evening with good food, drinks and company – all at a reasonable price. Diana had a chance to do a detailed interview of Pepe, my new leader for Latin American IT – she was very impressed. The only downer was when one attendee discovered that her car had been broken into, and her laptop stolen. Never leave bags visible in the back seat!
I was entertained by the scooter and one-wheel gang that drove by The Tavern – Will is on the waiting list for a new one-wheel. Don’t think I’ll ever have the balance for one of those.
I picked up Diana at the hotel for Thursday lunch with Pepe and me at Salt Traders. We had a very nice seafood lunch – Diana enjoying some tuna tartare. After lunch, Diana took Pepe over to Walmart so that he could pick up some things that are much less expensive in the U.S. Diana and I both agree that Pepe is a great addition to my team.


Speaking of yummy food – I noticed that our office vending machine now carries the highly addictive Zappos Voodoo chips from New Orleans. I was proud of myself for being able to resist the temptation.

Santos came over on Saturday to trim up the trees – particularly the one in our neighbor’s yard that had the broken branch. We finally got rid of all the branches hanging over our pool. He also trimmed back the massive oak tree in the front significantly – no trees touching the house now. It was interesting to watch the technique used to make the branches fall into the gap between the magnolias, and then control their descent.


I enjoyed my book this week much better than the one from last week. “The Guide”, by Peter Heller was a quick and exciting read. The fly fishing descriptions were wonderful, and the plot fast paced and engaging. I did find the conclusion a bit gruesome and disturbing – but not beyond the imagination.





I was home at 5pm, not too much later than on my originally planned flight, just with a much earlier start. Whew – early to bed. I did notice this large, broken tree limb hanging in our yard before bed. The storm that caused our flight cancellation must have been a pretty good one. The upside is that branch needed to come down anyway as it was over the pool and spoiling the sun bathing area.






My book this week was “French Braid” by Anne Tyler. If you are a regular reader, you know how much I admire Tyler’s ability to capture the day to day normality of families, with great characters.




Another one of her gifts was an excellent book – “Booze and Vinyl.” A selection of great albums from the last four decades with suggested cocktail pairings and snacks. This is a wonderful book – the authors clearly love vinyl records and cocktails very much. There’s not a bad album in here and the pairings make a lot of sense. Maybe we’ll work our way through this, one album per week, when we’re both retired.



Have you watched any of “Somebody Feed Phil” on Netflix? I stumbled upon it recently (thanks Vince) and am really enjoying Phil Rosenthal’s exploits as he travels to a new city in each episode. Rosenthal was the creator of “Everybody Loves Raymond”, and you can certainly see the sense of humour that was so successful there coming through in this show. Highly recommended.

My book this week was “Every Good Boy Does Fine (A Love Story, in Music Lessons)” by Jeremy Denk. This is one of my favourite reads in a while. Fair warning though – I’m not sure it would be particularly enjoyable to someone who doesn’t enjoy classical music and hasn’t struggled with the piano at some point in their life.
fun as I dealt with some employee issues, but I did enjoy a couple of nice dinners. Argentinian steakhouse with Francisco on Monday, and then a great Italian place, Il Duomo, with Manuel and Juan Pablo on Tuesday. I was surprised to find a solid selection of French wines and steak tartare (prepared tableside) on the menu.



When I returned home, Diana had been busy preparing for my “birthday week.” Tulips, a card, drinks, and lots of my favourites in the fridge. Thanks, my D!



The weather wasn’t good on Saturday afternoon, so no pool time for McD. I suggested she try a jigsaw puzzle. She can’t stop after she starts – straight back to it when she got up this morning. It’s a puzzle of “Where the Crawdads Sing” – just the right degree of difficulty so that she wasn’t at it for several days.







My book this week was “The Candy House” by Jennifer Egan. The story includes several of the characters from her Pulitzer Prize winning “A Visit from the Goon Squad”, a book that I really enjoyed. The first few chapters were engaging and funny and had me looking forward to the rest of the book. But things went downhill for me – too many characters that it seemed were supposed to be related, but I couldn’t keep up with the connections. Then changing into different formats – a chapter of email/twitter exchanges that didn’t work for me at all. The concept of being able to store the history of one’s consciousness is quite interesting though. Overall an enjoyable read, just didn’t live up to my expectations.
The latest car wash in the Ogan empire opened Monday in Gentilly. Then Denny and Anne flew to Nashville to celebrate. They had been concerned that city approvals were going to cause delays and impact our trip. Here’s a local councilman reading a grand opening proclamation.
Hotels were exorbitantly expensive this week, and so I booked a “Nashville Riverfront Loft”. This worked out very well, with lots of extra space and a great location – half a block of Broadway.
The Ogans were busy on Tuesday night with carwash stuff, and so Diana and I had dinner at an old favourite – the Butcher and Bee in East Nashville. The whipped feta with honey is so delicious. Not sure if Diana thought her champagne was more delicious? We couldn’t resist the strawberry pavlova – a pretty faithful rendition with a creative twist.
After dinner, the carwash festivities were still underway at the Wild Horse Saloon (conveniently right next to our loft), and so we joined Denny and Anne for some shuffleboard games and were able to meet the carwash partners.
































My book this week was “Memphis” by Tara M. Stringfellow. I enjoyed the last part of the jacket biography:
excited when it reopened. The beauty of going there with a large group is that you get to sample so many of the dishes – lamb meatballs and mushroom risotto were the standouts for me. It was our CFO’s birthday and I got him a special mug and a “Buck Buck Moose” cookbook – he loves cooking exotic meats.


We had a nice long walk on Saturday, with a break for a coffee and snack along the way. We ran into a “Shakespeare in the Park” festival at Adriatica – apparently an all day event with four plays performed. There were lots of booths set up, including a petting zoo with a llama. Such an entertaining animal. It took Diana way back to the Dr. Doolittle move with the two headed “push me pull me” llama.

I tried a new recipe on Saturday night. Our CFO had given me some homemade Thai green curry paste a while ago, and I used that to make a Thai chicken curry for dinner. Thanks to D for shopping for all the unusual ingredients. I think it turned out really well – my first experiment with cooking in a wok.


We tried to get Diana her preferred dessert after C.T.’s – a chocolate dipped cone at Dairy Queen. The line was way too long, so we dropped Finn off and then tried Sonic – nothing on the menu there that worked. Third time’s a charm – a waffle cone from Braum’s.

The weather was mostly very nice, and we were able to get out for some walks on Gypsy Hill. Somebody has entirely too much energy on those walks:


Easter Sunday dinner was quite the feast – lobsters from Adamo’s recent diving expedition, and our gorgonzola lamb chop lollipops – been way too long since we made those.





I dropped the VW Atlas off at Discount Tire to get the wheels balanced on Thursday, and Finn picked me up there and took me to lunch at Mexican Cactus – those tacos are so good. The tire guys called me at lunch to say they couldn’t find the wheel nut locking adapter anywhere. Nothing’s easy. I ended up having to pick up a new one at the dealership – must not have replaced it when they powder coated the wheel rims. The wheels did get balanced ultimately on Friday, and I found an interesting sub-woofer mounted on top of the spare tire when replacing the tool. I had no idea it was in there.


My first book was “Whiteout” by Ken Follett. I don’t remember reading Follett before, other than the “On Wings of Eagles” EDS Iran hostage rescue story, and really enjoyed this tale. Set in a castle in northern Scotland that has been converted into a medical research facility, the story revolves around a plot to steal a deadly virus from the lab during a blizzard.
My next book was “Mother, May I” by Joshilyn Jackson. Here’s the online summary:











We made it to The Franklin on Tuesday evening for dinner – you’ll remember that we canceled last week with the inclement weather. The duck liver mousse appetizer was just excellent – satsuma marmalade on the bottom and herbs and nuts on top , with excellent bread – each bite was a treat. I followed that with the burger and Diana enjoyed some wagyu beef. Well worth the drive across town to the Bywater area. Then there was a little langiappe, as so often happens in New Orleans – the local middle school band was practicing close to where we parked.
Thom had missed our Happy Hour at Monkey Hill last week, and so we had a reprise on Wednesday evening – the majority of the krewe made it out.


My book this week was “The Magnolia Palace” by Fiona Davis. This is another of the books that Diana picked up at Octavia books in New Orleans. Here’s the Amazon plot summary:
Stela of Nakhi, “Servant in the Place of Truth”, Offering to Osiris and Anubis. New Kingdom, late 18th Dynasty (c. 1300 BCE)
The group stopped at Café Degas for a nice French snack before returning Diana and Anne to the condo. Then Denny picked us up for dinner at N7 in the Bywater area. This wonderful French restaurant is hidden away behind a fence with just a small stencil to indicate the location (as seen in this Denny does Hitchcock picture.) We had chosen to sit in the covered patio area rather than the garden or inside – great choice – the setting was beautiful. I think this was my favourite meal in New Orleans so far. The tarte flambee with caramelized onions and lardons was a wonderful appetizer, and the steak au poivre was so perfect and flavourful. Bon Appetit magazine calls this the most romantic French restaurant in the world.


Almost forgot dessert – I’m always wary of pavlova – expecting it to be nowhere near as good as the ones that Mum and Diana make. The N7 version was yummy.
Kara suggested the Booker Sessions at the Maple Leaf Bar for our Thursday evening entertainment. A nice early show at 6pm featuring John Paxson playing piano in the back bar in the style of James Booker. I was able to sit close enough to watch his fingers fly across the keyboard – a real treat. That’s a Frenchy painting of Booker atop the piano.
We enjoyed a slice of alligator cheesecake and a drink at Jacque-imo’s before the show. I love that cheesecake! And as a special langiappe, the wristbands for the Booker show were penguins.
We collected Alicia at the airport on Friday and made our way to meet the krewe for Happy Hour at Monkey Hill. Alicia had asked for as much live music as possible – and it started with Johnny Sansone playing outside Monkey Hill.
I almost forgot – Diana got a love letter when she parked the car in the neighborhood on Friday morning. She’s making friends with the locals. It was written on the back of a fax confirmation sheet – so at least one person still uses a fax machine.



The music started with the Young Fellaz Brass Band – music that always makes me smile. That was followed by Sunpie, Preservation Brass, and Sweet Crude.
Alicia seemed to enjoy all the music as well.
Diana and Alicia walked to the Chloe for Sunday brunch, and enjoyed even more live music – this time from Andrew Duhon. I think he has a really good voice – reminds me of Anderson East.
Greg and Colleen hosted a crawfish boil on Sunday afternoon. I had never peeled a crawfish before, but do love the taste. I had a lesson and gave it a shot. It was great to see a few folks I hadn’t run into in a few years – Chris Pete and Randy Bush – along with the rest of the krewe. Greg did a great job remodeling (pretty much completely rebuilding) their new house on State street.
I read another one of Diana’s books this week – “The Paris Apartment” by Lucy Foley. This was not the light, airy tour around Paris that I was expecting, rather a very dark mystery where every member of a bad family had a different and dark secret. It passed the time, but I’m not sure I’d recommend it unless you enjoy dark mysteries.