“Back and Forth”
Whew! That was a busy couple of weeks, and I didn’t do anywhere as much traveling as McD. I didn’t keep great notes and so I’m going to break with tradition and go in somewhat of a reverse chronological order.
We spent the weekend with four other couples at something called the “Celebrity Dream Estate” in Rancho Santa Fe, CA. This was a very fancy place and one of the few to be found that had five bedrooms and bathrooms. Rancho is about 30 minutes north of San Diego and is located in the hills above the Pacific Ocean. Here are some pictures of the place:






We arrived on Friday afternoon, picked up supplies, and then spent a
pleasant evening catching up with everyone. Saturday began with a run and walk for D and me, while most of the group went hiking by the coast. The roads were quite hilly and narrow – not completely ideal for running – but a good test for us. The first test was how to get out of the coded gate from the inside without the weight of a car on the sensor pad. We managed to squeeze through and later learned of a code box hidden on a fence post. The driveway is very long.
We did pass Diana’s new estate on our run – just missing a “g”.

Saturday afternoon was spent relaxing by the pool, followed by a lovely dinner at “Pamplemousse” – a highly recommended local restaurant in Solana Beach. I really enjoyed my Duo of Game – a Venison Chop Au Poivre and Lemon Thyme Marinated Quail. This was the waiter’s number one recommendation and I’m glad I followed his lead.
Sunday was my favourite day of the trip. We met Campbell and Molly for lunch at a great Mexican restaurant and then walked across to Cardiff State beach, timing it just perfectly so that the awning and chairs were fully set up by the advance party. Diana was very adventurous with jumping the waves – most of which were several feet taller than her. I’m glad I joined to provide a tiny bit of supervision. Campbell and Molly came back to the house and played games with the crew, while Merry Lee enjoyed watching Campbell’s mannerisms that she thought were doubles of mine.


A really good trip and I know Diana enjoyed catching up with her girlfriends.

This was her second trip out to California in two weeks. She took her Mom back home last week. Clorinda was happy to get back to her grandkids.

Alicia flew back last Thursday and they were able to visit her new University (also Clorinda’s alma mater).


The weather has become quite boisterous as I’m tying this – lots of thunder and the torrential rain that I’ve only experienced in Texas. My new 6 inch gutters in the back patio are passing this test with flying colours – no overspill at all – much better than the old 4 inch variety. Diana is not going to enjoy her drive to the dentist much though.
While Clorinda was with us for a couple of months, Caroline had made a project of organizing her clothes. Diana enjoyed making some videos of her Mom telling stories about the dresses, when she made them, and where she wore them. And then the fun started as Diana decided to model a couple of her favourites.

Finn started work earlier in the week in the produce department at Market Street (a high end grocery store 2 miles from our home). He’s enjoying it and seems to be doing well in the eyes of his managers.
After I dropped him one morning, I finally tried the Del Sur Taco counter that’s inside a Shell station across from Market Street. Folks rave about their breakfast tacos, and they were very good. Looking forward to another visit soon. I know Denny would like all the Mexican wrestling masks.


I’m loving Mark Ronson’s Apple TV+ series “Watch the Sound”.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p09qsnkw
The episode on synthesizers had a great piece on a BBC engineer, Delia Derbyshire, who came up with the original Dr. Who theme song using a series of oscilloscopes and wave shapers. Each episode so far has been very interesting and educational.
Here’s a new song from saxophonist Chris Potter with the fantastic James Francies on keyboards and bass pedals:
I watched a film called “You’re Not You” sometime over the last fortnight and really enjoyed it. Hilary Swank’s character (and I’m really not usually a fan) is a classical pianist who has ALS. The story revolves around her relationship with the brash college student, hired as a caregiver, who ends up being wonderful for her. I enjoyed seeing some of the Houston musical hotspots like the sister to Austin’s wonderful Continental Club.

I read “Clever Girl” by Tessa Hadley over the last week or so. Having really enjoyed a short story from Hadley in the New Yorker, I thought I would give this a try.
Here’s a synopsis review:
“Clever Girl is an indelible story of one woman’s life, unfolded in a series of beautifully sculpted episodes that illuminate an era, moving from the 1960s to today, from one of Britain’s leading literary lights—Tessa Hadley—the author of the New York Times Notable Books Married Love and The London Train.
Like Alice Munro and Colm Tóibin, Tessa Hadley brilliantly captures the beauty, innocence, and irony of ordinary lives—an ability to transform the mundane into the sublime that elevates domestic fiction to literary art.”
My review would not be as effusive. The first half was a real struggle, and I got some enjoyment from the second half. Just not my thing – too much hippie commune stuff. I only enjoyed the last few chapters when the “Clever Girl” reaches my age.
Stay safe, kind and sensible in the increasingly nutty environment!

Alicia took Finn on an outing to bowl at Pinstack on Tuesday – it’s nice for him to have someone around to hang out with during the day when we’re working. Alicia’s friend had given them a bunch of tokens that Finn deployed to win three stuffies from the claw game that I thought never allowed anyone to win – a hidden talent.
Alicia joined us for a show at the Kessler on Thursday night while Finn kept Clorinda company watching the Olympic gymnastics finals. We kept with our pre-concert ritual of dinner at Nova. Diana burger, Thai cauliflower with noodles for me, and Moroccan chicken for Alicia – quite the eclectic international mix.
Ellis had the first three songs organized and then relied on audience requests. One entertaining moment occurred when someone requested “Two Cans of Paint.” “I don’t remember the guitar part to that.” “I can play it,” from an audience member. “Who is that?” “It’s Stacy.” “My friend Stacy – come on down and play a song for us.” Apparently Ellis had met Stacy on his last visit to the Kessler. She played a beautiful song.
The lineup of talent in the next month or so at the Kessler is very impressive. I think musicians really love playing there.
The “kids” were quickly on board when I suggested Velvet Taco for lunch on Sunday. I’m not sure if it moved since Brent and I visited last, prior to auditioning speakers at Audio Concepts, but it wasn’t exactly where I remembered. I tortured Finn and Alicia with a visit to Interrabang books after lunch – and it had certainly moved – all the way to Lovers Lane and the other side of the tollway. The new store is smaller and I couldn’t find anything that caught my fancy at all. On prior visits I’ve come away with three or four new books. Maybe I just wasn’t in the right mood.
There was another baking adventure on Sunday evening. Lemon and blueberry cookies with cream cheese frosting was the product this time. The teamwork was solid and Clorinda is working on convincing Alicia to bring some when she returns to California later this week.

There’s a new music technology show out on Apple TV. Mark Ronson hosts a show called “Watch the Sound”, and I’ve been enjoying it with my elliptical workouts. The episode on reverb was fascinating. I had just read in my Robbie Robertson autobiography (more below) about the fantastic reverb available from the concrete chambers underneath the Capitol records recording studios in Los Angeles, and sure enough that was one of the places Ronson visited. That and a massive, abandoned diesel tank in Scotland that is rumored to have the longest reverb in the world.
“Testimony”, Robbie Robertson’s autobiography has been my companion this week. What a fascinating account from an amazing musician who had a front seat to so many musical highlights – backing up Bob Dylan when he went electric, and witnessing Jimi Hendrix first shows in New York to name just a couple. I remember first watching “The Last Waltz”, Scorsese’s movie about The Band’s farewell concert, in university and being completely amazed at the level of musicianship. The book is over 500 pages long and I haven’t quite finished yet.
I got some work done on Monday between coffee with Finn at Duino, and going to Clorinda’s appointment with the retina specialist in the afternoon. Later, I went to my first Happy Hour with some guys in a while. Robbie and Fred from work met me at Union Bear and we really enjoyed catching up for a couple of hours.
On Friday evening, Finn cooked and hung out with Clorinda so that we could attend a concert at the Kessler. Mike Zito and his Big Band with opener Indigenous. We bought tickets at the last minute and so didn’t have a reserved table. No worries, we got there early and claimed the prime high seats at the back beside the mixing desk. That way Diana had a clear line of sight to the stage, and the sound is premium.


Amy spent the night, having had her fill of crashing on the couch at her kids’ apartment. We ordered food from the Little Greek and enjoyed catching up – getting formal by eating our take out in the dining room.
On Sunday morning I watched the British Open golf while Diana and Amy went out for a run. They both miss their running buddies. Jordan Spieth tried hard but couldn’t keep up with the flawless final round play of Collin Morikawa.
I promised some quotes from “Saved by a Song” by Mary Gauthier – my book last week and my favourite of the year so far and by far:
I’m about half way through “Dirt, Adventures in Lyon as a Chef in Training, Father, and Sleuth Looking for the Secret of French Cooking” by Bill Buford.
The four of us had a last meal together on Friday night, with Alicia flying to San Francisco on Saturday. Everyone really enjoyed the meal at C.T. Provisions – our new favourite McKinney restaurant. Clorinda opted for the duck special and I had the Cornish game hen – plenty of leftovers from both.

Clorinda has been enjoying sampling my library books. This one is about a journalist for the New Yorker, who moves to Lyon in his fifties to learn all about French cooking. She got pretty bored with the details of the French cuisine and moved on to something else.






I was making good progress on “Babbitt” by Sinclair Lewis, when I got an email from the library saying that I needed to return “The Final Revival of Opal and Nev” because another patron had a request for it. So I switched over to that right away.
While I was out and about, Clorinda visited Leah for a haircut. Leah can now proudly report that she has taken care of all three generations.
We had a wonderful anniversary dinner (number 4) on Thursday at C.T. Provisions in downtown McKinney. This is the place where I love the voodoo Benedict at brunch. Their dinner was even better than brunch. Those mussels may be the best that I’ve had, and D’s Hamachi was very fresh and tasty.
Meanwhile, in Amarillo, Will was attempting the Big Texan restaurant’s “Free 72 oz Steak, if you can eat it all” challenge. The key is that “eat it all” includes roll, baked potato, salad and I don’t know what else. What do you think his chances are? Well, Tina, owner of the place, thought them pretty slim and wagered him a pair of longhorns that he couldn’t do it – the same kind you see on the front of the limo that picked Will and Christine up and drove them to the Big Texan ranch.

The only difference is that Candy is attempting “the ole 96’er” – even more than Will demolished. He didn’t make the trip to Amarillo just for the eating contest, but was actually there for Alexis’ wedding. And of course he had to have a pair of cowboy boots – nobody told him your jeans are supposed to go over them – maybe a new fashion trend.
I had a good boys night with Damon and Sean on Tuesday, with stops at the Roosevelt Room for cocktails, followed by a nice cigar lounge. I loved the “Black Pearl” cocktail which was served in a treasure box.

I took a picture of the A’s lineup to show Ben that “Chappy” was playing. That’s his favourite player and he got to attend an A’s game recently in California to check him out.
Campbell flew to Hawaii with Molly on Wednesday and sent this great picture of a sea turtle that was enjoying swimming with them.

Speaking of cooking, Finn continued to explore his baking capabilities, this week with donuts. Here he is mixing up the ingredients, then leaving the dough to rise, and a yummy looking final product. I don’t imagine they lasted too long in a houseful of young men.


Here he is with one of his goats. His friend Derek Houston had been at the Grammy awards a few days before the oyster fest, and Macon told me the story of him calling to tell him they had a “Goat Check” at the Beverly Hills hotel – apparently the “Coat Check” sign was in a fancy font that made it look just like that.
I replaced “Terrorist” with “Babbitt” by Sinclair Lewis. This is a book published in 1922, and described as “a satirical novel about American culture and society that critiques the vacuity of middle class life and the social pressure toward conformity. The controversy provoked by Babbitt was influential in the decision to award the Novel Prize in Literature to Lewis in 1930.



Ready for your weekly Ollie update? Here he is at the park that has obstacles for dogs to practice with. You can see he’s in the uphill, dominant position – but the other dog is probably wondering about how dominant he really is with a teddy bear in his mouth. I believe the black dog is a Bernadoodle – St. Bernard and poodle blend. What will they think of next?
I finished up “Water for Elephants” by Sara Gruen early this week. I did enjoy the story and particularly all the drama surrounding the elephant and his act.

It has been raining heavily every day for at least a week, and so all the flowers and plants are loving life with larger blooms than we’ve seen before. This hydrangea seems particularly happy.
After coffee, I got a haircut (told you the excitement was all relative), picked up a few things at the grocery store, and exchanged books at the local library. In between those activities, I converted Diana’s office into a bedroom for Clorinda’s upcoming visit. That was a bit of a workout – moving her heavy desk against the wall, carting a bed frame down from upstairs, then a mattress, bedding, and end tables. All finished up relatively painlessly and passed virtual inspection.




I selected “Argus” by Wishbone Ash from my collection this week. I can’t remember when I acquired this album – but it was many, many years ago. It’s a favourite that I find myself revisiting several times each year.
We loaded up the car and made the relatively short drive to Napa on Tuesday afternoon. The Italian style villa that Diana had rented turned out to be perfect for us – lovely pool, great location, and a perfect situation for Clorinda (who we coaxed into joining us the night before.) Here are the beautiful pool, and Diana and Alicia opening gifts in the covered patio beside it.





I forgot to mention the great view that I got of a hot air balloon on Wednesday morning. I was sitting outside with Clorinda and she told me she thought that would be a “great adventure.” Not my idea of fun at all.













I had a brief rest on Saturday morning and then it was time to catch my flight to Redmond, Oregon to go and visit Finn in Bend. I laughed at my rental car – the only other choice was a Toyota Corolla (bit too small).




You can tell the weather is perfect, and I love the complete lack of humidity. After the hike, Finn took me to Don Gambino’s, a hole-in-the-wall Mexican restaurant on 3rd street. I wouldn’t have even noticed the place, but it had excellent tacos with very fresh ingredients.



“One afternoon, in a town in southeastern Nigeria, a mother opens her front door to discover her son’s body, wrapped in colorful fabric, at her feet. What follows is the tumultuous, heart-wrenching story of one family’s struggle to understand a child whose spirit is both gentle and mysterious. Raised by a distant father and an understanding but overprotective mother, Vivek suffers disorienting blackouts, moments of disconnection between self and surroundings. As adolescence gives way to adulthood, Vivek finds solace in friendships with the warm, boisterous daughters of the Nigerwives, foreign-born women married to Nigerian men. But Vivek’s closest bond is with Osita, the worldly, high-spirited cousin whose teasing confidence masks a guarded private life. As their relationship deepens—and Osita struggles to understand Vivek’s escalating crisis—the mystery gives way to a heart-stopping act of violence in a moment of exhilarating freedom.”
The flowers and magnolia trees are in full bloom in the back garden after so much rain over many days.





kinds of food for dinner, and I chose Spanish tapas. That turned out to be a good choice as all the food and drinks were excellent. Clorinda and Alicia joined us – Clorinda entertaining us with her question, “When shall we order entrees?”, right about the time we were all getting quite full from sharing so many yummy tapas plates. The pescado pastor (seared halibut tacos) and empanadas were my favourites.



Adamo and Amy, along with a lot of help from Diana and several others, threw an excellent 21st birthday party.

I really enjoyed “Ask Again, Yes” by Mary Beth Keane. Here’s how Amazon reviewers describe the story:
Since I’m separated from my collection as I write this post, I’ll select the one that sits at the end of the stack I see each time I walk into my office – ZZ Top’s “First Album.”
We received this picture from Clorinda’s neighbors – this mountain lion has been seen quite a bit during the day on Gypsy Hill lately, and seems very comfortable up next to the houses. We’re going to have to think twice about going out for walks on the hill when we visit next week.
Thursday was the highlight of my week. I was able to attend the Byron Nelson golf tournament with a couple of work colleagues. The tournament moved to the Craig Ranch TPC – just a few miles from our home. Our CEO is a member of the salesmanship club that hosts the event, and was gracious enough to provide us with some 17th hole skybox tickets. The
weather was perfect – mid 70s and not blazing hot and humid as is typical for this event. Jordan Spieth is from Dallas and so was a big draw on the course. We were fortunate to have great spots to watch him making an eagle putt attempt on the 12th hole – right until the mobile cameras moved directly in front.

Diana was quite excited when the pendant lights were installed above the kitchen island – Jose had me stand next to it so that he could make sure my head didn’t bump into them. I do think they look great – and not too blue like the designing twins thought.





My reading this week was by Ann and Anne. First was “Run” by Ann Patchett
My next book was “The Beginner’s Goodbye” by Anne Tyler.