My youngest baby turned 21 today. Hard to believe and a happy milestone.
We celebrated at “The Boiling Hot Pot” in San Francisco. This was Will’s choice and is one of his favorite haunts. You pay a flat fee and then get as much as you can eat of various meats and seafoods to dunk in four different flavors of boiling hot pot. Campbell and his friends had a ball and enjoyed the unlimited Saki and beer as well. They had a process for making Saki bombs using chopsticks to suspend the Saki shot above the beer and then pounding on the table chanting, “Saki, Saki, Saki, Bomb”. The “Bomb” coinciding with hard enough pounding to drop the shot into the beer. I tried one and decided it wasn’t something my tummy appreciated.
Campbell clearly enjoyed his “all about me” day. His friends left to right are Cody, Patrick, and Cameron (turtle). He’s known them all since elementary school and they’re a great bunch of friends. Will and Christine, Melanie, Laquita, Campbell’s girlfriend Molly, and Diana (meeting Melanie and Laquita for the first time) all participated. It was quite steamy as the evening wore on but the kids didn’t mind or even notice I don’t think.
Following dinner, the kids went back to Will’s house and got dressed to go clubbing at some fancy night club that Will had arranged. I’m not sure what time that all finished and they crashed on couches Chez Will – but I’m sure I had been asleep for many hours when they retired.
Here’s Campbell with the engraved beer stein that I got him as a gift.

This was one of those rare occasions when all three of my sons are in the same place at the same time. It was nice to see everyone having such a good time celebrating with Campbell and the folks meeting for the first time having pleasant conversations.

ve until you review all of life’s journeys since those graduation ceremonies. We spent the weekend in California to attend Diana’s 30 year Santa Clara University reunion.
realize that it certainly has been 30 years since graduation. The food at this Peruvian restaurant was very different and good. Will had an excellent paella and I tried these “causa masaki” – like sushi rolls but wrapped in causa which is yellow potato puree infused with lime and Peruvian ahi – yum. I met Finn the next day at one of my favorite places on Santana Row in San Jose, the Straits cafe. Singaporean food and all delicious.


arrival celebration champagne. As usual I was thoroughly spoiled by my Mum with great cooking – Stornoway black pudding for breakfast, steak pies, fantastic deserts. On Friday the fishmonger comes to the house and delivers “Fresh Fish” – delicious and now known as “Fresh Fish Friday”. We had a nice trip over to the beach at Irvine where the wind blew out any remaining cobwebs from our jetlagged heads.


My Mum gave my Dad an iPad for his birthday present. It was loaded up with pictures from the dinner (see selfie of Diana and my brother in law, David, below) and pictures and videos from the family. We were quite nervous about the technical challenges that the gift might present, but are happily surprised with the ease that Dad places facetime calls on Sundays.


I was able to enjoy a couple of good nights out in Tokyo with our excellent hosts. Here’s Deepak with his model of the “Black Ship” that Captain Perry sailed to Yokohama in 1854, and began opening up Japan to the West.

Our second outing was to Mixology, a craft cocktail bar in Akasaka. This is an area of Tokyo with a lot of small and very unique stores. The cocktails were excellent and watching the precision and detailed work by the bar tenders was very educational. 
I had a cocktail that was mixed with smoke in a skull vodka bottle – very good – almost like a Talisker peaty scotch from Islay. The food was very creative as well – here’s a picture of an egg with a syringe of Sauterne wine that was injected after the soft boiled egg had cooled for a few
minutes. I can’t imagine this dish would be allowed in the United States.
The flight home was smooth and uneventful. Just a few days to rest and get time zone adjusted before heading to Scotland for my Dad’s 80th birthday celebration.

finished their diving certifications on Thursday and Friday. Here they are hitting the beach after certification dives on Thursday while we relax under an umbrella with Blood Marys. We joined them on the boat on Friday as they finished up the checkout dives.
enjoying the sunset on our last evening. I head the question, “Can’t we just stay one more day?”, several times throughout the day.


Sunday was Father’s day. Here I am with my loot – Cowboys grilling tools, apron and chef’s hat from Will; Miles Davis art from Campbell, Finn, and Melanie; and a lovely selection of cards.

n beans and creamy jalapeno sauce (my favorite of the three – the chicken spice rub was delicious); Beef Arepas with pickled onion, avocado and radishes (arepas are flat, round cornbreads); and Maryland-style Cod Cake sandwiches with tartar sauce and red cabbage slaw.