“Eclaircissement”
Monday was what I call an “administrative” day – taking care of a variety of things on the phone and the computer. I booked tickets to see Marc Cohn in Kansas City (he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s 5 years ago and won’t be able to perform much longer), plus hotel and flights. And then did some research on restaurants in what is known as the “Power and Light” area of downtown Kansas City. Then on to buying tickets to see Curtis Stigers at a new to us venue in New Orleans. Next was the really fun stuff – transferring billing for my phone from my old work to a personal account. That took two separate 45 min phone calls. Finally, I worked on seeing when our COBRA health care coverage would kick in – hopefully next week. All of that took the best part of the day and left me feeling like I was back at work. Oh, almost forgot catching up on close to a month of blogs – I have no idea how I got so far behind. I suppose I’ll blame it on travel. And I also forgot about troubleshooting 401K contributions after I had transferred everything out – the joy of automatic contributions and being paid for unused vacation. Hopefully that’s all the admin stuff for a week or more.
While I was doing all that nonsense, Diana met Julia for a walk in the park. As hot and humid as it is, that would have been preferrable.
Diana asked me, “have you noticed the random trash on the side of the house?” I had not. “Well I finally found out where it’s coming from. The crows pick stuff off the street, take it up to the roof and then drop it, like fast food sauce packets.” I know – it’s the silly little things that entertain me.
A swim at the New Orleans Athletic Club (NOAC) started my Tuesday. The steam room wasn’t working, so I had to settle for a pleasant sauna after the swim.
In the afternoon, we enjoyed $6 Tuesdays at the Broad theater and the new “Superman” movie. Diana had fun picking out all the cameos – Bradley Cooper and the guy who was the star of Castle. The movie was better than either of us was expecting. The director was the same guy who did the “Guardians of the Galaxy” series and he brought the same sense of fun and humour to this movie. Krypto the dog was also a fun addition, and showed up as a trivia question later in the day.
The New Yorker had an interesting review of the movie:
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2025/07/21/superman-movie-review
I joined the krewe for trivia in the evening. Ozzy had died earlier in the day, and Tom (quiz master) was clearly saddened by the news. He played several of his songs and told us that he had been on the road with him many years ago. I had started studying up on Greek mythology in the afternoon but we didn’t get any questions about that. We did get one ridiculously arcane question. “What’s a word beginning with “E” that means “the clearing up of something obscure” and was “the final word in the Scripps spelling bee this year.” “Eclaircissement ” was the answer. No surprise that none of the teams knew that.
We were in 1st place going into the final question, the only one where you can wager (and lose) up to 20 points. This was the correct answer:

“Light years in a parsec.” Really? After that “E” word. Tom was really pushing it this week. Interestingly Alex guessed 3 as the answer, and Nina knew that the Weekend song had been number one for the better part of a year. If we had only listened and wagered a bit. Instead we wagered zero and ended in 4th place.
Relaxing after the stress of that trivia experience, I watched the Saturday Night Live episode with Harry Styles as the musical guest. I remember being very impressed with his performance when seeing the original airing of this episode. Here he is flying around the Isle of Skye:
I made the mistake of reading this New Yorker magazine article on Wednesday morning. Made me angry for quite a while. Kids playing baseball? Where does it end?
ICE agents invade little league field – New Yorker
The guys arrived to restore the marble counters in the kitchen. They were so much quieter than I expected, and did a great job. All the rings and stains are gone and the marble is sealed up. We’ll see how long it lasts. Diana called the set up to protect against dust blowing around their “playpen”.
Thursday was time for another swim at the NOAC. This time the steam room was fully functional. The bar was also open – seems to be a new feature as we haven’t seen it open before. I had a coffee and a frittata for a very reasonable price. Nice!
We saw three “DiMarco plumbing” trucks on the drive home from the NOAC. This is the name that Adamo gave to the combined entity of Diana and Marco when we were planning Clorinda’s funeral and services. The two of them were quite something.
In New Orleans you don’t “go to the grocery store”, you “make groceries.” We “made groceries” on Friday afternoon. Diana complemented me on being a much better grocery shopper than in the past. Must be a positive feature of retirement. I’ll take the compliment and see if I can keep it up.
We met Anne, Denny and their plus one (Jack) for Happy Hour at the Red Dog Diner. This is next door to and owned by the same folks who run the Rum House, one of our favourite quick and easy restaurants. We’ve passed it hundreds of times and always thought it was some greasy spoon divey place. Not at all – when you go in the back you find a lovely place with very good food, drinks and service. Why am I just finding out about this now?
Diana decided to try a Moose’s Magnificent Mimosa. It’s like an Orange Julius with Strawberry jam vodka. I know – it sounds way too sweet, but was remarkably good.
I got a kick out of Denny ordering snacks. He did not take any input from the girls and ordered up exactly what he thought everyone needed. Easy for me and I’m not sure how he gets away with a lot of his behaviors – I would have been in all kinds of trouble for not asking for input.
The bar manager and another guy were working in the corner to decide on a wine pairing dinner that they will host in August. They gave Anne and Diana a bottle each of what they had been sampling. Such a nice place that we’ve avoided for so long.
I watched a movie called “The Penguin Lessons” on Friday night.
This movie stars Steve Coogan. Sometimes I think he’s really good and other times I don’t care for his performances at all. This was a good movie and he did well. His penguin costar did even better.
I had a final swim for the week on Sunday morning. We followed that with a delicious brunch at Paladar 511, just a short drive from the NOAC. Anne texted Diana during brunch to invite her to meet up with the girls and Mary on her way back to San Diego. I thought I would meet up with Denny and Thom while the girls were doing their thing. Both of them replied that they were planning on taking naps after a very hot tennis session. I decided to join the girls. Guess where they were going. Red Dog Diner. I haven’t been there in all the years I’ve been coming to New Orleans, and then went twice in the same week. May was late leaving Navarre and wasn’t able to join us before she needed to go to the airport.

I started “King of Ashes” by S. A. Crosby this week. I really enjoyed his last few books and have been waiting for this one to become available. I got a few pages in and decided I was in the mood for something different. It’s probably the nightmare of the book that Kelly recommended last week, coming back to haunt me.
I decided to try a book by Mick Herron. I’ve loved the “Slow Horses” series starring Gary Oldman and decided to check out the original books. Wow – I should have done this a long time ago. It’s like a Le Carre book but with better descriptions and language. Right up my alley.

I enjoy Chris Hillock’s guitar playing. I think he learned a lot from Mark Knopfler:
Some great rhythmic entertainment. I need to listen to some more of their stuff:
The great Phil Lynott of Thin Lizzy, and I suspect Gary Moore on guitar but haven’t looked it up yet:
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all.



There was a reception at Juana’s – the divey bar complex next to Carolyn and Jack’s condo. Carolyn had apparently picked out the menu of snacks to be served. Once the reception time ended, the pool tables were placed back in position and everyone enjoyed them. It might not seem appropriate for a celebration of life, but Carolyn would have wanted it that way.










My read this week was “River is Waiting” by Wally Lamb. Kelly recommended it with this text, 






It was an early start on Thursday to drive down to Saratoga for the funeral of Julie’s dad, Ken. Here’s a link to his obituary:
I did have a new experience on this trip – figuring out how to charge Adamo’s tiny mouse car. We make fun of it and are very thankful that we didn’t have to rent a car on each of our many trips this year. After downloading an app and figuring a few things out, the process was fairly simple.
Another new experience awaited me on Sunday when visiting Amy and Adamo’s home. Francesca wanted to paint somebody’s face and I volunteered. Thankfully that’s watercolour paint. She was very attentive to the pattern she wanted to duplicate, apparently something unicorn related.
I finished “Mad Honey” this week and would give it a strong recommendation. I certainly didn’t see the final twist coming, thinking I had solved the murder much earlier in the book.
Kenny came over on Wednesday morning and helped change out the air conditioning filter – in way too tricky a spot for me to trust myself not to fall on that hutch with all the crystal glasses. We had intended to replace the can lights going up the stairwell, but our ladder is too wide and hangs over the nifty tool that Diana found for using ladders on stairs. That will have to wait until we can borrow a regular ladder.

I suggested to Diana that we celebrate July 4th (my 4th day of independence from the working life) with a burger. I suggested three options and she chose Toups Meatery. We hadn’t been there in years and so it seemed like a great idea. They run a summer program to feed kids that typically rely on school meals for nutrition – another good reason to support the restaurant.




We had a belated anniversary dinner at Gautreaux’s on Wednesday night. This is a classic New Orleans neighborhood restaurant – tucked in just behind Julia’s house. The menu is a mix of French and Creole.



My book this week was “Careless People” by Sarah Wynn-Williams. Sarah was a high level executive at Facebook during the massive growth of the company in the 2010s. I sum this book up in one word – horrifying. If only 10% of what is reported is fully true, and I believe the majority of it, then we should all stop using anything from the Meta/Facebook empire. Here are some examples:
We were looking for a quick and healthy place to have dinner before checking into the Cooper Clinic. I found something called “Flower Child” in Inwood Village. This was perfect – quick, healthy, and tasty. It seems to be an expanding chain and I recommend it if you come across one.









Our Cooper day started at 7:00am with blood draws. Diana was ahead of me and so I asked the lady how she had done getting blood from her. “Oh boy, that was hard, took four of us.” Diana told me they ultimately called in “Queen” from a different department to get her blood. The lady from the last two years who got her on the first poke wasn’t there anymore. I feel badly for Diana that there aren’t more superbly qualified phlebotomists out there.
We met Finn and Holly at the Urban grill in downtown McKinney. Diana and I had eaten a snack at the bar there and remembered it being good. Everything we had was delicious, with great service. I dropped a fork at one point and had a new one in my hand a few seconds later.

We walked the kids back to their car and saw this sign outside Emporium Pies – I’m looking forward to trying the rhubarb pie at La Petite Grocery soon – been way too long.

The car returned, we were back inside Love field airport. We laughed at a guy from Lubbock sitting next to us at the bar who was exclaiming how humid it was. Diana and I had remarked in the morning that it was so dry and comfortable to move around. It’s all about what you’re used to – as they say. This guy was still sweating after having been in the very cool airport for 20 minutes.
On Thursday evening we met Jeff and Merry Lee for dinner at Compere Lapin. This is a restaurant by Nina Compton from the Caribbean – and the dishes are a mix of New Orleans and her homeland. The place has won many awards. Diana and I went close to the opening (10 years ago) and I can still remember how amazing the goat curry tasted. I also remember being amazed by how adventurous Jack and Mason were with the menu, and Denny saying, “they eat what we eat.”
I spent another week with Richard Russo and “Everybody’s Fool”. I found the first 60% of this book a bit draggy and a bit disorganized – the last 40 % gets exciting and it all comes together in the excellent last 20%. See if you can skim the first half and pick up what you need to know about the key characters. Some online bumf:



On the way to Dos Jefes, we stopped into Rouses to pick up supplies for our Saturday brunch recipe. Kenny, his youngest brother Tommy, Kara, and after a while Pepperoni (Michael Azzano), joined us at Dos Jefes for some of Joe Krown and then headed back to Tips for Eric Johanssen. Krown played as amazingly as ever – hands just dancing across the keys. We need to make the effort to visit this bar more often.

I’m about half way through “Everybody’s Fool” by Richard Russo, the second in the North Bath trilogy. Russo is best known for the Pulitzer prize winning “Empire Falls”, made into a movie that I enjoyed.
Earlier this week I was playing an Earth Wind and Fire album. On returning it to the alphabetically filed album collection, I noticed a very old Duke Ellington Album that I hadn’t heard – must have come from McD.
Diana dropped me off for a haircut on Friday afternoon, and then picked me up for Happy Hour. We first tried the new Blackbird hotel on Prytania Avenue. This place looks nice online and has a day use pool setup at a reasonable price. My barber, Derek, told me that they made great martinis, but the bartender had broken his arm, and they had various less qualified folks filling in. We arrived a little after 3pm and checked in with the hostess, saying we would like to have a drink and snack at the inside bar. “Sure, go on in.” We did, and the bartender lady told us she didn’t open until 4pm. “All your online things say 3pm.” “That’s just the pool bar.” She was just setting up and could easily have taken 5 minutes to make us a drink. On the way out we told the hostess it didn’t open until 4pm. “Yes, that’s right, it never opens before 4pm.” One wonders why the heck she sent us back there, knowing that.
Diana suggested the Garden District Hotel across the street. That was almost as bad – the bar was lovely and appeared to be open, but there was no bartender. We waited 20 minutes, and then Diana went up front to ask. “We’ll call him now.” She sent us back there and could see there was no bartender to begin with. He did show up and was quite annoying, but made an okay drink. In his defense, Diana thought he was “fine.”
I was determined to have a decent experience before we headed home, and suggested we walk down to Beggars Banquet. Here we encountered a professional and very friendly bartender. Greeted us with ice waters, had snack menu recommendations, made a very good drink, and was happy to chat on any topic. Ahh – we did it.




My book this week was “The road to tender hearts” by Annie Hartnett. This reminded me a lot of Kevin Wilson’s “Run for the Hills” – dark humor, big heart, and quirky and creative characters and storyline. I thoroughly enjoyed it.









My book this week was “The God of the Woods” by Liz Moore. This is a very cleverly constructed mystery, with great characters and pacing – hard to put down and highly recommended.


The four of us decamped to a restaurant called “Pigeon and Whale.” This place specializes in seafood and we shared a number of dishes. They also have a large selection of different negronis. Kenny and Diana insisted on dessert, and I’m glad they did as the lemon thing was delicious. Thanks for a lovely dinner with wonderful friends, Diana.


The music continued on Saturday. This time it was the second annual Bob Dylan birthday tribute at the Broadside. I thoroughly enjoyed it last year and so was quite excited for the show. Anne, Mason, Jack E and Peggy all joined. The show was excellent all around! Excellent backing band, singers, and venue. Gal Holiday performed my favourite Dylan song:








My book this week was one that I’d been waiting on for a while, “Run for the Hills,” by Kevin Wilson. I’ve enjoyed all of his previous books, so uniquely creative and funny. This one didn’t disappoint. Here’s the summary: