This week also started with banging and hammering – two weeks in a row. This time it didn’t start until around 9:30am – right when I was trying to deliver a presentation to our Executive Committee. This is what our kitchen looked like at 9am on Monday:
And here it is on Tuesday morning. Everything gone – including all that acreage of beige tile that Diana loved so much:
The new cabinets that Jose built were partially installed on Tuesday afternoon – very good progress.
Jose is very proud of his craftsmanship – we’ll see if it passes inspection on return.
I’m jumping ahead a bit. It was Jose’s (lead contractor on the kitchen) birthday on Monday and so the designing twins (Marci and Mindy) got him a cake and balloons and we all sang Happy Birthday to him prior to departing for Austin. I think he really liked it.
The drive to Austin – escaping the demolition noise for a few days – was smooth and we stopped by my office for my daily 5pm call before checking into the Hyatt (right across the parking lot from our old apartment). Then it was time for dinner at one of our favourite spots – Suerte. The food was excellent as usual with the aguachile being a real standout:
Aguachile (“chile water” in Spanish) is a Mexican dish made of shrimp, submerged in liquid seasoned with chili peppers, lime juice, salt, cilantro, slices of cucumber and slices of onion. Raw vegetables such as cucumber are usually added. This raw seafood dish comes from the west region of Mexico and is normally prepared in a molcajete.
Spencer, our waiter at Suerte, was one of the best we’ve had in a long time – deeply knowledgeable on the menu and wines, with great attention to detail on the timing of our courses and overall experiences. I sent a note to the restaurant raving about how great he was. If you ever make it to this special gem of a place, you should ask for Spencer.
We both had time on our schedules for a walk along the river trail before work on Tuesday morning. I miss the close proximity and variety of terrain and views on the trail. There is an interestingly shaped new building going up on the north side of the river that really changes up the skyline view.
Apparently this is the new “Google” building that will house 5,000 employees – quite the fancy work location, given the number of folks that will be working from home much more in the long term.
As I was searching to find out more about this building, I found many more new high rises (40 stories and above) planned for imminent construction in downtown Austin – a very booming city these days – and getting more expensive by the day.
We met Nikki and Neffie for dinner at La Joie in Cedar Park on Tuesday evening. The creole food was very good and the banter brought lots of laughs. I really enjoyed my duck and andouille gumbo and McD was quite pleased with her mussels and extra bread for the yummy broth. Her only complaint was that a place advertising itself as a “Creole Oyster Bar” ought to serve the big Gulf oysters rather than the much smaller ones from the East coast – can’t argue with her on that.
Diana was able to meet Blair, Tim and me for lunch at the original TacoDeli on Wednesday for lunch. She got to enjoy some of the typical banter that happens in our Executive Committee meetings – Tim is our CFO and Blair COO for the US – and we shared some funny stories on the joys of raising girls. The tacos tasted even better than those from the TacoDeli in Plano – so good.
I was able to host some of my team for happy hour at Opa! on Wednesday evening. It was lovely to see the smiles on faces as folks saw each other live and in person for the first time in over a year. Austin dodged the very bad hail storm that hit parts of Dallas and San Antonio.
Jose was very proud of his Wednesday progress on the kitchen:
We had lunch at El Alma, one of our favourite Austin restaurants, and then drove home to McKinney and the ongoing construction. The elote corn and poblano soup was outstanding. I really miss brunch at El Alma.
I’m quite pleased with the new can lighting that was installed in the piano room – much easier to see my music with the light directly overhead. Apparently the bulbs inside last for 20 years. My excitement is mild compared to how ecstatic McD is about her new spice racks that slide out on either side of the stovetop.
The Friday puzzle gave me a chuckle as I wouldn’t have solved this clue prior to Finn’s visit. Pikachu is one of his favourite Pokémon characters.
Finn’s therapist, Brennon, sent this picture from his adventure on “Misery Ridge” last weekend. Doesn’t he look thrilled with the whole experience?
Saturday was a mostly lazy day, after our morning walk around Wellington Point. The puzzle provided another smile – taking me back to late night scotch eggs with Vince at the Dead Rabbit in New York.
We’re heading out soon to try a new place for brunch. C. T. Provisions in downtown McKinney has been getting rave reviews, and I’m looking forward to trying the voodoo shrimp Benedict with a blue stone grit cake taking the place of the traditional muffin. Doesn’t it look yummy?
I started “The Yiddish Policeman’s Union” by Michael Chabon this week, and have only made it through the first 50 pages. It’s been a busy week and Chabon’s writing is so clever and evocative that I like to slow down and really enjoy it.
The story is set in an alternative history version of the present day. The premise is that contrary to real history, the United States voted to implement the 1940 Slattery Report, which recommended the provision of land in Alaska for the temporary refugee settlement of European Jews who were being persecuted by the Nazis during World War II. The novel’s divergence point from real history is revealed to be the death of Anthony Dimond, Alaska Territory delegate to the U.S. Congress, in a car accident; Dimond was the politician most responsible for preventing a vote on the report. It imagines a temporary independent Jewish settlement being created on the Alaskan coast. As a result, only two million Jews are murdered in the Holocaust.
I did spend a bit more time with Obama’s “A Promised Land.” I cringed reading his opinion on the AIG bonus scandal – huge bonuses were paid to the traders who had been instrumental in causing the collapse of the economy – because they were contractually required.
“I looked around the room. ‘This is a joke, right? You guys are just messing with me.’
Nobody laughed. Axe started arguing that we had to try to stop the payment, even if our efforts were unsuccessful.”
Speaking of Ted Sorensen, part of his speech writing team, and co-author of the “Ask not what your country can do for you..” inaugural address:
“they asked him once what had been the secret to writing one of the four or five greatest speeches in American history. Simple, he said: Whenever he and Kennedy sat down to write, they told themselves, ‘Let’s make this good enough to be in a book of the great speeches someday.'”
I enjoyed Obama’s analysis of the things that went wrong with John McCain’s presidential run, and one does wonder how different the Republican party might be today had he not chosen Sarah Palin as a running mate:
“Michelle and I, along with Jill and Joe Biden, were on the campaign plane waiting to take off for a few days of events in Pennsylvania when Axe rushed up to tell us that word had leaked of McCain’s running mate. Joe looked at the name on Axe’s BlackBerry and then turned to me.
‘Who the hell is Sarah Palin?’ he said.”
I was sad to read of the passing of Denny Freeman, beloved Austin guitar player. Here’s a link to a great article in the Austin Chronicle:
“Freeman was part of the self-described “little blues cult” that helped usher the staple genre’s local reemergence in the early seventies, playing alongside Stevie Ray Vaughan in Paul Ray & the Cobras. Four decades later, the gentle-natured guitarist’s graceful melding of blues and jazz would anchor Bob Dylan’s Modern Times album.”
Freeman anchored the band that played the early Friday show at the Saxon Pub for years. Diana and I were fortunate to attend a few times – that’s when she commented on all the folks dancing “like nobody was looking.” A huge loss to the Austin music community.
Here’s one of my favourites from Dylan’s “Modern Times” with Freeman on guitar.
I found a new band this week – Goose is an indie jam band from Connecticut and I really like their sound:
We both started off the week with some good exercise. I went for a swim and Diana took this picture of a lot of ducklings in tight formation when out for a walk. I count 14 ducklings – how about you?
We were both very tired on Monday evening, for no good reason. We watched this great battle round on The Voice and then called it a night.
Tuesday started with a trip to the doctor to get my blood drawn. I had been fasting overnight and so made a quick trip to Duino for coffee and breakfast tacos when that was over. I was close to the library and so, having mostly run out of storage space for books at home, decided to stop in to renew my library card and see if they had anything on my reading list. Success – library card renewal took less than a minute, and I found two books on my list. Diana found some different ducks and little ones on her run.
I had signed up for a hybrid cloud webinar in the afternoon, only because it came with a wine and chocolate sampling agenda item. They shipped two very nice bottles of wine and some ultra fancy chocolates ahead of the meeting. The winemaker and chocolatier joined on video from their vineyard and shop, and gave fascinating talks about their products.
I’ve been saving the Whisky Pecan bonbon on the lower right for a special occasion. The complexity of flavours and care taken to source the ingredients of the bonbons were amazing. We only opened one of the wines and it was very, very good. Quite a fun session overall. And I did order up some fancy chocolate covered pistachios for Finn.
On Tuesday evening, we joined the 52nd and last livestream by the Band of Heathens. Hard to believe they managed a full year of these great shows. We’ll miss joining the guys at 7:30pm for music and education.
I was texting with Sean and he sent me this video that his daughter made. It won a University of California prize with money to make a longer version. Kalen hand made all the things that you see in the video, and I think it’s very creative.
Both Denny and Cat had birthdays on Wednesday and we made our typical piano and vocals videos for them.
Unknown to Denny, we had an in person appearance planned for later in the week. We caught a flight to New Orleans on Friday afternoon and were able to experience the new airport for the first time. A big upgrade, but the close to 30 minute ride to the rental car facility at the old airport terminal is less than ideal. That and the long wait for a car – apparently folks are making more on unemployment than they would working at driving cars for the rental car company. We finally made it to Monkey Hill (a bar down the street from Denny and Anne’s home), where we were to hide until Denny left with the guys for his birthday Happy Hour. We narrowly missed being spotted – Kenny, driving Denny, noticed us walking into Monkey Hill. After the coast was clear, we went over to see Anne at the house – and found Mr. Good Lord Alex and his helpers busy decorating Denny’s entire office with birthday wrapping paper. That’s a lot of paper.
We all rendezvoused with Denny and the crew at St. Joe’s and then enjoyed dinner at Pizza Delmonica down the street. It was really nice to catch up with everybody.
After a delicious dinner, everyone headed back to Denny and Anne’s for the after party.
Denny enjoyed showing everyone his “decorated” office.
A nicely orchestrated birthday surprise! One of Denny’s birthday gifts was this personalized mermaid bottle opener that we picked up at a coffee shop in Bend, Oregon.
The four of us enjoyed a lovely dinner at Sylvain in the French Quarter on Saturday afternoon – Denny’s favourite casual lunch spot. The beets were excellent and very unusual. After lunch Denny and I enjoyed a cigar at Cuban Creations. The peacefulness of that was broken when Good Lord Alex and Tommy Bear arrived. We walked to Mona Lita’s Cuban restaurant for a final drink and some yummy snacks and then retired back home.
Laura collected Diana for a run in Audubon park very early on Sunday morning. McD was very impressive – recording her fastest ever 3 mile time. In the afternoon we tried to attend a brass band and Mardi Gras Indian show at “The Broadside” but it was sold out by the time we arrived. No worries, I drove around the corner to Vessel and we enjoyed a nice cocktail in the converted chapel. Anne joined us there and then we had a very pleasant lunch at Trep’s while Denny played tennis with the guys. Diana was able to get her fill of oysters for the trip.
After lunch, we drove over to the tennis center to watch the action. We laughed to find Fire Chief Kenny umpiring the games in his uniform. Upon investigation, he informed us that he was “in his district, and ready to respond.” As we relaxed on the porch after the game, Kenny got a call and replied, “I’ll be right there.” We asked if it was something important – “dinner bell.” Ha! What do you think of Denny’s 1970s tennis hair extensions?
Dinner at MoPho Vietnamese (delicious after a very slow service start) and then back home to enjoy our last evening in New Orleans. I snapped this picture of a crescent moon, beside a crescent cloud, in the crescent city.
I enjoyed another Anne Tyler novel on the trip. Here’s the Amazon summary of “Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant”:
“Abandoned by her wanderlusting husband, stoic Pearl raised her three children on her own. Now grown, the siblings are inextricably linked by their memories—some painful—which hold them together despite their differences.
Hardened by life’s disappointments, wealthy, charismatic Cody has turned cruel and envious. Thrice-married Jenny is errant and passionate. And Ezra, the flawed saint of the family, who stayed at home to look after his mother, runs a restaurant where he cooks what other people are homesick for, stubbornly yearning for the perfect family he never had.
Now gathered during a time of loss, they will reluctantly unlock the shared secrets of their past and discover if what binds them together is stronger than what tears them apart.”
“[In Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant Tyler] has arrived at a new level of power.” —John Updike, The New Yorker
I’m always interested to find when the relevance of the title of a book is revealed. In this case, it was on page 353 of 371 – kept me waiting. Here’s the quote:
“‘Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant! Everyone in the family! Just a cozy family gathering’ – and he’d rub his hands together in that annoying way he had. He no doubt had his staff at work even this moment, preparing the…what were they called? The funeral baked meats. Cody sighed. But he suspected they would have to attend.”
And then the big reveal at the dinner:
“It shouldn’t have taken him so long. There were clues he should have picked up at once: that fan-shaped pompadour, still thick and sharply crimped; the brilliant blue of his eyes; the gangsterish air of his pinstriped, ill-fitting navy blue suit.
‘Yes’, the old man said, with a triumphant nod. ‘It’s your father speaking, Cody.'”
I discovered a new band this week that I really love – Stuff is a jazz/funk supergroup including Steve Gadd on drums and Eric Gale on guitar – two amazing session musicians. These super groups often disappoint and this one does not. I’m looking forward to working my way through all four of their albums.
Ben Harper recorded a very quiet solo album during quarantine. Just his lap steel guitar – I really enjoyed the entire album:
And finally, something from Bachman-Turner Overdrive that doesn’t sound like them at all:
The kitchen shenanigans continued on Monday morning with D making a trip with the twins to pick out marble for the countertops. She likes that piece hanging from the forklift, and was quite elated when able to convince me that we should get a bit extra to make a “waterfall” on one end of the island. Here’s a picture in case, like me, you’re wondering what that “waterfall” might look like.
Finn and I headed out for a coffee in the afternoon. It’s nice to have a coffee drinker around with a flexible schedule. We tried the new PJ’s New Orleans coffee shop – not bad but some kinks to work out for sure. Then we picked up some new jeans for Finn – just like the other pair he has. Certainly a creature of habit.
Finn cooked up some yummy chickpea pasta with pesto sauce and chicken for dinner – apparently the secret was to cook the pasta in chicken broth. We attempted to watch some of the NCAA “March Madness” basketball tournament but that was not going over well with McD.
Tuesday ended up being quite the eventful day. Finn was scheduled for his COVID shot in the afternoon at the Allen football stadium. Can you believe that is a high school stadium? The local Fire Department was in charge of this site and they were extremely efficient – 2 minutes from entering the parking lot until shot in the arm. We pulled Penelope into a parking spot to wait the requisite 15 minutes before leaving. Then things almost immediately took a bad turn. Finn said he was feeling faint, went pure white, leaned back in his seat, eyes rolling back and body shaking. Good grief – time for some help! The paramedic showed up quickly and hooked Finn up to an EKG, pulse, and blood pressure machine. Both pulse and blood pressure had dropped to very low levels. As he regained consciousness, Finn was not at all pleased to hear the paramedic say that he wanted to check his blood sugar level – “I don’t recommend poking me with any needles just now” – the paramedic nodded along, stuck him before he noticed, and reported blood sugar just fine. After about 10 minutes some color started creeping back into his face and we rejected the strong advice of the fire department ambulance workers that had arrived on the scene to go with them to the nearest hospital. Another 30 minutes or so and Finn was on his couch resting. Diana and I took turns checking on him. He claims that he “died and came back to life” and that “there’s not a bright light to guide you”. I think he’s a good story teller.
Diana made us some delicious chicken empanadas, in the special machine we’ve had for over a year and never used, as a treat for surviving the afternoon escapades. In Pacifica, Clorinda was getting quite the kick out of her dinosaur taco holder.
Shortly after dinner I received a call from Brennon at Skyline to let me know they had a spot for Finn earlier than expected. He was scheduled for April 26th but they could now take him as early as Sunday. Time to jump into planning mode around getting Finn out there on the weekend. By the time I went to bed I had booked flights and found what I thought would be a good hotel for a weekend stay. Told you it was quite an eventful day.
On Wednesday both Finn and I visited Dr. Haslam, the orthopedic surgeon that fixed my broken leg. Me to get my repaired leg checked and to make sure my right leg was okay, Finn to check out his wrist which hurts when he lifts any weight. X-rays didn’t show anything notable and so the recommendation is that we both get MRIs for more detail. I did get a cream that should help my left leg.
We stopped into Nerdvana coffee on the way home from the doctor visit. Finn was entertained by all the role playing games they sold and was particularly tickled by what he described as the “Episode of the Big Bang Theory” taking place at the table next to us. A group of geeky folks were going deep into what makes a good cup of coffee – way deep.
Finn got a COVID test on Thursday, as required by Skyline for admission – thankfully the test doesn’t cause any scary side-effects. I took him for a haircut and picked up some final supplies. He seems prepared but neither of us really want him to go – it’s been such a treat having him with us and he’s really settled in. Change and the unknown future are hard.
I absolutely love this penguin art that he created for me with a note that I’ll treasure on the back.
We had an early start to the airport on Friday morning for our flights to Seattle and then Redmond, Oregon. A bit of an initial snafu – I had splurged on first class seats for the trip out, but the plane didn’t have a row 4 where we were sitting. Some jiggery pokery ensued and then we were reassigned to exit row seats and saved some money. Finn was able to lord it up in first class by himself. A reasonably quick change in Seattle – just time for a coffee – and we were on our way to Redmond. The views from the plane around Seattle and Redmond were quite spectacular. You can definitely make out the volcanic shape in the first picture.
After a 20 minute drive we were checking into our hotel in Bend, Oregon. The Riverhouse on the Deschutes was a perfect home base for us, with great views of the river from our balconies and a pleasant restaurant and bar with a large deck on the opposite side of the river. A cabin just down the bank from our rooms had an interesting story as told on this sign:
Apparently John Wayne and Katharine Hepburn stayed at the hotel during filming.
The view from our bedroom balcony was really relaxing with the pines and the flowing river.
We enjoyed an early Friday dinner at Joolz Mediterranean in downtown Bend – an eclectic few blocks of restaurants, bars, boutiques, coffee shops, and record and book stores. This restaurant was outstanding. Chef Ramsey worked wonders with simple ingredients. My favourite was the fried cauliflower – tremendous flavour. The lamb meatballs and hummus with elk meat were also excellent. Diana proclaimed the chopped salad the best she had tasted in ages. Finn finished off with his favourite dessert – baclava, and had some leftover to go with the lemon bars that D had snuck into his back-pack. All three of us are still raving about this place and can’t wait to visit Bend again so that we can go back. An early night was called for after all the travel and excitement of the day.
Saturday started with coffee at Spoken Moto, a great combination of coffee shop and vintage motorcycle store. I loved the green egg bowl from the Scoutpost food truck in the patio area. Bend has so many excellent coffee shops per square mile – can we just have a couple of them in McKinney?
Suitably coffeed, we made the 20 minute drive to explore Tumalo falls. I had read that you could hike a somewhat robust 2.5 miles to the falls or drive right up to them and park. The road in was closed off and I couldn’t understand why, so we parked and investigated. None of us had the proper shoes for a 2.5 mile hike up a rocky path but decided to at least have a short wander. We quickly realized that the snow on the road was the reason for it being close off. I don’t think we went much over half a mile up the path, but did get some good photos. Can you tell Finn is feeling a wee bit cold?
The exploration continued with a drive on down the road to the Mount Bachelor ski resort – in full swing on a sunny day and not too busy. Finn liked the half-pipe and snowboard jumps. Hopefully he gets to partake before Spring skiing ends. The mountain is less than 30 minutes from his house.
We arrived back in downtown Bend in time for Diana and Finn to enjoy a yummy brunch at the Lemon Tree – they weren’t hungry when I had breakfast earlier at the Scoutpost. I got to sample their delicacies. Diana was quite adventurous and ordered the Shakshuka – a Tunisian dish with a sauce of tomatoes, chile peppers and onions simmered with North African spices, and served with poached eggs and grilled Stirato – delicious combination of flavours. Diana described the Lemon Tree experience as “great food, lousy service.” She was not wrong. The only poor service we experienced all weekend – the overall vibe was very much friendly and welcoming.
We had a wander around downtown and then headed back to the hotel to relax before dinner at 900 Wall (right next door to Joolz). This was a fancier restaurant that didn’t disappoint at all. We started with a charcuterie board and tempura fried green beans (a big hit), and then Finn surprised us by insisting on the duck confit (even after I tried to steer him to a few other things) – it ended up being delicious and he finished every bite on the plate. Diana had the teres major. Anybody heard of that? We certainly hadn’t. Turns out it’s the second most tender steak from a cow but only a very small piece (0.5%) of the total beef from the cow. Diana enjoyed it very much and had plenty of leftovers. I tried the much lauded burger and loved it. Can you tell we enjoyed our meals in this picture?
Easter Sunday started relatively early with a 9am brunch at McKay’s cottage restaurant. This place was almost next door to the hotel and was just perfect. Coffee and drinks while you waited for your table, excellent food and very good service. They even had laminated menus just for Easter Sunday and you can see eggs hidden around for kids to hunt (see – in the flowers?) I highly recommend this brunch if you ever make it to Bend. On the subject of eggs – check out the decorating skills of Damon’s artsy family after the breakfast pictures.
We dropped Finn off at his home for the next 3 to 6 months after brunch. He’ll be sharing the house with 6 other young men and the place looked really nice – large yard with pine trees and lots of seating areas. The two folks that we met (Gage and Will) who are associated with the house and program were very kind and welcoming. It was exceptionally hard to leave Finn after he’d done so well living with us, but we believe he is in great hands as he starts the next chapter.
Diana and I distracted ourselves with a hike down the Deschutes river trail. We picked up the trail about a third of a mile from the hotel and followed it for a mile and a half or so back into downtown. The river changed from broad and slow moving to fast paced rapids, with canoeists practicing their slalom course moves at one point. The large houses on the banks had fantastic situations.
We had intended to end our hike with a visit to the Pine Tavern on the river bank. That was closed and so we ended up back at 900 Wall with a lovely table in the sun and some more of those delicious green beans.
We called it an early night after that – our 7am start on Monday came quickly. The flights home were smooth. I love flying from small regional airports like Redmond where you’re the only folks in the security line and everything is so quiet and relaxed. The view from the rental car parking lot is pretty great too.
I finished “Breathing Lessons” by Anne Tyler and I did enjoy the remainder much more than the first third – maybe I was just in the right frame of mind. I always like it when the first paragraph of a book sets the scene of what lies ahead so concisely:
“Maggie and Ira Moran had to go to a funeral in Deer Lick, Pennsylvania. Maggie’s girlhood friend had lost her husband. Deer lick lay on a narrow country road some ninety miles north of Baltimore, and the funeral was scheduled for ten-thirty Saturday morning; so Ira figured they should start around eight. This made him grumpy. (He was not an early-morning kind of man.) Also Saturday was his busiest day at work, and he had no one to cover for him. Also their car was in the body shop.”
The different personalities of Maggie and Ira and they way react to situations with families and friends are at the heart of this story:
“‘Oh, great, Maggie; another one of your logical progressions.’
‘One thing about you that I really cannot stand,’ she said, ‘is how you act so superior. We can’t have just a civilized back-and-forth discussion; oh, no. No, you have to make a point of how illogical I am, what a whifflehead I am, how you’re so cool and above it all.'”
I saw a report on TV about “Leave Out the Tragic Parts” by Dave Kindred and decided to torture myself by reading it this week – hoping to learn some more on the topic of addiction. Kindred is a sportswriter who has won numerous awards and covered most of the major sporting events over the last 30 years. He lost his grandson to alcohol addiction in 2014.
The story is equally tragic, well researched and very well written. Jared, the grandson, joins an underground group of young people who travel around the country by jumping on railway cars and then sleep on the streets in whichever city they land in. I had never heard of such a thing. Several of the characters in the book have been living this way for many years. Jared becomes completely addicted to alcohol and, even after many hospital visits where he suffers seizures whenever off alcohol for more than a few hours, continues on with his self-destructive lifestyle. I had several quotes dog-eared to share, but they’re all too heavy right now, so I’ll share just the most poignant paragraph from the book:
“Unless you’ve been there, you can’t imagine what it’s like to watch helplessly as someone you love descends into addiction. The transformation defies logic – until you understand that your loved one is gravely ill with a brain disease that is debilitating, chronic, progressive, and, if left untreated, often fatal.”
Switching quickly to a more positive quote. Here Kindred talks about telling one of his sports journalism stories to Jared:
“Jared, learning to play soccer, liked the story about the poor boy who kicked a ball made of rags. “Tell me Pele”, he said, and we went in our imagination first to Brazil and finally to the Meadowlands stadium, where I heard the greatest soccer player ever, in the last game of his career, shout to the 75,646 spectators, “Repeat after me: Love…Love…Love.””
I love the feel of this song from trumpeter and label owner Willie Mitchell. Classic 70s beats:
Here are two versions of a John Prine classic – I love them both:
And finishing up with one of my top three songs – Diana and I enjoyed a version from a street musician performing in downtown Bend as we enjoyed our drinks and snack at 900 Wall on Sunday afternoon:
I was able to tolerate the Grammy awards on Sunday evening for about the first hour and a half – then what D would call “the nonsense” started. The highlight was Brandi Carlisle performing John Prine’s “I Remember Everything” – his gorgeous final song that earned two posthumous Grammys.
Diana and I started Monday with a run in the beautiful weather. I completed the 20 minutes of running that finishes out Week 5 of Couch to 5K and am excited to move on to Week 6. Only 2 more weeks after that and I’ll supposedly be ready for our first joint 5K race. I am going to need to improve my speed quite a bit if I’m hoping to cross the finish line at the same time as McD. Diana found an interesting race for us – the “Run for the Rose” in McKinney. It comes with a glass of sparking rose at the finish line, snacks from Zin Zen and Sugarbacon, a commemorative champagne glass and a medal. Sounds perfect for at least one of us.
Will, on the other hand, will not be running anywhere anytime soon. He had surgery to remove the meniscus from his knee. He’s had it repaired a couple of times before and this time there’s no choice but removal. “What did he do this time?”, I hear you ask. Well…he crouched down to install some computer cables under his new office desk and heard a pop when he stood back up again. Sounds painful just typing it. The surgery went well and Will is trying to be stationary for a few minutes to give things a chance to heal. Poor Christine must be on fulltime Ollie duty now.
Tuesday was the big day for Diana – her first COVID vaccine. I drove her over to the football stadium in Plano just in case there were any side effects on the drive home – about 25 minutes. The process was smooth and easy – my only concern being the amount of information that was scrawled on Penelope’s windows. No issue – they wiped it all off at the end of the flow through the parking lot. Diana didn’t experience any side effects other than a slight pain on her arm around the shot if she pressed on it – just like a small bruise. After that excursion, I enjoyed a nice swim at lunchtime.
We put Finn to work in the afternoon and he made a good start in painting the pool room. He had to cover up all the dirty prints form Alicia and friends, and the kids that lived here before us. Painting the entire wall ended up being the more efficient process.
I kicked off Week 6 Day 1 of Couch to 5K on Wednesday morning. With encouragement from Diana, I was easy to finish without too much trouble, while picking up the pace a bit.
We watched a documentary on Netflix called “Made You Look” on Wednesday evening. It’s about a multi-year art forgery scheme and the folks who were fooled by Rothkos and Pollocks created by an immigrant Chinese math teacher. The top names in art authentication were all taken in until some special science ultimately showed them all to be forgeries. The forgers ability to emulate the quite different styles of those masters, while creating original “lost” works was quite amazing.
Diana lost interest a bit as the documentary continued, and so she and Finn whipped up some delicious lemon bars from a recipe that she uncovered from her archives at Finn’s request. You can tell it’s pretty serious business.
The bars didn’t turn out exactly as Diana had hoped and so another batch was created on Thursday night – the head chef thought they were much better.
I love this picture of my friends Wash and Zoe enjoying Saint Patrick’s Day on Thursday.
Diana and Finn started Friday with a “run/walk” and then Finn continued with his painting project. It’s almost finished – just some spackling work to be done before all painting can be completed. Finn and I made a run over to Rudy’s in the afternoon to pick up pulled pork for Benedicts I was planning to make for Sunday breakfast.
We decided to show Finn that there’s a lot more fun to the Dallas Fort Worth area than just what McKinney offers. First stop – the Velvet Taco on Knox/Henderson Street, just north of downtown. We laughed telling Finn the story of our first visit there – a late night stop after Keb’ Mo at the Kessler for my birthday. Poor Patty and Brent waded through a torrential downpour to retrieve tacos for us.
Finn selected the chicken and waffles brunch taco and I had a shrimp and grits one. Diana stuck with her favourite – loaded tater tots with a fried egg on top. All enjoyed in the sun at an outdoor table.
I had an after lunch surprise in store – Finn and I had seen “Pickletopia” on a lunch time TV show and thought it looked like a fun place to visit.
Pickletopia ended up being a highlight of the day for us. So many barrels full of delicious pickled things. We came home with two kinds of olives, mushrooms, and “bread and butter” pickles. Lee, the owner, shared lots of samples and stories. Our favourite was his story about the origin of the “bread and butter” pickles. Lee’s grandmother passed away and he selected a 1920s vintage cookbook of hers as a memento from her home. The binding of the book was in very bad shape and he took it to the “Book Doctor” in Oak Cliff for repair (we walk past that shop on our way to Nova for dinner pre-Kessler concerts). The repair took close to six months, and somewhere in that time the store owners called Lee to tell him they had found some recipes sandwiched in the pages that he might want. One of them was the “bread and butter” pickle secret recipe. He said he made it and tried it out on his uncle who remembered his grandmother’s recipe. His uncle said, “You nailed it.” This business is Lee’s retirement hobby and he shadowed “The Pickle Guys” in New York’s Lower Eastside to learn the business. So nice to meet somebody that is a great story teller and loves what they do.
Next stop was Trinity Groves for a picture on the Trinity levee with the Dallas skyline as the backdrop:
We couldn’t resist stopping into Kate Weiser’s chocolate shop while we were there. So many other places I had planned to put on the itinerary had closed – Bolsa (although opened under a different name) and the amazing charcuterie place from the Lucia guys (opening soon as a larger Lucia) – so it was good to see the chocolate shop still in business. Patty’s favourite cupcake shop next door was also doing a very brisk business. The chocolates and Easter eggs from Weiser really are works of art – those “Chick-a-dees” on the left really are edible chocolate. We have several eggs to choose from on Easter Sunday. And individual candies for each of us – key-lime pie for D, salted caramel for K, and strawberry for F.
A short drive later and we were searching for parking near the “Wild Detectives” book store and café – one of my favourite stores in all of Dallas. I picked up “The Midnight Library”, thinking it could be a nice change of pace from the Obama book that I’m working through just now, and we all enjoyed a coffee in the lovely outdoor patio area. What a beautiful day – perfect temperature and no humidity. We walked around the Bishop Arts district briefly, noticing all the new construction and a massive, fancy new restaurant, and then drove over to Nova for a snack before driving home.
Nova is such a casual place but turns out such delicious and creative food. Diana started with smoked salmon potato skins which were phenomenal. Finn and I both had a cup of shrimp bisque with crab hush puppies. That’s a cup? The waiter said we could swim in the bowl size. The soup was so good and I have some for leftovers today.
What a fun day all around!
Diana and I made an early morning (8am) trip to Market Street on Sunday to pick up supplies for the week. This is the time to go – 5 cashiers standing out in front of their aisles waiting to check us out. After that excitement I dug out and replaced a water sprinkler – time to turn the system back on for the spring and bring the grass out of hibernation. Diana was busy upstairs doing some spackling work in the pool room – such a home repair enthusiast. I helped sand and paint the taller sections.
I had promised Finn my special pulled pork Benedict for Sunday breakfast. They turned out quite well with the “bread and butter” pickles adding a nice new flavour element.
The patrons at my diner counter seemed to enjoy the offerings.
I enjoyed this gaggle of turtles that Diana snapped on her virtual walk with Alicia after breakfast. Gaggle – is that the right term for a group of turtles? I’m pretty sure it’s not even close. Let’s check. A bale, turn, dole, or nest is the correct term, with a bale and turn applying exclusively to turtles. Who knew? We’ve never seen even a single turtle by that pond before. It’s like walking along the river in Austin with bales (see how I quickly incorporated my learning to try and reinforce it) of turtles everywhere.
I enjoyed an article in The New Yorker this week about “How Parties Die, Will the G.O.P. go the way of the Whigs?”
This piece digs into the history of political parties and how they either adjust to the times or eventually wither out. This section about George Washington, the only Independent President in history, and his views on parties, really caught my attention:
“George Washington reluctantly ran for the Presidency in 1788. He remains the only Independent elected to that office. His farewell address, of September 19, 1796, provides the framework for the peaceful transfer of power. (It is read aloud in the Senate every year; this year, that event occurred a week after Trump’s impeachment trial had concluded there.) In the address, Washington, like a father chiding his bickering children, advised his countrymen, no matter what their political passions, to consider the fundamental bonds that connected them as Americans. Political parties were useful to check the worst instincts of a monarch, he wrote, but, in a democracy, a party
agitates the community with ill-founded jealousies and false alarms, kindles the animosity of one part against another, foments occasionally riot and insurrection. It opens the door to foreign influence and corruption, which find a facilitated access to the government itself through the channels of party passions.”
What an interesting and prescient commentary on recent events from over 200 years ago.
Another article about corporate takeovers of trailer home parks and the injustices being foisted on individual trailer owners included this sad commentary:
“According to a report by the National Low Income Housing Coalition, there isn’t a single American state in which a person working full time for minimum wage can afford a one bedroom apartment at the fair-market rent.”
I realized this was true in states like New York and California but didn’t realize that was the situation in all states. Very sad. Not a political or social commentary – just sad when you think of youngsters trying to start out on their own these days.
I really got hooked on “A Promised Land” by Barack Obama this week. I’m appreciating his candor and writing style more and more. Talking about starting to contemplate a Senate run:
“I realized, our politics would never truly change. It would always be too easy for politicians to feed the stereotypes that pitted Black against white, immigrant against native-born, rural interests against those of cities.
Ultimately wasn’t this what I was after – a politics that bridged America’s racial, ethnic, and religious divides, as well as the many strands of my own life? Maybe I was being unrealistic; maybe such divisions were too deeply entrenched. But no matter how hard I tried to convince myself otherwise, I couldn’t shake the feeling that it was too early to give up on my deepest convictions.”
Upon more contemplation:
“You could make a difference from such a narrow political base; with some seniority, you could secure better services for your constituents, bring a big project or two back to your home district, and, by working with allies, try to influence the national debate. But that wouldn’t be enough to lift the political constraints that made it so difficult to deliver healthcare for those who needed it, or better schools for poor kids, or jobs where there were none; the same constraints that Bobby Rush labored under every day.
To really shake things up, I realized, I needed to speak to and for the widest possible audience. And the best way to do that was to run for a statewide office – like, for example, the U.S. Senate.”
The insights into Michelle’s opinion along the way are quite interesting. Here she’s concerned about how the finances of a Senate bid could work:
“‘If you lose, we’ll be deeper in the hole,’ she said. ‘And what happens if you win? How are we supposed to maintain two households, in Washington and Chicago, when we can barely keep up with one?’
I’d anticipated this. ‘If I win, hon,’ I said, ‘it will draw national attention. I’ll be the only African American in the Senate. With a higher profile, I can write another book, and it’ll sell a lot of copies, and that will cover the added expenses.’
‘In other words’, Michelle said, ‘you’ve got some magic beans in your pocket. That’s what you’re telling me.'”
Describing his landmark speech at an anti Iraq war rally in Chicago:
“‘I don’t oppose all wars,’ I said. ‘What I am opposed to is a dumb war.’ I went on to argue that Saddam Hussein posed no imminent threat to the United States or its neighbors, and that ‘even a successful war against Iraq will require a U.S. occupation of undetermined length, at undetermined cost, with undetermined consequences.'”
As Obama worked to refine his stump speech for the Senate run:
“‘Here’s the thing,’ I would say. ‘Most people, wherever they’re from, whatever they look like, are looking for the same thing. They’re not trying to get filthy rich. They don’t expect someone else to do what they can do for themselves.
But they do expect that if they’re willing to work, they should be able to find a job that supports a family. They expect that they shouldn’t go bankrupt just because they get sick. They expect that their kids should be able to get a good education, one that prepares them from this new economy, and they should be able to afford college if they’ve put in the effort. And they figure that after a lifetime of work, they should be able to retire with dignity and respect.'”
How Hurricane Katrina and the abysmal government efforts to help convinced Obama that he needed to speak more frequently on the National stage. One of the most poignant passages for me in the book so far:
“A few days later, I joined George H.W. and Barbara Bush, along with Bill and Hillary Clinton, in a visit to Houston, where thousands of people displaced by the hurricane had been bused to emergency shelters set up inside the sprawling Astrodome convention complex. Together with the Red Cross and FEMA, the city had been working around the clock to provide basic necessities, but it struck me as I moved from cot to cot that many of the people there, most of whom were Black, had been abandoned long before the hurricane – scratching out a living on the periphery without savings or insurance. Forgotten people and forgotten voices remained everywhere, neglected by a government that often appeared blind or indifferent to their needs.”
“If I’d been on the edge of feeling content, thinking I was in the right job, doing the right thing at an acceptable pace, Katrina and my Iraq visit put a stop to all that. Change needed to come faster – and I was going to have to decide what role I would play in bringing that about.”
In the matter of 20 pages or less, we quickly move from Obama’s Senate career to his contemplation of a run for President. Michelle’s early reaction to that idea:
“Michelle lifted her eyebrows as if to suggest she didn’t believe me. ‘If that’s really true, then the answer is ‘no,’ she said. ‘I don’t want you to run for president, at least not now.’ She gave me a hard look and got up from the couch. ‘God Barack…When is it going to be enough?'”
And then, in answer to Michelle’s question ‘Why do you need to be president?’:
“I know that the day I raise my right hand and take oath to be president of the United States, the world will start looking at America differently. I know that kids all around this country – Black kids, Hispanic kids, kids who don’t fit in – they’ll see themselves differently, too, their horizons lifted, their possibilities expanded. And that alone…would be worth it.
Michelle stared at me for what felt like an eternity. ‘Well, honey,’ she said finally, ‘that was a pretty good answer.'”
Here’s a great guitar song from Dave Alvin’s new album of outtakes from over the years. I really like his guitar style and remember when I dragged D to see him at the Kessler – might have been the first time we went. Her comment still tickles me, “You know this is country music, right?”
If you enjoyed that, here’s another from the same album with a Rumba guitar style. Such a versatile artist:
This Widespread Panic song popped up my Discovery Weekly playlist. I really enjoy this band, but they get too into their solo jams when playing live. I watched them really lose an excited New Orleans jazzfest audience with too much noodling.
Stay safe, kind and patient. So many of our friends are getting vaccines this last week – very encouraging.
This was a relatively quiet week overall – mostly just working at home. I met our friend Vinod for lunch at Brio in Southlake on Monday. It was nice to catch up as I haven’t really talked to him in months. We used to see each other every day in Austin and Vinod would always come by my desk to check in at the start of the day. In all the years that I’ve known Vinod, I’ve never seen him with any kind of facial hair – apparently his wife has given the new goatee a maximum one month lifespan.
I picked up “The Boy, the mole, the fox and the horse” at the bookstore in Southlake and gave it as a gift to Diana. Such a beautiful book.
I stopped into the British food store in Grapevine on the drive back from Southlake and picked up supplies for “Scottish night” on Saturday – more on that in a minute.
Amy and Ray were in town to do a final pack up for their move to Santa Fe. Diana is really going to miss her workout buddy. We enjoyed one of McD’s excellent meat and cheese platters on Thursday evening and had a great visit. The ladies seem to be enjoying my music selection in this picture. Finn hung in there with us for a couple of hours before heading up to bed. He says the music didn’t keep him awake – I hope that’s true.
Speaking of Finn – he worked hard on some art showing the evolution of “Squirtle”. We framed it and shipped it off to Will as a thank you for all that he’s done to help his little brother.
We enjoyed coffee and some hummus and avocado toast at Duino on Saturday afternoon as we ventured out to ship the picture to Will. Finn has become quite the coffee connoisseur (tricky word to spell correctly).
I was able to catch up with some friends that I hadn’t talked to in a while during the week – Meeksie, Ron, and Meadie. Everyone seems to be doing well and looking forward to the time when most of us are vaccinated. Speaking of that – Diana is schedule for her first shot on Tuesday. I’ll be very happy in a few weeks when she gets her second dose.
Scottish night on Saturday consisted of haggis, meat pies, shepherd’s pies, mashed potatoes and baked beans – all the classics. We did torture Finn with the piping in of the haggis and reciting of a portion of the “Address to a Haggis.” He didn’t think he’d tasted haggis before and quite liked it.
Those are pretty much the highlights. Finn managed to keep up with Diana for a long run on Friday – showing her how it’s done on the steep grass hill at the end of her route. I continued to work on week 5 of Couch to 5K and am planning to finish it up and move on to week 6 on Monday. We visited 24 Hour Fitness a couple of times so that I could enjoy a swim while Finn worked out with the weights and machines.
I made hardly any progress on my Obama book this week, instead catching up on a bit of a backlog of The New Yorker magazines. The most interesting article in those was one about how dogs have been trained to sniff out COVID – they patrol lines of people going into sporting events and are apparently very accurate.
“In a Silent Way” by Miles Davis turned 50 this week. I struggle with most of his electric band work from the 70s but do enjoy this one. Ethan Hein has an excellent music blog (he’s a teacher at NYU) and his article on this album is outstanding:
“In a Silent Way is my favorite Miles Davis album, possibly my favorite jazz album, and one of my favorite works of music generally. Most of Miles’ music of this era is ornery and angular, but In a Silent Way is like slipping into a warm bath. The music hardly sounds like “jazz” at all. It has elements of rock and funk, but it doesn’t really sound like those either. With its three keyboard players, ultra-minimal drums and static harmonies, the album sounds more like ambient electronic music than anything else.”
One of the really interesting parts of this album is listening to the trio of keyboard players. Chick Corea plays the Wurlitzer in the left channel, Herbie Hancock plays the Fender Rhodes (my favourite keyboard sound) in the right channel, and Joe Zawinul (of Weather Report fame) plays the organ in the center. Totally different sounds and feels that build against and on top of each other. John McLaughlin (of Mahavishnu Orchestra fame) plays guitar in a very laid back groove compared to his later theatrics.
Here’s a great Sunday morning jazz song from Oscar Peterson with Ben Webster on saxophone – what an amazing strength and tone there is to his playing:
I dipped back into the Spin magazine list of the top 50 albums from 1971 again. This time starting at number 39. I remembered a book I read over 3 years ago that talked about all the great music created that year. Here’s a link to that post:
Elton John’s “Madman Across The Water” is at number 38. What? An album that opens with “Tiny Dancer” and “Levon” isn’t in the top 3? This is my favourite from the album:
Stay safe and kind – hard to believe that in less than a month we’ll both be fully vaccinated.
After all the weather excitement last week we were ready to relax and enjoy some warmer weather at home. But, like the best laid plans, that all changed and we made a last minute trip to San Francisco on Monday. I needed to help Finn get back on a good life path and Diana flew with me and spent the week with her Mom and family.
We landed at SFO in the afternoon, stopped in to visit Adamo and family (including the now completely mobile Francesca), and then enjoyed a yummy dinner of chicken, rice, spinach and mushrooms from Chef Alicia who had driven up from San Luis Obispo.
Will and I went to collect Finn on Tuesday and stopped at Oyo in downtown Pleasanton for lunch in the sun on their patio. What a great tapas lunch. Here’s what their website says about the chef and her inspirations: “Her credo embodies the diverse heritage of Guyanese cuisine with its eclectic mix of flavors emanating from the ancestral homelands of the Guyanese people. Curries and Lo-Mein from Eastern Asian, Jerk Chicken and Rundown Fish from the Caribbean, Pepper Pot from West Africa and South American Paella all find a home here at Oyo.” We started with street food “Doubles” – chickpea stew, tamarind drizzle, coconut, cucumber and mango chutneys over bara pockets – the combination of flavours was outstanding. I followed that with the goat curry while Will had oxtail stew – the two dishes that the waitress recommended we try if we were only going to visit the restaurant once.
Oops – almost forgot to share a highlight from earlier in the day. I met my new “grandson” when I picked up Will in the morning. Ollie the golden-doodle (inaccurately described as a labra-doodle last week) is so cute and laid back – seems like a perfect dog for Will and Christine to practice parenting. They have him on a serious training program and are recording and monitoring just about every movement.
Ollie has a play area that most babies would envy. He’s sleeping in the corner with his favourite blue pillow.
He does manage to get excited sometimes:
Finn and I checked into an Airbnb house in San Mateo (about 10 minutes from Will’s apartment) that I had rented for us for the week. The place was great – comfy with lots of space, good wifi, and just as advertised. We enjoyed the care package of a host of great Trader Joe’s snacks that Alicia had put together for us.
Will visited us throughout the week and often worked a bit while he was with us. What a kick I got out of listening to him coordinate and facilitate meetings – so much energy and moving so fast from topic to topic – exhausting. He forgot his laptop multiple times and had to come back and retrieve it. Too many things running through his head at the same time – I’m not sure he ever slows down.
Finn wanted to do some laundry and Will “helped” see if he could remove some coins that seemed to be rattling around. He was able to remove something called the “bellows” on the front of the washer and had no idea how to put them back together. I found a YouTube video that looked pretty complex but we decided to have Christine bring over some tools and give it a try – complete no go – way too finicky and complicated. A Russian appliance repairman took the better part of an hour to complete the task the next day – not sure how the guy on the YouTube video got so expert, as it took him about 5 minutes.
While we’re on the topic of Will, I can’t believe how much food he can still consume – an extra large Philly cheesesteak sandwich with extra bacon from Jersey Mike’s was inhaled in a few minutes, and he was still looking for a follow up snack. He was most upset that, after specifically asking for rosemary bread, he unwrapped regular bread at home.
Finn and I enjoyed a Peet’s coffee on Wednesday morning – reminding me of my regular walks to the local Peet’s with Zumie in Los Gatos. It’s funny to see Finn with his very particular coffee order. Dinner that evening came from Village hummus just across the street from Peet’s – a tasty chicken, hummus, turmeric rice, salad and mushroom plate that we share.
I continued to enjoy extended one on one time with Finn on Thursday – we started with a walk to Peet’s, enjoying the beautiful morning sun, and then stocked up on some supplies for breakfasts and lunches at the Whole Foods next door.
Will joined us at lunchtime and brought the leftover A5 wagyu beef stroganoff that he had forgotten the day before. Not sure I’ve ever had or even heard of that specific wagyu classification but it was the most tender, melt in your mouth beef that I’ve tasted. Here are the steps followed in cooking this delicacy and the finished product (including a crunchy superfood Moroccan salad – Will’s specific description) from his photo stream:
Diana enjoyed dinner with Marco and crew at Grammie’s house. How would you like to have that dinner time view every night?
I cooked up some of my special breakfast tacos on Friday morning and it was great to see Finn enjoying them and having a healthy appetite again. Later that afternoon he surprised me by offering to add my dirty clothes to laundry he was doing – in the newly repaired washer. What have you done with my Finn?
I got a text from Anne letting me know that Jack and Mason’s team had won the Louisiana state high school soccer championship. What an achievement. There’s a video in this article that features great plays by both Ogan twins – you can pick them out by their long curly locks.
I got an email on Friday night inviting me to schedule a COVID vaccine shot. It didn’t come from my regular doctor, but from the folks that did my surgery to repair my broken leg – weird, but why not go for it? I logged on and scheduled an appointment for next Thursday morning. It will be nice to get that behind me.
Will and Christine came over on Friday evening with some yummy Thai food. Finn and I thought the green curry sauce was too watery but really enjoyed everything else. The new parents were nervous about Ollie alone in their apartment – checking the “baby cam” frequently – and so didn’t stay too long.
We started Saturday with a trip over to Pacifica to meet Alicia and Diana at Soul Grind for coffee and breakfast. Finn thought his Vietnamese coffee and ham and burrata quiche were the best he’d tasted. We walked along the beach path after breakfast and enjoyed the great weather.
After our walk, I made a stop at the local Pacifica bookstore to see if they had a book I was hoping to pick up and take to Clorinda. They were out of it and so I’ll have to ship it to her. I did have “The Paris Library” to share with her – more on that below. We had a nice visit with Clorinda, and Alicia made us some sandwiches for lunch. Some luggage for Finn’s trip to Texas next week was picked up at Target on the way back to the Airbnb. We also picked up a meal kit and cooked up some delicious lemon zest burrata raviolis with shredded chicken and pesto sauce – it turned out really well as we improvised a bit with the kitchenware we had available.
Here are a couple of pictures that I like from Saturday night on Gypsy Hill in Pacifica. Jude (Clorinda’s neighbour) snapped the picture of Diana and Alicia laughing about something as the sun sets behind them. Grammie and Francesca have a special bond.
Will picked up Finn on Sunday morning for a special car show in San Francisco. They seem to have had an amazing time.
This week we said goodbye to Beat poet, publisher and bookseller Lawrence Ferlinghetti, who died in San Francisco at the glorious age of 101.
Ferlinghetti was famous for — among other things — publishing the first edition of his friend Allen Ginsberg’s epic poem Howl, which got him arrested on obscenity charges. (A long federal trial eventually determined that the poem had redeeming social importance and was therefore not obscene.)
“I really believe that art is capable of the total transformation of the world, and of life itself,” he said in a 1994 interview. “And nothing less is really acceptable. So I mean if art is going to have any excuse for — beyond being a leisure-class plaything — it has to transform life itself.”
Ferlinghetti also founded the famous City Lights bookstore in the North Beach (Italian) section of San Francisco. I’ve always enjoyed browsing there and find their recommendations very helpful.
In addition to all of that, Ferlinghetti was the father-in-law of Joe Sasser – a very interesting character who worked for both Diana and me over the years. Guessing Sasser doesn’t have to work another day.
I read “The Paris Library” by Janet Skeslien Charles and am a bit nervous to say that I’m really enjoying it. Why nervous? – it reads a bit like a girly romance novel – but I’m ok with some of that while I enjoy the descriptions of Paris and what sounds like an amazing institution – The American Library in Paris (ALP).
The book oscillates between Paris at the beginning of World War II and 1980s Montana – in a town called Froid. I smiled since Diana and I talk about retirement destinations that often include debates about Paris and Montana – the cold in winter being a negative check against Montana.
“”The best thing about Paris? It’s a city of readers,” our neighbor said.
She said that in friends’ homes, books were as important as the furniture. She spent her summers reading in the city’s lush parks, then like potted palmettos in the Tuileries Garden, sent to the greenhouse at the first sign of frost, she spent winters at the library, curled up near the window with a book in her lap.”
Here’s a paragraph that made me think about how much Diana loves Paris:
“”Champagne!” the consul’s wife cried out. “More champagne.”
Fantastique! The last time I’d had a glass was at New Year’s. Popping corks – the sign of celebration, my favorite sound in the whole world – heralded servants who swirled around the room, proffering flutes. Everything was held out to me on a silver tray. Bubbles glistened in my glass, icy rivulets slid down my throat. I was so dazzled, I forgot Lawrence’s boorish behavior, forgot the diplomat.”
Odile, one of the two main characters, gets a job at the ALP and is responsible for writing a regular column about her work for the Herald:
“I know. You’re not that girl any longer. You’ve grown up and are doing a marvelous job. Everyone loves your column in the Herald, and your newsletter is delightful, especially your “What kind of reader are you?” interviews. It’s wonderful to get to know someone by the books they love.”
On discussion about whether the library should remain open as German occupation of Paris becomes imminent:
“She needed to convince them that the ALP must remain open. “Libraries are lungs,” she scrawled, her pen barely able to keep up with her ideas. “Books the fresh air breathed in to keep the heart beating, to keep the brain imagining, to keep hope alive. Subscribers depend on us for news, for community. Soldiers need books, need to know their friends at the Library care. Our work is too important to stop now.””
Lily, the second main character, living in Froid in 1980, reflecting on the death of her mother and dealing with her father’s new pregnant wife, Eleanor:
“When she stayed in bed all day like Mom, I remained at Eleanor’s side. I remembered a line from Bridge to Terabithia: “Life was as delicate as a dandelion. One little puff from any direction, and it was blown to bits.” As a kid, I thought only old people died. Now I knew differently. Why hadn’t I been nicer to Eleanor.”
An interesting exchange between Miss Reeder, Directress of the ALP, and the German officer sent to censor libraries (how great a word is Bibliotheksschutz?):
“”I was going to tell the Bibliotheksschutz that a library without members is a cemetery of books,” Miss Reeder said. “Books are like people; without contact, they cease to exist.”
“Beautifully said,” he replied.
” I was ready to humbly beg to keep the Library open. How could I have guessed that it would be you?”
“You must know I would never allow the Library to be close. However…””
One of my favourite simile’s in the book:
“Inside the Haussmannian building, the staircase curved like an escargot’s shell.”
I think I would be a big fan of the ALP logo:
“Inside the slim volume, the “American Library in Paris Inc, 1920″ bookplate showed the sun rising over an open book, a horizon as wide as the world. The book lay on a rifle, almost burying it – knowledge slaying violence.”
I really enjoyed this book – a relatively light and quick read with interesting insights into Paris and the library during World War II. Reading an author who splits time between Paris and Montana is interesting – I can’t think of two more different environments. Not much is really said about living in Montana – it’s just a neutral backdrop for the relationship between the older Odile and Lily. I’m interested to hear Clorinda’s critique of this book – she’s always very honest about her thoughts.
After taking a break to enjoy “The Paris Library”, I returned back to “The Moth and the Mountain”. I rejoined the story with Wilson fighting in France during World War I:
“Millions of men from both the German and the Anglo-French sides of the conflict had already died along the Western Front – a jagged stitch in northern Europe, which stretched from the English Channel to the Swiss border, whose entrenched outline had not significantly changed between the end of 1914 and the beginning of 1918, despite all the mud, rats, murder, shellfire and barbed wire there.”
Hard to imagine 4 years with no progress on either side and so many casualties.
It was interesting to read about a recruitment technique for World War I known as the Pals or Chums battalions:
“As a recruitment tactic, it was a wild success. Battalions were formed from groups of men who shared an employer (the Glasgow Tramways Battalion) or a common heritage (the Tyneside Irish Battalions).”
An interesting mathematical commentary on the futility of the 4 years of fighting:
“In the summer of 1917, one mathematically adept British officer at the front had made a calculation:
He roughed out the area between the “front” of that date and the Rhine…and divided this by the area gained, on the average, at the battles of the Somme, Vimy and Messines. The result he multiplied by the time taken to prepare and fight those offensives, averaged again. The result he got was that, allowing for no setbacks, and providing the pace could be maintained, we should arrive at the Rhine in one hundred and eighty years.“
I learned a new term:
“Triskaidekaphobia – an extreme fear of the number 13 – was widely shared.”
Moving back to discussion of Everest and a funny comment:
“The British director of the survey, Andrew Waugh, eventually renamed peak XV Mount Everest after his predecessor, Sir George Everest, and proclaimed the mountain to be 29,002 feet high, to dispel the impression that he had simply chosen a round number. Wags noted that Waugh was the first person to put two feet on the top of Everest. Satellites have now fixed the height of the mountain at 29,035 feet.”
I’m going to kick back and enjoy some more of this adventure before making dinner.
I found a new band that I really enjoy – instrumental music combining jam and funk elements with excellent musicianship. Here’s one from Circles Around the Sun:
It’s interesting that several of the members of Circles Around The Sun did stints in the Black Crowes – the band that I’ve been reading about over the last couple of weeks.
I joined the Tipitina’s record club a few weeks ago – as much to help the new Galactic owners of the music venue stay afloat as for the small pressings of concerts recorded at the legendary venue. I have seen so many fantastic concerts at Tipitina’s over the years – Dr. John, Anders Osborne, Little Feat, Trombone Shorty before he made it big etc. The first release is a recording of Professor Longhair at his home. An unadvertised feature on joining was a Zoom meeting to coincide with the release, featuring a panel watching videos and discussing the music.
I thoroughly enjoyed the Zoom meeting with members of Galactic, Johnny Vidacovich (legendary New Orleans drummer who played with Fess), Quint Davis (Jazzfest organizer) and several others telling stories about the music and their experiences with the artist. What a treat!
A record that I turn too for stress relief from time to time – it’s a strange album but one that I find strangely soothing – John Cale’s “Paris 1919”. I was turned on to it by Steve Forbert in his autobiography:
I love the descending brass and bass chords on Paris 1919 and the Welsh accent from Cale.
A good reminder from Steve Forbert that just because we hope or dream for something, doesn’t mean it will happen:
And finally, here’s another soothing song from Joe Lovano – what a great saxophone and piano sound:
Stay patient (Oh, so patient), calm and kind to everyone.
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day to all of you. We are definitely staying inside to celebrate, except for a quick sprint that I plan later – out to the grill to cook the lobster tails. Temperatures are falling way below freezing very quickly and are not forecast to pass back above until next Saturday. We have an inch or snow just now and are expected to receive another 6 to 8 inches this afternoon with “near blizzard conditions.”
Weather has been the big discussion topic this week with an ice storm on Thursday causing havoc with traffic. Several massive pileups closed almost all the major highways through and around the Dallas/Fort Worth area. We don’t expect to be able to leave the house for the next week as several inches of snow and freezing temperatures will effectively shut down the roads until Saturday. The temperatures on the left have been significantly reduced in the current forecast.
I was able to get out for my runs earlier this week with Week 5 Day 1 on Monday and Day 2 on Wednesday. I squeezed a swim in between on Tuesday. Day 2 consisted of two 8 minute runs with 5 minutes of walking in between. I managed that fine, even in the 28 degree weather with drizzle freezing on my glasses, and was really looking forward to stepping up to the 20 minute run on Day 3 – scheduled for Friday. The frigid weather put a stop to that – I’ll never hear the end of it if I pull a muscle in the cold. With very little chance of a run this coming week, I may have to go back to the start of Week 5 again when things thaw out. This being Texas, it won’t be too many months until I’m complaining about it being too hot for running.
The Monday New York Times crossword brought a chuckle with the “Pooh” answer – crossing “discombobulated” which seems like a very big word for the Monday (easiest day) puzzle.
Monday night brought the regular weekly torture – oopsy, I meant entertaining fun – of watching the “Bachelor” with McD. Crazy Queen Victoria has left the show but it seems that things are still very silly with the remaining group of girls.
We enjoyed a new episode of “This is Us” on Tuesday evening. Kevin was having fits getting back to Los Angeles for the birth of his first child, and the commercial was very misleading about what happens on that trip.
Anne sent us these pictures of a great pineapple sign – “Be a Pineapple: stand tall, wear a crown, and be sweet.” Also another picture of a Mardi Gras float house. She was planning to take Denny out for a bike ride to look at all the decorated houses. One of the benefits of living in such a compact city.
Diana cooked up one of the more delicious sea bass steaks that I’ve had in a long time on Saturday night. The ponzu like sauce was excellent and the fish was perfectly cooked. Thanks D!
I finished up “Shuggie Bain” by Douglas Stuart this week, and the narrative certainly didn’t get any more uplifting as Agnes, Shuggie’s mother, continues her downward spiral with alcohol abuse. There is a vague hope at the end that Shuggie is getting on his own feet and may have a successful future. I did continue to find humour in some of the phrases:
“Voices crackled over the C.B. Some man in a Teuchter accent was talking about floods on the Perth Road.”
What’s a Teuchter accent? Well here’s the very proper definition from Wikipedia:
“Teuchter [tʲu:xtər] is a Lowland Scots word originally used to describe a Scottish Highlander , in particular a Gaelic -speaking Highlander. Like most such cultural epithets, it can be seen as offensive, but is often seen as amusing by the speaker. The term is contemptuous, essentially describing someone seen to be uncouth and rural.”
The quality of the writing is excellent throughout and I can see why it was on the Booker prize shortlist:
“She had been drinking all day. Her mood was a low-level haar, foggy, dark and heavy, but holding steady without rain. Shuggie did not want to burst this cloudiness and force the bad weather.”
In case you’re wondering about “haar”:
noun
1.a cold sea fog on the east coast of England or Scotland.
I thought I was jumping into something completely different when I started “Hard to Handle” by Steve Gorman. This is a memoir of his time in the rock band “The Black Crowes.” A band that he founded in the late 80s with the Robinson brothers – Chris and Rich. The band had massive success in the early 90s and then self destructed in much the same way that Agnes did in Shuggie Bain.
Gorman was the drummer and is a very good story teller. The Robinson brothers famously fought the entire time they were together in the band and I envisioned Chris as a laid-back hippy type personality. That is not the way Gorman sees him at all:
“Chris’s wife sent an email to Pete Angelus, our manager of twenty-four years, stating his demands for his continued involvement in The Black Crowes. Moving forward, Chris wanted 75 percent of all the band’s income. That was quite an upgrade from the 331/3 percent that he had been receiving.
It was apparent that our existing partnership agreement no longer meant anything to him.
The terms were nonnegotiable. There would be no discussion. Give him what he wanted, or he wasn’t coming back. And that was the end of The Black Crowes.”
I enjoyed the comparison of Chris Robinson to Emo Philips – after I pulled up his picture.
My favourite part of books like this is often the stories of how famous songs first came together:
“Like Chris and me, Rich had become obsessed with Nick Drake’s music. Unlike Chris and me, Rich put that obsession to good use. He began experimenting with open tunings like Drake played, and almost immediately he wrote the parts that would become “She Talks to Angels.””
As I revisited the early Crowes albums, I was amazed at how much the music sounds like the Rolling Stones and was thinking that, on the slower songs, Robinson sounds like a cross between Jagger and Rod Stewart. Clearly I’m not the first to think that:
“Chris fully committed to presenting himself as both a populist “man of the people” type and a “serious artist.” He bristled at comparisons to Mick Jagger or Rod Stewart. He wanted to be taken seriously.”
An entertaining anecdote from their first trip to Japan:
“There had to be a thousand fans waiting for us at the hotel; just an amazing turnout. As soon as our translator announced to the crowd that The Black Crowes had arrived, two-thirds of them immediately sat down and looked disappointed. Turns out they were expecting Status Quo, an English rock band I assumed had broken up at least a decade earlier.”
I still enjoy the music from Status Quo – so simple and yet so effective. How quickly musical tastes can change:
“Sixteen months earlier, we had headlined Glastonbury and the Phoenix Festival. As far as we knew, we owned the UK in the summer of 1993. And now…that’s it? I guess the rest of our fans were all at home listening to the new Nirvana record.”
I’ve only seen The Black Crowes once – during the first trip Diana and I made to the New Orleans Jazzfest – after a massive downpour and following a performance by Dr. John. I remember really enjoying their show and being very impressed with Rich Robinson’s guitar skills.
Thanks to Kara for sharing this book with me. She made a special trip to bring it to us when we were leaving New Orleans for the drive back to Dallas after the New Year celebrations.
Let’s start out the music section with something from The Black Crowes. A favourite of mine from one of their later albums:
In a completely different musical genre, I forget how much I love this Greig piano concerto:
A great Neil Young and Crazy Horse song that The Black Crowes covered:
And finally an interesting combination – Willie and Diana Krall – with an excellent big band arrangement:
Let’s start out with a funny video this week. We received this “Why Rock N Roll Will Never Die” video from Kristina. I just love the faces on the toddler.
About this time of year, we would typically be “discussing” whether to attend the Mardi Gras season in New Orleans and looking forward to Jazzfest. Not this year, at least not until potentially October for Jazzfest. Anne shared this picture of Tin Men playing in front of one of the Mardi Gras float house in New Orleans. Will saw Tin Men with the boys crew at Mirliton Festival on his 25th birthday trip to NOLA, and loved them. They are best known to us for the classic “If You Can’t Make it Here” song – one of Timmy’s favourites and a great sing along number:
We’ve taken to reading a story from Diana’s Christmas Winnie the Pooh collection out loud if we’re not too tired when we make it to bed. I’m still perfecting the voices for each of the characters. Diana decided it would be good if Pooh could join us – and of course have easy access to his favourite food. I just hope that Hunny pot doesn’t fall on my head one night when I’m sleeping.
Monday and Wednesday were both great running days – sunny with temperatures in the mid 50s. Week 4 of Couch to 5K was much more pleasant the second time around. The last 5 minutes of running didn’t have me puffing nearly as much as on Monday. I hoping to make it to Week 5 next week without any injuries.
I survived Week 4 Day 3 on Friday and have beaten my old record without any injuries. Looking forward to starting Week 5 on Monday.
I laughed at the Scottish phrasing in the crossword puzzle:
It was quite chilly on Saturday morning and I was looking forward to reading in a cozy spot while Diana went for a run with Amy. The best laid plans… Amy got busy and couldn’t make it and so I was drafted to go out for a walk. That wasn’t too bad until it started raining and got really cold – I had to put my emergency headband and gloves on.
As if that wasn’t enough torture, I then made a trip to the grocery store with McD. In all fairness, I had volunteered to get some lobster tails to do a dry run on my Valentine’s day meal. We did pretty well – I overcooked the lobster a little bit but they still tasted great and we really liked the herb butter. That’s a picture from the recipe and ours didn’t look too dissimilar – we got too excited about tasting them and forgot a picture.
Here’s the recipe that we used for the herb butter:
Damon sent this drone video earlier from outside of Philadelphia. He’s getting the hang of his Christmas present and it’s snowing pretty hard there.
It won’t be snowing in Tampa today for the Super Bowl. We’re looking forward to settling in to watch a good game this evening. And I’m looking forward to the traditional pigs in a blanket that Diana will be cooking up.
I completed my journey through the life of John Steinbeck earlier this week. Souder’s book does a great job of intertwining Steinbeck’s writing exploits with the history of the world at the time, traveling through the Depression, World War II, the Korean War and Vietnam. My only beef with Souder is the way he narrates objectively for the majority of the book and then feels compelled to dismiss points of view that are contrary to Steinbeck’s in a very flippant way, with no exploration of both sides of an argument.
Most would cite “The Grapes of Wrath” as Steinbeck’s best work. I learned two new facts about that work in this book – he lived in Los Gatos the entire time that he was working on the novel (wouldn’t you have thought that would have been well known by someone who lived in that city for 15 years? – weird), and the title comes from the line in the “Battle Hymn of the Republic” – should have been obvious I know, but never occurred to me.
“Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord
He is trampling out the vintage where the grapes of wrath are stored”
Interestingly, it was Steinbeck’s wife, Carol, who came up with the title.
“Steinbeck thought it was fitting that the title came from a march, as the book itself was a march of epic proportions, and also because it was an iconic commentary on the helplessness of the migrants in California, whom no god was watching over. Carol’s contribution to the book was far greater than giving it a title. As she typed the manuscript from his crabbed handwriting, Carol revised and corrected it as she went. Steinbeck said he was doing the first draft of the book, and Carol was doing the second.”
A parallel commentary with that I learned about in the Churchill biography “The Splendid and the Vile”. You’ll remember that I certainly didn’t enjoy that book as much as this one. I wrote:
“I do not recommend this book at all. 500 pages of loose history, chock full of incongruous anecdotes and gossip. People magazine of the 1940s meets a lightweight biography of Churchill and his family meets an even lighter weight chronicle of the Battle of Britain.”
Here’s a link to the posting where I reviewed that one:
“Roosevelt wrote to Joseph Kennedy, the U.S. ambassador to Britain, telling him that Americans did not yet appreciate the fact that the world was shrinking, that mere geography could no longer protect us, and that we were experiencing “the rapid annihilation of distance and purely local economies.” America and Europe were inherently linked, and Europe’s problems, he believed, would likely become ours.”
Here’s the passage that explains the title of this work:
“In a letter to Steinbeck in Paris, Covici subtly suggested that the trip might rekindle Steinbeck’s temper and his willingness to take on injustice , natural-born traits that had driven him to greatness and were being neglected in his recent work. No other author, Covici believed, could get so mad at the worldwith such grace.”
A couple of sentences that sum up how difficult Steinbeck could be to live with. Gwyn was his second wife:
“He’d come up and interrupt Gwyn when she was with the children and tell her they needed to discuss something and could she please come downstairs. When she went down, Steinbeck would fix two cocktails and then sit down and start reading the newspaper. After a while, Gwyn would ask what it was he wanted to talk to her about – whereupon he would get up and make them two more drinks.”
You might remember how much I enjoyed Steinbeck’s “Travels with Charley”, a journey around America with a French poodle. I wrote, “I highly recommend this book. A really enjoyable read. Has me ready to go back and revisit all those Steinbeck classics set in Central California.” Here’s a link to that posting:
Here’s a passage from the biography about that book:
“In January of 1962, a proof of “Travels with Charley” caught up with Steinbeck in Capri. Covici reported that the Viking sales team liked the book better than any other Steinbeck had written – and that it would be the lead in their spring catalogue.”
My final quote:
“What the critics saw from book to book – but failed to detect as a linkage among all of them – was Steinbeck’s anger. He was America’s most pissed-off writer. “All his work”, Gray wrote, “steams with indignation at injustice, with contempt for false piety, with scorn for the cunning and self-righteousness of an economic system that encourages exploitation, greed, and brutality.”
I can’t contemplate the vast amount of work that was put into this biography which finishes with over 50 pages of links to the reference material used to build the story.
My next book for the week was completely different. Here’s the Amazon summary:
“A heartbreaking story of addiction, sexuality, and love, Shuggie Bain is an epic portrayal of a working-class family that is rarely seen in fiction. Recalling the work of Édouard Louis, Alan Hollinghurst, Frank McCourt, and Hanya Yanagihara, it is a blistering debut by a brilliant novelist who has a powerful and important story to tell.”
Not a light, uplifting read, but I’ve enjoyed it so far. Set in Glasgow housing schemes between 1981 and 1992, this is the story of Agnes’ struggle with alcoholism and her youngest son, Shuggie Bain’s, attempts to help her cope.
I’m a bit over half way through and hoping Agnes is close to hitting rock bottom. She has moved to Pithead, a housing scheme next to a shuttered coal mine and is really struggling with everyday life. The dialogue in the book is excellent, reminding me of early William McIlvanney. Here are some samples:
“Ann McGee had the brass neck to call in sick again that morning.”
I haven’t heard the term “brass neck” in so many years.
“Shuggie would stand there, his back teeth pinching the inside of his cheek, and indulge their indecisiveness with a forced smile. Then the real pantomime would begin. “Gies three breasts, five thighs, and just the wan wing the day, son.””
“The morning chill had turned his naked thighs a tartan blue.”
My favourite so far:
“I’m tired o’ watching you auld wummin dance like youse are Pan’s People.”
Commentary on the hopelessness of the times for working men:
“He had heard them say that Thatcher didn’t want honest workers any more; her future was technology and nuclear power and private health. Industrial days were over, and the bones of the Clyde Shipworks and the Springburn Railworks lay about the city like rotted dinosaurs. Whole housing estates of young men who were promised the working trades of their fathers had no future now. Men were losing their very masculinity.”
A reminder of how, as a boy, I thought rubbing docken leaves on a nettle sting was somehow helpful:
“The boy grew panicked, his eyes wide in fear. He ripped a handful of large green docken leaves out of the dirt and scraped them up and down Shuggie’s leg.”
A long forgotten sweetie:
“They sucked on soor plooms and pressed their noses against the front window of the top deck.”
Without being sounding too anachronistic, I have oft maintained that the music I enjoy most was created between 1971 and 1973, a period when creativity and musicianship were welcomed and music wasn’t pigeon-holed and created with mass market consumerism as the primary criteria. I’ve been working my way through SPIN magazine’s list of the best 50 albums of 1971 this week. Here’s a sampling of the excellent music from number 50 to number 40.
At number 47, “Anticipation” by Carl Simon. In addition to the title track I really like this cover of Kris Kristofferson’s (sung originally as a duet with Rita Coolidge) “I’ve Got to Have You.”
Two slots higher at number 45 is the debut album by the fantastic Bonnie Raitt:
Number 44 brings War’s “All Day Music”. This was their second album after the departure of Eric Burdon of the Animals and the variety and musicianship are terrific:
Number 43 is a real highlight for me so far – Booker T & The M.G.’s “Melting Pot”. The bass sound and runs that Donald “Duck” Dunn lays down are just amazing. Coupled with Steve Cropper’s constant guitar creativity and Booker T’s organ playing, this is a total winner of an album:
Fleetwood Mac’s “Future Games” comes in at number 42. This is the transition Mac from the original Peter Green led ensemble to the ultimate Steve Nicks/Lindsey Buckingham led group. It features Bob Welch and Danny Kirwan on guitar and, for the first time, Christine McVie on some vocals and piano. The album is fine but very pastoral sounding and a bit bleh – good background music I suppose.
I used to love “Hocus Pocus” from Focus’ album “Moving Waves” which makes number 41. Now it sounds kitschy and contrived, but still a bit entertaining. Not to take anything away from the great Jan Akkerman’s guitar chops. Here’s the 23 minute (typical of the 1971 penchant for stretching out songs in multiple movements) Eruption:
And finally, rounding out the 50-40 section, the diaphanous sound of the early Stylistics – a classic example of the Philly Soul Sound.
We’ll see if I stick with this progression and enjoy the higher ranking albums as much as this wildly varied selection.
Having a dental crown seated is not the ideal way to start out a week, but the operation was smooth and painless. Dirty Penelope was treated to a bath on the way back from the dentist and it’s been much quieter in the garage since.
Monday was Burns day and so we cooked up one of the tins of haggis, the lamb version, and piped it in with “Scotland the Brave” from Spotify. I gave a poor rendition of “Address to a Haggis”, with a translated printout for Diana, and then we enjoyed the once a year or so treat – really yummy. After that Diana was “wanting something sweet” and so, in my typically cheesy way, I guided her through to the piano and attempted a rendition of “My Love is Like a Red Red Rose”. It was a very poor attempt, having only printed the music a couple of hours earlier. Here’s a better attempt – see Mum, I did get some roses this year. Diana quipped “Now I recognize it.”
Oh, almost forgot, I also read a couple of verses of “Ode to a Mouse” at our Executive Committee meeting on Monday afternoon, telling them that since diversity and inclusion was such a big topic these days, I wanted to be recognized for my diversity as well. Here are links to read both poems:
Going up to the elliptical on Tuesday, I came across this display of Mardi Gras beads. Apparently McD had decided to organize our collection of beads ahead of parade season (cancelled this year) and thought the pool table provided the ideal surface. We collected the majority of those on a freezing cold parade night on our first New Orleans Mardi Gras visit.
I went for a swim on Wednesday and enjoyed listening to a podcast where Alec Baldwin interviewed Kristin Bell. On removing my earphones after the swim, I couldn’t hear anything from my left ear. I assumed water was stuck in there, as happens sometimes. On arrival home, and letting Diana know that I had enjoyed a nice swim with Kristin Bell, very cheesy again, I tried the drops we use to get water out of our ears when scuba diving. No luck. Now I’m getting a tiny appreciation for what Elspeth deals with every day – can’t hear anything Diana is saying if she’s coming at me from the left. Still no joy on Thursday morning, so emailed the doctor. Come on in for an ear lavage on Friday morning. Ok, not sure what that is but it sounds soothing. Turned out to be a quick and mostly painless procedure that within a few seconds had removed a wax plug that had adhered to my ear drum. Going to have to be a bit more diligent with those earphones and the “Fit Goo” that I use to get a good seal.
The Designer Twins and Jose visited us on Friday afternoon to discuss the rumoured kitchen remodel. We’ll see what great ideas they come back with. One of the bigger discussion points was whether or not to keep the elevated, round section of the island. We enjoy gathering around a meat and cheese plate there when we have another couple over. Jose says they’re out of style and we need to consider a single long island that accommodates seating at the end. Any input from those of you that have occupied the barstools at the raised end? I’m scared to see the bid – so much tile and granite to be replaced.
Late breaking news on an incoming text. Jose can start in 3 weeks. Oh joy!
We watched the new Justin Timberlake movie “Palmer” on Friday and Saturday nights. Second weekend in a row that we fell asleep before finishing our movie on Friday night. We must be working way too hard during the week. Timberlake did his usual excellent acting job in what was a pretty harrowing movie. Spoiler alert…there is a happy ending.
I did complete week 3 of Couch to 5K on Saturday. Diana asked me if I felt like I had a “balanced gait”. Well, clearly by nature of the question she doesn’t believe that I do. Apparently I lean over when landing on my left foot, or am just flat footed on that side. Thanks, super helpful input, I’ll see what I can do about that as we enter into week 4, and I’m sure by focusing on that will develop some other anomaly.
We, one of us in particular, have developed a binging obsession with “Bridgerton.” It’s actually pretty funny and certainly better than “The Bachelor.” I believe Diana finished up the series last night after I fell asleep.
It’s a mistake to pull out the “Year in Review 2020” blog book and read about what we were doing exactly a year ago. Very depressing – we attended an Eric Lindell concert, had a work happy hour at Baker St. Pub, brunch at Comedor, and dinner at Winebelly, amongst several other fun activities. Hopefully those places hang on until we can safely visit Austin again.
I finished up “The Strangler” by William Landay this week and did enjoy the conclusion of the tale.
Michael, the Harvard lawyer brother, suffers from routine migraines and I thought Landay’s description of their onset and impact were exceptionally detailed and effective. I assumed that he must suffer from migraines until I read the credit at the end of the book to “Migraine” by Oliver Sacks, the wonderfully talented medical writer.
The relationship between the three Daley brothers, their mother, and her boyfriend is at the core of the book, and just as central to the evolution of the plot as the history of the Boston Stranglers.
“Ricky always went a little crazy with Joe. All that firstborn’s confidence and facile conservatism, the dense, bullying, confrontational manner, the reflexive, arrogant, empty-headed, aggressive xenophobia…Joe was Ricky’s negative image. If they had not been brothers, Ricky was sure, they would never have been friends. As it was, they needed Michael as a middleman. Alone, there was a relentless fractious undercurrent to their conversations, as if their thirty-year relationship had been a single ongoing argument. But, in the way of brothers, Ricky could not completely escape admiring Joe, who had, after all, willingly accepted the weight of their patrimony.”
I’m making good progress on “Mad at the World – A Life of John Steinbeck” by William Souder. Souder is a good writer and has quite interesting material to draw from. The history of the part of California where Steinbeck grew up – Salinas and the Monterey coast – was just as interesting as the background on how Steinbeck became the famous author.
Here’s a piece from the first page that I know Diana will particularly enjoy (she detests the California coastal fog).
“Ninety miles long and shaped like a sword, it follows the course of the Salinas River, which runs north to Monterey Bay. The valley is flat between the Gabilans and the Santa Lucia mountains that separate it from the Pacific. Here, a different fog comes in summer, when inland heating draws in a marine layer of cooler, moist air from the ocean. The sea-born fog does not lie still on the land, but seeps over the folded hillsides, rising and falling along the river bottom. When the fog comes and the mountains are hidden, the world is an abstraction and you are alone with your thoughts.”
Some history of the region, which now produces much of the vegetable crops that feed America:
“In 1602, a Spanish explorer, Sebastian Viscaino, sailed up the California coast as far as the estuary of the Salinas River. Captivated by the harbor near the river’s mouth, and by the panorama of mountains and rocky headlands that curled into the Pacific around the northern and southern ends of a great by, he named the place Monterey. In 1769, a Spanish expedition coming overland from Baja reached the southern tip of the Salinas Valley and found it an unpromising place. “The hills,” their report read, “gradually became lower, and, spreading out at the same time, made the canyon wider; at this place, in sight of two low points formed by the hills, it extends for more than three leagues.” The soil, the report continued, was poor and offered “treacherous footing,” as it was “full of fissures that crossed in all directions, whitish in color, and scant of pasture.”
Who knew that the beautiful coastline around Pacific Grove was once owned by a Scot? Can you imagine what those 100,000 acres are worth today?
“Rising from the water’s edge in sloping terraces to a high, forested ridge, Pacific Grove was wedged between the towns of Monterey and Carmel. In the late 1800s, there was a quiet wilderness of woods and grazing lands mostly owned by a rancher named David Jacks. Jacks had come to the peninsula in 1849 from Scotland with an unquenchable thirst for land. Eventually he owned more than 100,000 acres.”
Some interesting history of Stanford University:
“Young, shy, uninterested in school, and reluctant to admit to anyone what he hoped to become, Steinbeck was unlikely Stanford material. Opened in 1891 – its first student was future U.S. president Herbert Hoover – the university had begun as a monument to Leland Stanford Jr. The only child of Leland and Jane Stanford, Leland Jr. had died of typhus at the age of fifteen.”
“Mors was the same age as Steinbeck. He’d grown up in Los Gatos, only twenty miles away, and entered Stanford at the age of sixteen.”
Steinbeck wandered from city to city, taking odd jobs as he worked on his writing in the evenings.
“He also got Steinbeck a job as a laborer on a project in midtown Manhattan: the construction of Madison Square Garden, which was being rushed to completion before the end of the year. Steinbeck’s job was moving cement up the inside scaffolding with a wheelbarrow, load after aching load.”
An interesting fact about Monterey Bay. I had no idea it was that deep:
“Monterey Bay was one of the world’s most active fisheries, owing in part to its unique subsurface contours. Only a short distance from shore, the Continental Shelf splits, and the bottom plunges to a depth of nearly 12,000 feet in a sheer abyss called the Monterey Bay Canyon.”
I’ve been listening to an album called “Day of the Dead” while writing this post. It’s a series of Grateful Dead cover songs and I really like most of them. Here’s a sampling. Highly recommended if you enjoy their music.
Nick Lowe has a song and an album called “Trombone?” I better check that out.
And finally this week, for some reason Shuggie Otis popped into my head and I remembered his excellent show at the Kessler several years ago:
This was a pretty quiet week of working from home and not going anywhere exciting at all. Well, Diana did sneak out twice – once to get her hair done and once to get her nails done. Oh, and we had a Presidential inauguration. As Rex Parker said in his New York Times crossword blog on Thursday: “OK, back to basking in this weird feeling of living in a county run by basically good, basically competent people. Ahh.” We both enjoyed the evening gala hosted by Tom Hanks from the steps of the Lincoln memorial. Bruce Springsteen got things started (and apparently had a positive impact on pea-coat sales):
We watched the new Tom Hanks movie “News of the World” on Friday night, and then finished it on Saturday night. Quite disappointing after the book – isn’t that usually the case? The film completely missed what I thought was the core element of the book – the struggle of Johanna as she oscillates between her Native American upbringing and her return to the “civilized” American world.
I finished up week 2 of Couch to 5K on Saturday – everything is still feeling pretty good. We received our “Year in Review 2020” blog book (300 pages) and Diana looked back to find how far I made it before the break – end of week 4 – so that will be a milestone to aim past. I did convince McD to try something new mid-week – she went for a run in the rain with me – who knows what crazy activity is next. After the run I had a short burst of energy for home tasks – installed the replacement Ring doorbell, tried to replace some porch lights but had the wrong shape of bulb, and replaced the steam shower aromatherapy bottle (a lot more work than it sounds) with some new lavender juice – my choice which McD has pronounced as a very “girlie” option. New bulbs were ordered and that will be my task after this update is published.
Almost forgot – I made a drive over to Grapevine on Friday to the British Food Emporium. My mission was to pick up some haggis for Burns night on Monday, but as usual I couldn’t help grabbing some other treats – a Turkish delight for Diana, meat pies for me, and some oatcakes to share. If you’d like to read details about the challenges with the Scottish haggis population, I recommend this article (I did chuckle when Brent observed that the hagglets look a lot like The Donald):
I had been looking forward to a stop into Redefined coffee, a regular stop when I was driving to AIG, and right next to the British food place. It wasn’t there anymore – typical, I thought. A quick search showed it had moved just around the corner on to the main street. A really good location and a much bigger and more modern shop – just didn’t seem to have the same character as the old place, but the coffee was still the same.
Continuing the British food theme – I shared Vince’s pastrami scotch egg recipe recently. Here are some pictures of the end result that he shared this week:
Don’t those look delicious. We’re hoping to sample some when we finally make a visit to his cabin in the Adirondacks.
I watched a documentary about the first person with Down Syndrome to complete an Ironman marathon.
Chris Nikic is such an inspiration. He doesn’t have any real sense of how far he’s come or how much longer remains, but just keeps plugging away, taking regular breaks for hugs. A massive achievement.
On a somewhat related theme, I was amazed at this video of a dog limping alongside its owner. Apparently the dog was taken to the vet to be checked out. Absolutely nothing wrong with the leg, it was just limping in sympathy with its owner. Wow! The owner seemed more focused on the 300 pounds he had spent on vet bills.
Norma in Guatemala was telling me about the “Yardi Gras” houses in New Orleans. There are no Mardi Gras parades this year and so, in typical NOLA creative fashion, folks are decorating their yards to emulate parade floats. Some are really amazing.
We received a late entry for the new cactus naming contest this morning, and we’re going with it. Patty christened it “Mark 3.0” and we’ll just use “3.0” as a nickname. Apparently the idea came to her in the middle of the night last night. Our boss when we worked together was Mark and he had quite the prickly personality – so he became knows at “the cactus”. When I worked with him more recently he proclaimed himself “Mark 2.0”, the kinder and gentler version. Which was true most days. Brent’s submission of “Squid Rock” has stuck after we tried it out this week.
I’m a bit more than half way through “The Strangler” by William Landay and am getting thoroughly sucked into the crime tale. Landay is the author of “Defending Jacob” – we enjoyed the TV series and so I thought I’d try his earlier novel. Here’s what Amazon says about it:
“Before the New York Times bestselling success of Defending Jacob, William Landay wrote this widely acclaimed second novel of crime and suspense, which was named a Favorite Crime Novel of the Year by the Los Angeles Times and several other newspapers. Boston, 1963. Meet the charming, brawling Daley brothers. Joe is a cop whose gambling habits have dragged him down into the city’s underworld. Michael is a lawyer, always the smartest man in the room. And Ricky is the youngest son, a prince of thieves whose latest heist may be his last. For the Daleys, crime is the family business—they’re simply on different sides of it. Then a killer, a man who hunts women with brutal efficiency and no sign of stopping, strikes too close to the Daley home. The brothers unite to find the Strangler, a journey that leads to the darkest corners of Boston—and exposes an even deeper mystery that threatens to tear the family apart.”
I chuckled at this quote from the book. Exactly what I had just said to Diana when recommending “Kind of Blue” as an album to send Alicia:
“Kat bobbed her head to the strolling rhythm. “You like it?” “I don’t know. Maybe.” “It’s Miles Davis.” “I know who he is!” “Here take it.” Ricky got the dust jacket and offered it to her. The record was “Kind of Blue”. “Keep it. It gets better the more you listen to it.””
And another interesting passage that also includes Miles:
“It was a limitation of human consciousness. We live only in the future and the past, we cannot perceive now. Now occupies no space, a hypothetical gap between future and past. Only an exceptional few could feel now, athletes and jazzmen and, yes, thieves like Ricky Daley, and even for them the sensation was fleeting, limited to the instant of creative action. Cousy knew the feeling; Miles Davis too. The boundless improvisational moment.”
I’m looking forward to the conclusion.
I’ve been reminiscing about Austin this week by listening to the local Sun radio station. They played this excellent new song by Rob Baird. I’m interested to know who produced this for him as it’s quite a departure from his previous sound.
The Sun radio host went on a bit of Django Reinhart kick and I found these two interesting versions of his tune “Nuages”:
And finally, here’s one from a band with such a great sound that I don’t listen to often enough:
I’m off to try to replace those porch bulbs again, jump on the elliptical for a while, and then settle in for the final day of the NFL playoffs.