“The Beatnik, Ocean Springs – Happy 60th Anne!”
I treated Diana to Happy Hour oysters at Superior Seafood on Tuesday. We sat at the bar and first saw Fred enter with a guy who was assessing him for his psychiatry accreditation (we didn’t blow it for him), and then our neighbors Britney, Tony and little Auggie, Britney telling Diana that she and Tony met at Superior years ago – she was his waitress. Me thinks a bit more investigation of that story is needed.
I attended Dat Dog trivia after oysters and we had a mediocre fifth place win – my contribution was also mediocre. We need to pick up our game! Anne and Kara joined for the second half and might have been a bit of a disruptive distraction, depending on one’s point of view.
Anne’s sixtieth birthday was a couple of months ago, and Denny had presented her with a certificate for a beach getaway. We picked up Kenny and Kara, made the ninety minute drive to Ocean Springs, Mississippi, and rendezvoused with Fred and Kelly to surprise Anne at the Beatnik.

This is a motel with four units, a pool, firepit and nice seating areas. Denny rented out the whole shebang for Thursday and Friday night. The ladies put together a beautiful array of charcuterie, dips and fruits, and I think Anne was genuinely surprised on arrival – she thought it was just going to be her and Denny. Smart idea from Kelly to move our cars over to the dive bar across the street so as not to blow the surprise.



Here’s a map to orient you on Ocean Springs location:

We walked across the street to Sweets Lounge in the evening and had good fun playing various different pool games.




I had Diana challenge the amount of the bill when we left – “It can’t possibly be that inexpensive.” The bartender explained that drinks were reduced when a Saints game was showing – even before that they were prices from 15 years ago.
I walked across the street to the Lazy Oak for breakfast on Friday morning. McD joined me after her run around town and ate the fruit that I had pushed to the side of the plate. Then we had a nice time hanging out in the pool for a couple of hours.


We wandered around downtown Ocean Springs in the afternoon. What a nice and eclectic little town.

Glory Bound provided us with a yummy Greek dinner.

We hung out around the firepit in the evening, with Kenny participating in a pool tournament at Sweets, and as is typical, making friends with a number of the locals.
We drove back via the coastal road on Saturday, meeting up with Kenny’s long time friend, Chris, for lunch at a marina side taco joint in Bay St. Louis.

Diana had texted Amy, also a resident of Bay St. Louis, to see what the chances of swinging by for a boat ride looked like. The timing worked out well and we drove to Captain Randy and Amy’s place after lunch. We were soon out on the water and enjoying the Jourdan river trail.




I had planned on watching the Cowboys and 49ers game on Sunday night – wrong weekend – the Cowboys are on a bye week and that’s next week. Probably good for the Boys to rest up before that challenging game.

My book this week was “The Radleys” by Matt Haig. I had enjoyed another of his books, “The Midnight Library”, and this one sounded good, except that I totally missed it was a story about vampires trying for abstinence from vampire activities. Here’s an online review:
“Just about everyone knows a family like the Radleys. Many of us grew up next door to one. They are a modern family, averagely content, averagely dysfunctional, living in a staid and quiet suburban English town. Peter is an overworked doctor whose wife, Helen, has become increasingly remote and uncommunicative. Rowan, their teenage son, is being bullied at school, and their anemic daughter, Clara, has recently become a vegan. They are typical, that is, save for one devastating exception: Peter and Helen are vampires and have—for seventeen years—been abstaining by choice from a life of chasing blood in the hope that their children could live normal lives.”
Given the silly subject matter, I did still find this tale well written and entertaining. I’m sure it’s not for everyone.

A very good cover:
And an even better cover – I love this one a lot:
And finally, some great 70s feel:
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!
It was a very early start on Monday – in an Uber to the airport at 4:30am. We caught a 6am flight to Miami, “enjoyed” a couple of hours layover, and then took the next short flight to Roatan, Honduras. A very bumpy thirty minute ride over an often washed out road and we arrived at the Kimpton Grand Roatan Resort. The resort was purchased by Kimpton since we visited two years ago, and they have made many improvements, upgrades, and expansions. While quite luxurious, with new restaurants and amenities, we missed some of the character of the old set up.














A small group of us enjoyed dinner in the Mediterranean restaurant on Wednesday evening, and then Blair arranged for the very talented guitar player in the restaurant to give us a private outdoor concert :


We snapped a quick selfie and then took a shuttle to the airport for our long day of travel back home. The four hour layover in Miami really was a bit too long, getting us home shortly before midnight.



I finished up “Tell Me Everything” by the amazing Elizabeth Strout. What an excellent book – weaving together the characters from all her previous novels into a new set of tales.




We were in an Uber over to Gretna fest within a couple of hours. We set up in time to enjoy an excellent set from Galactic:













I made a reservation for Friday and invited Denny and Anne to join us. We started with a visit to the Old Alker distillery, right next door to the restaurant.



Diana noticed that the Saturday afternoon concert series at the Kingpin started up again this week, after taking a break for the height of summer. Jon Papa Gros kicked things off with a really enjoyable set. Kenny and Kara joined for part of it – celebrating Kara’s birthday.
The weather was perfect for an outdoor afternoon free concert. Typical of what we love about this city.



I took a break from “The Patron Saint of Liars” by Anne Patchett, which I don’t love yet but plan to return to soon.

















I was tracking Hurricane Francine and hoping it wasn’t going to disrupt their plans. They were fortunate as it changed paths to come directly over New Orleans. Our new generator was online and ready to respond to any power outages – we were much luckier than most and didn’t have any issues.

My lucky Cowboys jacket did not serve a good purpose, with the game quickly turning into a blowout for the Saints. You can imagine how much fun it is to be the only Cowboys fan in a house full of Saints fans with a huge lead.











We went for our visit to the NOAC on Saturday morning. I enjoyed a swim (before being ousted by the water aerobics ladies – got to pay attention to the schedule). I treated Diana to brunch at Elizabeth’s in the Bywater area after our visit. This is an excellent brunch restaurant – we loved our “pig candy” (praline bacon) and Florentine benedict with fried oysters.



The “Gentlemen Out At Lunch” club met at Origen Venezuelan Bistro on Tuesday. Denny wasn’t able to join but the rest of the group assembled at the restaurant on St. Claude avenue in the Bywater. Origen was Denny’s suggestion and he insisted that we go ahead without him.


We followed lunch with a visit to BJ’s lounge – just down the street. Oops – getting ahead of myself again. Kenny gave me a quick driving tour on the way. The house he group up in with his eight siblings was three houses down from the restaurant – I got a drive by of that as well as the local schools, including the one where his Dad taught mathematics and French. The tour was really enjoyable. Kenny really has missed his calling. I need to revisit getting him certified to give walking tours of the Garden District.




I tried something new this week – picking up “It Ends With Us” by Colleen Hoover. This is a romance style novel that Diana had on the kitchen counter to finish. Goodness – I hope all her romances aren’t this dark. The topics are marital and emotional abuse – apparently based on Hoover’s childhood. The writing and characters are so good that I had to finish the book. Certainly not for everyone, although it appears to have topped bestseller lists for several years, and is now a movie.




My martini was served with a side of accoutrements – an oyster, a lemon twist and blue cheese stuffed olives. What a choice.



There was a special memorial show for Nick Daniels III (Dumpstaphunk bass player) at Tipitina’s on Thursday evening. Trombone Shorty and members of Galactic joined the band. Advertised start time was 7pm. I showed up at 7:30 and planned to stay for an hour or so – yeah right! The music started at 9pm and was very good for the short while I lasted. I did have some interesting conversations while we waited – Logan the molecular biologist was one of the more engaging characters.








My book this week was “Go as a River” by Shelley Read. I hadn’t planned on this book and just grabbed it from the kitchen counter as I was leaving for my Austin flight. While this is definitely more of a McD type plot, I really enjoyed the outdoor descriptions and understanding the tragedy of destroying the village.





I didn’t do much until a special event at the Prytania theater on Sunday afternoon. This is a neighbourhood movie theater with just one screen and a ton of old school character. Bruce Spizer is a local Beatles historian who has published several books about their albums and movies. This talk was about “A Hard Day’s Night.” Spizer delivered a multimedia talk for about an hour and then we watched the movie. What a fund way to pass a few hours on a hot afternoon.






My book this week was “The Uptown Local – Joy, Death and Joan Didion” – by Cory Leadbetter.