“Brrr!”
Diana’s week started again with 8am pickleball, and again it was cold and early. She cooked up the oysters from Frank on Monday afternoon – I had suggested using a muffin pan and Diana found a recipe that was designed for that – lots of garlic, butter, parmesan and a little spinach make most things taste good. These were delicious.

The Tuesday pickleball clinic happened as usual. This week I met Diana at Aroma for lunch. This is a nearby Indian restaurant that I enjoy. The flavours are so well done. We shared a couple of appetizers – Gobi Manchurian (Gobi are cauliflower florets and the Manchurian has garlic, ginger, chilies, onions, and peppers) and vegetable pakora (not my favourite version of this), and then a yummy butter chicken and butter garlic naan. I need to visit this place more often.

I am enjoying this routine of visiting a walking distance restaurant after Tuesday pickleball. I have a few more ideas queued up.
The Tuesday puzzle made me smile – there was a Topsy Turvy land book that I enjoyed as a kid that I remember well.

A similarly clued answer on Wednesday made me smile as I remembered my turtle attacked by snails joke:

Oops – I skipped ahead with that Wednesday puzzle update. I did not make it to trivia on Tuesday evening, and the small team still pulled off a win. Kudos to Kenny for driving to a zero point wager on the final question when he realized the team didn’t know the answer – we have a bad habit of betting the full twenty points when we’re not sure and dropping quickly down the rankings with the lost points.
I drove Diana over to yoga on Wednesday morning and took a lap around the park. In the afternoon, we made the long (18 minutes of so) drive over to Jefferson hospital for Diana to meet with the orthopedic folks. Her back is hurting again in a different place. She’ll have an MRI after Mardi Gras and we’ll take it from there – a frustratingly slow process.
Diana decided on another pickleball session on Thursday morning – it’s chilly outside and this allows her to get some exercise and fun inside. She met me at the HiVolt coffee shop afterwards and we shared a root veggie bowl – very tasty and filling. I really like this painting that they have in there:

And I continue to be so thankful for all these independent coffee shops that I can walk to, serving good drinks and food.
After lunch, Diana drove over to her annual eye exam (all good- no new lenses required) and then stopped in to try and pick up the ring that she was having resized. The ring was too big and then she got trapped in the jeweler parking lot due to a Jaguar with an issue that required a tow -unreliable British cars at the core.
As I was leaving HiVolt for the walk back home, I got a call from Steve Washwell. I worked with him more than 25 years ago at EDS in Silicon Valley, and we share the same birthday. I hear from him every few years, and we always have an entertaining catchup. Having walked past “Down the Hatch” a few times on my way to HiVolt, I decided to give this divey looking bar a try as a place to relax and catch up with Washwell. A very relaxing and quiet patio out back was perfect for my catchup. Steve didn’t know we had moved to New Orleans and was excited to hear the details of that. He has a bucket list desire to attend the Bacchus Ball and I just might have a contact that could make that happen for him.

I mentioned to Kenny that I enjoyed my visit and saw some good looking burgers that folks were having for lunch. We should put it on our list.
He took my up on that for Friday lunch. I walked over to French Truck for my relaxing morning coffee in the morning, while Diana was at pickleball again. The trio behind the counter were quite annoying – entitled youth cutting up and doing that explosive laughing thing. Not what I wanted to accompany my relaxing coffee. I committed to wait five minutes before telling them to sssshh. Fortunately they got busy and didn’t have time for their nonsense for a little while. I know Diana would be proud of my restraint.
The burger that I split with Kenny at Down the Hatch was very good, and we had a nice visit. A new local place to put on our rotation for a casual lunch and drink with a good patio.
Meanwhile, the little monsters were taking part in the Friday protest about ICE and their tactics:

Saturday was our coldest so far, and of course Nina’s move in day. I suppose cold temperatures are better than brutally hot for moving? We usually like to watch Krewe de Vieux (the most irreverent of our parades and the most politically hard hitting) in the Marigny on Saturday night – this year it was just too cold for that.

My book this week was “The Life Impossible” by Matt Haig. I thought the idea of a retired math teacher running around Ibiza sounded entertaining. I recommend the book, although it quickly becomes necessary to suspend disbelief to enjoy.
“When retired math teacher Grace Winters is left a run-down house on a Mediterranean island by a long-lost friend, curiosity gets the better of her. She arrives in Ibiza with a one-way ticket, no guidebook and no plan.
Among the rugged hills and golden beaches of the island, Grace searches for answers about her friend’s life, and how it ended. What she uncovers is stranger than she could have dreamed. But to dive into this impossible truth, Grace must first come to terms with her past.
Filled with wonder and wild adventure, this is a story of hope and the life-changing power of a new beginning.”
Here’s a quick overview of how Grace is feeling at the start of the tale:
“And I did feel it. It wasn’t pleasant, but it was something. The truth was that I hadn’t really felt much for years. Just a vague lingering sadness. Anhedonia. Do you know that word? The inability to feel pleasure. An unfeeling. Well, that had been me for some time. I have known depression, and it wasn’t that. It didn’t have the intensity of depression. It was just a lack. I was just existing. Food was just there to fill me up. Music had become nothing more than patterned noise. I was simply, you know, there. You should be able to feel something.”
This Nana Mouskouri reference made me smile. Hadn’t thought of her since Dad used to play her records. Could picture her with those big glasses.
“I remember her as a very beautiful and shy young woman, with an air of glamour, which was a rarer quality back in 1979 than it is now. She had a heavy fringe and long dark hair and wore beads. She reminded me of the singer Nana Mouskouri, but without the glasses.”
Grace explains her love for mathematics:
“Maybe that is why I loved mathematics. To properly know mathematics is to know the only thing that can be assuredly known. Politics and sociology and history and psychology have facts you have to interpret. But in mathematics facts are just facts. There is no arguing. There is no left-wing or right-wing algebra. There is no sin in geometry and no guilt in trigonometry. Mathematics is the purity of peace. Except, of course, it is also as mysterious and enigmatic as the whole of life, and expecting it–or anything–to conform to what I wanted it to be was a mistake. And that is the most devastating thing of all. When the logical world we have sought out crumbles to dust in front of our eyes.”
I love the use of Easter Island here:
“I thought he was trying to shock me. So, despite my anxiety in that moment, I kept my face as still and strong as an Easter Island statue and gave him not even a flicker of the prudery he was probably expecting.”
A tour of all the different kinds of folks inhabiting Ibiza:
“There were so many Ibizas, I realised. There was the family holiday go-karting, horse-riding kind of Ibiza. The party Ibiza. The hippy Ibiza. The spa hotel Ibiza. The scuba diving and beachy Ibiza. There was the expensive, yachty, Michelin-starred Ibiza. The Leonardo DiCaprio Ibiza. The nature trail, star-gazing Ibiza. The traditional Ibiza of folk dances and villages and festivals and churches and old customs. And then of course there was the local, lived, contemporary Ibiza I had caught glimpses of in supermarkets and cafés and amid the dog walkers beside the road. There was seemingly an Ibiza for everyone, except lonely grieving widows.”
Another great simile:
“It was a rickety, creaky old wooden dive boat with an even more rickety engine that stopped and started like a dog growling at a mischievous squirrel.”
Venn diagram – a nice maths reference:
“Her accent was strange. Somewhere in the Venn diagram overlap between American and English and Dutch and Spanish and nowhere at all.”
I like this creche and abandoned toddler quote:
“He was quite young. Under forty. But then, everyone was quite young. (When you hit your seventies the whole world is basically one big crèche and everyone in it an abandoned toddler.) It wasn’t the clothes or hair or face or youthfulness that interested me.”
The Barry White of marine mammals:
“But this whale uses a very unusual high frequency to make his calls. Fifty-two hertz. It is the world’s loneliest whale because no other whale understands calls at that frequency. It is a blue whale, and blue whales are much lower. Blue whales are the Barry White of marine mammals. Deep, deep, deep. So the poor high-pitched creature has to swim through the ocean all alone, finding it impossible to make friends and with no one to hear his call.”
A great description of a Cure song:
“‘Listen. It is called “The Last Day Of Summer”. It is by The Cure. I wasn’t really the goth era. I was the Rolling Stones era. I was protest music. Soul and Dylan and Joan Baez and Sam Cooke and Gil Scott-Heron. Imagine me in eyeliner! But I’ve always tried to keep my mind open to later music. It is such a beautiful song. Julia–my wife–she loved The Cure. We saw them at the Palau Sant Jordi in Barcelona. She liked this song a lot too. It is so underrated. It is a bit sad and not my normal thing. But listen. Listen to those guitars, how they create shapes, like a forest. Then his voice comes in and it is as natural as a shadow.’ He paused. ‘This song is exquisite.’”

I’ve spent some time with the Black Keys album “Ohio Players” (a gift from Carolyn) over the last few weeks. It’s very good – not a bad track on the whole thing.
A trip into “A Case of You” yielded some great finds. I had been listening to the Joni Mitchell live album “Shadows and Light” and loved the version of this song. Jaco on bass, Pat Metheny on guitar, the Brecker Brothers on brass – what could go wrong. Here are a few great versions:
Are you in an open minded and somewhat experimental mood now? If not, skip the next option. This is an album that showed up on the 5 favourite albums from Spin magazine – the target this week was Nick Mason, drummer for Pink Floyd. He had two albums that I enjoy – “Halcyon Days” from Bruce Hornsby and “Jack Johnson” by Miles Davis (a huge boxing fan.)
Sly Dunbar passed this week. One half of the legendary “Sly and Robbie” rhythm section, I first heard on Black Uhuru records from the 80s. And then heard everywhere on those records record at Nassau studios – Joe Cocker, the Rolling Stones, Bob Marley, Sinead O’Connor etc etc etc.
Slow learner – she had pickleball again on Tuesday morning – this time not until 11am though. Diana met me for lunch at Juan’s Flying Burrito after pickleball. We snoozed until the meal was almost over before realizing that this was our official inspection prior to Tim’s visit in a few weeks, hence the almost empty plates and drinks – he really loves Juan’s.















After the challenges last week, 3 books started and ditched, I found an ok, and I mean just “ok” book. I read “The Irish Goodbye” this week and enjoyed it all right. Especially after all those that I started and couldn’t’ finish. The online plot summary:

The inauguration for our new mayor, Helena Moreno, was televised on Monday morning. We were pleased to see our New Year’s Eve party guest, River Eckert, kicking off the ceremony with Trombone Shorty. They did a great job on “Sunny Side of the Street:”
While Kara and family were in Mexico City, Diana had volunteered to help make some bracelets for the upcoming parade. Kara, Nina, and Debra walk in the Intergalactic Krewe of Chewbacchus (IKOC – you can see the letters on the bracelets) which rolls on January 24th. They walk in the Wonder Woman group – hence the “WW” on the bracelets. Attempts have been made to recruit Diana and I have advised her that I don’t think she would be able to stand the waiting around for the parade to start and the other delays. And it could be chilly for a Wonder Woman outfit.

Billy finished up the post repair on Friday afternoon. It’s good to know we’re back to having good structural integrity- I hate to think what would have happened if I hadn’t noticed or we had been out of town for a while.







I had the hardest time finding a book to read this week. I started “Queen Esther” by John Irving, got 50 or more pages in and decided it wasn’t for me. Irving’s books are never fast paced page turners, but this one was exceptionally plodding and with subject matter that really didn’t capture my interest.
Next, I tried “Marriage at Sea” by Sophie Elmhirst. This was a little better but again became really slow in the middle section. I gave up on this one too. The critics and President Obama don’t see it the same as I do.
Maybe I just wasn’t in the right mood for reading. I don’t remember not finishing two in a row ever. Onto the third option, “The Vaster Wilds” by Lauren Groff. One of my favourite writers, I’ve enjoyed everything that I’ve read from Groff.
I chose “Three Days in June”, a story about a mother and her ex-husband during their daughters wedding weekend. Excellent characters, plenty of humour and the precision of the dialogue and the observations. Always a good choice.
Bob Weir of the Grateful Dead passed away over the weekend. I have enjoyed his music with Ratdog and Dead and Company for many years.
There was an interesting little coffee shop next to Bright Eyes Optique. I decided to venture in and check it out. Petite Rouge provided me with a robust Americano and a tasty egg on brioche sandwich – another in the collection of excellent locally owned coffee shops all around New Orleans. Here’s some interesting history – started as a little Citroen truck:


“What animal’s milk is used to make Mozzarella di Bufala?” Denny said “Water Buffalo!” The rest of the group said “Cow.” We went with cow and of course Denny was right. As Kenny said, “The answer was in the question.”
“What Hemingway book recounts his experiences during the Spanish civil war?” Several of us said “A Farewell to Arms.” Thom said “For Whom the Bell Tolls.” Thom was correct and every team, including us, went with the other choice. Thom is actually reading the book just now. We need to listen better.
“Which country has three capital cities?” Kenny felt strongly that it was South Africa – he had heard it recently. Thom travels to South Africa regularly and vehemently disagreed. He wasn’t able to provide an alternative and so South Africa was submitted – and correct. Kenny was the MVP.


Billy was over to continue working on the load bearing post on Friday. He had a helper with him and they hammered away for several hours. They left us in the evening with the original post back in place and looking pretty square and straight.







The second half of “The Correspondents” certainly got heavier than the first, particularly the last few chapters. I really should have seen them coming, but was still caught by surprise. Here are a few sections that I highlighted:














We agreed not to exchange any big gifts this year and opened our stockings before heading out for a fancy Christmas lunch. One stuffer that I’ve been particularly enjoying is the “Whomp Whomp trombone”:













I finished “Holy City” by Henry Wise. This won the Edgar award for best debut novel. What’s wrong with the Edgar panel? This dragged slowly after the initial chapters, with confusing and underdeveloped characters (and way too many of them to keep track of) and a completely unbelievable plot line. Not recommended!


















I joined the guys at Bruno’s to watch Tulane and Ole Miss on Saturday afternoon. I had never been to this bar before, and apparently it’s been the site of a couple of stories for the krewe over the years, and has been in business since 1934. The place wasn’t too crazily busy since the game was being played in Mississippi and most of the Tulane kids were home for the holidays.







I had read about something called the Greenway SuperNova close to Cafe Degas. We navigated over to explore. I had expected some illuminated art installations along the Lafitte Greenway and that wasn’t really what it was. It seemed more like an art market with some great food booths and music stages. The evening was getting chilly and so we had a quick walk through and called it an early night.


We picked Chickie up at the Four Seasons (he was slumming), or I should say we tried to – his massage was running long. Tough life… We ultimately met up at Elizabeth’s for a yummy brunch.
















Kenny and Kara invited us to join them to watch a film by a friend that was playing at the Black Film Festival. The event was headquartered at Cafe Istanbul which is in the community center on St Claude Avenue.

I really like this venue. It has space for 10 or 12 pop-up style restaurants and a great bar. I was wandering around looking for some snacks for us while the other 3 settled in at the bar. When I got there, Diana was in a conversation with the bartender. He hails from the English Midlands and has an extremely strong accent. I was amazed at Diana’s ability to carry on a conversation – she’s come a long way since Ian Fanning from Linlithgow. The bartender was a very nice gentleman, recently a U.S. citizen, and interested to talk to me about what I missed from Scotland as compared to New Orleans and about the process to obtain citizenship. He shared a single malt Welsh whisky with me – and it was very smooth.

I forgot to mention that before all those festivities took place, I was enlisted to help install the latest blow up holiday nonsense – a polar bear with penguins – hanging off the front porch. Sitting on top of that hedge doesn’t look comfortable to me.





I finished “Flesh” by David Szalay this week. I can appreciate the sparse writing style that led to this winning the Booker prize. At the same time, that’s really not my preference. I felt as if we jumped through things way too quickly without smooth transitions. Here’s some online review thoughts:







I continued with the two books I started last week. The first was “Licks of Love” by John Updike. Not at the level of his prime “Rabbit” and other work, but still a great read.