Week in Review – May 18th, 2025

“A Normal Week”

I’m not sure what a normal week is these days.  But this seemed like one.

On Monday, I visited Tony to get my hearing aids cleaned and adjusted.  As is typical, we spent the first 30 minutes talking about who we had seen performing at jazzfest and veered off into other musical discussions.  The only problem was that my appointment was only for 30 minutes, the poor guy behind me had to wait a while.

I took advantage of being in Metarie (a solid 6 miles away, but seems like a totally different place than New Orleans, and we complain about having to drive that far) to make a Trader Joe’s visit.  Diana was quite impressed with the fullness of the fridge on return.

We followed up our trivia win last Tuesday with 2nd place this week.  We were quite pleased with ourselves.

Diana arrived home at 1:20am on Wednesday morning.  She had delayed flights and had to sprint through DFW airport to catch her flight to New Orleans.  I couldn’t sleep until I knew she was home.  Thankfully I didn’t have any “important” work to do on Wednesday.

Wednesday was health care day.  I had my teeth cleaned – good report of no issues.  Then I drove Diana to an appointment over at the Jefferson hospital complex – less than 5 miles away and less than a 15 minute drive, but again it feels like a long way to us these days.  We routinely drove 30 minutes to do anything at all in Dallas, but things change when you can walk to most everything you need.

Coming back from the store, we ran into this second line parade on Prytania Avenue.  There a lot of weddings in May, and it did seem a bit hot for them to be walking too far in those fancy outfits.

Diana suggested a route around the parade to avoid following it all the way home – good thinking D.

The Prytania movie theater shows a classic movie each week at 10am on Sunday and Wednesday.  This week was “Moonstruck” with Cher and Nicholas Cage.

The talks before the movie starts are a very enjoyable part of this experience.  The detail and background provided on this occasion was very impressive.  I have no idea how the gentleman memorized all that he shared.

My big take away was that I didn’t remember the film being so funny and corny.

After the movie we had lunch at our old standby – Juan’s Flying Burrito.

My book this week was “Wild Dark Shore” by Charlotte McConaghy.  This is a murder mystery set on a remote island near Antarctica, but it’s a lot more than that.  I learned about emergency seed banks, and lots of nature, including deep details about penguins.  A very good read.

“A family on a remote island. A mysterious woman washed ashore. A rising storm on the horizon.

Dominic Salt and his three children are caretakers of Shearwater, a tiny island not far from Antarctica. Home to the world’s largest seed bank, Shearwater was once full of researchers, but with sea levels rising, the Salts are now its final inhabitants. Until, during the worst storm the island has ever seen, a woman mysteriously washes ashore.

Isolation has taken its toll on the Salts, but as they nurse the woman, Rowan, back to strength, it begins to feel like she might just be what they need. Rowan, long accustomed to protecting herself, starts imagining a future where she could belong to someone again.

But Rowan isn’t telling the whole truth about why she set out for Shearwater. And when she discovers sabotaged radios and a freshly dug grave, she realizes Dominic is keeping his own secrets. As the storms on Shearwater gather force, they all must decide if they can trust each other enough to protect the precious seeds in their care before it’s too late―and if they can finally put the tragedies of the past behind them to create something new, together.

A novel of breathtaking twists, dizzying beauty, and ferocious love, Wild Dark Shore is about the impossible choices we make to protect the people we love, even as the world around us disappears.”

I really enjoy this band – always a little bit different:

Something folky and quiet:

And finally, a song from 1976, back when the music could play for over a minute before the vocals start – not suitable for the attention spans of today:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and patience for all!

 

Week in Review – May 11th, 2025

“Bye, With Love”

This was the week that we said “Goodbye” to Clorinda.  “Bye, with Love” is how she finished every phone call.  I joined Diana in Pacifica, CA in time to get dressed for the vigil service on Wednesday evening.  I hadn’t attended a vigil before and wasn’t really sure what to expect.  All of the siblings spoke, including a very nice tribute from Diana.  Several others spoke, including an entertaining and clever speech from Jeff.  However, the highlight for me was Luciano, age 10, with a very touching tribute.  He had nothing prepared and saw his Mom go up to speak and decided he should say something too.  What a great job he did.

Will and Christine made it to the vigil and left this lovely memory card.  Clorinda would laugh every time the silly llama did its Christmas dance with its neck extending up and down.

I need to rewind to Tuesday now and talk about a big win for the Bayou Boyz.  It seemed “trivial” to mention this before talking about the services for Clorinda.  Maybe that gives you a hint about the topic?  Yes – we won first place, and a $50 Dat Dog gift card, in the weekly trivia challenge.  We only missed one of 37 questions.  Now back to more important reporting.

The funeral service took place on Thursday morning and was very well attended.  I wasn’t sure of the protocol for a Catholic service – and was offered no help as we processed in given order into the church and stopped to do something at the urn.  I couldn’t see what anyone was doing and I was last in line, so just nodded at the urn and sat down.  A little help in advance please guys?

Alicia did a great job of “Ave Maria” on her flute – most impressive given she hasn’t played in years (my guess) and had just a short time to prepare.

Here’s a wee treat for you – Clorinda performing “Ave Maria” at Adamo’s wedding:

We held a reception in the multi-purpose hall at the church.  Diana’s guess of 150 attendees seemed spot on.  She had arranged some excellent caterers and I think the event came off very well.  We were “treated” to a performance from the five brothers:

Here’s Diana telling Marco what a wonderful job he did with the eulogy – it truly was amazing.  Marco is a great public speaker but he really outdid himself with this review of his Mom’s life and what was important to her.

After the reception, a smaller group joined us back at Clorinda’s house for leftovers and other offerings.  Felly was one of the caregivers for the last couple of months.  You can tell how much she is loved by the kids, Caroline and everyone who came in contact with her:

We gathered around the mandala that Amy had made with flowers from the hill.

On Friday, we commuted to the cemetery in Santa Clara.  Oh, I should share one tiny example of the “detailed” approach Marco took to these events – as we were pulling away, he had a friend stop us to give instructions on printing out a different picture of his mom to be displayed at the grave site.  “No, sorry, we’re out of time.  He’ll have to choose from the four we already have with us.”

We arrived at the gravesite, and the groundskeeper explained how the burial would work – Clorinda’s urn going in a container above the slab covering Sebastian.  All seemed straight forward, until he asked for the “Authorization for Burial certificate.”  “The what certificate?, we had no idea that was needed.”  Oopsy! ” What do we do if we can’t get one?”  “You can have the service, but nothing can be put in the ground.”  This was not pleasing to anyone.  Time to “solve the problem.”

Diana called the funeral home and couldn’t get anyone to answer.  I asked, “Who can we call to go by and roust them up to get a copy?” Of course, Andy.  Then it occured to me to have Andy go down to Clorinda’s house and see if he could find it among the funeral papers in a folder on the printer.  He found it in a few minutes, I texted it to the cemetery director and we were good to fully proceed.  Whew!

Saturday was a day to chill and try to relax.  We were sorry that we missed Jack’s graduation at the Superdome in New Orleans.  He graduated from Loyola University and starts a short internship with my company in a few weeks.  He’s on the left.

Sunday was a travel day back home for me, with Diana staying another few days to finish things up.

That was a pretty exhausting week in several ways!