“Happy Birthday, Mum”
Diana and Anne enjoyed some fancy pool time at Merry Lee’s pool and cabanas on Monday. I say it’s fancy because of the ability to reserve a luxury cabana with a fridge and TV. I dropped Diana off, Anne joined her shortly thereafter and brought her home later in the day.
Kara invited Diana for oysters at Superior Seafood on Monday. She just wanted to get together before we left town. We’ll only be gone for a week, but very sweet all the same. They had a good time for several hours. Quite the fun Monday for McD.
Kenny, Kara and Diana had a walk and run in the park on Wednesday morning since yoga was cancelled. I finished up work and joined them for a late breakfast at La Boulangerie. This was Diana’s first visit and it’s a long time since I was there – the food and drinks are all very good and it’s nearby. We should visit more often.
The 10:30pm British Airways flight took us to London Heathrow on Wednesday night. We had a long layover and arrived in Stewarton on Thursday evening. I’m always very impressed with the service on the less than an hour flight to Glasgow. We were served drinks, high tea, and coffee all in much less time that it took to get a drink on the long flight from New Orleans. Here’s a view coming into land in Glasgow, including the island of Ailsa Craig where curling stones hail from:

Mum’s birthday was on Friday. The day started with a walk (Keith) and run (Diana) out Kilwinning Road into the country. The views of Ailsa Craig and Arran were excellent. On returning home, Diana complained about the incline and length of the “hills” – not something she’s used to in New Orleans. In the afternoon we ran some errands in Stewarton – “paid the papers”, filled up with petrol, and had a delicious lunch at a local café.
Saturday began with a walk and run on what was hoped to be flatter ground in Lainshaw Woods. Diana reported that the “mountains” killed her on this run. I think her altimeter must be wonky as there were really only a few small inclines. Her sore legs said otherwise.
Mum’s house became very busy on Saturday afternoon. Elspeth, David and Bramble (dog) arrived at almost the same time as Heather, Michael, and Mila (dog), soon to be followed by Struan, Emily, and Bonnie (dog). Nine adults and three dogs in a small living room was quite chaotic. Struan had shorn off almost all of Bonnie’s coat, creating a strange looking dog that really was not happy with him.
We loaded into a couple of cars and headed off to dinner at Seamill Hydro in West Kilbride. Bramble and Bonnie were left behind at Mum’s house – more on that later. Seamill Hydro is a lovely hotel that hosts many weddings (Elspeth and David’s several years ago). The coastal setting with a view over to Arran is beautiful:


We were seated in a quiet area and enjoyed a lovely meal. The Hydro was chosen as it has a robust vegetarian and vegan menu. I had haggis and potato croquettes as my starter and then cauliflower gnocchi (from the veggie menu) for my main – both were quite yummy. Everyone seemed to enjoy their meals and the setting allowed us to have some fun banter and conversation – we even learned about Struan’s new IT job. Several times during the evening I found myself thinking how much Struan’s mannerisms and facial expressions reminded me of Campbell. Elspeth told me they actually think he reminds them of me. Here’s Mum with her surprise birthday desert:

Diana couldn’t resist the pavlova:

After that it was time for some fresh air before the drive home. Here we are with the island of Arran behind us:

On arrival home, we were greeted by the next door neighbours who had responded to the house alarm going off. Apparently the dogs had managed to “escape” the kitchen and trigger the alarm.
David and Elspeth spent the night at Mum’s and we started Sunday with a walk up the road to the Kennedy farm, Meikle Corsehill, with David and Bramble. David was channeling Rex Harrison in his Dr. Doolittle role on the walk:

Bramble didn’t want to be left out:

A dog at Meikle Corsehill was having a good bark at Bramble, causing it’s owner to come out and investigate the disturbance. The owner, Ian, happened to be a previous employee of David’s and they had a good catch up chat. I reminisced about taking in the hay on the farm, feeding the cows in the milking barn, and playing in the hay barn with Willie Kennedy and others.
After the walk we settled in to watch the Wimbledon men’s final – a bit one-sided, although not as much as the score indicated, in my opinion. We enjoyed a yummy lunch and then said goodbye to Elspeth and David, who needed to make the long drive home before it got too late.
What a wonderful couple of days with family!
The ESPN Espy awards ceremony happened during the week. Steve Gleason received the Arthur Ashe courage award and delivered an excellent speech using his computer aided voice. His son, River, joined him onstage for support. Here’s the video:

I had to take a break from “Southern Man” this week as it’s way too heavy for travel. I switched to “All the Colors of the Dark” by Chris Whitaker, which I have online and have almost finished.
Here’s an online summary:
“Late one summer, the town of Monta Clare is shattered by the abduction of teenager Joseph ‘Patch’ Macauley. Nobody more so than Saint Brown, who will risk everything to find her best friend.
But when she does: it will break her heart.
Patch lies alone in a pitch-black room – until he feels a hand in his. Her name is Grace and, though they cannot see each other, she lights their world with her words.
But when he escapes: there is no sign she ever even existed.
Left with only her voice and her name, he paints her from broken memories – and charts an epic search to find her.
As years turn to decades, and hope becomes obsession, Saint will shadow his journey – on a darker path to hunt down the man who took them – and set free the only boy she ever loved.
Even if finding the truth means losing each other forever…”
This has been a very enjoyable book so far, one that I have read in the wee hours when I was suffering from jetlag.
Some passages that I enjoyed:
A unique simile:
“was a steady drip from a leaking faucet, like a metronome that scaled up the tension.”
An interesting new word for me:
“The low hum of a generator buried beneath the baldachin of nature. They’d find him dead. Of course. And they’d catch the guy, but..”
Some other new information to me:
“Days were named after the planets of Hellenistic astrology. Saturn, Sun, and Moon. Saturday, Sunday,… Moonday.”
On the strained relationship between Saint and her new husband, Jimmy:
““He treats you well?” Patch said. She wanted to tell him that Jimmy said there wasn’t room for her piano. That sometimes she fixed his dinner and he forgot to thank her. That he was not silly in any of the good ways. She wanted to tell Patch that Jimmy did not like her being a cop. That he wanted to have children right away, and that when they did he expected her to step out of her life and into a mother’s. Most of all she wanted to tell him that she was scared. She was a cop who had done so many brave things. But she was scared.”
““He never made me laugh. And I knew, before I met him. I knew love and laughter and how sweet life could be.” “You still married him.” She looked at Patch like he was a child, like he did not know how the world kept turning. “Sometimes people reserve so much of themselves. It’s like saving a fine wine for an occasion that never materializes.””

A great song by Martin Sexton (not related to Charlie Sexton at all – a misconception that I’ve had for a number of years):
A really interesting song from Thievery Corporation:
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!





















Dinner was “at home” and we enjoyed some of Chef Denny’s wonderful pasta. Then it was time to head over to the Boulder Theater for Big Bad Voodoo Daddy. The band is named after the way the famous bluesman Albert Collins signed his autograph. Their music is “modern swing revival” and they were very popular in the 90s, playing the Super Bowl halftime show in 1999.
We checked into the hotel, had dinner and then walked down to the Dillon amphitheater to see Ryan Bingham. Todd and Lori joined as well. After some hassle about the tiny bags the ladies had being too big, we settled in for the show. I wasn’t very familiar with his music but thoroughly enjoyed the show and the gorgeous setting.









Denny was working on me again to attend the Hogs for a Cause festival on Saturday. This time we held strong and rested up for all the festivals ahead. We did go and watch James Andrews at the Kingpin with Alex, Laura, and a brief appearance by Anne.

“In the 1920s, Miami Beach’s first commercial strip, Española Way, became an artists’ colony. Creative types seeking life by the sea moved to the city in droves, including an artist who discovered a unique Tudor home in the South of the Fifth neighborhood. We transformed their eclectic beach cottage, now a landmark, into a House that’s only steps from the ocean, yet far enough away from the noise of South Beach tourists.”
After Happy Hour, Chickie had us booked in for an impossible table at Carbone. Probably one of the best Italian meals that I’ve ever enjoyed. Wonderful, old school service and every single dish an amazing treat.

















I convinced Diana to attend the NOLA Gold rugby match on Saturday afternoon. I had made the mistake of having her watch some of the Six Nations series on Netflix. “It’s a very violent sport, not something I’m sure I want to go and watch.”




I started “Come and Get It” by Kiley Reid on the short flights to Miami and back. I loved “Such a Fun Age” and am enjoying this one so far. I haven’t reached the key part of the story yet. Here’s the online summary:


The gift exchange was entertaining. Gianluca is getting concerned about his appearance and totally owned the “Bro Glo” self tanning cream that we selected from his list.










The Italian shop was classic old school. Very friendly and helpful folks, with what appeared to be an excellent sandwich counter. The lady kindly helped me carry the trays out to the car. All of the food was excellent and well received by the Krewe.
I watched some of the Sugar Bowl parade in the afternoon and was amazed that those guys were brave enough to march Bevo, the longhorn mascot, through such large and boisterous crowds. He didn’t seem phased at all.






I’m still working through “Wellness” – it is a 650 page tome. The writing and story are very good so far – particularly a section on how Facebook algorithms really work. I’ll have much more to say next week – when we don’t have any big events happening. Time to rest up for Mardi Gras.
We had a bit of an “oopsy” with the birthday cake. I joked to McD that she should blow it out. She did, with sparks flying towards my shirt. The waiter was quite concerned. No damage done and the Chief didn’t need to take any action.
After all that excitement, we proceeded to open Christmas stockings and gifts. I had been telling Kara, at dinner, about the silly high-end Italian oven that doesn’t even tell you the temperature it has reached or alert you when it gets to the right temperature. She suggested I get one of the thermometers that hang in the oven – great idea. An hour or so later and Santa had taken care of it for me.
We loved these Scottish pillows from my Mum. They’ll be fun for visitors to try to interpret. Mum also couldn’t resist another penguin friend for BP.



I “helped” Adamo assemble Frankie’s bike on Christmas Eve.






I had a haircut at Aidan Gill on Tuesday morning. I always like to pop next door to Juan’s Flying Burrito for lunch afterwards. I asked Diana if she’d like to join me, and she walked over. I forgot to mention that Aidan Gill’s was about a fifteen minute walk for me. It’s so nice to be able to walk to so many things. Juan’s is Timmy’s favourite place to eat and so we tortured him with pictures of our food and drinks.


We had been looking forward to trying Dakar NOLA for dinner on Saturday night. This West African and Senegalese restaurant serves a seven course tasting menu in one seating per night at 7pm. The chef and restaurant have won many awards over the last year or so:



Sunday was Kenny’s (The Chief) birthday. We celebrated by attending James Booker fest at the Maple Leaf. What a great group of New Orleans piano players paying tribute to the legendary guy who, along with Professor Longhair, started it all.
Some pretty flowers have emerged on the side of our house. Not sure what kind they are.
This was an excellent week of reading. “The Guncle” by Steven Rowley is one of my favourites in a long, long time. Alternating between laugh out loud humour and tear jerking sadness from one paragraph to the next, this is a writer at the very top of his game. I loved this book. I didn’t carry the hardback with me and so don’t have the quotations that I wanted to share. Here’s the online summary:

I was disappointed to find that Thom’s Market, just around the corner from our hotel, had stopped carrying Taco Deli breakfast tacos. I had been looking forward to my Tuesday morning breakfast treat. They had some new company providing tacos, and they were not nearly as good. Apparently they parted ways by “mutual understanding.” I’m going to have to go to the real Taco Deli next visit.
We were in Austin to attend my company Holiday Party on Wednesday night, and Tim (our CFO) invited the Executive Team to his home for dinner on Tuesday night. We drove around in circles for a while as our crack Administrative Assistant team had dropped one of the digits from the address. Had we been observant, we would have seen that there was only one house with a large blow up koala bear out front.






We had a lot of rain overnight on Friday, and several drainage pump units were not working properly. This made Rabbit’s Foot quite difficult to get to. I persevered only to find they weren’t able to open because too many employees couldn’t get there. Ugh!
Kenny’s official Fire Department retirement party was on Sunday. Denny was kind enough to pick us up and deliver us to the Union Hall. We had an enjoyable chat with Kenny’s mum, Miss Sue. She remembered meeting us last year and was still as sharp as a tack at ninety.
Diana and the girls had oyster Happy Hour on Tuesday evening, so Kenny came over and we went to watch a basketball that his son, Ian was helping to coach. Denny joined us and we decided to visit the local Milan lounge for some pre-game entertainment. The folks in the bar were entertained as Kenny yelled out answer after answer for Jeopardy questions.
On Wednesday night, we had Sips at Commander’s Palace down the street. This was an early birthday gift for Diana from Merry Lee and Jeff. One could sample around eighty different champagnes and wines, while enjoying the delicious snacks – the little cups of soup were ridiculous.
Marcia Ball, Shelley King, and Carolyn Wonderland had their “Home for the Holidays” show at the House of Blues on Thursday night. I had two suggestions for a pre-concert dinner for Diana to choose between – Beachbum Berry’s Latitude 49 or Kingfish. She opted for the tiki inspired option. The dinner was excellent, finishing with some perfectly cooked and very large scallops.






The replacement was scheduled for four hours later. A long time to spend in the club, and there were far too many kids in there. So, after that 4 hours of sitting around, we did take off for San Francisco. The flight was pleasant and we were a few hundred feet off the runway when, WHOOSH, we’re heading up at quite an angle and speed. Apparently the pilot saw another aircraft crossing our runway “way too close for comfort,” and decided to execute a “go around.” I looked out the window as we were ascending so quickly and saw the offender, and agree it would have been close.
Thanksgiving at Adamo and Amy’s home began in the early afternoon and wrapped up in the early evening. Other than Francesca screaming for the iPad for a solid half hour before she passed out, it seemed quieter than usual and quite pleasant. I was able to watch the Cowboys with another big win and have good visits with Marco, Andy, and Jude. Will, Christine and Ollie joined us again and had a great time.





My first book this week was “A Symphony of Secrets” by Brendan Slocumb. It is the follow up to “The Violin Conspiracy. ” I think I enjoyed it a bit more than the debut, and would likely not recommend it to someone that doesn’t know quite a bit about music. I think the “Secrets” were obvious way to early in the book.
My next book was “Vanishing in the Haight” by Max Tomlinson. It is a murder cold case mystery set in and around San Francisco and it becomes very clear that the author spent many years in the area. His descriptions of routes, buildings, clubs are just too spot on to not be a local.
When I left you a couple of weeks ago, we were getting ready to drive to Baton Rouge (about an hour and fifteen minutes) to see Alejandro Escovedo at the Red Dragon listening room. Kenny drove over, we enjoyed our Francolini’s sandwiches that I had picked up earlier in the day, and then took our places on a comfy couch for the show. What a fantastic way to see a show. The only downside – I had to drive over a hour back home. Next time, we need to stay the night. Here’s my favourite song from the evening, “Down in the Bowery.”
During the week, we joined the New Orleans library. This is housed in a beautiful mansion on St Charles Avenue. The family that owned the house donated it to the library. It’s starting to feel like we’re locals.
On Thursday, the Bush girls had a book signing at the Garden District Bookstore, just across the street. Kenny came over to observe the scene. There was a long line of mothers and daughters when we first visited, and I was able to convince McD to go back over when the line died down, and pick up a signed book for Francesca.
Friday was Boys’ Night Out. We had dinner at Casa Borrega – a really good Mexican restaurant, which happened to be across the street from the boxing gym where “Friday Night Fights” was housed. Denny’s carwashes sponsor the event and so we had four ringside seats. The event was poorly managed, with way too many people, so we didn’t stay too long. We’ll need to get Denny engaged for some improvements.


I suggested a road trip on Saturday and Diana was all in. We drove over to the Mississippi Gulf coast and had lunch at Bay St. Louis. The oysters were amazing – I ate three of them, so you know they had to be good.

We flew to Austin on Monday for my quarterly Board meeting. Diana accompanied and we had a delicious dinner at Este on arrival. The seafood is so fresh and delicious. We started out with the rainbow trout ceviche with grapefruit sauce.

The Board meeting went very well, and so we celebrated with a snack at Clark’s oyster bar, and then dinner at Emmer and Rye. I loved the tapas tasting menu, while some other members of the Executive Committee weren’t so excited. The highlight for me was the wagyu tartare.
Denny and Anne met us for Happy Hour at Costera on Thursday – always such good food and drinks. Andre Darlington was doing a book signing across the street after Happy Hour. Denny joined us to hear him talk about his new Christmas Booze and Vinyl book. I was able to get my Booze and Vinyl book signed.
Saturday was another busy day. We had a nice walk around the neighborhood and then attended a Laurel Street porch musical concert. Mahmoud Chouki is a very talented musician from Morocco, now living in New Orleans. His band was very, very good. Here’s a sample:

As if we hadn’t had enough music, we splintered into a couple of groups – one (D’s mostly girls group) off to dinner at Café Degas, followed by Connor at the Old City Jail. The other (Kenny, Denny, Tres and me) down to the House of Blues to see Zebra. Never heard of them? I hadn’t either. Led by Randy Jackson on guitar and vocals, the trio has all the original members from 1975. They sound a bit like Led Zeppelin might, if they were from the southern United States.
Denny and I enjoyed a Tiki bar snack before the show and were fortunate to have VIP access as the show was completely sold out and very busy. I chuckled at the guys around me who knew every word to every song. All a matter of where you were when.
Diana’s group waited a while for their show to start and enjoyed the venue. Their dinner at Cafe Degas was a success, with Diana really enjoying her soft shell crab.
I finally finished “Be Mine” by Richard Ford. This was one of the best books that I’ve read in a long time. Frank Bascombe is such an excellent character, and this one alternated between laugh out loud funny and heartbreakingly poignant.