“And Then There Were Three”
Finn and I enjoyed a couple of TV shows on Sunday evening after I posted last week. We watched the Golden Globe Awards show intermittently – it’s just so long. Finn chuckled as I was able to guess the winners in a number of categories in a row. I could probably make some money on that. I was amazed at the video appearance from Norman Lear at 99 years old. He looks and sounds fantastic. What a ground-breaking body of work he created over the years!
We also watched Stanley Tucci’s “Searching for Italy” on CNN. I really enjoy this show and the energy that Tucci brings to his culinary (love the way he says it – coooolinary) adventures. The highlight this week was the great prosciutto scandal uncovered a few years back. Italy has so many very old laws governing how meets, cheeses, olive oil, pizza and the like are to be produced if they want to earn the official stamp. “Illegal” prosciutto was rampant a few years ago.
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Finn flew back to Dallas with us on Monday afternoon. He thoroughly enjoyed hanging out at the Admiral’s Club in San Francisco airport, and enjoying the snacks and food (custom made avocado toast) available in the comfy environment. The flight was smooth and on time with Finn’s checked bags rolling off before Diana could retrieve the car from the other terminal.
We took Finn out for a run with us on Tuesday. It had been several weeks since we last ran – using the snow and ice storm and bitter temperatures as an excuse – and we paid the price for sure. I dropped back a week in Couch to 5K and repeated a week 4 run – still had sore legs on Wednesday. Diana got a big kick out of coming up behind us and observing the similar gait and way we swing our arms (that was before she sped past us). I was just looking at a physical fitness test Finn did at school in 2004 and he ran an 8:40 mile and did 75 sit ups. Pretty impressive.


I dragged Finn to Market Street to stock up on groceries in the afternoon. We did a good job of finding everything on D’s list between us. He was quite impressed with the variety and quality of things available. I thought we bought enough to see us through the weekend but wasn’t planning on the healthy appetite that he brought along.
Thursday started with a big milestone – I received my first dose of the Pfizer COVID vaccine. The process was very efficient and I didn’t appear to suffer any big side-effects – just a wee bit of dizziness in the afternoon.
I was entertained by the huge Cowboys pictures on the wall as we lined up for the process. Jason Witten is still one of my favourites:

I just received my renewed passport (no European mention and back to the pre-EU blue colour) on Monday and so, coupled with the vaccine, should be ready to travel again in a month or two.
The three of us went for another run when I got back home. I decided to attempt Week 5 Day 1 even though my legs were still quite sore from Tuesday. Finn was a real trooper and did it as well. I was totally worn out after that, but did convince Finn to take on a crepe myrtle trimming project. Doesn’t he look like he’s having an absolute blast with the project. He did a great job on 3 trees and then had to attack the cleanup – always the last fun part.
I was the featured presenter on our work Town Hall on Thursday afternoon. We typically start out with “something you might not know about me”, and I talked about the Escape from Alcatraz swim. It’s been years since I did that but people still like the story – I remember how nervous my Mum was, wanting me to call and tell her I had survived.

The swim was 30 seconds worth of over 10 minutes of content that I shared, but that’s all people want to talk about. So much for all the great things we’re doing in Information Technology.
Finn has been enjoying working on his Pokémon art – adding another sketch every day or so. It’s really nice to see him focused and enjoying creating the art.

These characters are part of the “anime” genre which of course was featured in the NYT puzzle this week. Interestingly with Dragon Ball Z which is a t-shirt Finn was wearing when he explained all about it to Alicia last week.

We watched the Disney movie “Soul” on Friday night. What an excellent film. So very creative and clever all around. All three of us loved it. The music is excellent, the “Half Note” music club a good facsimile of The Village Vanguard where Diana and I have enjoyed such world class music, the main character (Joe) and 22 with such great messages about life. The animation of the leaders (Jerrys and Terry) in the Soul waiting area so wonderfully done – particularly when Terry makes it down to earth to try and retrieve Joe and 22. Highly, highly recommended.
Saturday started with all of us getting different forms of exercise – Finn and I went to 24 Hour Fitness where he had a back and bicep workout while I swam, and Diana went for a run and catchup chat session with Amy.
After that we were ready for lunch and enjoyed Cuban food from Guava in downtown McKinney. The Cubano sandwiches and plantain chips were great and Finn liked his Cuban pineapple soda. We followed that up with coffee at Filtered and a wander around downtown – there’s a new record store where I spent a few happy minutes.


We made a stop at Michael’s for art supplies so that Finn can continue his Pokémon drawings, and Diana picked up some paint and supplies at Home Depot so that Finn can start his next work project – touching up the paint in a few rooms and staircases.
Raya and the Last Dragon was our entertainment on Saturday night. Both Finn and I fell asleep less than halfway through – not as much a reflection on the movie as on our early start and busy day. We’ll have to finish that another evening.
Sunday was a reasonably leisurely day, as it should be. I went for a run, dropped Finn at 24 hour fitness, and Diana had a workout with Amy. We made a visit to Floor & Decor (a massive tile and flooring store) in the afternoon to continue to hone in on tile for the kitchen remodel. Wasn’t too bad of an experience and we found several new options for the Designer Twins to take on board.
This t-shirt entertained me – such a great message for the majority of Americans as we approach St. Patrick’s day:


I finished up “The Moth and the Mountain” by Ed Caesar. The adventure story should have been very compelling but I really struggled to stay engaged. Caesar is a reporter for the New Yorker magazine and the book felt more like a very detailed research article than an exciting story of flying around the world and attempting to climb Everest. Too much about Maurice’s letters to friends in England than real story telling.
I do have to correct an error from my previous post on this book – the plane flown from England to Everest is a Gypsy Moth and not a Sopwith Camel. The journey completed by Wilson is hugely impressive – particularly for someone who had just completed basic flying lessons a few months earlier:
“Wilson planned to be in Africa by the following evening. He set off in the morning for Naples, along the west coast of southern Italy. There he refueled, ate an early lunch, and took off for Sicily. It was perhaps the most beautiful leg of the journey so far. As he gained altitude, Mount Vesuvius bubbled on his port side, the island of Capri passed beneath him, and the whole, gorgeous, craggy Amalfi Coast, with its seaside towns built madly into the steep hills, disappeared behind his left wingtip. Soon, the Tyrrhenian Sea, sparkling blue and white, was all that lay ahead.”

On the final pages of the book, Caesar talks about Sir Edmund Hillary’s successful ascent of Everest in 1953 as a good present for Elizabeth awaiting coronation. That was the last straw for me – for some reason I was convinced both of those events happened in 1952. A quick Google search had me calmed down again.
Alicia sent me this picture of Grammie reading “The Paris Library” book that I left with her – her caption was “a very intense chapter.”

I barely started “A Promised Land” by Barack Obama today. This will likely take me several weeks to finish – 700 pages of very small print. I’m enjoying the writing style and stories so far. Very straight forward and honest.
“As I sit here, the country remains in the grips of a global pandemic and the accompanying economic crisis, with more than 178,000 Americans dead, businesses shuttered, and million of people out of work. Across the nation, people from all walks of life have poured into the streets to protest the deaths of unarmed Black men and women at the hands of the police. Perhaps most troubling of all, our democracy seems to be teetering on the brink of crisis – a crisis rooted in a fundamental contest between two opposing visions of what America is and what is should be, a crisis that has left the body politic divided, angry, and mistrustful, and has allowed for an ongoing breach of institutional norms, procedural safeguards, and the adherence to basic facts that both parties once took for granted.”
Here’s some of the honest writing that I referenced:
“What I don’t mention is my dark mood on that flight back. I was almost forty, broke, coming off a humiliating defeat and with my marriage strained. I felt for perhaps the first time in my life that I had taken a wrong turn; that whatever reservoirs of energy and optimism I thought I had, whatever potential I’d always banked on, had been used up on a fool’s errand. Worse, I recognized that in running for Congress I’d been driven not by some selfless dream of changing the world, but rather by the need to justify the choices I had already made, or to satisfy my ego, or to quell my envy of those who had achieved what I had not.
In other words, I had become the very things that, as a younger man, I had warned myself against. I had become a politician – and not a very good one at that.”

Here’s some great jazz from the “Soul” movie by New Orleanian Jon Batiste:
I heard this Rolling Stones song and was intrigued by the slide guitar – really didn’t sound like Keith. I wondered if it was Mick Taylor and research proved me right. Sounds a lot like “Moonlight Mile”, one of my favourites.
How much is Bonnie Raitt trying to sound like Joni Mitchell on this song? So different from the sound that made her so popular.
I really liked this guitar sound from Phil Cook. Having never heard of Cook, I did a quick Google search and found he plays with Bon Iver and Hiss Golden Messenger – two great artists. He sounds a lot like David Lindley on the classic Jackson Browne albums to me.
Do you know a song by The Who that features ukulele and an English brass band with no other instruments? It really does exist. Liner notes say John Entwistle (bass player) played all the brass, but it’s such a great brass band sound that I have some serious doubts.
Stay safe, calm and patient with everyone. The end is getting so much closer.




Finn and I checked into an Airbnb house in San Mateo (about 10 minutes from Will’s apartment) that I had rented for us for the week. The place was great – comfy with lots of space, good wifi, and just as advertised. We enjoyed the care package of a host of great Trader Joe’s snacks that Alicia had put together for us.


We started Saturday with a trip over to Pacifica to meet Alicia and Diana at Soul Grind for coffee and breakfast. Finn thought his Vietnamese coffee and ham and burrata quiche were the best he’d tasted. We walked along the beach path after breakfast and enjoyed the great weather.
week was picked up at Target on the way back to the Airbnb. We also picked up a meal kit and cooked up some delicious lemon zest burrata raviolis with shredded chicken and pesto sauce – it turned out really well as we improvised a bit with the kitchenware we had available.





Ferlinghetti also founded the famous City Lights bookstore in the North Beach (Italian) section of San Francisco. I’ve always enjoyed browsing there and find their recommendations very helpful.
I read “The Paris Library” by Janet Skeslien Charles and am a bit nervous to say that I’m really enjoying it. Why nervous? – it reads a bit like a girly romance novel – but I’m ok with some of that while I enjoy the descriptions of Paris and what sounds like an amazing institution – The American Library in Paris (ALP).

It seems just completely crazy that we were able to drive almost 5,000 miles over the last few weeks. How did we do that? One long day at a time. Monday: Las Vegas to Albuquerque. Tuesday: Albuquerque to McKinney. Wednesday: “Rest Day”. Thursday: McKinney to New Orleans. Sunday: New Orleans to McKinney (and the reason this post is late again).
Driving to NOLA on New Year’s Eve was a bit more work. Things started badly with pouring rain and multiple accidents and lane closures before we ever left Dallas. There were some brief respites but I was mostly driving in rain and truck spray all day. It was lovely to see Denny and Anne on arrival and they really spoiled us with some yummy snacks – an amazing cheese board, crab fingers from Tableaux, and some amazing Denny oyster and sauce combinations.


We did manage to stay awake to usher in the New Year but were asleep in the wonderful guest cottage soon after.





I have nothing much to report on the reading front this week – too much time behind the wheel and enjoying friends. We did listen to “The Last Days of John Lennon” by James Patterson on the drive. This is mostly a very detailed and interesting history of Lennon and the Beatles, with small sections interspersed about Mark Chapman planning his assassination. I would recommend this to anyone looking to learn more about the Beatles and their interactions over the years.








Marco and kids arrived on Thursday afternoon to exchange gifts with Alicia before she left early on Friday to spend Christmas day with her Dad and brothers. Alicia’s gift to Marco was a Dopp kit (toilet bag where I’m from) that was hilariously filled with tiny bottles of different liquors. “Dopp” is such a weird word for a toilet bag that I did some research: the name derives from the early 20th century leather craftsman Charles Doppelt, whose company designed the case in 1926.



That seemed like an awful lot of scallops but only two were left after dinner. Adamo did a great job of cooking up all the fishes and then Alicia was a huge help with the clean up. Alicia and Diana exhibited some superior team work putting together the requisite meat and cheese platter.
Christmas Day started with a photo shoot so that we had some pictures of Diana and Alicia together. I think I did a passable job as the official photographer. We had to start early as the angry red sunrise foretold bad weather coming.


Next was a visit to Adamo’s home to exchange gifts. Amy and Adamo were so excited about their gift for us – they adopted a penguin in our names from the World Wildlife Fund. Amy was jumping up and down and so excited. Frankie was very gentle with the new adoptee – subsequently named Parker.




I finally finished reading “Utopia Avenue” by David Mitchell this week. I really enjoyed parts of the book and found other parts just silly and a bit nonsensical.
the crossing. I continue to turn into a “grumpy old man” – night driving with oncoming traffic not separated by a median is getting pretty difficult. I struggle to see where I’m going with the oncoming glare. So, the Pacheco Pass at night wasn’t really much fun. It’s very twisty and ill lit. That whining aside, we arrived at the hotel in Pacifica around 9pm. 1,950 miles in the books. I should have about 10 days now with no lengthy drives.
Once in our hotel room, Diana went on a mission to install the Amazon Firestick so that we could watch all our normal TV and streaming shows. She was so tired that it was easy to see her brain working but not easy to interpret what was (or wasn’t) being said. Problem one was that in order to connect to the hotel WiFi one needed to check the “Accept Terms and Conditions” box, but the remote wouldn’t go to the box. An hour later Diana noticed the “cursor mode” option and that problem was solved. Problem two – the firestick was installed and working fine but the remote wouldn’t control the TV volume and power, even after a bunch of fancy settings updates by McD. I looked at some YouTube videos of how to fix the issue and tried a number of things. An hour later, Diana finally gave up and sat down at her computer. I decided to try the regular TV remote that we had thought only controlled the Dish satellite system. Whaddaya know? Controlled volume perfectly. Two hours lost, but all TV and streaming options fully installed for our hotel stay. I wish I had some of that escapade on video. Funnily enough the firestick remote started controlling the volume just fine the next day with no changes.
After that interesting activity we were ready for some lunch. I spotted the City Kebabs and Gyros shop as we approached a traffic light and we decided to give it a try. The Mediterranean food was delicious with all my favourites – humus, falafels, dolmas, chicken and lamb. We were able to eat at the little table outside – one day before even patio dining was shut down.
We met Will and Christine for dinner at Town in San Carlos on Tuesday evening. The street was closed off and the restaurants had made some big investments in building outdoor dining. We were warm with the heaters and shades even though the temperature was in the forties. It was funny to listen to Diana and Will deciding on which steak and preparation they were going to share. I loved my sea bass and had some leftovers for lunch on Wednesday. It was a real treat to hang out and have a meal with Will and Christine. We had debated which night to meet and it was fortuitous that we chose Tuesday as all onsite dining shut down in California on Wednesday.


Diana chose to start her birthday with a run – and conquered the zig-zag path up the hill – most impressive. She had texted a picture to Marco (the ultra-marathoner) and asked if he thought she could do it. He coached her to stand up straight and take little strides – seemed to work. After her run we did another walk over for coffee and then enjoyed a sandwich from Dinosaur’s – such great Vietnamese sandwiches on yummy bread.



Those are lobsters that he caught diving and they were delicious. While the cooking was underway, Diana was reviewing her hand made cards from the boys.

We listened to the Ann Cleeves book “Raven Black” on the second section of our drive. This is the first in the Shetland series – I read the 4th “Blue Lighting” a year or two ago, a gift from Mum and Dad and enjoyed it. This one was a tad formulaic with the introduction and exploration of all potential guilty parties and Diana and I enjoyed trying to figure out who we thought were the leading contenders. Neither one of us was close.

The reprise of the road trip to California was scheduled to begin early on Friday morning and so we exchanged some gifts from under the tree on Thursday evening. I’m always so impressed with Diana’s wrapping skills. She got a special edition book of Winnie the Pooh stories and is looking forward to me reading bedtime stories from it. I’m working on the voices – it seems like everyone sounds a bit like Eeyore.
Saturday began with a walk across the hotel parking lot to the Marigold Café, a new place since our last trip. It combines Indian and American foods with New Mexico influences in creative ways. For example, my breakfast taco was served in fresh naan bread rather than a tortilla and included some delicious green chilis. Diana’s avocado toast was also excellent and she raved about the bacon. I’d like to return and sample the tikka mac ‘n cheese.

After checking into the lovely, historic La Fonda hotel, we walked over to Canyon Road and had a ramble past all the art galleries and sculpture gardens that line the street. I really enjoyed these wind machines – so creative and attention grabbing.
We walked back to the square and then enjoyed coffee and a slice of quiche at the hotel. I was interested to see the red chilis hung as ornaments on the square. Here’s the view from our hotel room balcony. The cathedral bells are quite loud. Fortunately the Trump rally (no masks in sight) in front of the cathedral cleared out quickly.
Why did we take the time to detour up to Santa Fe on an already long road trip you ask? Very solid question. Our friends Amy and Ray were getting married on Saturday evening at the La Fonda hotel. We hadn’t planned on attending but couldn’t say no after Amy heard we were just going to be an hour away in Albuquerque. Here’s Diana dressed up for the wedding with the favour that Amy left at the front desk – red chili peppers.






We loaded up and headed out early on Sunday morning – destination Las Vegas – a mere 8 hours of driving away. On the road by 8am and we should be relaxing at the lovely Aria hotel on the Vegas strip by 6pm or so. All was smooth with some slow initial going on the snow in Santa Fe and the pace picking up when we merged onto the interstate down to Albuquerque. And then everything changed – and not for the better. There were multiple semi-truck accidents on I40 – we sat stopped on the highway amidst all the trucks for 2 hours straight at one point.



After our quick dinner, we walked down the strip to Bellagio and watched the fountain show with Christmas music. Always such an impressive sight. On the way we passed through a new and extremely upscale mall called “Crystals” something or other. We were amazed at this tree where each ornament was one of the Swarovski crystal special editions – I hate to think how much it cost to decorate that tree.

Passing the smaller Eiffel tower at Paris hotel reminded us of a wonderful dinner we enjoyed there and of the very special 50th birthday dinner that we enjoyed with Mum and Dad at the real version in the real Paris.
After a busy Thanksgiving weekend, this week was very quiet with our only real outing to downtown McKinney for coffee today. Diana took my picture with the Xmas display outside the coffee shop. Not quite a Christmas card since Diana and BP didn’t make it in.

She said several times that the grilled lobsters were perfectly cooked. A nicely cooked sea bass makes me happy. So we were both very happy with our meals – and had plenty of leftovers for a late dinner. I laughed when we checked in on the chaos at Amy and Adamo’s home and heard that Adamo had said, “maybe we can go out for lobster on Thanksgiving twenty years from now.”
After Peche, we walked across the street to the Parker Jazz Club (capacity reduced from over 100 to 30) and enjoyed our first live music in 9 months with 12 other folks. Kris and the team are trying really hard to keep the place going with very limited seating weekend shows and live-streaming. The house band was excellent as always – although the new drummer over plays too much for my liking. Kris might have played almost all of his 8 or 9 instruments – going from bass flute to multiple saxophones and a flugelhorn.
Brunch was at the Odd Duck – one of my top three Austin brunch spots. The shrimp and grits with a perfectly cooked deep fried egg were fabulous, as was the ceviche with green curry sauce. It’s always so hard to choose from all the options – and the menu is new every time we go. Diana loved their take on the Paloma cocktail. I’m now expected to try and replicate that – oops, maybe she’d forgotten already and I just reminded her.
Sunday was a dry day and so we were able to execute a 4 mile circuit around the river trail, culminating with another snack at TacoDeli. Then another excellent brunch at Suerte – my top ranked Mexican restaurant. The masa that they make all the corn tortillas and tostadas from is ridiculously good. Diana had a smoked salmon tostada and I tried the bacon and sweet potato tetela (like a corn based pie with bacon and sweet potato puree inside). They were both perfect – particularly the mornay sauce, which I learned is a classic béchamel sauce enriched with a blend of Gruyère and Parmesan cheeses. We have really missed the creative food that is so readily available in Austin. And the great live music.



After brunch we met our friend Neffie at Fixe – a new place she introduced us to that specializes in southern comfort food – supposedly the best biscuits (scones) in Austin.
We passed this sign on the walk to Fixe – so nice to be able to walk everywhere again. My Mum had just been telling us the story of the Battle of Bannockburn where the English tried to sneak up on the Scots at night, taking their boots off for stealth, but were foiled by the thistles that made them yelp and awake the sleeping Scots. And like a responsible Scotsman who payed attention in History class, I do indeed remember that happened in 1314.

When I left you last Sunday, we were sporting our “Flu Fighter” band-aids. Diana added her “I Voted” sticker in the afternoon and reported that the line to vote at the fire station was short when she arrived a few minutes before the early voting opened.






Andy and Jude (Clorinda’s wonderful neighbours) won the most creative card award. This is a picture of Clorinda and accompanist from around 60 years ago. Andy made a mask for the accompanist from the same material as her dress – very nice detailed work.
I think Clorinda enjoyed sitting talking to and watching her newest grand-daughter, Francesca, more than anything else. She’s such a good and happy baby – Amy certainly deserved that third time around.
Kenny (New Orleans Fire Department Station Chief) recommended “The Cooperating Witness” by Mike Avery, a friend of his who now lives in New Orleans. Interestingly Kenny is currently working on a memoir of his 30 years on the NOFD. I suspect there are going to be some very compelling stories in there, including the months when he lived at the fire house during Hurricane Katrina. Here’s a little bit about Michael Avery from his website:
The other book that I enjoyed this week was “Chinaberry Sidewalks” by Rodney Crowell, a singer songwriter raised in dirt poor conditions in Houston in the 1950s and 60s. I’ve enjoyed his music and the albums he produced for Rosanne Cash and others for several years, and enjoyed his memoir a lot.



We took advantage of New Orleans restaurant week, where many places offer reduced prix fixe meals, for dinner at La Petite Grocery – one of our favourites with consistently good food. I enjoyed crab bisque, Parisian gnocchi, and butterscotch pudding. The pudding has been on their menu for over 10 years for good reason – served like a pot du
creme with excellent flavour. Diana ordered from the regular menu and loved her steak tartare and scallops. Such a nice treat to enjoy a fabulous meal with Denny and Anne.







beach in the morning. On the way back from the beach we all rented bikes at Big Daddy’s for easy transportation to and from the beach (parking was very limited) and then Diana and I made a run to Publix (local grocery store chain) for dinner supplies. We cooked up chicken fajitas on the grills at the expansive common area by the community pool.



The weather cleared up on Sunday and we spent the morning at Goat Feathers beach – I’m not sure that’s the official name but the access is beside the Goat Feathers seafood shop and so that’s what it’s called by the krewe. The sea continued to be very choppy with double red flags indicating nobody should even think about going on. Denny picked up some lovely fresh shrimp there and made an excellent pasta to go with them. He’s such a great cook and makes it look so easy.
Monday was a driving day – from Florida back to New Orleans. We arrived around 3pm and were able to meet up with Kenny and Kara, and later Denny and Anne, for a snack at Val’s, a new Mexican restaurant that is very similar to Suerte in Austin. They server street tacos and other authentic Mexican fare. The elotes (corn on the cob with “fixin’s”) are delicious.








The audio book of “Where the Crawdads Sing” kept us company as we traversed the mountains, mesas, and then wide, flat open spaces to Amarillo. We were most certainly road weary on arrival at the downtown Courtyard – this one is part of the “historic” collection and is a remodeled downtown bank building. It certainly has a lot more character than most. Only in this kind of rural location can you stay in a corner suite with wrap around windows for $102.




My book on the road trip was “All Adults Here” by Emma Straub. This is a very enjoyable ensemble family drama, set in small town Connecticut. Three generations of Stricks play out their lives in quite different fashions, and it’s all very enjoyable and engaging.