“Annual Check Ups”
We took off for Dallas on Sunday to attend our all day physicals at the Cooper Clinic. A few minutes into the flight, the pilot let us know about a big storm in Dallas and Air Traffic Control telling him to fly up through Oklahoma and then loop back down. Only problem – they told him after he took off and so we didn’t have enough fuel. No big issue – we’ll land in Corpus Christi and get some more fuel. That was a very efficient process with us on the ground in Corpus for less than 15 minutes. I think we were around a couple of hours late getting to Dallas.
We were looking for a quick and healthy place to have dinner before checking into the Cooper Clinic. I found something called “Flower Child” in Inwood Village. This was perfect – quick, healthy, and tasty. It seems to be an expanding chain and I recommend it if you come across one.
Flower Child made me think of my sister in law, Amy. She was out protesting that we don’t need a king to rule the US:

I had originally considered Casa Rosa for dinner – when I waited tables there in the 80s, it was located right next to Flower Child. They had a recent reprise closer to Love field airport and are now permanently closed again.
Also right next door is the Inwood movie theater. Best known as the place where Denny and Anne had their first date. The movie – “Reservoir Dogs.” The offerings were much tamer on Sunday:

After dinner, we checked into our massive suite at the Cooper hotel and relaxed before all the prodding to come on Monday.
I caught up on texts and found some funny things. Will sent this picture of us a few years ago:

He also sent this caricature of the four of us:


And this silly one of himself – not sure how Christine feels about it:

Will is going to a wedding in Ibiza sometime soon and visiting Paris on his way. He remembers eating moules frites with curry sauce the last time he was in France – more than 25 years ago. Diana helped me pull up pictures to show him the best place in Paris – in Montmartre – big portions, well cooked, at a good price and with good service.



Alicia sent a funny Father’s Day meme – we’re not sure why the penguin has a purple eye and I couldn’t capture it at the point where the other penguins join in.

Our Cooper day started at 7:00am with blood draws. Diana was ahead of me and so I asked the lady how she had done getting blood from her. “Oh boy, that was hard, took four of us.” Diana told me they ultimately called in “Queen” from a different department to get her blood. The lady from the last two years who got her on the first poke wasn’t there anymore. I feel badly for Diana that there aren’t more superbly qualified phlebotomists out there.
Our days of tests were busy with nothing major found on either of us. Various vitamins that we need to take, and I had a couple of things frozen off in dermatology – finally getting rid of that thing under my glasses pad on my nose. This is the last time this very expensive day of tests will be covered by my work – we’ll see what we do going forward.
We left the clinic around 3pm and headed for McKinney to meet up with Finn and Holly. We checked into the very cool and historic Grand Hotel – above Rick’s Chop House (home of still the best shrimp and grits that I’ve ever had.)
We met Finn and Holly at the Urban grill in downtown McKinney. Diana and I had eaten a snack at the bar there and remembered it being good. Everything we had was delicious, with great service. I dropped a fork at one point and had a new one in my hand a few seconds later.
Our appetizers included calamari (Holly’s favourite), fish and chips (Finn), and ahi tuna tartare (yep – D.)
For dinner Finn went all out for his birthday with the ribeye steak. Diana and Holly both had the lamb chop lollipops, and I enjoyed a delicious heirloom beet salad.
The kids gave me a belated Father’s Day card and goodie bag. The card is excellent:

Very clever. The only one we had to explain was the “Sage” advice. Is that a generational thing? I don’t think so.
I received a very thoughtful goodie bag of treats.

Finn had gone to the cigar shop close to our old house and asked the guy for his best cigar recommendation. The penguin came from “Fair and Square” in downtown Mckinney (where McD got a cutting board gift for them) right before dinner. Finn remembered that Diana liked Mounds and not Almond Joy – huge brownie points scored. And then the Chanel goat juice (Elroy Kee term) – we think it smells really good. What a thoughtful little goodie bag.
We walked the kids back to their car and saw this sign outside Emporium Pies – I’m looking forward to trying the rhubarb pie at La Petite Grocery soon – been way too long.
You may know that June 17th is also our wedding anniversary. I love the cards that Diana and Mum got me – Diana’s with British pennies on it (do they still have those?) and Mum’s with a pair of dragonflies.


We looked at some pictures and videos from that lovely day in Cozumel. Finn thinks he would like to take Holly there for a honeymoon. That could happen.
We slept late on Tuesday and then made a trip to our old regular – “Filtered”, where we would have our coffee and a quiche. The place has been remodeled a bit, and for the better, looks great now. We passed on the quiche with the expectation of lunch at the Blue Goose. I can’t remember how we did on the puzzles, or if we even did them. We were sitting at a table of nerds working away on their laptops. When did going for coffee mean being surrounded by 90% nerds on laptops? When do you get a break?
We drove over to the local Blue Goose and had a lovely lunch experience – such amazing and positive service. I loved my sour cream enchilada and got the recipe for the sauce. Diana had the “off menu” pulled chicken taco salad and was quite happy.
The car returned, we were back inside Love field airport. We laughed at a guy from Lubbock sitting next to us at the bar who was exclaiming how humid it was. Diana and I had remarked in the morning that it was so dry and comfortable to move around. It’s all about what you’re used to – as they say. This guy was still sweating after having been in the very cool airport for 20 minutes.
The jet bridge wouldn’t align with the plane for our flight home, and so they ultimately moved the plane to a new gate. We arrived home a bit late, but probably got home around the same time as we missed rush hour traffic.
On Thursday evening we met Jeff and Merry Lee for dinner at Compere Lapin. This is a restaurant by Nina Compton from the Caribbean – and the dishes are a mix of New Orleans and her homeland. The place has won many awards. Diana and I went close to the opening (10 years ago) and I can still remember how amazing the goat curry tasted. I also remember being amazed by how adventurous Jack and Mason were with the menu, and Denny saying, “they eat what we eat.”
Jeff and I both had the goat curry (ridiculously good with all the flavour and the little gnocchi’s) , and the ladies both had the sea bass. I think we were all quite happy. We had some appetizers of fish collars, smoky fish dip, and ahi tuna. Deserts were I think mango creme brulee and something else that I can’t remember. I had a port and desserts aren’t really my thing.
Trey had asked us to consider attending his friend, and dog sitter, Nina’s show at the Maple Leaf on Friday night. Given that his dog, Bear, saved his life before his house burned to the ground recently, we thought we could do him a favour.
On Saturday I again got disappointed in our nation. First I read this New Yorker article – geez!:
Australia writer deportation – New Yorker
I stupidly followed that with “The Mauritian” movie. Jodie Foster is an excellent defense attorney and the movie is very well done, albeit a bit plodding. The message is that the main character spent 14 years in Guantanamo Bay prison, tortured as we have heard about, and never charged with a crime. I believe there were 778 prisoners there, only 8 were ever charged, and 5 of those were overruled on appeal. So 770 folks held for many years with no charges?
I spent another week with Richard Russo and “Everybody’s Fool”. I found the first 60% of this book a bit draggy and a bit disorganized – the last 40 % gets exciting and it all comes together in the excellent last 20%. See if you can skim the first half and pick up what you need to know about the key characters. Some online bumf:




On the way to Dos Jefes, we stopped into Rouses to pick up supplies for our Saturday brunch recipe. Kenny, his youngest brother Tommy, Kara, and after a while Pepperoni (Michael Azzano), joined us at Dos Jefes for some of Joe Krown and then headed back to Tips for Eric Johanssen. Krown played as amazingly as ever – hands just dancing across the keys. We need to make the effort to visit this bar more often.

I’m about half way through “Everybody’s Fool” by Richard Russo, the second in the North Bath trilogy. Russo is best known for the Pulitzer prize winning “Empire Falls”, made into a movie that I enjoyed.
Earlier this week I was playing an Earth Wind and Fire album. On returning it to the alphabetically filed album collection, I noticed a very old Duke Ellington Album that I hadn’t heard – must have come from McD.
Diana dropped me off for a haircut on Friday afternoon, and then picked me up for Happy Hour. We first tried the new Blackbird hotel on Prytania Avenue. This place looks nice online and has a day use pool setup at a reasonable price. My barber, Derek, told me that they made great martinis, but the bartender had broken his arm, and they had various less qualified folks filling in. We arrived a little after 3pm and checked in with the hostess, saying we would like to have a drink and snack at the inside bar. “Sure, go on in.” We did, and the bartender lady told us she didn’t open until 4pm. “All your online things say 3pm.” “That’s just the pool bar.” She was just setting up and could easily have taken 5 minutes to make us a drink. On the way out we told the hostess it didn’t open until 4pm. “Yes, that’s right, it never opens before 4pm.” One wonders why the heck she sent us back there, knowing that.
Diana suggested the Garden District Hotel across the street. That was almost as bad – the bar was lovely and appeared to be open, but there was no bartender. We waited 20 minutes, and then Diana went up front to ask. “We’ll call him now.” She sent us back there and could see there was no bartender to begin with. He did show up and was quite annoying, but made an okay drink. In his defense, Diana thought he was “fine.”
I was determined to have a decent experience before we headed home, and suggested we walk down to Beggars Banquet. Here we encountered a professional and very friendly bartender. Greeted us with ice waters, had snack menu recommendations, made a very good drink, and was happy to chat on any topic. Ahh – we did it.




My book this week was “The road to tender hearts” by Annie Hartnett. This reminded me a lot of Kevin Wilson’s “Run for the Hills” – dark humor, big heart, and quirky and creative characters and storyline. I thoroughly enjoyed it.









My book this week was “The God of the Woods” by Liz Moore. This is a very cleverly constructed mystery, with great characters and pacing – hard to put down and highly recommended.


The four of us decamped to a restaurant called “Pigeon and Whale.” This place specializes in seafood and we shared a number of dishes. They also have a large selection of different negronis. Kenny and Diana insisted on dessert, and I’m glad they did as the lemon thing was delicious. Thanks for a lovely dinner with wonderful friends, Diana.


The music continued on Saturday. This time it was the second annual Bob Dylan birthday tribute at the Broadside. I thoroughly enjoyed it last year and so was quite excited for the show. Anne, Mason, Jack E and Peggy all joined. The show was excellent all around! Excellent backing band, singers, and venue. Gal Holiday performed my favourite Dylan song:








My book this week was one that I’d been waiting on for a while, “Run for the Hills,” by Kevin Wilson. I’ve enjoyed all of his previous books, so uniquely creative and funny. This one didn’t disappoint. Here’s the summary:
After the movie we had lunch at our old standby – Juan’s Flying Burrito.
My book this week was “Wild Dark Shore” by Charlotte McConaghy. This is a murder mystery set on a remote island near Antarctica, but it’s a lot more than that. I learned about emergency seed banks, and lots of nature, including deep details about penguins. A very good read.
This was the week that we said “Goodbye” to Clorinda. “Bye, with Love” is how she finished every phone call. I joined Diana in Pacifica, CA in time to get dressed for the vigil service on Wednesday evening. I hadn’t attended a vigil before and wasn’t really sure what to expect. All of the siblings spoke, including a very nice tribute from Diana. Several others spoke, including an entertaining and clever speech from Jeff. However, the highlight for me was Luciano, age 10, with a very touching tribute. He had nothing prepared and saw his Mom go up to speak and decided he should say something too. What a great job he did.




























I finished “All Fours” by Miranda July this week. This book did not finish as it started – I was very pleased with the early section last week. The last two thirds of the book were almost unreadable for me, but I slogged on. Slow, vulgar, and with no real point. Like when Philip Roth or John Updike tried to shock you for a paragraph or two but dragged out by July for a hundred or more pages. Not recommended. I asked Kelly (our resident literature guru) what she thought – “HATED IT!” I’m not alone, and we both wonder what’s wrong with all those gushing reviewers.
I needed a palate cleanser after that, and so have made it most of the way through “My Darling Boy” by John Dufresne. I’ll share the online summary now and return with some of my favourite passages next week:




We were in the CBD (Central Business District) for a meeting with our estate lawyer on Wednesday afternoon. Diana commented that she didn’t remember the last time she was in a high rise office building – it’s been a while for both of us. After the meeting, we walked to Peche, a restaurant that we’ve been looking to try for a while. Debra recommended it and her recommendations carry some weight, given her job as manager of Jaques-Imo’s.

I circulated this picture of Diana peeking out of an egg as an Easter “yoke.” It was actually a dinosaur egg as part of an advertisement in a shopping mall in Glasgow.





There is a wonderful new record out this week -“Audience with the Queen” by Galactic and Irma Thomas. Thomas is 84 years old and sounds fantastic on all tracks, especially this one: